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10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by reccy(m): 8:26pm On Mar 27, 2021
Hello, this write up is solely from my own assumption and certainly from the general view of the "MEN" outside there. This is not a case of redpill or simp whatsoever..... This is however, a case of, "the right thing must be done".

Oya, lets roll........

1) Never put yourself at disadvantage to please her,: They don't worth it. Believe me, you first, your mother, father. Infact, your extend family before her.

2) Don't allow her to come in during financial crisis: to all my new 18 years old guys who, in the interest of the society, want to have a girlfriend, please never allow them to help you during your difficulties except if your want your issue to be talk of the town if things go south.... except if you are also ready to double it in future for her in CASH and not never in kind. They don't understand 'kind'.

3)Never tell her everything about you. Make a reservation and let her finds out on her own if she is curious about it, with that, you gain respects.....

4) Do not explain things to her when she is angry: Kindly give her space to calm down, kindly tell her the logic behind the whole issue and throw away that explanation.... We don't need it here!

5) *[b][/b]Never teach a girlfriend in a room with only both of you at home*: you and i know there is no discipline you want to show by wanting to teach on her visit. Uncle, are you a man at all?there is a greater chances that she will not learn anything unlike in a casual environment. Please save that and do the needful!....wink.....

6) Your parent should be the last place she should know while " girlfriending" and "boyfriending" each other. However, this can change a little when you are serious to marry her.
.......nobody should go and display fake responsibilities to my innocent mother before she would be on my neck when things get south...

7) Never allow her move in with you before marriage. It is a sin before jesus and Allah. They hate it.....
Kindly save the feeling and respect for marriage sake. It helps....

cool Do not show her your weak point: Ladies are good in capitalizing in such area. They have A1 in such area of concentration from the university above.

9) Never make the mistakes of showing or revealing your financial worth. You do that, you are doom.... Mine is to write, yours is to add meaning to it!

10) Never make mistakes of telling her you can do anything for her. Just let her know that you can do the right things for her. Make no satan incarnate make you go slap cultist on her behalf. Nah "on the run you go dy" till thy kingdom come.

11) add yours......

To read is yours, to understand is divine.....

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Tadwears2050(m): 8:30pm On Mar 27, 2021
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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by phrancys001(m): 8:33pm On Mar 27, 2021
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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by reccy(m): 8:39pm On Mar 27, 2021
Jodha:
These are actually things yhu should do for a girlfriend...what is this world turning into?

Are you for real?? How ??

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Bombastically00(m): 8:40pm On Mar 27, 2021
These are exactly what I can do for my girlfriend except number one wink...no be everyone dey perfect...

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by IlufoyeOlamife(m): 8:42pm On Mar 27, 2021
Jodha:
These are actually things yhu should do for a girlfriend...what is this world turning into?
.


He does all.....in Nigeria we write the opposite of our character....

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Greystone: 8:54pm On Mar 27, 2021
#1 is sacrifice. Just know your limits.

I totally agree with #9. Reserve that one for ur future wife.
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by DankemzI(m): 9:03pm On Mar 27, 2021
Never prioritize over your guys.
Before you send her 1k callcard, make sure your mom, sister's, aunt's have been given 5k worth it.

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by ShramStanSkuMus: 9:09pm On Mar 27, 2021
Very stupid write up. I don't support it. This is injustice against women. You are trying to tell me that there are only 10 things you shouldn't do for a girlfriend? shocked

Why should you have a girlfriend in the first place? Even when you mistakenly have one, she doesn't deserve not just 10 things. She deserves nothing, not even your p***nis.
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Nehyooh(m): 9:39pm On Mar 27, 2021
ShramStanSkuMus:
Very stupid write up. I don't support it. This is injustice against women. You are trying to tell me that there are only 10 things you shouldn't do for a girlfriend? shocked

Why should you have a girlfriend in the first place? Even when you mistakenly have one, she doesn't deserve not just 10 things. She deserves nothing, not even your p***nis.
grin

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by SeekerofTruth1: 10:41pm On Mar 27, 2021
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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by SeekerofTruth1: 10:44pm On Mar 27, 2021
Jodha:
These are actually things yhu should do for a girlfriend...what is this world turning into?

Men are now Getting Wiser,There's your Answer


As for The guys seeing this,Take Relationship Advice from a woman At your own Peril

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Nobody: 10:50pm On Mar 27, 2021
for guys that have girlfriends na..

