ucsparks:
What do say? *Sips coke*
Until una carry this thing enter igbo land,, then you'll knw that if you play with fire you'll surely get burnt

Is Enugu state in d North or West? Abi Enugu is not an Igbo speaking state?

ucsparks:
What do say? *Sips coke*
Until una carry this thing enter igbo land,, then you'll knw that if you play with fire you'll surely get burnt

Is Enugu state in d North or West?

Op may God bless ur hustle, I will join u next month by his grace, wanna farm coccumba, garlic,onions, carrot and watermelon.

Na wao...... So sad

Op, u are such a strong woman to have tolerated bedwetting from an adult and he's not ashamed he's bed wetting, he still has the guts to cheat on u and tell u rubbish, he can't even provide last sch fee for ur only son. My dear d hand writing on d wall is clear, take ur son and leave before he infects u with HIV in ur broke status. Advice to women, always watch well before u enter as marriage is not a 2mins noodles, take ur time and pray.

murphyibiam15:

they are about 3million igbos in Benue....majority been between Ebonyi and Enugu borders with Benue....is a very well known fact.

but then wen one hears about Benue the next thing on somebody's mind is HIV
Imagine people that serve their wife as sex objects to foreigners

i rep 2baba though

Such an archaic reasoning from u, can u give ur wife out to foreigners to Bleep? U guys should keep spreading lies upandan, i will advice u to read the history of the tivs in Benue before u come out with such stupid comment next time. It's their slaves they were giving out to foreigners not dia wives empty skull. Ur likes keep talking about HIV as if there's no one positive in ur states, visit d south especially akwa ibom general hospitals and u will be amazed at d rate of it there. Proudly Idoma anytime.

Use natural honey mixed with lime juice as a scrub, leave for 20mins and wash off with hot water(not too hot). don't wash with cold water as it open d pores resulting to more pimples, hot water closes d pores on ur face. This works like magic, one week is too much for u to have a clear face if u do this. I won't advice u to use any product that will cause more irritations.

Idoma girls are the best, we are one in a million. Take it or leave it.

pepigeorge:
Gtbank interviewer: why should we hire u
Me: I can get ur bank 1billion naira in 3 month. I know people alot. My brother is the comissioner of finance in delta state.. Hon mike....... the comissioner of work is my friend, I was his bestman

If they believe ur boldness..they will gv u the

hahahahah, exactly what i said at one interview with one bank and got the job, told dem i have uncles in oil companies and dey had promised to do biz with dem if i'm given d job. To my surprise i got d job.

I can't stop laughing...... funny thread by a confused op.

The old shameless and useless thing to Benue is talking too, nonsense.

JESUSBOIY:
How would you be rich when you are on nairaland for 24hrs..., sebi you know her house for lekki? , why not go and marry her na? since she is looking for husband

Don't mind that guy joor,as if everybody must marry.

Oh my God this is painful, my brother told me he saw it on Friday on his way to warri but i never knew it was this bad. Lord have mercy on us living and grant the dead eternal rest.

@ Op, face ur family and love ur hubby. I have an atheist and a priest in my family and neither me nor my priest brother conderm him but love him and respect his beliefs as well. After all, love is the greatest commandment in the bible and hubby had given u that so what's ur prb biko? I can't and don't tolerate anyone talking bad about my atheist brother so its amazing how u let dem talk abt ur hubby like that, d bible did not teach us to judge others, it annoys me alot when people don't mind dia biz and respect other's beliefs knowing fully well that there's freedom of religion and belief and every adult can choose what dey want. I get sick of protestants asking why do u bow down to the cross or mary images, now how on earth is that their biz? After all i don't care why dey worship their pastors or hit their hands on the wall while praying. Think it's time people learnt how to mind their biz.

harakiri:
@Yolandy



Okay. . .




Is there a problem with that? You make it sound like he's become gay overnight. Are Theists (religious folks like yourself) not outspoken about their belief in religion? Why can't he be outspoken about his disbelief in religion? Hmmm?



