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One Of My Sons Looks Exactly Like My Late Father / My Uncles Fixed My Late Father's Burial Without Informing Me, His First Son / My Wife Is Frustrating My Life (2) (3) (4)
. by DSS1335: 11:36pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
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Re: . by HarunaWest(m): 11:44pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
Leave religion matter...Let's face reality small.. This is Africa. You desecrated your dad resting place and you have been told that his spirit isn't happy. It's left for you to stick to your faith or believe in the ways of your forefathers.. Maybe this is a test of faith who knows. Just maybe, it is the panacea to your imbroglio.. Nevertheless I will implore you to jettison your plans of renting that place or even living there all together. The initial mistake was the fact that he was buried inside the garage. It should have been somewhere else in the compound without encumbrance. Don't go and buy goat for sombori. Ancestors don't eat animals, na babalawo and cohorts dey chop am. |
Re: . by DSS1335: 11:51pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
HarunaWest: Thank you for your honest input Sir, the bolded statement captured my thought all the time. It was really a huge mistake |
Re: . by KevMitnick: 11:51pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
Why do I feel like your uncle is behind the whole shit and is blaming a man who can't defend himself? Don't be so naive, keep your plans away from your dad's younger brother and get closer to God in prayers and see what will happen. A man's enemies are those of his own household. Be careful, be wise. 5 Likes |
Re: . by DSS1335: 11:56pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
KevMitnick: This exactly what my wife was telling me too. She said she suspected my uncle having uterior motive as he wasn't doing well, that he could have invoked a contrary spirit without my knowledge. I and my sibling are the one who often support him. He is truly an irresponsible man 1 Like |
Re: . by chatinent: 11:57pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
Eccl. 9:5, 10: “The dead are conscious of nothing.” It is left for you to believe what the Bible says or be left with traditional lies. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by Righteousness2(m): 12:02am On Mar 24, 2021 |
You don't need to buy any goat, cow or salt for anything! Doing that will open you up to more Nonsense! Follow the Admonishment of the @Kevmitnick. Get into a Genuie relationship with JESUS. Go into Prayers , Bind and Cancel what you don't like. Be swift to Hear and slow to Speak. The Real Enemy may just be within. Note; don't go handling it Physically with Him. Handel him in the Spirtual. He will give way. 2 Likes |
Re: . by DSS1335: 12:08am On Mar 24, 2021 |
chatinent: This particular verse is well known part my late Dad use to teach others when explaining the conditions of the dead hence the reasons I do not believe in all these superstitious tales of the spirit of a dead person. 1 Like |
Re: . by DSS1335: 12:10am On Mar 24, 2021 |
Righteousness2: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by chatinent: 12:11am On Mar 24, 2021 |
DSS1335: I have reminded you your dad doesn't want you believing in revamped lies from God's adversary: the devil. |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:15am On Mar 24, 2021 |
Common sense ain't common anymore. Imagine finding solution to your problem but due to your religion fanatism you decided to be stwpid. ignorance is indeed a luxury to some ppl. |
Re: . by DSS1335: 9:36am On Mar 24, 2021 |
Catfishing: "There is a way that seems right to a man, But in the end it leads to death" Proverb 14:12. The bible is the most reliable book of wisdom and knowledge, its truth will set you free from demonic tradition 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:48am On Mar 24, 2021 |
You didn't remove his corpse Before building on it? No now. That's disrespectful. So many landlords in my Area whose fathers were buried in their compounds normally exume the corpse if they want to build on the grave. All I see here is greed though. You should have made do with ones he left for you but you still went ahead to build on top baba head. Kilode now.? Pray and ask God to have Mercy on you for disrespecting your father. Then like righteouness said, bind and cast away any evil powers operating on that land. Youll see a turnaround. 3 Likes |
Re: . by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:46am On Mar 24, 2021 |
Most Nigerians will have reservations about living on top of a grave. I feel someone usually leaks info to prospective tenants that the house was built on a grave...very possible, it's even your uncle. First of all, no matter what you do, don't kill a goat. That's dabbling into fetishism. If you're truly a Christian, and believe in the power of the blood, pray over the building, sprinkle the blood, and loose every unholy bond surrounding the premises. I also feel you have a moral duty to let prospective tenants know someone is buried underneath. ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: . by DSS1335: 10:54am On Mar 24, 2021 |
AsherAmari: Thank you for your candid input, however, there is no such things as greed here bcs i am solely responsible for the welfare of my mum and siblings through the judicious management of all properties vested under my care. Through this, my youngest bro would soon graduate from Coventry university in UK, a feat my Late Dad couldn't have achieved if he where alive. The available properties would be shared when the youngest man return back home. 2 Likes |
Re: . by royalamour(m): 11:01am On Mar 24, 2021 |
That was disrespectful of you. What were you thinking? I mean... I'm just speechless. 1 Like |
