Yusufisraelj:


Replying you will take my time but nevertheless, your opinion, we move

Lol. Must be a bot.

Lovethaa:




She is not even up to 4 months at our workplace and we already kissed and cuddle. although no crime in that but heating all that made me conclude she might never change..

Bro, these bitches don't change. If they didn't stop at 1, 2, 3, 4...till you, who the Bleep are you to stop 'em? Abeg, queue dey, no come spoil show for people wey dey line to bang her.

Magnoliaa:


You gett. No wahala now if you can't handle the truth about me or will judge me for whatever I do.

I'm not saying you can't make your judgments and decisions oh. But stay away and stop being 'attracted' me. You don't deserve to even be close to me or know any other thing about me, because, why? What do you like?

You can't be slopping and gaggling every peepee and not get judged by a good man.

If you ever wanna know if your girl had an abortion, DM me. I'll tell you where to look. It's simple

Ishilove:

Don't be unfortunate. You asked her to open up and she did, now you are coming here to yarn dust. It shows you are not emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship and I hope she kicks your goldigging ass to the dustbin

He asked her to be open, yeah?! But nobody bargains to hear a serial abortionist confess killing four babies, and having several sloppy, gaggling, tlop tlop with diff dicks.

Kebbiprince:

That's why I laugh when people insult older ladies, most ladies in their 30s are far purer than the so called Ladies in early 20s who have been damaged beyond repair

Elaborate.

ReluctantAdult:
If you ever wanna know if your girl had an abortion, DM me. I'll tell you where to look. It's simple

Bro tell me

pocohantas:


A girl of 8 isn’t exposed to sex. A girl of 8 is/was raped, except of course it is also with a minor which is most times not the case. When can you creatures with 3 legs call a spade a spade?!!

Ahnahn!

But we just called a hoe a hoe, and you are offended na.

franchasng:
even if she didn't tell him, he would find out someday, maybe during childbirth, you cannot hide past abortions forever from your husband sha, it must burst. You can ask any medical professional.



But to be honest, some secrets are best kept to oneself till death. Imagine a girl I am planning to marry telling me she once killed somebody and she expects me to stay, unless I am Shekau myself then we can drink to it

**Laughs @bolded**

Well .. I've come to realize that men don't like being told the truth. It's just that I can't lie about myself.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Shabi all the women out there may didn't give birth after marriage had abortions.

No, but her chances of having birth complication is higher. Why inherit someone's problem, the guy she aborted for has simply gone to look for one Mary.

2elliot:
But we just called a hoe a hoe, and you are offended na.

Is this one’s brain on vacation or it was never there? If you can’t read, give the phone to any sensible person in your circle. Mtcheew.

BiggyB242:


No but her chances of having birth complication is higher. Why inherit someone problem, the guy she aborted for has simply go look for one Mary.

And he might not find he Mary. Infact he might find someone worst because he too has to pay for for the abortions.

pocohantas:


Is this one’s brain on vacation or it was never there? If you can’t read, give the phone to any sensible person in your circle. Mtcheew.

Qwin Poco d rude gyal. Well, I am looking out for my brothers.

AsherAmari:


**Laughs @bolded**

Well .. I've come to realize that men don't like being told the truth. It's just that I can't lie about myself.

We don't like being told dirty truths.

2elliot:
Don't be disrespectful! She is a hoe! So, call her by her name. She doesn't need your mr niceness, maturity and pedestaling. It took her several sloppy and gaggling, and tlop tlop from several dicks to gain that title. She will be disgusted you are not disgusted and will not give a flying Bleep at your sorry ass before jumping on the next dick.

Replying you will take my time but nevertheless, your opinion, we move

2elliot:
We don't like being told dirty truths.

Speak for yourself o. If you don't know the truth, how will you dodge these kinds of bullets?

2elliot:
We don't like being told dirty truths.

Don't have a dirty truth.

