budaatum:


Can I not be however I want to be?

I mean, it's not as if you pay for my data nor am I your slave that you get to tell me how I must be, or am I?

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An Id.iot forming feminist.
What's your Twitter handle

Have u ever wondered why companies ask for 5,6,7,8,9 years of experience?

I have dated the bad and good.

Good girls, want to be treasured and treated like a princess.
Bad girls will treat u like a kind when they do love u fir real.

Good girl always have this entitlement mentality.
Bad girls feels , they lot what's special to men and look for new ways to balance it all when they love u.

The reason Africa is undeveloped is laid bare in the topic and the comments from men.

Lutanfyah, who said men do everything, this is all they ever do. Talk about women. Cry about women. Hate on women. Laugh about women. Prey on women. This is man's largest contribution to the world.

franchasng:
The truth is majority of guys of today are half mad.


But they don't know it lol.




But on another level, na mostly fine girls with amazing shape de do runz, and you know it's not easy to resist that curvy big buttocks with flat tummy and dangling boobs.


Unlike the decent ladies who are mostly flat buttocks, curved legs and frog eye



On a more serious note, those wayward girls hardly turn guys down. You meet them and say hello, they reply you with smile and you ask for their number and they give you freely without making it a herculean task.


How then do you meet a potential husband if not through meeting different guys


Most decent girls are anti social, to reply hello is a problem, they feel they are doing the guy a favor by replying his hello. Then ask of her number na another wahala be that, she will form like she is Miss Elliot.



So most of them so called decent girls are the architect of their own problems; they need to make more friends, stop forming and stop making themselves difficult for guys to meet.

Even the hot bad girls form a lot, just that they mostly choose very rich guys alone who are most likely to be their potential customers, naive rich bfs and sugar daddies. It still remains a mystery to me why such well to do guys tie the knot with such bad bitches, maybe they enjoy the sex, maybe they don't want to lose all that shape, banging bodies and try to personalize it for themselves, and maybe these bad girls jazz them, afterall most of them are jaruma's customers.

SUCKCESSFUL:
That's because most Nigerian men are hypocrites.
They'll tell you they want a well-behaved lady whereas they crave for cardi b type of girls.

The only sensible post on this thread.

Men secretly crave a prostitute. That is the personification of male fantasy.

Yet it upsets them so much, but they still patronize them. The hypocrisy is pathetic.

Tadeknkeepcalm:




An Id.iot forming feminist.
What's your Twitter handle

budaatum. Its on my profile.

I understand your weakness.

VULCAN:
Your last sentence is proof that you read what you wanted to read and not what was written.

It's also troubling that what you wrote above that was rather off point because you erroneously implied that the men know the girls are runs girls while OP never claimed so.

I am a man and I haven't yet met any man that says he is looking for a wife that was a hoe. A woman who has 400 phone numbers of men that have banged her over the past 8 yrs.

A man that is glad that on his wedding day 20 men that have banged his wife attended.

Maybe you know one such man.

He won't say he wants a hoe, but he is looking for women with the qualities of a hoe. He probably wants a sexually forward woman, who will ask him out, propose to him, give him money, who exposes her body etc etc. Aren't those what Nigerians associate with hoes?

All of the so called hoes can cook, clean and give mind blowing sex, which is essentially what men want, so why do you say he's not looking to marry a hoe? Don't your hoes possess these qualities too? Or do they wear a badge on their breasts that men should avoid them?

Nigerian men are to hypocritical. They want a hoe with the appearance of a nun. They are actually very attracted to prostitutes, patronize them, but act outraged when most of them will marry the same still.

This is men will continue to marry prostitutes and cry about it online. It's because you so truly crave prostitutes.

budaatum:
Do you think I would write it if it does not make sense to me?

Why not just be responsible and admit that it does not make sense to you? There is no shame in admitting some things are above your level of comprehension, especially if you are prepared to be taught.

it doesn't make sense to the universe,if that's the confirmation u need..

LINTUNE:
it doesn't make sense to the universe,if that's the confirmation u need..

And why would you think small human buda will be needing confirmation from the the vast limitless universe?

As long as there are numerous well to do simps, these (retired) runs girls would keep getting married week in week out.

PrimadonnaO:



That doesn't apply to humans. Leave that physics theory to positively and negatively charged particles.

in humans it's relative though











good to see you again

tiswell:
in humans it's relative thoug


good to see you again

Joker09:


Even the hot bad girls form a lot, just that they mostly choose very rich guys alone who are most likely to be their potential customers, naive rich bfs and sugar daddies. It still remains a mystery to me why such well to do guys tie the knot with such bad bitches, maybe they enjoy the sex, maybe they don't want to lose all that shape, banging bodies and try to personalize it for themselves, and maybe these bad girls jazz them, afterall most of them are jaruma's customers.

bros not entirely true.



