Juliearth:





You are heartless. Every woman/man deserves closure. Ghosting a partner is a terrible thing. Just grow some balls and tell them to their faces that you are done.

am not heartless,most of you ladies are

mariahAngel:


Believe it or not, only cowards ghost people.

does that make me one?

stanliwise:
coward excuses. While one don’t need to explain long epistle. I consider it childish behavior to simply just start ignoring and ghosting people without giving people a fur-knowledge. Simply man up and tell her it is over and move ahead.

I consider People who do long epistle as dramatic, but people who just ghost people are cowards

every mallam to his kettle

airliner:


OK OK can you now stand up and tell the honorable house why u ghosted her and move on

lol,you be clown

Zzor:
He was been stingy with money and he refused to buy a particular gold necklace for me and another guy gladly bought it for me,so we went our separate ways because of the incompatibility

And that guy you called broke is far better than your useless father, idiopathic poor prostitute

Ikjosh04:
This happened 3 years back and I'm yet to get into another relationship cause that special person that will give me peace and tranquillity has not crossed my path.

We genuinely loved each other!

I was her first but she was super stubborn and a huge spender(financially draining) but not a gold digger.

Well, what broke the relationship is her stubbornness.
I gave this girl 30k and the following week she borrowed 25k from me, by saying she needed to send someone 25k urgently and her online banking is not working.

I sent that money but she refused to pay back, was posting me. I actually knew she doesn't have the money cause she spend money as soon as she gets it but one fateful day I was out of cash and I needed 5k subscription.

I told bae to send me 5k card from my 25k I borrowed her and she said okay but this girl further cemented her stubbornness by saying I should send the number I want the card to be sent to, even when I told her it's my WhatsApp line.


She refused to send the card, telling me I should send the number myself to her and this lasted for 2days.

Local man had to send her the number before she could send the card.
That very act made me super angry.

We're still in touch and she is not the promiscuous type but her stubbornness is out of this world.

Guy, get that girl back and marry her o, My girlfriend is very stubborn too and spends anyhow too but she is very loyal, all I did was to find ways to manage the situation, there is no perfect person out there, I prefer stubborn ladies than promiscuous ones, you can try to tame the stubbornness or manage it and also manage the finance aspect, but you see promiscuity, bros....u go dey worry wether you don get STDS and co, and it breeds disrespect coz of different dicks wey she don taste but a stubborn girl who loves you will always respect you man. My 1cent

Zzor:
He was been stingy with money and he refused to buy a particular gold necklace for me and another guy gladly bought it for me,so we went our separate ways because of the incompatibility

Your name na 'Zoo' truly. Weere

Zzor:
He was been stingy with money and he refused to buy a particular gold necklace for me and another guy gladly bought it for me,so we went our separate ways because of the incompatibility

Lmao
You ehn, I will continue nabbing you on nairaland, you wey dey date men in their 50s 60s and 70s you are nothing but a farm tool. Yenyenyen what's wrong with you buying the gold necklace all by yourself?
Incompatibility kill you there... Shebi you are compatible with men in their 70s now? Evening newspaper!

Dagger111:



Your name na 'Zoo' truly. Weere

Walai.. The girl yaweere gan

jelel6:


For now, there's no doubt you're the one person I'm most curious to meet for real from this platform.

You're such an enigma.

Just say u want... which one be enigma? Someone that's as clear as daylight on what she wants and expects naim u say be enigma

You dey see di kind orientation wey our babes geh so,

'Where I come from women don't buy things for men'


I no dey blame nigggas wey dey ghost some of them sha..

Na guy man like me take hin hand cap diz kain yarnings

'We genuinely loved each other!
I was her first but she was super stubborn and a huge spender(financially draining) but not a gold digger'

E BE THINGS O

1. I don't know when she suddenly pick up the attitude of telling me the number of rich boys that are disturbing her for date and are ready to marry her; each time we quarrel - I don't waste time to tell her to pick one from them and marry. The last straw was when she further said she knows what her girlfriends boyfriends are doing for them - that she was just managing with me and I wasn't happy.

2. xoxo stubborn that she can't be corrected - not even her biological mom dares to correct her; she go change ham for her.

3. She once reported me to her mom when I was very very very broke to give her something during her sister's wedding.

4. G - boys are her friends - that she often delete chats and text messages she had with them whenever I'm around.


Subtly pushed her to the street she belonged to.

chatinent:
Mine: bad-tempered; too insecure over nothing (I wasn't cheating); overly territorial; super jealous; quarrelsome over trivial things; emotionally incompatible...and lastly, the breakup was consensual. We weren't working out.

How about you?

She is not good in bed, only missionary

Ikjosh04:
This happened 3 years back and I'm yet to get into another relationship cause that special person that will give me peace and tranquillity has not crossed my path.

We genuinely loved each other!

I was her first but she was super stubborn and a huge spender(financially draining) but not a gold digger.

Well, what broke the relationship is her stubbornness.
I gave this girl 30k and the following week she borrowed 25k from me, by saying she needed to send someone 25k urgently and her online banking is not working.

I sent that money but she refused to pay back, was posting me. I actually knew she doesn't have the money cause she spend money as soon as she gets it but one fateful day I was out of cash and I needed 5k subscription.

