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Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by liveyourlife007(m): 11:54am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Today I learnt something. That to be great you have to be stingy. Mogba Ahun Nimi Eni ba temi je 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by uthlaw: 11:54am On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50:no answer that ur Uncle about na watin he call himself....to be an African is a curse! |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Nobody: 11:56am On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50: I have noticed it too. It wven happenwd to me. My mom died 3 months after i bought my first car in 2012. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by northvietnam(m): 11:57am On Apr 04, 2021 |
choke your self , stingy man. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Abdogood(m): 11:58am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Oga if you can afford it. Let ur mum come n stay with you for a while. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Vaiki(m): 12:00pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
chatinent:"To be great you have to be stingy" ?? Poorest thinking I have ever come across. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by malvisguy212: 12:01pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50:hope you record the call,? Godforbid, just Incas bad thing happen and your uncle want to frame you. the call may served as your evidence. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by baconline(m): 12:01pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Move your.mother to be close to u in the city, there she can get all The care she needs 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Cleanworld(f): 12:02pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50: Don't Stress yourself at all. Prepare your mind now and go to the village and bring your mum back to your base and take care of her while you still hold your job infact bring a younger person that will be taking care of her while you aint at home. do this for few month and you will see your mum bouncing back in short period of time then jeje send her back home. This will be in the record that you didn't neglect her and the village ''witches'' will let you rest . This are the things we do for love and remember it is just for a time and period, it wont last for ever so that your conscience will be clear in the future. Its a cultural thing, dont let them call you names. MY2CENT 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by NickD(m): 12:10pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50:Whatever you do, don't resign your appointment. Your uncle is evil and doesn't wish you well. Be prayerful too, meanwhile don't you have siblings? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by GistFullGround: 12:10pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Ignore the idiots in your family, focus on yourself. If you are capable, get someone to be a carer to attend to her needs. Once she goes to be with the Lord, say "Bye bye" to those family members. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by sweetkev(m): 12:10pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
vincentjk:So you visit native doctor. May God have mercy on you ![]() |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by maximunimpact(m): 12:11pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Bbbwings: What makes you think I'm not doing it now? Stingy generation gang! |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by maximunimpact(m): 12:12pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
princetunex: Lols...its obvious you have nothing to say. Wtf is princetunex? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Jaystye34: 12:13pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Don’t listen to all this hypocrite idiot.. family has ruined many great men/women.. why will your family ask you to quit job and take care of your mom? Are u a doctor? What’s their own duty your sibling in village can’t do that but want you to quit the job that’s making you feed the whole family.. that’s a kind of witchcraft behavior..your only family is your parent.. if you really want to solve all this prob move your mom to your state get a good hospital and handle her health case well and block every other useless people in the family from reaching u that’s all. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by maximunimpact(m): 12:16pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
kaboninc: Don't let English language derail you bud. You can have many things double in this life, but your mother isn't one of them. Fucckers like you are the type that likes taking selfie with their mothers every mothers day to show off, but behind the camera you treat her like shit |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by masks(m): 12:16pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50:I am sorry to say this but I will be very blunt...you don't need any advice....Now,ask yourself why you would want us to believe the part where you said an uncle called you to RESIGN to take care of your MOM and yet you said your relatives LEECH on you. where are you supposed to get MONEY for more leeching and taking care of your MOM? I really don't k ow why this got to the front page.... Anyway,na my fault sed. I go open this thing thinking it is a legit write up.....mtchewww.... |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Omacmykel(m): 12:19pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
I can feel ur pain brother, I totally understand what u r passing through, which we could talk more aside nairaland,as for ur uncle hmmmm.....I reserve my comments, cos its only who does not wish u and ur mother well will ask u to resign then come and stay in the village, are u going to use palm tree to take care of her? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Cashalhaji: 12:19pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Take ur mama to stay with u or rent am apartment for her close to u, if u can ... Let ur gf /wife take care of her, else get a househelp ...come back daily to her in d house or a place close to u where u can always stop bye to check her while u go out or come in almost daily. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Nobody: 12:20pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
