Cerebellum:
Seems You no dey slap that boy ma



Just two hot slaps Lasan...His cerebellum to the brain go reset sharpaly


I can even help you self

StacyO:

I'll make this as concise as possible. Please read through.

My son just clocked 25 this year and he very much doesn't seem to be too serious with his life.

He barely associate with his siblings and he seem not to care if he is an adult or not.
I won't blame him entirely cause growing up was all rosy and golden spooned for him. I and his father spoilt him so much, being the first child then.
He had everything at his disposal and anything he wanted was granted him. He was treated like a man and most especially a king.

This habit of seek and you shall find seem to have attached badly to him now. He sells off his fathers properties even with the father watching fully and funny enough, he won't do anything.

As a mother, whenever I try to correct him, his father will always come to his rescue.

What broke the camel's back was when he sold my husband's car engine, fan and generator.

Annoyingly, my husband seemed very much aware of it and still did nothing about it.

He has never for once concentrated on his studies and whenever I make mention of his siblings, he always quote his father's properties being his. And how he can send everyone packing if any misbehaves.

He told us that he can no longer continue with his education and we should keep our money for more important things.


My son is lost and I don't know if he can change. I have spoken to my husband several times and he seemed very much not bothered.

I'm really worried and troubled as it is affecting me psychologically as well.

How best can someone over pampered from childhood change??

StacyO:

I'll make this as concise as possible. Please read through.

My son just clocked 25 this year and he very much doesn't seem to be too serious with his life.

He barely associate with his siblings and he seem not to care if he is an adult or not.
I won't blame him entirely cause growing up was all rosy and golden spooned for him. I and his father spoilt him so much, being the first child then.
He had everything at his disposal and anything he wanted was granted him. He was treated like a man and most especially a king.

This habit of seek and you shall find seem to have attached badly to him now. He sells off his fathers properties even with the father watching fully and funny enough, he won't do anything.

As a mother, whenever I try to correct him, his father will always come to his rescue.

What broke the camel's back was when he sold my husband's car engine, fan and generator.

Annoyingly, my husband seemed very much aware of it and still did nothing about it.

He has never for once concentrated on his studies and whenever I make mention of his siblings, he always quote his father's properties being his. And how he can send everyone packing if any misbehaves.

He told us that he can no longer continue with his education and we should keep our money for more important things.


My son is lost and I don't know if he can change. I have spoken to my husband several times and he seemed very much not bothered.

I'm really worried and troubled as it is affecting me psychologically as well.

How best can someone over pampered from childhood change??

omaclarry:
madam let me tell you the truth, ur son is holding ur husband at ransom, probably he caught him red handed with a woman or a greater secret, that is why ur husband always smile whenever he sells his stuffs, cos he doesnt want the boy to spill

SeekerofTruth1:


You have a son of 25 years of age?

I thought you were one of those Parasitic slay queens running all over Nairaland

Truvel:
Do U Want Him To Change? Then Dis What U Will Av To Do, Even Though It May Sound Strange Or Unpleasant To U. Don't Give Him Money 4 Feeding. Let Him Huzzle(get A Job) To Feed Himself.

PrimadonnaO:
You have a 25 year old son?

In situations like this, all you can do is pray. Anything else will be an effort in futility.

omaclarry:
madam let me tell you the truth, ur son is holding ur husband at ransom, probably he caught him red handed with a woman or a greater secret, that is why ur husband always smile whenever he sells his stuffs, cos he doesnt want the boy to spill

StacyO:


This is a very valid point.

We've tried this on him but, after a little while, he will act all repentant. Then in a swift second, he's back to the old him.

PrimadonnaO:
You have a 25 year old son?

In situations like this, all you can do is pray. Anything else will be an effort in futility.

StacyO:

I'll make this as concise as possible. Please read through.

My son just clocked 25 this year and he very much doesn't seem to be too serious with his life.

He barely associate with his siblings and he seem not to care if he is an adult or not.
I won't blame him entirely cause growing up was all rosy and golden spooned for him. I and his father spoilt him so much, being the first child then.
He had everything at his disposal and anything he wanted was granted him. He was treated like a man and most especially a king.

This habit of seek and you shall find seem to have attached badly to him now. He sells off his fathers properties even with the father watching fully and funny enough, he won't do anything.

As a mother, whenever I try to correct him, his father will always come to his rescue.

What broke the camel's back was when he sold my husband's car engine, fan and generator.

Annoyingly, my husband seemed very much aware of it and still did nothing about it.

He has never for once concentrated on his studies and whenever I make mention of his siblings, he always quote his father's properties being his. And how he can send everyone packing if any misbehaves.

He told us that he can no longer continue with his education and we should keep our money for more important things.


My son is lost and I don't know if he can change. I have spoken to my husband several times and he seemed very much not bothered.

I'm really worried and troubled as it is affecting me psychologically as well.

How best can someone over pampered from childhood change??

Nezzjnr:
OP is an attention seeker

Go through her threads

baralatie:
the most important thing is to secure the siblings at all cost because wether you like it or not .the young lad will eliminate them at the slightest opportunity

Bluezy13:
If you believe in prayer, pray.

I don't believe in prayer, I am a realist.
The problem is not really your son, but your husband. If you want to kill a snake, cut off it's head.
Until your husband starts acting, nothing will change.
Question your husband.

StacyO:

He loves his siblings, he just acts tough and mean whenever he's around them.

Isokoson1:
Op una Bleep up from d start...i dey always tell people no. Dey pamper pikin e bad..i lost my papa at a very tender age..e get where i try misbehave ,my mama carry razor tear my yansh put pepper,i will never forget that day,many times i try to misbehave my momcy no pamper me..but today nah man i be with good hustle, once u pamper dat pikin e go grow with am..and to change am go hard...wetin u go do be say if him dey misbehave make una dey tell am things way go enter him body...the guy nah mature guy enough..make una live am make e go hustle for himself...all money go dey pending for now...and make una dey watch the kind of friends way him dey keep....

StacyO:
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