xp17:
bini men knows how to Spend money on women, so more women would not mind participating in a bini man's benevolence, hence bini men find it uncontrollable to have one lady. (many ladies, many children) . Real bini men don't patronize d use of condom.

When a group of men spend their money easily ... it could be a sign of impulsivity... doing things without thinking through and this would be part of ADHD, Autism etc. Why is it that other groups dont spend their money easily, save their money and communicate more and better with their wives and children. Certain men are not really husbands or fathers... but are in and out husbands meaning they just float around the family and dont really get involved... the women do all the work which is not supposed to be like that... work is supposed to be shared and be fair.

I married an edo man from benin city and i notice that he does not consider my feelings in much that he does. I am based in london and i am not happy in the relationship because of this void. I believe if people keep themselves to themselves over generations and generations...what happens, you end up not building the social genes(chromosomes) that other people may possess. The other day, he moved important documents paperwork around the house and he did not tell me that he had moved the items and i was left fuming and very upset as to the whereabouts of these documents. Most people around the world would tell the person exactly where they had moved the items but my husband does not think anything wrong with what; he said he was tidying up. He did not consider that documents may be important to me and hence did not tell me where they were - in fact, he did not tell me nothing. I believe that he does not have "Considering people's feelings genes".

Not only that, he does not understand the chemistry of conversation, always overbearing the conversation( I feel suffocated having a conversation with him) and not giving space and air for me to talk and i get very frustrated at not being able to express myself. He is also a poor listener or feels intimidated listening to what you have to say. It is Listening dyslexia or what?

What went wrong on an evolutionary basis?

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kedu maka Otele,Tosh na UsuRome?

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