Those girls you classify as wayward understand life better than the so called decent ladies. I love talking from experience.


Those cute wayward girls are more friendly to male toasters than the decent ones. The decent ones take life too serious and sometimes take their religious stance too extreme and push guys away.


Most decent beautiful girls are rude towards stranger toasters.....a rich guy approaches them they form hard with the mentality that is it because he thinks he has money will make them fall for him....a broke guy approaches them, they look down on him that he is not their class.



But you see those runs girls, ones they see that you look buoyant, they will make things easy for you and you know guys of today sometimes don't like stress in getting a girl, especially buoyant decent guys, they don't usually have the patience to be chasing one girl around who keeps forming.


Most decent girls have pre-decided in their minds how and where they must meet their future husband and how he must approach them, so any guy that tries to approach them outside the way they have programmed in their mind is wasting time.


Some of them will never stop and listen to a male stranger who see them on the road and stops by to say hello....in their little mind they will be like, he thinks I fall for car.


Approach them in the mall, they will be like is that why i am here.


Approach them in the church they will be like is that why he came to church


To them, their future husband must come from their Church choir or workplace or through their friend or from a known family member or from the department in school or at wedding ceremony, etc.



But the girls you see as wayward give attention to guys no matter the location and are very friendly and lively.



My wife was lucky, she would have lost me with her strictness and forming nonsense. She was really lucky the last girl I wanted to go for got disqualified for some reasons....not all guys get time for all those forming, especially if you are doing well financially as a guy, little things pisses you off

Well said Op. The bottom line is most men want a Godly lady with a prostitute vibe.

BRATISLAVA:
The reason Africa is undeveloped is laid bare in the topic and the comments from men.

Lutanfyah, who said men do everything, this is all they ever do. Talk about women. Cry about women. Hate on women. Laugh about women. Prey on women. This is man's largest contribution to the world.

Bittch, I'm living rent free in your hollow brain,I'm very happy I've damaged you psychologically.

wpadmin:
You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.

That’s not the case any longer.

Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.

Like how else do you explain this?

A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).

This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.

When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.

These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.

Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.

But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.

I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.

Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.

I know a runs girl when I see one.

They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.

I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.

One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.

Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want.

My broda, don't underestimate the power of keyamatta. That shii works like magic

budaatum:
Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.

Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.

He must have touched a sore point, onye highway .

amuwo1980:

He must have touched a sore point, onye highway .

His sore point was touched, more likely.

Topspring:
When I was in school, someone referred a lady to me to teach some courses.

I didn’t have the time so recommended another friend to her.

The person I recommended her to didn’t also have the time to teach anyone.

One day, the lady came to me and my friend and was asking us to create time to teach her. As we tried to tell her why we couldn’t, one of my friends just picked interest in her instantly.

Benita (not her real name) was fair, moderate ass and good looking. She also had this manipulative look. My friend fell for the good looks.

Unfortunately, my friend was not wise too. He is a smart person but he lacked wisdom.

This Babe show am shegey.

Benita had two other room mate and all of them were a bit close to me. One of her room mate was a talker, anything that happened in the relationship, she told me.

Imagine telling someone that you are dating that you do not drink pure water only bottled water meanwhile the said lady is broke as fu***.

My guy was supplying bottled water to his babe every week ni oo and they will laugh at him. The other room mate was telling me everything but I thought it was just a joke because she talked a lot until I heard it from my guy when he and Benita had issues.

How was wailing that anything she asked for he provided... you be God ni?

He taught her well till she graduated with an upper credit.

Benita proudly told her friends how she was the lady that dis-virgined him.

I stylishly told my guy but he won’t listen. The only time you could talk to him is when they had issues.

After you talk to him, he would settle with Benita and tell her everything you said.

Imagine this, some cult guys that lived close to these ladies called my guy because they knew him and told him that Benita was using him.

They told him somethings Benita told them about him. They told my guy.

You know what my friend did?

After he and Benita settled, he told her about somethings she said and Benita knew who told him.

Benita went to the cult guys and told them they fu***cked up. The cult guys just use style remove themselves from the equation and settled with her.

Since then she and the cult guys became accomplice.

Anytime my guy and Benita had issues, she will tell the cult guys to call my guy that her food stuffs had finished.

“Call me Daniel, my food stuffs have finished”

When she finally broke up with him, the cult guys told us the part they knew about.

My guy cursed with his whole heart.

In 2019, Benita got married to a Nigerian app developer in Dubai.

The amount spent on engagement alone can hold a nice wedding in Nigeria.

Where was Karma?

