Update: I tried to call her, but she's now annoying me https://www.nairaland.com/6490481/girl-annoying-me-much-shes...
Please I need your help on this matter, it has been giving me sleepless nights and I want to know how to deal with it.
My problem be say the girl that I'm dating now is disturbing me with some issues.
We started dating around this time last month and we have be okay since then, but she suddenly changed and started demanding money from me, like for subscriptions, food, bills and others. I tried to explain to her that I'm broke and need some time to hustle and work hard for me enough money to give her, but she doesn't want to reason with me and it has been annoying.
So she started to deny me my rights like sex, kissing and other stuffs, I asked her why, and she said she's not in the mood. It has been hard for me to keep my mind away from other girls but I managed to. So I recently borrowed some money from my friends and paid for her subscription— data, gotv and also paid her bills. And gave her some cash. So I spent around 50k on her around that period.
She has been happy and cool with me since then, and we have been having fun, calling each other and stuffs, I mean she really changed for me after everything, unlike before.
But my problem now is that I'm now owning my friends and she has been calling me to sub for her and pay her Bills again and that the last one expired. I wanted to broke up with her but I still love her so much and would like to marry her when I get money, because I'm still Hustling.
She has been avoiding me for now and it's giving me concern. She said that I don't love her because I don't give her stuffs or take her out or buy her things. But the thing is that I love this girl so much and I would like to make her my wife, but she's been disturbing me and it's a distraction to me now.
Even now I've been avoiding some of my friends because I dey own them, please how can I make her reason with me, I mean how can I make things right for her. She changed because I didn't have her what she wanted.

So she started to deny me my rights like sex, kissing and other stuffs, I asked her why, and she said she's not in the mood

Sex is not your right. Your right is your ability to use your senses.

You're broke and you still dey get right. ���.
Ikpa ke hustle leave woman

The next you should do now is download sokoloan App and borrow for whatever she needs the money for, they're very quick and efficient

Thank me later

If you insist on moving on with her, RIP or happy heartbreak in advance. Yours will not be hard for you to keep. The one that is too demanding is just a devourer. But let me tell you one truth. She has another man that is better than you in bed. She may even be using your money to maintain him. The only thing a poor man can use to hold a girl like her is sexual satisfaction.

A broke guy doesn't deserve an erection.




And you posted this shii in politics section?

Gandollaar:
A broke guy doesn't deserve an erection.

Really? All is well.

GatewayP:
Really? All is well.

Even inside the well!

Which kain wahala una like to dey carry so all in the name of love?
How has she been surviving before you came into the picture?
Who was paying her bills before you showed up in her life?
If she has been doing well and surviving before you started dating her, my brother she can still survive on her own.
Stop glorifying selfish mentality that she has imposed on you. How has she improved your life since she came into it?
Relationship is 50/50, if she can't assist you financially then she should be your peace and not drain you like a parasite to the host.

So idiots like this OP still dey?


Surprisingly, he may not be willing to go that extra mile to help his family.

Idiot has been pussy whipped. Imagine saying pre-marital sex with his worwor GF is his right. Too many slowpokes on NL

Start making new friends immediately so u can bone the ones u r owing and concentrate on borrowing from the new ones... just make sure u upgrade to friends that can afford to borrow 100k..
Then try and explain to her to give u time for your new friends to borrow...
Continue this process every month till u amass enough
Debt which would now give u the kind of ginger to join or form a kidnapping/ robbery gang...
I feel u bro...
Don’t forget what PAC said...
Wha u gon do,,,?
Do for love...?
U tried everything buh u don’t give up...
I for rap the rap for u buh that one go useful to pass time for jail...
CHEERS BRO

Instead of you to hustle for money, you're keeping girlfriend.

BTW, edit that statement " deny you your rights"


like WTF

Juliusmalema:
Stay on your own if you can't afford to take of your girlfriend.

You want to be having sex with someone's daughter which you called your right because she is your girlfriend not even married to you

but you can't take care of her needs which is also her right because you are broke.

Young man respect yourself stay single If you can't afford to take care of her needs.

Many are really mad in this country but few are roaming.

I love this your reply. 7 bottle of gulder for you.

Michelle55:
Which kain wahala una like to dey carry so all in the name of love?
How has she been surviving before you came into the picture?
Who was paying her bills before you showed up in her life?
If she has been doing well and surviving before you started dating her, my brother she can still survive on her own.
Stop glorifying selfish mentality that she has imposed on you. How has she improved your life since she came into it?
Relationship is 50/50, if she can't assist you financially then she should be your peace and not drain you like a parasite to the host.

God bless you for this advice.. your type are rare...OP go hustle...

Since you're not married she shouldn't depend all her life on you, this kind of girl that can't fend for herself can't offer anything than sex, make her your wife and make liability your hubby

Queenttoast01:
Since you're not married she shouldn't depend all her life on you, this kind of girl that can't fend for herself can't offer anything than sex, make her your wife and make liability your hubby

I love ladies who love saying the truth, and i pray that GOD blesses them with good hubby.

