gozzlin:
What's the problem really? Why are you depressed dear, is it a terminal illness or what?

There has to be a reason for the depression. You haven't really said anything, so how can we render help? You can also get in touch with a psychotherapist for help. Please take your mind off suicide.

Life is truly beautiful if you can pause to count your blessings.

I wish you all the best.

Thanku.

It's a deformity. .

I need help guys! I need you! I'm so depressed, I want to die. I've prayed every night not to wake the next day. I hate God. Hate God for this darkness called life. Hate my family except my parents. I hate everything.

At first, I thought I was depressed cos I wasn't working but now I got a job I love so much, yet I'm still in deep pain. I've thought about several ways to commit suicide but my chances of failing at any are highly probable, like I don't know how to tie a noose. I've always admired those who have taken their lives successfully. These are strong, courageous people.

I wish I'd come down with a terminal illness that'd cause instant death. I see people who have died as lucky.

I'm a lot of garbage. Even if I get most of everything I want in life, it's already too late for me to find inherent happiness. I've tried to find the root cause of my depression but can only trace it back to 2017.

Today, I'm a girl with big dreams, chasing goals. Next, I'm seriously in depression...too painful to write about.

Sometimes, I want to talk to my mum about it but this will only cause her to worry. Besides, I don't want her telling my siblings. Don't want anyone to know. This has made me hate God the more. He, who should know, has refused a simple prayer for death.

gentleiphy:


one part of your comment caught my attention "I don't know of any Multi National firm that employs fresh graduates in Accounting department"...you know why? because Nigerian school systems is from class to another class pseudo work...in western world every course run in schools are more hands on preparing you from Class to your desk work...the big 4 you mention in western world recruits from school direct..fresh graduates...Sector.But now no more reside in Nigeria.

Thanks for this

Op. This is an issue of social class. Your wife doesn't find your family worthy of respect hence, she looks down on them and I'm of the strong opinion that she believes she "settled" to be with you.

My advice: call off the wedding.

GJames:
I believe she is 53 and I am frying water right now

Lol

Sezua:

I jokingly told my friend one day
Economics is like Maths, many theories less application
Accounting is like Engineering, lesser theories more application.
i may be wrong tho.

What! You are right!

Sezua:

I jokingly told my friend one day
Economics is like Maths, many theories less application
Accounting is like Engineering, lesser theories more application.
i may be wrong tho.

But 6years for Economics? ASUU was definitely involved in your matter.

Definitely.

Sezua:
In the whole world-Accounting. All these people shouting Economics i just wonder what point you have to back it up. Every reasonable company has an accounting department, or at least something similar to that. Ministries, Agencies, Schools and even Churches have an accounting department. So I don't even understand what these people are talking about.
A lot of people who graduated as Economists still end up becoming accountants.

Well said

You don't have to love Ronaldo to be inspired by him. He is everything. A determined, hardworker who fought his way to the top.

eagleeye2:

I ain't disappointed. Integrity was his only selling point, but when you surround yourself with corrupt element. like Jonathan did, then even the Integrity will not stand up in the court of public opinion.

Well said. I voted on the basis of his integrity. Seems that isn't working for anyone, anymore.

Vince77:
I cant begin to count mine else the mods will ban me for flooding nairaland.

The feeling is worse knowing that ur own family who shld look out for u are d ones making u feel bad.

Same here.

All I know is family will be the first to chicken out when the chips are down.

Jahblessme:
As usual nairaland resident bingos have started crawling out of their holes to tell you this is normal behaviour and ask you to pray.They are the sort of men your husband is mingling with encouraging him to be a dog like them because they have no self control & believe every man is born with no moral compass.

Best comment on here.

My ex never cheated on me. Not once. Not ever. And we were together for so long.

adonbilivit:
I chose to quote u to show some respect. Telling people not to quote isn't a good thing tho especially if u quoted 'em first

Okay o. Ma binu.

Malakh:
you still not a virgin, it means you have a body count of two and you've been used

Don't talk to me like that, that was rude. But I understand where you're coming from...the blame is on your mum.

That's a sweeping generalization.

adonbilivit:
OK I get it. I should wait for other guys like seun and lalasticlala to enjoy them when they are younger so that I will be the one eating the left overs abi?

Indians have much longer hair. In those days they leave it. Now they trim to their butt level.

You met your bf before you met her. There's no reason why you should keep the friendship. End it.

But then again, how long have you been with your bf? Is your relationship healthy? Has it stood the test of time that you can vouch for his character? If not, you can use his ex to find out the kind of person he is. They may have broken up for the right reasons, who knows? Just be sharp.

CrispySun:
Are you for real? You must be extremely stunning/gorgeous for men to be shy to approach you, right? Don't you think you only move along with the married ones because you think they are confident? Why don't you change the crowd you associate with?

Yh I think that's a possibility considering how some old coursemates told me, after school, they crushed on me but couldn't walk up. Then again you got me wrong. I look quite the younger woman compared to women my age.

VeeVeeMyLuv:

because you already conclude that the younger men are little boys in your subconscious, while on the otherhand the younger men see you
as a big aunty, the same way the see their mom or older women in their lives.

if care is not taken ya case is gonna be like iara and osho.

if you want be attracted to younger men , you have to act young at heart,
play exactly the way 20 --25 year old girl would.

It's your point of view

Jiang:
shes too pretty to attract marriage ready nice guys. cause those types are too shy, timid & afraid of rejection

Big point.

Well.

lefulefu:

she might be lying.on average in naija there are eight guys chasing a girl.even very ugly girls get woed by five men every two hours.

So what?