pocohantas:


Well said. A lot of these wailings no dey cross cyberspace. Men will marry who they want and when they want. If it would work is story for another day.

Ultimately, people need to understand that their definition of good women is theirs. That a girl goes to club, takes alcohol or is a feminist wouldn’t automatically make her bad to marriageable men. So if you see them getting married, rather than convince yourselves that another bad girl is getting married to a “quality guy”- draw close to her and ask what happened. You can give the tips to you virtuous-single-sister.

True true. There's a whole lot of subjectiveness in matters as this. Subjectiveness, and the choices people choose to make.

It only looks like. Simps get married to anything cus they have been conditioned by movies and porn to like hoes untill they see another for cus the one they are with is old.

While I sincerely acknowledge that a few ladies indeed eat and have
their cake yet over again. But please don't go that path, Africa will remain a patriarchy for a long time to come, don't go down that route, it only has one end. You will almost certainly get burnt

LadyTiannah2:
Nigerians and amebo. What's your business if a sexually active lady is getting married? Do you know how many girls the guy has slept with? It's none of your business if a woman decides to have as many sexual partners as she likes ok

Olosho,olofo spotted.

tiswell:
likes do not attract, rather opposite does

That doesn't apply to humans. Leave that physics theory to positively and negatively charged particles.

Lol.... Count the number of wayward girls on the street looking for husbands, then count the number of the married wayward ones, then come back and rephrase.

Have you seen or read about the wives of drug lords, and men of the street? A large percentage of them marry very good girls.

chinchonglee:
This statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation!
You are not in the marriage with them,. You dnt know what the marriage is passing through.. u are jst concluding based on mere pictures/social where everyone pretends to be happy....

Have u reasoned the case of tonto dike vs olakunle churchill
Nigerian needs to be real in their dealings... Not because of social media pics you generalise they are happy...
My brother too is wealthy got married to a somehow retired olosho. He literally calls home everyday crying... The divorce process is still delaying cos the girl and her family are still begging..

Do you also know the rate of known paternity scams in the country An olosho(at least 90%) never retires, they end ip fvcking out and getting pregnant for their outside lovers right under their rich husbands roof and trust me those rich husbands do DNA test in secret. Come to SYNLAB in lekki and see for yourself...

Nobody woman will tell you are marriage is crashing hence we judge marriage based on social media pictures where everyone is faking smile... Face fact bro, ur statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation.



Also reason the case of fani kayode vs snowwhite!

he's not talking about the condition of the marriage...it is the ratio of bad girls to good men he's talking about....

VeeVeeMyLuv:
okay totally agree

But the numbers here are staggering

Yea bro, nigeria is home to highest number of poor people in the whole wide world. And at the same time lacks major infrastructure to cover for it. South Africa as at 19 when last i checked world unemployment index is just second in the world after Greece buh that won't stop other Africans from migrating to the country because the infrastructural developments cover for their shortcoming unlike nigeria where the infrastructure is in shambles hence reveal the poverty level in its full glare.

chinchonglee:
This statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation!
You are not in the marriage with them,. You dnt know what the marriage is passing through.. u are jst concluding based on mere pictures/social where everyone pretends to be happy....

Have u reasoned the case of tonto dike vs olakunle churchill
Nigerian needs to be real in their dealings... Not because of social media pics you generalise they are happy...
My brother too is wealthy got married to a somehow retired olosho. He literally calls home everyday crying... The divorce process is still delaying cos the girl and her family are still begging..

Do you also know the rate of known paternity scams in the country An olosho(at least 90%) never retires, they end ip fvcking out and getting pregnant for their outside lovers right under their rich husbands roof and trust me those rich husbands do DNA test in secret. Come to SYNLAB in lekki and see for yourself...

Nobody woman will tell you are marriage is crashing hence we judge marriage based on social media pictures where everyone is faking smile... Face fact bro, ur statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation.



Also reason the case of fani kayode vs snowwhite!

My brother you just hit d nail on its head.Getting married is one thing but having a successful marriage with these olosho's is simply "mission impossible".I pity guys who marry ladies blindly.It will end in premium tears.