Only stupid idiots believe in Karma!!!... if there is anything like Karma the justice system wouldn't exist!, best be wise and smart, the world is truly a mystery!

the fact that you Bleep them, they enjoy it and you pay them ontop of that is already annying

habsydiamond:
Such is life oo oga mi..love is blind... It takes the grace of God for the blind to see... B4 such people see ehn e go don too late ooo... Maybe after she don already born dozens of pikins for him... I hail all the slay queens in the home una too much mehn...

Can you just stop the love is blind thing, this shows that it has nothing to do with love.

Men, especially the quiet type love an outgoing, beautiful lady, forget the stories about love is blind, most of those beautiful ladies knows how to redefine themselves, after school, you might be surprised she is more focused, and when the right man approaches her, she doesn't pretend and do the hard to get shit, she goes in and by the time you know what is going on she's married.

You see the spiritual ones, they see a man they desire, instead of allowing the flow, they begin to question, if he is rich, he is likely a yahoo boy, if he is handsome, he is likely a playboy that doesn't want to settle down, at the end, they turn to prayers and eventually they turn to religion rather than what they need, and when they get married they are not happy.

Evolutionlove:

Sharaap there, Olosho dem.......

Another Redpill Nigga Spoted

budaatum:


Can I not be however I want to be?

I mean, it's not as if you pay for my data nor am I your slave that you get to tell me how I must be, or am I?

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eeyha...

BRATISLAVA:


He won't say he wants a hoe, but he is looking for women with the qualities of a hoe. He probably wants a sexually forward woman, who will ask him out, propose to him, give him money, who exposes her body etc etc. Aren't those what Nigerians associate with hoes?

All of the so called hoes can cook, clean and give mind blowing sex, which is essentially what men want, so why do you say he's not looking to marry a hoe? Don't your hoes possess these qualities too? Or do they wear a badge on their breasts that men should avoid them?

Nigerian men are to hypocritical. They want a hoe with the appearance of a nun. They are actually very attracted to prostitutes, patronize them, but act outraged when most of them will marry the same still.

This is men will continue to marry prostitutes and cry about it online. It's because you so truly crave prostitutes.

Really!!!!! Then why don't u wanna be a prostitute so u can get a rich guy too since men crave prostitutes as u said.

Yeah

SUCKCESSFUL:
That's because most Nigerian men are hypocrites.
They'll tell you they want a well-behaved lady whereas they crave for cardi b type of girls.

Or are not wrong.

Topspring:
When I was in school, someone referred a lady to me to teach some courses.

I didn’t have the time so recommended another friend to her.

The person I recommended her to didn’t also have the time to teach anyone.

One day, the lady came to me and my friend and was asking us to create time to teach her. As we tried to tell her why we couldn’t, one of my friends just picked interest in her instantly.

Benita (not her real name) was fair, moderate ass and good looking. She also had this manipulative look. My friend fell for the good looks.

Unfortunately, my friend was not wise too. He is a smart person but he lacked wisdom.

This Babe show am shegey.

Benita had two other room mate and all of them were a bit close to me. One of her room mate was a talker, anything that happened in the relationship, she told me.

Imagine telling someone that you are dating that you do not drink pure water only bottled water meanwhile the said lady is broke as fu***.

My guy was supplying bottled water to his babe every week ni oo and they will laugh at him. The other room mate was telling me everything but I thought it was just a joke because she talked a lot until I heard it from my guy when he and Benita had issues.

How was wailing that anything she asked for he provided... you be God ni?

He taught her well till she graduated with an upper credit.

Benita proudly told her friends how she was the lady that dis-virgined him.

I stylishly told my guy but he won’t listen. The only time you could talk to him is when they had issues.

After you talk to him, he would settle with Benita and tell her everything you said.

Imagine this, some cult guys that lived close to these ladies called my guy because they knew him and told him that Benita was using him.

They told him somethings Benita told them about him. They told my guy.

You know what my friend did?

After he and Benita settled, he told her about somethings she said and Benita knew who told him.

Benita went to the cult guys and told them they fu***cked up. The cult guys just use style remove themselves from the equation and settled with her.

Since then she and the cult guys became accomplice.

Anytime my guy and Benita had issues, she will tell the cult guys to call my guy that her food stuffs had finished.

“Call me Daniel, my food stuffs have finished”

When she finally broke up with him, the cult guys told us the part they knew about.

My guy cursed with his whole heart.

In 2019, Benita got married to a Nigerian app developer in Dubai.

The amount spent on engagement alone can hold a nice wedding in Nigeria.

Where was Karma?

Lol. Karma is a farce.
Nothing is fair in life. Anything can happen.

Know this and know peace

BRATISLAVA:


He won't say he wants a hoe, but he is looking for women with the qualities of a hoe. He probably wants a sexually forward woman, who will ask him out, propose to him, give him money, who exposes her body etc etc. Aren't those what Nigerians associate with hoes?