AsherAmari:


**Laughs @bolded**

Well .. I've come to realize that men don't like being told the truth. It's just that I can't lie about myself.

My sister sometimes u need to hide some things and keep it to yourself for some time. But you see abortion own, don't keep it oh cos your husband will still find out at the end.

Genotype, abortion must not be kept secret to your partner.


But you see how many guys u have chopped, it's not necessary, cos any woke guy suppose know that chicks all over the world love sex.


Even virgins with hymen de fvck self lol. Only innocent guys that don't know how far will believe otherwise. Women are sexual creatures, forget the pretend, the only difference is that women are selective with their sex partner but once they find one, the sexual demon in them gets unleashed. Lol

Ishilove:

Don't be unfortunate. You asked her to open up and she did, now you are coming here to yarn dust. It shows you are not emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship and I hope she kicks your goldigging ass to the dustbin

caught in the act

franchasng:
My sister sometimes u need to hide some things and keep it to yourself for some time. But you see abortion own, don't keep it oh cos your husband will still find out at the end.

Genotype, abortion must not be kept secret to your partner.


But you see how many guys u have chopped, it's not necessary, cos any woke guy suppose know that chicks all over the world love sex.


Even virgins with hymen de fvck self lol. Only innocent guys that don't know how far will believe otherwise. Women are sexual creatures, forget the pretend, the only difference is that women are selective with their sex partner but once they find one, the sexual demon in them gets unleashed. Lol

Hm. Expert.
I dolf my hat o.

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pocohantas:


Lol. Must be a bot.

Lols, no be so ooo. We have to look at how the lady use to think, how she's now in love, how she opened up and how the new guy could use that to keep her sane and committed so that they build a meaningful relationship.

The guy who mentioned me thinks bkos she used to be "lose" she can hoop on any dick. That's wrong in my estimation, as the reason to why that has happened is not disclosed.

So that time to type from a point of reason which is subject to his interpretation is what I don't have hence, we move

Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

just times everything she told you by 3.

Lovethaa:
She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle. She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

This babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

And pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself.

I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

Guy what could you have done if she did not tell you, and you got married and found out from a third party ;later after you guys had been married and already had 3 kids ?

That woman deserves a GOLD MEDAL FOR BEING HONEST.

MOST NIGERIAN WOMEN WILL NOT BE HONEST WITH YOU.

You say you had already decided to marry her because she's educated and her coming from a wealthy family is like a bonus. Sorry to disappoint you but these 2 reasons are not enough to get married to anybody for and if any man collects money from his wife or her family, he will become their slave sooner or later.

Your girlfriend is a rare breed amongst Nigerian women for her honesty and I'm not saying that she doesn't have her faults (like we all do) but one of her faults is NOT dishonesty.

Physiologists, social workers and health workers will always tell you that someone who has been sexually abused as a child is more likely to start having sex at a younger age than normal.

Your girlfriend deserves all the understanding you can muster and should not be looked at in disgust for her being abused and introduced to sex as a child by a pedophile who should be in prison in civilized countries.

Discuss your concerns and worries with her and if you must end the relationship, do so amicably as she is worth having as a friend because of HER HONESTY.

IF 20% OF NIGERIANS WERE AS HONEST AS YOUR GIRLFRIEND, WE WILL HAVE A GOOD COUNTRY.

Btw, I am a man but I value honesty a lot.

Yusufisraelj:
You are being unwise, foolish and childish.

I know a lady who was raped at age 8 till she was 24, have had multiple partners over 11.

She met a virgin guy who decided to date her, bkos life is not about people's past but what they decide to do with their future presently.

I'm not advocating careless living but my brother if a lady opens up to you and you are disgusted by her past, then walk. it shows you are not emotionally matured to handle certain levels of TRUTH. Mark my words any relationship built on lies will never last, Falsehood was never designed to stand the test of time, only TRUTH does

You are a mature, wise and EXPOSED person. Bravo.