maximunimpact: Lol. true nothing to say |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by tonididdy(m): 12:26pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50:Switch off your phone dude. Resign ke.... Oga your mother has lived her life, yours is just starting. If you don't take this route, get married and have kids. When next they call you, give the phone to your child to answer them. Them go advice their selves |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by fortune1968: 12:26pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Ebuka78:I guess this must come from a lady . This is a very poor submission . |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Vaiki(m): 12:27pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50:You don't need an advice,you came to fan your ego. Wetin you go do don already dey sure ok. You dey open topic for extended family wahala.. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Zenithh: 12:28pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50: My dear some things are deeply rooted in d spiritual realm. Haven't u wondered why pple say life itself is spiritual. Some things are best explained with spiritual language. Some pple whom u hold in high esteem have sold their souls to d devil 4 ur sake..and so if anything which is contrary to what they signed up to happens to u..they become a prey 4 it.(pls read my words with spiritual understanding). Reason why pple jokingly ask..'if everyone's mum/pop is d best then whose mums/pops are busy flying and sucking pples blood?' ![]() Another angle comes this way...for a person in a family to succeed someone must take d fall. Reason why u see most pple when they get to d peak of success the next thing u hear is that someone from d family is down...all this could boil down to ancestral doings. Some of our ancestors ehnn,,if we are to go back to their time on earth...we would notice a lot of things/evils they signed their unborn generations to. That's why when we christians pray..we pray against ancestral curses/oaths/misbeahviours. I still recall one real gist my friend gave me about why the men in her fathers side kept dying once they clock a certain age..findings were done and it was revealed ancestors buried a slave girl alive..and the spirit of d girl hasn't rested. So they had to do something to appease... Pls hope u picked one or two things from my post sha. Happy Easter. Jesus has rosen ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Vaiki(m): 12:29pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
fortune1968:who says this is a poor submission?? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by Wealthoptulent(m): 12:29pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
budaatum: The only one with wisdom i have read so far on this thread. Bring your mother to your hood. Every other onone should help them self.. is federal govt work, a poverty elimination project? Of NGO that u will set everyone up in business? You self are u balanced in the new state you working? More money more problems! Bring your mother to your new state, and stop being milking machine to them all! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by NwaEzefuNaMba(m): 12:30pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50: see eh, if na me be you eh, I go buy better pump action, proceed to the village and shot life out of that my Uncle! imagine!, what's his contribution to your family or just the life of her sister(your mum)? same thing happened 6yrs ago when I traveled out of the country, my uncle called two weeks later complaining on how I abandoned my mom and traveled abroad; stressing out how I should have stayed back and manage my little business in Nigeria. my response was very simple: "bia Nwokem, take care of your sister and never call my line again" |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by tonididdy(m): 12:30pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
masks:Cmon dude, what's hard there to believe. He prolly isn't providing their financial demand and they are saying he should come to the village and take care of his mother instead. They may not have bluntly said he should resign but they mean he will have to do all the work himself if he doesn't provide the money they need |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by anselm791(m): 12:31pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Well your mother shouldn't be left alone with strangers in the first place. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by saintruky(m): 12:33pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50: Is it possible for u to move ur mom to ur location? Ur uncle get evil plan... In fact tell that uncle say dem don drop u from work, say u need money for logistics for u to relocate home.. make he help u... Hear his response... If he ask about ur accrued pay, tell am say u got involved in a business deal n was duped... Say make he send u money... |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by gabicon: 12:33pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
lecturer50: Welcome to one of the biggest industries in Africa called cooperate impoverishment aka crab technology. People are angry that you are doing well as a result they will plague you and everything that pertains to you just to ensure you stay poor like them. One of the ways to avoid them is to remain understated, you should never have told them you got a federal job, never travel home in your new car, don't allow relatives visit your home, don't tell them about the promotion. remain as you are in their eyes and become great outside their eyes. If possible get your mum out of the village to the city to get better medical attention, and try and limit the info she pass to these folks. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by iamimohtal(m): 12:34pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
Una no ask op how much the salary be ? Or the name of the sickness na to dey form advice they yarn opata wey una no Sabi,.... Op don't come to nairaland to ask for advice, these people ain't normal |
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