I've come to notice that some girls even though they are in a serious relationship still go out on dates with other guys and still expect their boyfriends to be okay with .As for me,I'm not okay with my girlfriend going out on dates with other guys cause I count it as the first step towards cheating...how about you guys?
What are your views on this?

I don't have any View

Your Absolutely right...but then I no want feminist wahala

Whether you are dating, betrothed, or engaged, you are still single until you are married.


Don't bother about ladies.


Select your devil, tame, and marry.

most naija girls will not give up an opportunity to eat free food.... so yes that's why they'll always look for guys to take them on dates Even when they're in serious relationships.

If she isn't your wife, give her private life space. If you want to customize her, go pay her bride price.


It's only in Africa that one can't go out on a date with married old class mates especially females. The way you guys cage women self.

kalu61:
If she isn't your wife, give her private life space. If you want to customize her, go pay her bride price.


It's only in Africa that one can't go out on a date with married old class mates especially females. The way you guys cage women self.

Lol, what nonsense are you saying?
So if you are dating someone, you don't owe the person some level of respect in certain issues? You are dating someone and you want to be going on romantic dates with other people?

Cage women? What nonsense are you spitting here? Imagine if it was the guy going out on random dates with girls even when he has a girlfriend. I hope his girlfriend will be okay with it or men cannot be "caged"?

Fear Nigerian women.. Even married ones goes on dates with strange men.

Me still dea find babe weh go love me, not even one but my guys here get them yakpa full everywhere. Lass lass life no balance.

Nawa oo

kalu61:
If she isn't your wife, give her private life space. If you want to customize her, go pay her bride price.


It's only in Africa that one can't go out on a date with married old class mates especially females. The way you guys cage women self.

chai. This is obviously a lady.see the nonsense she dey talk ..

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

kalu61:
If she isn't your wife, give her private life space. If you want to customize her, go pay her bride price.


It's only in Africa that one can't go out on a date with married old class mates especially females. The way you guys cage women self.

The respect she accords to you is what motivates you to pay her bride price.

If a girl I'm dating is going on several dates with random guys, why should I wife her when I know that she's just an inch away from cheating on me?

Paying of bride price is done when a girl proves to you beyond every reasonable doubt that she's mentally, emotionally, financially, socially...etc ready to respect spend the rest of her life with you regardless of whatever options she has out there.

Nazgul:

The respect she accords to you is what motivates you to pay her bride price.

If a girl I'm dating is going on several dates with random guys, why should I wife her when I know that she's just an inch away from cheating on me?

Paying of bride price is done when a girl proves to you beyond every reasonable doubt that she's mentally, emotionally, financially, socially...etc ready to respect spend the rest of her life with you regardless of whatever options she has out there.

Thanks for your mature input. I never said "several dates with radom guys". You coined that. There is no law that says date is basically for romance and that a guy cannot be declined after date.

Now, if l ask you to differentiate date and outing, can you do that? Does it mean because you are in a relationship, your "girlfriend" cannot be taken out but you can take others girls out.

Make wuna change wuna mind set abeg. l have taken many of my married PG colleagues out with zero intentions.
Anyways, l understand that Africa mentality that a lady will abandon everything friends because she wants or is married. Dam it, just tell me you are going out with a friend. l will gladly grant you your request. The frequency and the background checks are left for me.


As for the guys above who quoted me. As you the wine your mouth, your girlfriend is secretly going out on date and most are getting married every weekend as they dump your broke asses. Women are hypergamous. Go make money or you leave her with little option.

A date could be for business meeting or just friends connecting. Don't be insecure and read meaning to everything

kalu61:
If she isn't your wife, give her private life space. If you want to customize her, go pay her bride price.


It's only in Africa that one can't go out on a date with married old class mates especially females. The way you guys cage women self.

I pray never to have an insecure human as a husband.

So be it.

My type of person would chop other guys money without asking shi shi from my man (if he isn't stingy enough, he'll give willingly).

Funny enough, none will eat the holy communion.


The way ladies are being painted & discussed on social media, one will most likely believe this guys study women in higher institutions.

I don't understand o,when you say date do you mean hangout or a real date? Anyway if it's just to hangout as friends,its not bad now,everyone has a right to have friends,the guy too has a right to hangout with his own(male or female)friends.....If the the boyfriend feels uncomfortable about the hangout, she can go with her boyfriend so his mind can be at ease,but it still depends on the people dating too.

Still,it boils down to trust sha. Just date your kind and do what works for you. But if it's a real date and you have a serious relationship that's not cool sha.

Why should an unmarried girl not be free to go out on dates with her male friends? The issue of going on dates with other toasters is a different case. Only greedy girls do that

StacyO:


I pray never to have an insecure human as a husband.

So be it.

My type of person would chop other guys money without asking shi shi from my man (if he isn't stingy enough, he'll give willingly).

Funny enough, none will eat the holy communion.


The way ladies are being painted & discussed on social media, one will most likely believe this guys study women in higher institutions.

Amen to your prayers.


