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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Purplebubble: 4:15pm On Mar 20, 2021
luminouz:

Aiit sis.

Quick question...can you pound yam and make egusi soup?
I can make egusi soup but can't pound yam
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by mariahAngel(f): 4:20pm On Mar 20, 2021
Munzy14:

Even marriage, some can ghost till the other file for divorce...cheesy

Not every healthy relationship started with clear definition from onset.

Ghosting comes in when a toxic partner has been living in pretence.

Av seen a guy married, but the lady na wahala, he simply relocated outside the country and never returned... Even the lady don go away after realizing say baba don muveee..cheesy

Not everyone get time for long talk o.

Except in a case where one's life is threatened will I agree with ghosting. cheesy
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by shegzydave(m): 4:30pm On Mar 20, 2021
I dont even have a girl let alone ex
Meanwhile I need a bae I can take to mama and get married before the year runs out
Age: 25-28-30
Whatapp me 08148913233
I base in ilorin kwara state
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by mariahAngel(f): 4:34pm On Mar 20, 2021
Toks2008:


This thing is a mystery. You don't have to be a bad wife before your hubby decides to be with another woman...

But please, no matter what you do... Never ever leave your marriage cos of another lady. Don't.

If for some reason, I choose to remain in such a union (which is no longer a marriage), it'll never be as the same.

The commitment...
The dedication...
The care...
They will no longer be there.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Bsquared(m): 4:59pm On Mar 20, 2021
Well, for me,I had to jump ship to regain my sanity..........She was constantly in contact with her ex and i later found out she passed the weekend at her ex's place.....When i confronted her,she just cried and told me her ex refused to let her go.

I Ghosted her immediately.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:01pm On Mar 20, 2021
chatinent:
.

Yeah?

Toks2008:


This thing is a mystery. You don't have to be a bad wife before your hubby decides to be with another woman...

But please, no matter what you do... Never ever leave your marriage cos of another lady. Don't.

But you can stay in a marriage if another man shows up in the picture and starts sampling your wife, shey?

Yeye. See as he's pleading and enforcing. Smelly conditioning and indoctrination.

grin It's only a mystery for a woman to cover and try to put up with. What is good for the Jews, is good for Uganda. You will still come on here to pen essays on philandering women and I'll lap your tears up.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by chatinent: 5:22pm On Mar 20, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Yeah?

Didn't say a word. Carry on.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Magnoliaa(f): 5:28pm On Mar 20, 2021
chatinent:


Didn't say a word. Carry on.

Berra.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by kbright911(m): 5:41pm On Mar 20, 2021
Zzor:
He was been stingy with money and he refused to buy a particular gold necklace for me and another guy gladly bought it for me,so we went our separate ways because of the incompatibility

Dumbest break-up story line I have ever heard
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by FreeSpirited: 5:42pm On Mar 20, 2021
jelel6:


For now, there's no doubt you're the one person I'm most curious to meet for real from this platform.

You're such an enigma.
Ozuor, Nothing is enigmatic about Zzor, she's just an unintelligent troll. Nothing else.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Juliearth(f): 5:43pm On Mar 20, 2021
luminouz:


So I guess you have FINALLY left him now?




That I have had this conversation with you doesn't mean you have to make it obvious on this forum... And yes, judging by all that I clearly put out up there, I have FINALLY left him.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by luminouz(m): 5:57pm On Mar 20, 2021
Juliearth:




That I have had this conversation with you doesn't mean you have to make it obvious on this forum... And yes, judging by all that I clearly put out up there, I have FINALLY left him.
Ok
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by luminouz(m): 6:03pm On Mar 20, 2021
Bsquared:
Well, for me,I had to jump ship to regain my sanity..........She was constantly in contact with her ex and i later found out she passed the weekend at her ex's place.....When i confronted her,she just cried and told me her ex refused to let her go.

I Ghosted her immediately.

A woman's cry is only at its most genuine when it's on her children. Anything else and especially on cheating, whatever gallons she pours outta her eyes don't mean shiiit!!