All of the so called hoes can cook, clean and give mind blowing sex, which is essentially what men want, so why do you say he's not looking to marry a hoe? Don't your hoes possess these qualities too? Or do they wear a badge on their breasts that men should avoid them?

Nigerian men are to hypocritical. They want a hoe with the appearance of a nun. They are actually very attracted to prostitutes, patronize them, but act outraged when most of them will marry the same still.

This is men will continue to marry prostitutes and cry about it online. It's because you so truly crave prostitutes.

this is so apt!

gfon:
read the thrash you just wrote,does it make any sense to you??don't be sentimental when evaluating a issue,be logical

Logical and women in the same sentence? Nahh

chinchonglee:
This statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation!
You are not in the marriage with them,. You dnt know what the marriage is passing through.. u are jst concluding based on mere pictures/social where everyone pretends to be happy....

Have u reasoned the case of tonto dike vs olakunle churchill
Nigerian needs to be real in their dealings... Not because of social media pics you generalise they are happy...
My brother too is wealthy got married to a somehow retired olosho. He literally calls home everyday crying... The divorce process is still delaying cos the girl and her family are still begging..

Do you also know the rate of known paternity scams in the country An olosho(at least 90%) never retires, they end ip fvcking out and getting pregnant for their outside lovers right under their rich husbands roof and trust me those rich husbands do DNA test in secret. Come to SYNLAB in lekki and see for yourself...

No woman will tell you are marriage is crashing hence we judge marriage based on social media pictures where everyone is faking smile... Face fact bro, ur statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation.



Also reason the case of fani kayode vs snowwhite!

see I understand you o, but most girls eat their cake and have it. I am a female and I know what I am talking about.

it is the one who tries to be something else at a later stage after being descent for most part of their lives get burnt.

Topspring:
When I was in school, someone referred a lady to me to teach some courses.

I didn’t have the time so recommended another friend to her.

The person I recommended her to didn’t also have the time to teach anyone.

One day, the lady came to me and my friend and was asking us to create time to teach her. As we tried to tell her why we couldn’t, one of my friends just picked interest in her instantly.

Benita (not her real name) was fair, moderate ass and good looking. She also had this manipulative look. My friend fell for the good looks.

Unfortunately, my friend was not wise too. He is a smart person but he lacked wisdom.

This Babe show am shegey.

Benita had two other room mate and all of them were a bit close to me. One of her room mate was a talker, anything that happened in the relationship, she told me.

Imagine telling someone that you are dating that you do not drink pure water only bottled water meanwhile the said lady is broke as fu***.

My guy was supplying bottled water to his babe every week ni oo and they will laugh at him. The other room mate was telling me everything but I thought it was just a joke because she talked a lot until I heard it from my guy when he and Benita had issues.

How was wailing that anything she asked for he provided... you be God ni?

He taught her well till she graduated with an upper credit.

Benita proudly told her friends how she was the lady that dis-virgined him.

I stylishly told my guy but he won’t listen. The only time you could talk to him is when they had issues.

After you talk to him, he would settle with Benita and tell her everything you said.

Imagine this, some cult guys that lived close to these ladies called my guy because they knew him and told him that Benita was using him.

They told him somethings Benita told them about him. They told my guy.

You know what my friend did?

After he and Benita settled, he told her about somethings she said and Benita knew who told him.

Benita went to the cult guys and told them they fu***cked up. The cult guys just use style remove themselves from the equation and settled with her.

Since then she and the cult guys became accomplice.

Anytime my guy and Benita had issues, she will tell the cult guys to call my guy that her food stuffs had finished.

“Call me Daniel, my food stuffs have finished”

When she finally broke up with him, the cult guys told us the part they knew about.

My guy cursed with his whole heart.

In 2019, Benita got married to a Nigerian app developer in Dubai.

The amount spent on engagement alone can hold a nice wedding in Nigeria.

Where was Karma?

Am so happy for her.

Wow.

And bro.. there is nothing like Karma.

budaatum:


Selfish is to be free from control? Interesting. I wonder if you'd say the same about a running away slave?

"Hey, slave! You are selfish and not strong for running away from captivity".

Does that sound about right to you?

Tell me you would rather be enslaved in the Garden of Eden Adam instead of Very Wise Use the Senses Scientist Eve who plucked and ate the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil to test if it is true that on the day that she eats it she will surely die, and finding it was good for gaining wisdom, her eyes opened, she invented clothes, she and her stupid Adam became free and self employed and they both lived for 900 or so years and populated the earth with people you and some others who are now on the way to far away Mars. At least according to scripture.

Some will after all rather be slaves.

THNKS 4 THE LECTURE. WE ALL KNW DAT EVE DIDN'T INVENT ANYTHNG, AND GOD NEVER TOLD EVE NT TO EAT THE FRUIT