African men sha. Sometimes you don't blame people way of thinking. Even though there is a thin line between a girl in a serious relationship still going on a date and cheating but dam it, let her cheat so that you can make the best decision.


Anyways, l know a drop of you this girl . No bi every guy them de chop him money for free o. Bere ebere.

l hope the holy Communion is well fenced and still unleavened because na that type l de wish.

kalu61:
Amen to your prayers.


African men sha. Sometimes you don't blame people way of thinking. Even though there is a thin line between a girl in a serious relationship still going on a date and cheating but dam it, let her cheat so that you can make the best decision.


Anyways, l know a drop of you this girl . No bi every guy them de chop him money for free o. Bere ebere.

l hope the holy Communion is well fenced and still unleavened because na that type l de wish.

I chop and convince them that holy communion is not for sinners. Neither is it eaten by any unholy entity.

It shall be eaten on a holy day.

Is that not how it is taken?




I don't know what ya thinking ooo

Deucalion007:
I've come to notice that some girls even though they are in a serious relationship still go out on dates with other guys and still expect their boyfriends to be okay with .As for me,I'm not okay with my girlfriend going out on dates with other guys cause I count it as the first step towards cheating...how about you guys?
What are your views on this?

what do you term serious relationships?? what might be serious to A might not be serious to B

bigjackass:
Why should an unmarried girl not be free to go out on dates with her male friends? The issue of going on dates with other toasters is a different case. Only greedy girls do that

God bless you

Nazgul:

The respect she accords to you is what motivates you to pay her bride price.

If a girl I'm dating is going on several dates with random guys, why should I wife her when I know that she's just an inch away from cheating on me?

Paying of bride price is done when a girl proves to you beyond every reasonable doubt that she's mentally, emotionally, financially, socially...etc ready to respect spend the rest of her life with you regardless of whatever options she has out there.

Totally agree with you.

Deucalion007:
I've come to notice that some girls even though they are in a serious relationship still go out on dates with other guys and still expect their boyfriends to be okay with .As for me,I'm not okay with my girlfriend going out on dates with other guys cause I count it as the first step towards cheating...how about you guys?
What are your views on this?

but u can go on a date with a girl that u are not dating abi?

I think dates should be used to know your romantic partner more, I wouldn't feel comfortable with a woman doing that if we are bonded already.

StacyO:



I chop and convince them that holy communion is not for sinners. Neither is it eaten by any unholy entity.

It shall be eaten on a holy day.

Is that not how it is taken?




I don't know what ya thinking ooo

Yes, it's taken on a holy day

l no wan laugh

what if she goes to residence of a very big billionaire to collect endorsement for a job she applied for and they spend hours together in his room- is that one also counted as dating?

chatinent:
Whether you are dating, betrothed, or engaged, you are still single until you are married.


Don't bother about ladies.


Select your devil, tame, and marry.

This mentality here is exactly how most of u end up wiving whores.. Whatever she is while dating is what she will be while married

Cindy222:
I don't understand o,when you say date do you mean hangout or a real date? Anyway if it's just to hangout as friends,its not bad now,everyone has a right to have friends,the guy too has a right to hangout with his own(male or female)friends.....If the the boyfriend feels uncomfortable about the hangout, she can go with her boyfriend so his mind can be at ease,but it still depends on the people dating too.

Still,it boils down to trust sha. Just date your kind and do what works for you. But if it's a real date and you have a serious relationship that's not cool sha.

What's the difference btwn a date and hangout? What do u do on both outings? Why would u agree to hangout or hangin with another guy alone in any environment when ur in a serious relationship? Do u even know that any right thinking man values the respect u accord him over any bloody fake love u girls profess? Do u know hangingout,in or about another guy with or without the knowledge of ur man is the highest show of disregard and disrespect? Next line of lies and deceit will be to label him insecure.. abi? Its not rocket science a lot of u get ghosted or used at some point in time because u showed a wise brother how u should be treated.. like trash. No wonder that moniker keeps saying "Nigerian girls are useless".. well maybe not all of them

Nazgul:

The respect she accords to you is what motivates you to pay her bride price.

If a girl I'm dating is going on several dates with random guys, why should I wife her when I know that she's just an inch away from cheating on me?

Paying of bride price is done when a girl proves to you beyond every reasonable doubt that she's mentally, emotionally, financially, socially...etc ready to respect spend the rest of her life with you regardless of whatever options she has out there.

Exactly

dairykidd:

This mentality here is exactly how most of u end up wiving whores.. Whatever she is while dating is what she will be while married

still wondering who is not a LovePeddler nowadays...

Youngpo413:
still wondering who is not a LovePeddler nowadays...

No be all bro.. Might be hard to believe n honestly I can't blame u for that. But genuine ones dey. Most times we don't like them enough to give them that opportunity. Look well she might even be closer than u think

dairykidd:

No be all bro.. Might be hard to believe n honestly I can't blame u for that. But genuine ones dey. Most times we don't like them enough to give them that opportunity. Look well she might even be closer than u think

yeah bro about 4 of them ....but are not sexy...holy holy gehs....
YOU GET SENSE O, I swear.