Her defence is even so worse. Notice that she never blamed herself but her ex,as if her ex became Merlin and magically transmuted her to his own place from hers.

Never take back a cheating woman. They never change. Know this and know peace.

#luminouznuggets#

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by jelel6: 6:32pm On Mar 20, 2021
FreeSpirited:

Ozuor, Nothing is enigmatic about Zzor, she's just an unintelligent troll. Nothing else.

Idiot. Pained you're just another nobody nobody wants to meet?
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by razible5384(m): 6:36pm On Mar 20, 2021
Toks2008:
toks u for find way wife am already nah.... Before smart niggars overtake you oh...

When i read posts like this i can't help but wonder if a lady i know is in this same Nigeria.

This lady is from a lowly background but since i knew her 6years ago she has never ever demanded 1kobo from me and when i give her money she will reject . I practically begged her to give me her account number and after several efforts she gave me and whenever i give her money, her dad will thank me...invariably, she lets her dad know whenever i give her anything so i began to wonder if this lady is in this same Nigeria.

You will never see her in any wig or very expensive attire yet she is a paragon of natural beauty.

She is a rare breed in fact owun mi ki n fe omo naa.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by FreeSpirited: 7:06pm On Mar 20, 2021
jelel6:

Idiot. Pained you're just another nobody nobody wants to meet?
mumu plenty for this Nairaland o.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Munzy14(m): 8:48pm On Mar 20, 2021
mariahAngel:


Except in a case where one's life is threatened will I agree with ghosting. cheesy
Ngwanu..grin


Owuhu onye owula nwere ndidi ichere mgbe oruru threat.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Munzy14(m): 8:56pm On Mar 20, 2021
Toks2008:


When i read posts like this i can't help but wonder if a lady i know is in this same Nigeria.

This lady is from a lowly background but since i knew her 6years ago she has never ever demanded 1kobo from me and when i give her money she will reject . I practically begged her to give me her account number and after several efforts she gave me and whenever i give her money, her dad will thank me...invariably, she lets her dad know whenever i give her anything so i began to wonder if this lady is in this same Nigeria.

You will never see her in any wig or very expensive attire yet she is a paragon of natural beauty.

She is a rare breed in fact owun mi ki n fe omo naa.
Just wait for her to Start associating with miyenki babes...cheesy..Her eye go tear reach back.
With high demand of urgent something.. bad eggs will always affect the good ones.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Toks2008(m): 9:31pm On Mar 20, 2021
Munzy14:

Just wait for her to Start associating with miyenki babes...cheesy..Her eye go tear reach back.
With high demand of urgent something.. bad eggs will always affect the good ones.

At 29 i don't think she will but i honestly find her nature very disturbing i must say. Who rejects money?
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by mariahAngel(f): 9:33pm On Mar 20, 2021
Munzy14:

Just wait for her to Start associating with miyenki babes...cheesy..Her eye go tear reach back.
With high demand of urgent something.. bad eggs will always affect the good ones.

That is not true.

Do you think she hasn't seen or come across those category of ladies?
There are just some people who can never be moved by those flashy/material things.
It's just who they are,and not about being rich or poor.
It's all about confidence in who you truly are.

My sister for example; even with all the money she has to buy whatever she could ever want and her intelligence, she still looks modest like a teenager. (They mistake her a lot for that)
It's her style. Her way. Very simple.
So, I believe Toks with that one.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by mariahAngel(f): 9:35pm On Mar 20, 2021
Toks2008:


At 29 i don't think she will but i honestly find her nature very disturbing i must say. Who rejects money?

It's not disturbing.
It's just who she is.
Not everyone gets greedy for money they didn't earn.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Toks2008(m): 9:39pm On Mar 20, 2021
mariahAngel:


It's not disturbing.
It's just who she is.
Not everyone gets greedy for money they didn't earn.

Seems you have that nature too.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by mariahAngel(f): 9:41pm On Mar 20, 2021
Toks2008:


Seems you have that nature too.