All you've said so far points to the fact that you have a husband most women out there would kill for. Tell me. . .which do you prefer? A man who goes to church almost every day of the week, prays fervently morning and night and yet, he still cheats on you OR a man who is very open with you, does his duties as a man and has proved beyond every reasonable doubt that he loves you and the kids and is here for keeps? I still don't get it. How does being religious transform into being a "good person"? Everything you've said about your husband defines him as a good person but it seems you're looking for something to complain about (like all women do) and now, it's his disbelief in religion. Can you honestly look inward and tell yourself that your husband isn't a much better and morally upright man than all those hypocrites in your church who will carry 20kg bibles,sing aloud to the lawd,pay all the offerings and tithes,speak in tongues and after closing hour, they will head off to the hotel where their mistresses are lodged?



I don't mean to blow the trumpet but i am yet to see ONE atheist whose IQ isn't above average. Most (if not all) Atheists are intelligent folks. A lot of us (especially those of us born into deeply religious backgrounds) dumped religion after a lot of brain storming,background research,inconsistencies in biblical tales and the total irreconcilable patterns of religion (Christianity in this case) of this age with what's depicted in the bible. There are others however who were born into non-religious households (e.g Europeans) and therefore the concept of any religion would be completely absurd to them (it's like telling them the tooth fairy exists! ! !).



I can understand how you feel about the situation. There are also times when i lose it and go ballistic like your husband is doing right now ESPECIALLY when i'm constantly hen pecked by religious folks who don't even know their bibles half as i do. It's irritating. Imagine how irritated you would be if a Buddhist/Taoist was desperately trying to convert you to their religion (annoying right?). Now imagine how A NON-RELIGIOUS PERSON who doesn't give a damn about any supernatural beliefs would feel! ! ! Put yourself in his shoes for 5mins.




There's a saying :

HUMAN BEINGS FEAR WHAT THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND AND HATE WHAT THEY CANNOT CONQUER! They dislike him because. . .? What? He refuses to be a gullible religious vegetable? What? Now they say he's in a cult (Wow! And i thought i was the only one who has been unfortunate enough to have Nigerian-home-video-religious-zombies peddle false rumors to taint my image). Your pastor and friends don't like him? So what? Must he buckle under all because YOU WANT him to please you,your friends and Oga Pastor? A lot of the people whose opinion you consider so highly don't even have half the happiness you have in your marriage. Some of the women gossiping to you probably have other rivals "outside" who their husbands have impregnated. Dey there dey listen to outside ppl you hia? Your eyes go soon clear.



YES! They are all stories and your husband doesn't want his children growing up believing lies and made up nomadic goat herder stories from the medieval age.



You "CONFRONTED" him? Don't the kids belong to him as well? Oh. . .So you are the lord of the house abi? Is that what the bible stipulates?



So telling them the truth is now tantamount to poisoning. Wonderful! The bible says the world is flat and four cornered. With all the education you've recieved, can you honestly say this is true? The bible says a virgin can get pregnant without having $ex? If you hear such a story today, would you believe it? The bible says a man can live in the belly of a fish/whale for 3 days without air,food or water. . .and you believe that right? The bible says 5,000 people can be fed with only 5 loaves of bread and 2 fish and you believe it (something me and my younger brother can consume). The bible says a man parted the red sea with his bare hands and you believe. The bible says a man dead for 3 days (with his intestines removed according to the custom) can be resurrected and you believe all that. The bible says donkeys can talk (remember the story of Balaam?). The bible says does "shall not kill" and yet in that same bible, the biblical god ordered "his people" to attack/invade foriegn lands,kill,burn and plunder the cities to the ground. In today's day and age, these are crimes tantamount to assault,murder,genocide,rape,battert,arson and armed robbery. It's all there in the bible but you people pretend not to see it. You believe all these stories because you were taught to believe them from childhood. You believe all these stories because the white man brought the bible and anything from "obodo-oyibo" is genuine. Funny thing is, these same white folks don't even take Christianity as serious as we do. Nigeria is officially the most religious country in the world and yet so much wickedness and strife pervades the land. What does that tell you? Hmmm?

The bible says Jesus came,died and all things are passed away. If that's the case, why do the so called "Men of fraud Gawd" revert to Malachi 3:10 when coaxing the congregation to give more tithes and offerings? Why do they select the juicy/profitable parts of the bible and leave the "nasty" parts e.g the eye for an eye laws? Hmmm? Tongue tied?