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Kieldgreat: 10:53pm On Mar 27, 2021
Flesh and blood didn’t reveal this to you!

The girl I was hoping to settle down with started misbehaving when I told her I make 1/3 of my monthly income.

Omo X1000! Babe legit started acting weird, disrespectful and abusive.

Kings be woke out there...she’s in the trash where she belongs to now!

reccy:
Hello, this write up is solely from my own assumption and certainly from the general view of the "MEN" outside there. This is not a case of redpill or simp whatsoever..... This is however, a case of, "the right thing must be done".

Oya, lets roll........

1) Never put yourself at disadvantage to please her,: They don't worth it. Believe me, you first, your mother, father. Infact, your extend family before her.

2) Don't allow her to come in during financial crisis: to all my new 18 years old guys who, in the interest of the society, want to have a girlfriend, please never allow them to help you during your difficulties except if your want your issue to be talk of the town if things go south.... except if you are also ready to double it in future for her in CASH and not never in kind. They don't understand 'kind'.

3)Never tell her everything about you. Make a reservation and let her finds out on her own if she is curious about it, with that, you gain respects.....

4) Do not explain things to her when she is angry: Kindly give her space to calm down, kindly tell her the logic behind the whole issue and throw away that explanation.... We don't need it here!

5) *[b][/b]Never teach a girlfriend in a room with only both of you at home*: you and i know there is no discipline you want to show by wanting to teach on her visit. Uncle, are you a man at all?there is a greater chances that she will not learn anything unlike in a casual environment. Please save that and do the needful!....wink.....

6) Your parent should be the last place she should know while " girlfriending" and "boyfriending" each other. However, this can change a little when you are serious to marry her.
.......nobody should go and display fake responsibilities to my innocent mother before she would be on my neck when things get south...

7) Never allow her move in with you before marriage. It is a sin before jesus and Allah. They hate it.....
Kindly save the feeling and respect for marriage sake. It helps....

cool Do not show her your weak point: Ladies are good in capitalizing in such area. They have A1 in such area of concentration from the university above.

9) Never make the mistakes of showing or revealing your financial worth. You do that, you are doom.... Mine is to write, yours is to add meaning to it!

10) Never make mistakes of telling her you can do anything for her. Just let her know that you can do the right things for her. Make no satan incarnate make you go slap cultist on her behalf. Nah "on the run you go dy" till thy kingdom come.

11) add yours......

To read is yours, to understand is divine.....



Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by AfroKnight: 11:11pm On Mar 27, 2021
That number 2 is very important.

Never be financially vulnerable to a woman who is not your sister or mother. Don’t try it. The day you will hear your story outside, e go do you like telemundo. Either that, or she would remind you every second, how she brought you out of the miry clay and set your feet upon a rock.

It is 10 times better for you as a man to seek help from your fellow men or from a family member (not wife) than from a woman you have a romantic relationship with.

Let me add this, don’t trust her 100%. That’s too much of a test for a young woman to handle.

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by AfroKnight: 11:19pm On Mar 27, 2021
Kieldgreat:
Flesh and blood didn’t reveal this to you!

The girl I was hoping to settle down with started misbehaving when I told her I make 1/3 of my monthly income.

Omo X1000! Babe legit started acting weird, disrespectful and abusive.

Kings be woke out there...she’s in the trash where she belongs to now!


Good. I’m proud of you. Any woman who rations out respect according to your pocket is not worthy to be your wife. She belongs to the streets.

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Polynek(m): 11:42pm On Mar 27, 2021
ShramStanSkuMus:
Very stupid write up. I don't support it. This is injustice against women. You are trying to tell me that there are only 10 things you shouldn't do for a girlfriend? shocked

Why should you have a girlfriend in the first place? Even when you mistakenly have one, she doesn't deserve not just 10 things. She deserves nothing, not even your p***nis.
Bro U de vex oo grin
ShramStanSkuMus:
Very stupid write up. I don't support it. This is injustice against women. You are trying to tell me that there are only 10 things you shouldn't do for a girlfriend? shocked

Why should you have a girlfriend in the first place? Even when you mistakenly have one, she doesn't deserve not just 10 things. She deserves nothing, not even your p***nis.
Bro U de vex oo
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Polynek(m): 11:45pm On Mar 27, 2021
Nice write up shaa

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by donprincebigt(m): 12:57am On Mar 28, 2021
I'm very sure devil is living inside this OP.
Must u be that cruel to ur woman cus with all this yeye points u highlighted, u av just turned ur gf to a witch. how can u be denying urself from the help of gf while u r broke all because u want to man up. I pity u. be forming 4 ur helper.

so I should be dating a girl that can't help but just to spend my hard earned money.