I told bae to send me 5k card from my 25k I borrowed her and she said okay but this girl further cemented her stubbornness by saying I should send the number I want the card to be sent to, even when I told her it's my WhatsApp line.


She refused to send the card, telling me I should send the number myself to her and this lasted for 2days.

Local man had to send her the number before she could send the card.
That very act made me super angry.

We're still in touch and she is not the promiscuous type but her stubbornness is out of this world.

I'm 100% certain that you are in your early 20s. How can you say she is not a gold digger?

She's a flirt...

There are lot.

Zzor:
I only answered a simple question from op,where did you drop your sense before typing this?go back and look for your sense so you can type well next time.yen yen yen and where I come from women don't buy things for men

Where u come from, women don't buy things for men? In this age you are still allowing stupid traditions define u? Did u go to school at all? People have been talking about you....now I feel I will make it a serious prayer point not to ever meet a girl from your place (no, not not to meet a girl from your place, but rather, not to meet a girl like u from any place).

Draslo:
Oloriburuku ni omo yen. Ashewo de ni pelu.

small boy..keep kwayet

MufasaLion:
HOES will always be HOES!

hoe is a farming equipment uncle

Muyiwaipere:
I left her in the relationship
Emi ika �

haha bad boy

Muhylonaire007:


Walai.. The girl yaweere gan

I jst dey laff ni.

I loved my man too much and still do but
1. He was not ready for marriage even at 41
2. Long distance and we were both busy people
3. Practice christianity as religion not a lifestyle
4. Disrespect by his actions

SanctifiedSista:
hoe is a farming equipment uncle

I believe you got what I said tho

Juliearth:




He was a narcissist and a psychopath (imagine this combo). He would cheat on me and try to tie the blame on me..."this wouldn't have happened if you didnt choose to school in a distant state..." He wanted to emotionally manipulate me to conform to his cheating ways.

His view on relationship/marriage was thwarted. According to him, a woman is supposed to love a man more. The ideology wasn't even my concern per se, just that he wanted things to be that way so I can tolerate his philandering ways.

Going on dates outing was a nightmare because, inasmuch as you have a protruded buttocks and chest, he must stare, right in my face, not like I was lacking in those departments.


Let me stop here.

if you want a faithful man date the broke and ugly ones.

KingLion007:
Another bought it for you coz he wants to bleep you and after that he will become stingy and another guy will buy you gift and bleep you again for some months and move on till you get up to 30yrs.then marriage will dawn on you and you will keep moving from church to church for prayers.

haha wickedness

zagorakis:
she was frequently asking me when I would get married, so I already knew where she is headed and that would be detrimental to my hustle.
I had to ghost her.

smart guy chop and clean mouth gang

Kondomatic:
Marriage wahala.


Day 1: I saw Nneka and her husband today, they look so cute.

Day 2: My friend Oge is getting married tomorrow.

Day 3: My friends husband bought Galaxy S5 for her.

Day 4: You remember that my school mate I told you about that day? She's getting married soon.

It continued like this for long. I was like don't you have single friends?

Hian....... Months later.



She: You remember that guy I told you about? The one that has been asking me out? He's back in the country and wants to meet. He wants to marry me.



Me: Marry him.


That was it. We quarreled and she left. Days later she shared pictures she snapped with the guy on whatsapp status. Even when they were abed.

Dude collected his own share of the spoils and left. She found out later that he's married and quietly slide back into singlehood.


We still single till today.

the guy is smart daughters of Jezebel no get joy

PrimadonnaO:
Breakups are just sad.

Why do two people who are in love have to go their separate ways?

Happens all the time.

I've been emotionally broken more times than I could count. The worst is when you connect in every possible way with someone but that person doesn't realise it.

3 times this has happened to me but the ladies decided to stick with their abusive boyfriends and have been enduring unhappy marriages.

The worst kind of pain is the one that people can't see.

Time heals some of it.

But Life goes on.

We move.

dairykidd:


Just say u want... which one be enigma? Someone that's as clear as daylight on what she wants and expects naim u say be enigma

Do yourself a favour and don't assume you can express my thoughts better than me. Or assume you even know what my motivations are in the first place.

kense88:
so, of what use are you to him ? Honestly, relationship in this part of the world is a complete waste of time and resources for the men. Feeding some useless ingrates

I swear

MufasaLion:


I believe you got what I said tho

nope..a hoe will be a hoe cos it was created and shaped that way. Human beings are created to change ..they only stop when they are dead so u see a chronic masturbator ending such deadly habits for decades and can't even that was him before.. hallelujah

Toks2008:


When i read posts like this i can't help but wonder if a lady i know is in this same Nigeria.

This lady is from a poor background and i mean poor but since i knew her 6years ago she has never ever demanded 1kobo from me and when i give her money she will reject . I practically begged her to give me her account number and after several efforts she gave me and whenever i give her money, her dad will thank me...invariably, she lets her dad know whenever i give her anything so i began to wonder if this lady is in this same Nigeria.

You will never see her in any wig or very expensive attire yet she is a paragon of natural beauty.

She is a rare breed in fact owun mi ki n fe omo naa.

the honest advice I can give you is to marry this girl or you will regret later, I mean blood of Zachariah where do we get this kind of girlfriends this days is she living in the village