Etuagievin:
It's not bad if you find a good lady who is disvirgined and chaste. But If you are to take a statistics of unfaithful wives today, you discover that a large chunk of them are the ones disvirgined before marriage. The reason is not Far-fetched; a good number have tested different men before they got married and lack the quality-self-control led to it.Thus in the event of the husbands absence for a lengthy time ,could easily give in to overtures from admirers. On the other hand a virgin stayed a virgin before she got married because something prompted her to, either religion or good moral upbringing from parents triggered self-control. This no doubt may linger through her life time. So the husband is relaxed,confident that the wife won't misbehave in his absence.