Just dey hustle mehn...women issue na money ooh.not because of her but for sake of ur own sanity with life itself.

nigga said rights!! like wtf!!... shey you don marry her ni
guy go hustle leave woman matter for now, why you wan add problem join problem...arrrrh! life be simple but some people just da make am hard for themselves

heendrix:
The next you should do now is download sokoloan App and borrow for whatever she needs the money for, they're very quick and efficient

Thank me later

And open a thread later how they harrassed him and his contacts just cos of 1 month default.

Sexual right indeed!

GatewayP:
Please I need your help on this matter, it has been giving me sleepless nights and I want to know how to deal with it.
My problem be say the girl that I'm dating now is disturbing me with some issues.
We started dating around this time last month and we have be okay since then, but she suddenly changed and started demanding money from me, like for subscriptions, food, bills and others. I tried to explain to her that I'm broke and need some time to hustle and work hard for me enough money to give her, but she doesn't want to reason with me and it has been annoying.
So she started to deny me my rights like sex, kissing and other stuffs, I asked her why, and she said she's not in the mood. It has been hard for me to keep my mind away from other girls but I managed to. So I recently borrowed some money from my friends and paid for her subscription— data, gotv and also paid her bills. And gave her some cash. So I spent around 50k on her around that period.
She has been happy and cool with me since then, and we have been having fun, calling each other and stuffs, I mean she really changed for me after everything, unlike before.
But my problem now is that I'm now owning my friends and she has been calling me to sub for her and pay her Bills again and that the last one expired. I wanted to broke up with her but I still love her so much and would like to marry her when I get money, because I'm still Hustling.
She has been avoiding me for now and it's giving me concern. She said that I don't love her because I don't give her stuffs or take her out or buy her things. But the thing is that I love this girl so much and I would like to make her my wife, but she's been disturbing me and it's a distraction to me now.
Even now I've been avoiding some of my friends because I dey own them, please how can I make her reason with me, I mean how can I make things right for her. She changed because I didn't have her what she wanted.

You really need to calm yourself down and honestly tell youself if you love the girl or the sex that comes with the relationship.

If this story is true, you need to remove your shoes and run for your dear life before she financially wrecks you.

Michelle55:
Which kain wahala una like to dey carry so all in the name of love?
How has she been surviving before you came into the picture?
Who was paying her bills before you showed up in her life?
If she has been doing well and surviving before you started dating her, my brother she can still survive on her own.
Stop glorifying selfish mentality that she has imposed on you. How has she improved your life since she came into it?
Relationship is 50/50, if she can't assist you financially then she should be your peace and not drain you like a parasite to the host.

but d guy want sex, how can I u help him

at times, I dey wonder if all these stories dey real... God o

My guy come down

Una too dey rush women sef

Let me ask you a question

Do you think that girl love you

Maybe

Before yes

OK

Listen

Tell her that you are not interested then watch what she will say she might tell you you are not the only one am have sex with.


My guy thank god you are back


Bleep her she is money girl

Gandollaar:
A broke guy doesn't deserve an erection.




And you posted this shii in politics section?

Two things come to my mind, it's either the OP, is using us to catch cruise or he has been blinded by the power of staffing.

How can you borrow money to impress a woman? Who does that, fake life.

You borrowed 50k to buy sub and gotv for her? Wonderful.

You paid her bills and subscriptions, are you her father? Get the fucck out of here oh ye simp.

Juliusmalema:
Stay on your own if you can't afford to take of your girlfriend.

You want to be having sex with someone's daughter which you called your right because she is your girlfriend not even married to you

but you can't take care of her needs which is also her right because you are broke.

Young man respect yourself stay single If you can't afford to take care of her needs.

Many are really mad in this country but few are roaming.

You don't have seense I swear.
Break up with that girl now.
Most girls in these zoo are not in for relationship,they are looking for helpers.
Now imagine she meets a guy that can spend just 200k for her,she will not only break up with u and forget the past help you rendered her but she will pour you water.
My guy,u don fuk,sail your ship.

Tsolutionifede:
but d guy want sex, how can I u help him

Then he has no business being in a relationship.. He should focus on making money first.
Man wey no get money im preeq no dey stand, women should be the last thing in his mind.

...

You can't do any thing to ease her worries but want her to open her legs to ease your worries...If you don't realise it's wrong on every level!Then I have no words for you. How can you be Broke and be disturbing babe for sex when you should go and find money or wait for her to bring it to you...And I know say you go don dey fvck her for months now without chimgbai.
Which kind smelly hungry sex be that??!
As a guy man,If your partner says no on multiple occasions stop pestering them.

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So she started to deny me my rights like sex, kissing and other stuffs,......this got me laughing so hard

dude said his right

hahahahha