4get that men are rugged. men are also emotional, ull need someone to talk to and someone to be there 4 u when u r down. so inasmuch u do all dz ur points towards ur gf. how do u want her to reciprocate ?

it's like ur head is peppering u

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Tdyke4lyf(m): 5:51am On Mar 28, 2021
Me wey dey plan on getting a girlfriend,make I sidan learn somethings
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by oluwatobi43301: 6:19am On Mar 28, 2021
These are exactly what I can do for my girlfriend except number one ...no be everyone dey perfect...
Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by ekene101: 7:37am On Mar 28, 2021
reccy:
Hello, this write up is solely from my own assumption and certainly from the general view of the "MEN" outside there. This is not a case of redpill or simp whatsoever..... This is however, a case of, "the right thing must be done".

Oya, lets roll........

1) Never put yourself at disadvantage to please her,: They don't worth it. Believe me, you first, your mother, father. Infact, your extend family before her.

2) Don't allow her to come in during financial crisis: to all my new 18 years old guys who, in the interest of the society, want to have a girlfriend, please never allow them to help you during your difficulties except if your want your issue to be talk of the town if things go south.... except if you are also ready to double it in future for her in CASH and not never in kind. They don't understand 'kind'.

3)Never tell her everything about you. Make a reservation and let her finds out on her own if she is curious about it, with that, you gain respects.....

4) Do not explain things to her when she is angry: Kindly give her space to calm down, kindly tell her the logic behind the whole issue and throw away that explanation.... We don't need it here!

5) *[b][/b]Never teach a girlfriend in a room with only both of you at home*: you and i know there is no discipline you want to show by wanting to teach on her visit. Uncle, are you a man at all?there is a greater chances that she will not learn anything unlike in a casual environment. Please save that and do the needful!....wink.....

6) Your parent should be the last place she should know while " girlfriending" and "boyfriending" each other. However, this can change a little when you are serious to marry her.
.......nobody should go and display fake responsibilities to my innocent mother before she would be on my neck when things get south...

7) Never allow her move in with you before marriage. It is a sin before jesus and Allah. They hate it.....
Kindly save the feeling and respect for marriage sake. It helps....

cool Do not show her your weak point: Ladies are good in capitalizing in such area. They have A1 in such area of concentration from the university above.

9) Never make the mistakes of showing or revealing your financial worth. You do that, you are doom.... Mine is to write, yours is to add meaning to it!

10) Never make mistakes of telling her you can do anything for her. Just let her know that you can do the right things for her. Make no satan incarnate make you go slap cultist on her behalf. Nah "on the run you go dy" till thy kingdom come.

11) add yours......

To read is yours, to understand is divine.....



Especially that numbers 1 n 2,did that shit and am still regretting till date, though she is the one suffering it. babe needed cash due to ongoing examination and my rent was almost due, started running round to raise money for her to enable her get something, landlord was on my neck sotay I begin dey avoid am by going out very early and coming in very late, but didn't know babe gave number to a nuisance in my street that normally cals me bros and comes to charge his gadgets when there is power outage,long story short I found out and babe started begging.. thank God things don change and babe don beg tire,I didn't chase her out o,but I always rub it in her face each time she over steps her boundaries.. picked my calls two nights ago and was instructing a girl never to call her man again,I reminded her I wasn't her man yesterday morning,she can leave if she cares to and never show her face round here again,better still she should go meet the guy she almost cheated with while I was struggling to make the money she thinks she is now protecting. kpenkus people are useless all of them.

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by KefeeBRIGHT91(m): 7:44am On Mar 28, 2021
reccy:
Hello, this write up is solely from my own assumption and certainly from the general view of the "MEN" outside there. This is not a case of redpill or simp whatsoever..... This is however, a case of, "the right thing must be done".

Oya, lets roll........

1) Never put yourself at disadvantage to please her,: They don't worth it. Believe me, you first, your mother, father. Infact, your extend family before her.

2) Don't allow her to come in during financial crisis: to all my new 18 years old guys who, in the interest of the society, want to have a girlfriend, please never allow them to help you during your difficulties except if your want your issue to be talk of the town if things go south.... except if you are also ready to double it in future for her in CASH and not never in kind. They don't understand 'kind'.