Me and my sisters. cheesy

Wahala for man wey think say him fit use money or flashy things buga us o. grin
Our own money na im sweet to spend pass. tongue
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Toks2008(m): 9:42pm On Mar 20, 2021
mariahAngel:


Me and my sisters. cheesy

Wahala for man wey think say him fit use money or flashy things buga us o. grin
Our own money na im sweet to spend pass. tongue

You sound like a disciplined and well trained lady.

Are you married?
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by mariahAngel(f): 9:50pm On Mar 20, 2021
Toks2008:


You sound like a disciplined and well trained lady.

Are you married?

cool
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Toks2008(m): 9:57pm On Mar 20, 2021
mariahAngel:


cool

Lol! Just curious. But no worries if you don't want to say.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by bigpicture001: 10:09pm On Mar 20, 2021
SlimBrawnie:
He wanted marriage but I felt we weren't compatible maritally. I married the best person for me & he married the best person for him too.

Say it in black and white'...u dump him cuz he doesn't HV money and went for a wealthier guy

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by dorin27(f): 10:23pm On Mar 20, 2021
femi4:
She's dull.
She cannot operate computer/use the internet

Terrible handwriting


yen yen yen.

You did not see all of these before you asked her out? Instead of helping her become the " computer operator" you want her to be, you had to end the relationship. Even have the jurisdiction to call her dumb. Smh...

Ps: Don't come for me, I won't be here. Just read and pass.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by softpee: 10:27pm On Mar 20, 2021
I only answered a simple question from op,where did you drop your sense before typing this?go back and look for your sense so you can type well next time.yen yen yen and where I come from women don't buy things for men
Den am sowie for u, u go suffer
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Munzy14(m): 10:30pm On Mar 20, 2021
Toks2008:


At 29 i don't think she will but i honestly find her nature very disturbing i must say. Who rejects money?

She is rare....I swear..


And her type , is the type a man will want to spend on.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by phabulous88(m): 11:21pm On Mar 20, 2021
DryMouth:
Mine is confused...
She cheated and fell in love with the guy she cheated with. She made me responsible for the pregnancy the guy gave to her and decided to break up with me to cover up. She successfully broke up with me which tore me apart, I sha moved on quickly because i was seeing massive money at this point so meeting island babes was so easy...
One faithful morning i was driving to work and was at third mainland bridge when a WhatsApp VN entered my phone and alas it was a full confessional msg she sent.. saying she has been seeing the guy longer than i thought and how she made me responsible for the pregnancy because i was more from a comfortable home(this one pain me pass) and how she was willing to break up with the guy and be with me bla bla.... I called her over my house and we talked for over 6hours and she agreed to do a voice recording when she is breaking up with the guy and she sent it to me...

From their recorded conversation, I decoded that she was the one that loves the guy cos the guy doesn't feel sh*t abt her.. the guy adviced her and succumbed to the break up... Do you know this fool borrowed this guy a huge amount of money Anyways i don't blame her for that cos i can never ask her for money but she buy me gifts once in a while...
After the whole bullshit I accepted her back but this time with the intentions of making her pay for what she made me passed through...

Am planning on wasting her time... I moved to the island sef without letting her know(this one pain am) and I've never invited her to this new apartment cos the real babe is back in the country(she went for Msc abroad) and we had planned relocating finally to Canada..
This my "babe" thinks we are still in relationship lol. The real truth that she is dating herself...
I'll waste her time till she gets to 29 before dumping her...

She is now showing me wedding pictures of all her friends.
Always telling me abt marriages...

The real babe is back in the country (she went for Msc abroad).

So you were playing her all the while?

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Monzze: 12:22am On Mar 21, 2021
chatinent:
Mine: bad-tempered; too insecure over nothing (I wasn't cheating); overly territorial; super jealous; quarrelsome over trivial things; emotionally incompatible...and lastly, the breakup was consensual. We weren't working out.

How about you?

relationship is just few months old and she's already putting pressure on me that her mother wants to see her man
I don't even have a solid job yet... I quickly ghost her

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