There is a saying that Good boyz/girls go to heaven, but bad boyz/girls bring heaven to you.
You see that heaven, I don't know if you understand it, that's what the good ones don't bring.

Beauty is very important too not jus brain
U gats d presentable. Take care of ur body
Look good

Heavance:
There is a saying that Good boyz/girls go to heaven, but bad boyz/girls bring heaven to you.
You see that heaven, I don't know if you understand it, that's what the good ones don't bring.

Gbayii
Omox100000000

budaatum:
Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.

Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.

What kind of stupid comment is this.. someone posted and shared a thotful observation and this is what you have as a comment? A post that even made front page...if it was a stupid post, do you think it'll have made it there.have u seen other matured comments compared to your
Who the hell buys data for you kids of nowadays

you see weird people ! I love them a lot,
The black sheep,
The odd ducks,
The reject,
The crazy bitch,
The flirt,
The eccentric,
The loners,
The lost and forgotten,

more often than not, these people have the most beautiful souls....

budaatum:
Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.

Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.

I dunno what you do for a living but i hope it's something that does not require critical thinking

MIKOLOWISKA:
are you sure they don't deserve it?
They did what the market wanted and got desired result. Sounds to me they got exactly what they deserved while others were doing what they THOUGHT the market wanted and got what they deserved.

Getting married is one thing.Ask yourself "y is divorce rate in Nigeria one of the highest in the world".If u answer this correctly,u will understand truly,u can't eat ur cake and have it back.

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

I concur with you on this 101%. This life no just balance at all. But las las everyone go dey all right.

Shokoloko:


It's called experience. While I don't advocate for this life, these runs ladies have dated several men and gained experience of what men desire. So they are able to easily fill that role, unlike good girls who are new recruits and require training.

Most men are not ready to lead by example. They want a girl who gets married life things right the first time. No mistakes. And this can only be gotten through experience.

What you see as experience is nothing to write home about in hindsight. Good girls also pass through school of hardknocks pre marriage. Experience is relative.

jeff1607:


You only hear them get married, take 3 or more years the said ladies aren't happy or their homes are shambles.

For every one round girl that has her home in shambles, five runs girls are enjoying their marriage

Juliearth:





Not for keeps? Now, aren't you one of the reason why this runs business thrives? You are not without sin, so don't throw stones/judge.

Which kin thinking be this, forget morality.


Even as a man there are certain things i can never do for money, it's all about core values.

Some activities will hunt your humanity for life.

zimmaking:
Olosho,olofo spotted.

Ret@rded amebo spotted

Shokoloko:


For every one round girl that has her home in shambles, five runs girls are enjoying their marriage

They always readjust I'd say after acknowledging the fact that past life shouldn't affect their present, worse is when the girl child takes after such recklessness and the parents just helplessly watch.

[quote author=Topspring post=100292806]When I was in school, someone referred a lady to me to teach some courses.

I didn’t have the time so recommended another friend to her.

The person I recommended her to didn’t also have the time to teach anyone.

One day, the lady came to me and my friend and was asking us to create time to teach her. As we tried to tell her why we couldn’t, one of my friends just picked interest in her instantly.

Benita (not her real name) was fair, moderate ass and good looking. She also had this manipulative look. My friend fell for the good looks.

Unfortunately, my friend was not wise too. He is a smart person but he lacked wisdom.

This Babe show am shegey.

Benita had two other room mate and all of them were a bit close to me. One of her room mate was a talker, anything that happened in the relationship, she told me.

Imagine telling someone that you are dating that you do not drink pure water only bottled water meanwhile the said lady is broke as fu***.

My guy was supplying bottled water to his babe every week ni oo and they will laugh at him. The other room mate was telling me everything but I thought it was just a joke because she talked a lot until I heard it from my guy when he and Benita had issues.

How was wailing that anything she asked for he provided... you be God ni?

He taught her well till she graduated with an upper credit.

Benita proudly told her friends how she was the lady that dis-virgined him.

I stylishly told my guy but he won’t listen. The only time you could talk to him is when they had issues.

After you talk to him, he would settle with Benita and tell her everything you said.