From the book of Matthew to Revelation, can you quote ONE single passage where Jesus asked for tithes or offerings after preaching to the congregation? Hmmm? A lot of "Pastors" tell lies about Jesus and his disciples/apostles being rich men. Is that so? Jesus is depicted as wandering on foot throughtout samaria,nazareth,bethlehem and Jerusalem and he was constantly on the run from his enemies (the pharisees). Does this depict the life of a rich man? Hmmm? Paul and Silas were so dead broke that they couldn't afford to give alms to the begging cripple. What does that tell you? Hmmm? Can you compare this with the flamboyant lifestyles of the so called "men of god" you see around you? It's a no-brainer Oyedepo can afford FOUR private jets.

I can go on and on. . .but you get the picture. Remain religious if you want to but if you think you can impose your delusions on your husband, then you are asking for problems. It's like asking him to believe Santa Claus is real all because Christmas is real.

Use your head woman and quit look for problems that don't exist (unless you are ready to break your home).

End of!

Well said sir, I am a Christian and i have an atheist brother. He turned atheist five yrs ago and that doesn't change my love for him. People see him in his office as one mini devil but he doesn't give a Bleep. I love him so much that i don't tolerate complains from outsiders abt his belief. I honestly don't know when people will realize everyone (adult) has right to belief and religion. And funny enough i have a younger brother priest too...... can't help but laugh when dey both argue, it's fun sometimes..... Now to that madam(op) don't accommodate gossips especial abt ur hubby and family, the greatest commandment in the bible is love and ur hubby has given u that, give him back and stay focused.

ghostwritter:
The woman is so lucky, if any woman ever try that sh1t with me ehn, i will strangle her to death in her sleep.
Opening ur toto for another man?

I hope you don't open ur dick for another woman.....mumu. Don't u know you don't have d right to hurt or take anyone's life cos of marriage? You better develop a good mindset before entering into marriage cos i pity u if u don't. That woman may be d one to kill u first.

I vote mimzy


cc: Nljega

MrKong:
Igbo man, Yoruba wife...lovely couple

I probably end up with igbo wife

Tribal urchins make una kill una sef o

He's not Igbo by tribe name checker, he's an idoma man.

That old man don't need too much of carbohydrates now and all i see there is rice and indomie. It's well

ever811:
so Ramadan is now a period of attacking Christians abi? make Una kwantinue...tomorrow one utman danfodio little goat should come and tell me that Islam means peace.. the kind slap wey I go give am for ear eenn,buhari ear condition go be apprentice to him own ear problem..

Lol, u don go north before? Those guys blood dey hot when dey see u dey eat and dey dey fast as if na u send dem.

He didn't talk to the so called Biafra but Niger delta which is south south yet i can see many Igbos saying trash here or have ur lands suddenly started producing oil too? Just shut up already if u are not from d south....smh

Ikwokrikwo:
I pity for any Igbo getting scammed by these Yoruba churches.

When will u get exposed timid boy, being tribalistic won't take u anywhere. Remember we are in the 21st century so i expect u to behave better. I'm not in anyway Yoruba but i hate tribalistic comments like urs. What are u doing on nairaland if i may ask cos it's owned by a Yoruba man.

Now the Indians on nairaland are mute...lol. Indians hate themselves so why won't dey hate u who's a stranger? D rate of poverty there and Philippines cannot be compared to our beloved country Nigeria. U have endured enough, endure the few years ahead and get out of d place.

BoiledHead:
Prostitute.

Did she Bleep ur daddy's dick? Idiot, if u can't wish them well u shut ur smelling mouth OK? U must not comment.

Na today? e don tay wey yansh dey for back.

Who is the prophet Mohammed d idiots are killing for if i may ask and what has he done for dem as a God?

How many of the country's problem has he solved in his own little way? mtweeee

Unforgiving heart takes one to hell, the doctor's family should just forgive ibinabor and move on whether she's at fault or not.

Hausas and knife are like tuwo and kerikeci soup....inseparable, r.i.p young lady.