3)Never tell her everything about you. Make a reservation and let her finds out on her own if she is curious about it, with that, you gain respects.....

4) Do not explain things to her when she is angry: Kindly give her space to calm down, kindly tell her the logic behind the whole issue and throw away that explanation.... We don't need it here!

5) *[b][/b]Never teach a girlfriend in a room with only both of you at home*: you and i know there is no discipline you want to show by wanting to teach on her visit. Uncle, are you a man at all?there is a greater chances that she will not learn anything unlike in a casual environment. Please save that and do the needful!....wink.....

6) Your parent should be the last place she should know while " girlfriending" and "boyfriending" each other. However, this can change a little when you are serious to marry her.
.......nobody should go and display fake responsibilities to my innocent mother before she would be on my neck when things get south...

7) Never allow her move in with you before marriage. It is a sin before jesus and Allah. They hate it.....
Kindly save the feeling and respect for marriage sake. It helps....

cool Do not show her your weak point: Ladies are good in capitalizing in such area. They have A1 in such area of concentration from the university above.

9) Never make the mistakes of showing or revealing your financial worth. You do that, you are doom.... Mine is to write, yours is to add meaning to it!

10) Never make mistakes of telling her you can do anything for her. Just let her know that you can do the right things for her. Make no satan incarnate make you go slap cultist on her behalf. Nah "on the run you go dy" till thy kingdom come.

11) add yours......

To read is yours, to understand is divine.....




...sometimes i wonder how boys (yes, you don't pass for a man) in this generation reason. This write up is total crap and it's funny how people click likes with reckless abandon. Haven stated 10 points that reduces you as a boy that you are, you still would go ahead to have sex with her yeah? This write up has nothing to do with any girl but has everything to do with A BOY THAT'S GOT HIGH ENDED INFERIORITY COMPLEX.
This is the worse post i've read in a while. How i wish there was a dislike button. Some guys have got some growing up to do. Same goes out to all that liked and shared this post.
GROW UP!

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by austinleo78(m): 7:50am On Mar 28, 2021
AfroKnight:
That number 2 is very important.

Never be financially vulnerable to a woman who is not your sister or mother. Don’t try it. The day you will hear your story outside, e go do you like telemundo. Either that, or she would remind you every second, how she brought you out of the miry clay and set your feet upon a rock.

It is 10 times better for you as a man to seek help from your fellow men or from a family member (not wife) than from a woman you have a romantic relationship with.

Let me add this, don’t trust her 100%. That’s too much of a test for a young woman to handle.

This is so true.

Had one disgusting experience .

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by GrandFinale2021(m): 7:55am On Mar 28, 2021
[s]
KefeeBRIGHT91:


...sometimes i wonder how boys (yes, you don't pass for a man) in this generation reason. This write up is total crap and it's funny how people click likes with reckless abandon. Haven stated 10 points that reduces you as a boy that you are, you still would go ahead to have sex with her yeah? This write up has nothing to do with any girl but has everything to do with A BOY THAT'S GOT HIGH ENDED INFERIORITY COMPLEX.
This is the worse post i've read in a while. How i wish there was a dislike button. Some guys have got some growing up to do. Same goes out to all that liked and shared this post.
GROW UP!
[/s] you're very senseless for this trash.
stupid simp

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by ekene101: 7:58am On Mar 28, 2021
austinleo78:


This is so true.

Had one disgusting experience .
They always have one very annoying and killer word/punchline they always say to you even if you have emptied the whole cbn for them "WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME"

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Powerfly(f): 8:23am On Mar 28, 2021
12. Put ur dvck inside ur pocket. Why waste ur time to have a girlfriend, when you can save yourself the stress and have none.

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by SweetiliciousD: 9:09am On Mar 28, 2021
Powerfly:
12. Put ur dvck inside ur pocket. Why waste ur time to have a girlfriend, when you can save yourself the stress and have none.

Something keeps bothering me:

Why do men pay for pleasure enjoyed by both men and women?

Ladies get ho..rn..y as well as men, but men end up paying....... Can't understand.

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Re: 10 Things You Should Never Do For A Girlfriend. by Powerfly(f): 9:14am On Mar 28, 2021
SweetiliciousD:


Something keeps bothering me:

Why do men pay for pleasure enjoyed by both men and women?

Ladies get ho..rn..y as well as men, but men end up paying....... Can't understand.



when u meet baba God.. You'll understand bro!

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