Imagine this, some cult guys that lived close to these ladies called my guy because they knew him and told him that Benita was using him.

They told him somethings Benita told them about him. They told my guy.

You know what my friend did?

After he and Benita settled, he told her about somethings she said and Benita knew who told him.

Benita went to the cult guys and told them they fu***cked up. The cult guys just use style remove themselves from the equation and settled with her.

Since then she and the cult guys became accomplice.

Anytime my guy and Benita had issues, she will tell the cult guys to call my guy that her food stuffs had finished.

“Call me Daniel, my food stuffs have finished”

When she finally broke up with him, the cult guys told us the part they knew about.

My guy cursed with his whole heart.

In 2019, Benita got married to a Nigerian app developer in Dubai.

The amount spent on engagement alone can hold a nice wedding in Nigeria.

Where was Karma?[ so because she married a rich man she is enjoying her marriage abi]

Oyiboman69:
he's not talking about the condition of the marriage...it is the ratio of bad girls to good men he's talking about....

If the calculate the ratio finish, reality will still set in and it's waiting for everyone.So just chill.

wpadmin:

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

Blame it on jaruma,& all the modernised social media babalawo,mamalawo,unclelawo,auntylawo selling do as I say portion to completely jarumatise the men.
Only runs girls' boldly patronise these & they gat any man of their choice hooked.its just one feng shu bracelet or love do as l say portion away.
Forget karma

Shokoloko:


For every one round girl that has her home in shambles, five runs girls are enjoying their marriage

Who told u so? Sometimes the way u guys assume things surprises me.

I see the redpillers are out in force. I have not got time to respond to all your sour grapes so this will need to do.

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wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

its called grace when the almighty decides to favour you even your past can't stop it. Also those well behaved girls might have spiritual problems that's stopping them from getting their dream man or they have set a very high standard unless those other experienced girls that would be content with what they have.
On another note those experienced girls have seen all what the world has to offer and they know how to make a man feel special and wanted..... Some many reasons I can list

Verysmart101:


Getting married is one thing.Ask yourself "y is divorce rate in Nigeria one of the highest in the world".If u answer this correctly,u will understand truly,u can't eat ur cake and have it back.

Actually I don't even think Nigeria is part of the statistics, do we even have reliable data

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

The truth is majority of guys of today are half mad.


But they don't know it lol.




But on another level, na mostly fine girls with amazing shape de do runz, and you know it's not easy to resist that curvy big buttocks with flat tummy and dangling boobs.


Unlike the decent ladies who are mostly flat buttocks, curved legs and frog eye



On a more serious note, those wayward girls hardly turn guys down. You meet them and say hello, they reply you with smile and you ask for their number and they give you freely without making it a herculean task.


How then do you meet a potential husband if not through meeting different guys


Most decent girls are anti social, to reply hello is a problem, they feel they are doing the guy a favor by replying his hello. Then ask of her number na another wahala be that, she will form like she is Miss Elliot.



So most of them so called decent girls are the architect of their own problems; they need to make more friends, stop forming and stop making themselves difficult for guys to meet.

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

The remedy is serving this men redpills.. You won't quite blame us. We were given birth to and sent into the world to become a man without prior training or equppings so you pass through life to become a man, well unfortunately not all of us would triumph and the most funniest part of it all is that a handful of our predecessors are as clueless as us so hence the saying. "you can't give what you don't have"

But on the other hand these girls are thought the hook and crook of life from a tender age especially how to go about Men. So what do you expect? And the most interesting thing about it is that their predecessors are knowledgeable about all these so they pass it down then these girls mould it to fit their current dispensation. And make it more sophiscated. So you see.

Truth is we men spend enough time chasing the bag alone. Which we've been trained to do then later in life some of us fall victim to all these shedevils then pay dearly for it. It's really a tough world for us Men.

gfon:
read the thrash you just wrote,does it make any sense to you??don't be sentimental when evaluating a issue,be logical

Iswear! This is what I just said. Alot of men are clueless and they see this girls as the price while it is we men that are the price. I donate a dosage of redpill for you. Down it and know peace.