Re: . by DSS1335: 11:03am On Mar 24, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: Even our previous and present compound has been the resting place from my great grand parents to grand parents. Some of my uncles do serve their deities but my Dad has never ever dabbled into such while he was alive, and that partly explained why I didn't even give a thought about developing the property on where he was buried |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:08am On Mar 24, 2021 |
DSS1335: Oh.. I see. It is well. Just believe and look on the positive side of things. |
Re: . by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:36am On Mar 24, 2021 |
DSS1335: Pray over the situation then. |
Re: . by SweetVibe: 11:59am On Mar 24, 2021 |
In as much as we are in a modern world, dont neglect or deny the spiritual realm, its real. I have a question for you..How would your father feel if you told him while he is alive that you will build on his grave, will he feel happy? That man is your blood and cell, he is your father physically and spiritually, if you really honour and respect him you wouldn't even think of doing that sacrilege of building in his grave. DON'T ALLOW ANY RELIGIOUS FELLOW DECEIVE YOU HERE 1 Like |
Re: . by Nooneonline(m): 1:32pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Believe it or not ur father's spirit resides in that place. Go into that place every night from 12 a.m and pray fervently for a higher spirit to occupy the place (the Spirit of God). Do it untill u see changes. It could take a while depending on your faith. If u don't believe me then ask urself why some houses are haunted by ghosts in this world. And about praying in the middle of the night, that's because spirits come alive while men sleep. (Ask any priest BABALAWO u know y they only tell people to do sacrifices and rituals in the middle of the night. If u don't still believe me ask urself why witches only have meetings or go to covens at night. God Bless you |
Re: . by grafixdon: 2:13pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
DSS1335: Bro be very careful... Do not ignore your family advice. To be honest, you disrespected your father, to clear your conscience, do what you uncle advice you to do because if anything should happened, your mind will always go back to the incident. Apply wisdom this time not faith. |
Re: . by DSS1335: 2:55pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Nooneonline: Thank you for your honest advice, growing up under the strict guidance of my late Dad has thought me numerous lesson as a member of Jehovah's witnesses, we know that the believe that a person's spirit leaves on after death is one of the teaching of Satan and his demons and has been widely accepted by most churches today, but the Bible thought that when a person dies, he seized to exist and there will be resurrection of all faithful ones too. Evil spirit today can conjure the voice and image of a dead person and one might be tempted to believe that they are truly existing in the spiritual realm. |
Re: . by DSS1335: 3:11pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
grafixdon: Thank you for your honest advice sir. I will never partake in sacrifice and pouring libations. The spiritual realm is very real but the dead ancestors are never part of this realm according to the scripture. Every sacrifices made would definitely lead to a result but who grant such result, definitely not from the True God who has forewarned us to keep away from everything associated with spiritism and divination |
Re: . by Nooneonline(m): 4:22pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
DSS1335: Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world and not after Christ. Col 2:8 I rest my case |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:49pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
U make me think u aren't fully one of jws cos we don't accept the unbiblical teaching of immortality of man. Ur dad will be resurrected, in the resurrection, which I know u are aware of. However, info has been related to potential tenants that a person was burried underneath though, causing the chandlge of mind |
Re: . by DSS1335: 5:41pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Viknat: Bro, take time and read my statement so that u could understand my stand about immortality. I don't believe in it. Its one of the lies and teaching of demons 1 Like |
Re: . by frozen70(f): 3:03am On Mar 29, 2021 |
DSS1335: I think you did wrong renovating a garage where he is supposed to be resting and also putting it up for rentage You shouldn't have done that and must put a stop to it to avoid any future effects But if you say it doesn't matter, then expect more problems |
Re: . by poshestmina(f): 9:58am On Mar 29, 2021 |
Spirituality is much more than the Carnal eyes and "wisdom"! |
Re: . by jaszplus12(m): 12:50pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
chatinent:Thanks for this comment! I've always advices people in this direction. Added to what you have said, Eccl6:12 For who knoweth what is good for man in this life, all the days of his vain life which he spendeth as a shadow? for who can tell a man what shall be after him under the sun? |
Re: . by esthel(f): 10:17pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
I don't care whatever scriptures being quoted here, it is very disrespectful of you to turn your dad's resting place to an apartment, money isn't all to this life, he worked and left properties for you all to make do with, haba. All I see is greed and that's my opinion. |
Re: . by Adesuwag(m): 6:35am On Mar 30, 2021 |
Na so you like money reach?? So after all the hustling to build a house and leave a legacy for his children..you still won't allow the old man a restful place?? In his own property?? Like WTF!? Be gone with your Bible quotes! You're playing with stagnancy!..allow the old man rest in peace!!!! |
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