Magnoliaa:


Is this really necessary, though? He's just one man, babe. See almost all the men on this thread (surprisingly) have spoken against the OP. There are tens of thousands of men that'll vibe with that babe. People will find their tribe. You said she's her authentic self. Nobody knows, but that's the point. To be authentic. Women are sexual creatures. Women like sex. How you choose to express that solely rests with you. That people will criticize you shouldn't stop you from doing what you want - if you have the mind.

I agree that we should all be sensible, though, in the latter part of your comment. Don't do things because a man 'induced' you and 'cajoled' you and whatever. That is not wokeness. Wokeness is another entirely valid thing that people misunderstand.

If women divest from marriages and men, a lot of these issues wouldn't be at all...

Exactly, surprisingly because that's not the typical scenario. It's only rarely that the sensible ones comment.
The countless threads and stories we read here everyday shows that most men aren't that open-minded.

And sadly, too, most women really don't have the "mind" to chin up in the face of backlash following their choices.

Knowing these, the realistic thing is to avert such situations.

Depending on how the OP handles this situation, I forsee the babe regretting and feeling so sorry for opening up. She would for a moment question her worth and all the choices she's ever made.

There are just levels of wokeness most people can't practice and get away with here in Nigeria because our reality doesn't support it.

Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

Nairaland pls be banning children from this site!

Do you want to marry a saint or a human being?
Are you up to 13?

For someone to be this honest with you, do you know the meaning of that!....?

Nobody is a virgin.

Even the saintly church one with no boyfriend is fucking her perfume bottle....

Do you know what pleasure means to this specie?

My dear if you don't want to marry, quietly enter monastery or use your brain.

Goldbw122:

First of all the lady love u, that is why she is tell u all this.. tell your own honest story to her so that you will know how it will go .. ok all relationship are not perfect the one wey e say e perfect just know say one deep dark secret dey inside.. simple

The OP should tell her how many times he's been d*cked in his b*ttcrack by fellow guys let's see how it balances.
The guy is very immature.

Her story is common ladies story.
If they tell you the truth like she claimed.

Her past is not too bad.
Check her womb, if its not damage you can marry her.

Scarfin:
Nobody is a virgin.

Even the saintly church one with no boyfriend is fucking her perfume bottle....

Do you know what pleasure means to this specie?

Some even use wine bottles and this has been happening for decades hence the state of some punnanis even on "so called" good girls.

That's why I laugh when some men think they can discipline a pvssy during sex and some men endanger their lives by swallowing all sorts in a futile effort to become a horse in order to compete with a vibrator whose battery lasts at least 4 hours.

LOL! With the comments I've read so far, women always keep proving themselves to be all birds of the same feathers. A man asked a woman here if she can advice her brother to marry such lady, no one answered. haha

Women wants someone who wouldn't judge them by their pasts, only SIMPs won't. Even a prostitute won't like to be judged by her past. Well, for those men supporting the lady and saying he's not a real man, LOL, I guess the definition of a real man to a woman or beta is to wife up hoes

Where the OP faltered is that he's already involved with the lady sexually, he's putting his career at risk for nothing. I guess he let his dick ruled over him. You should have found out about her past before being romantically involved with her if you were serious about committing to her. You can be wrongly accused by her. Hell hath no fury like a scorned woman.

Men, your children deserves the best woman they can get as much as possible, do not wife up hoes. Never settle for less because if things goes south, you have a lot more to lose. Women will never see fault in what their fellow women do and for those men supporting her because she opened up about her so called 'past', haha so because she opened up, he should live up with it and man up, mehn SIMPs will never cease to amaze me! SMH.

A lady that has done countless abortions not even one is definitely a big red flag, I'm sure her story contains fallacy. Well I guess hoes move together with hoes. She started with she was molested so the OP can pity her, LOL, always playing the victim card to easily manipulate SIMPs.

Lastly, @OP, you inquired about her past, and she told you, if you don't have the balls to stand it, leave!

Lovethaa:



and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...

The problem with dis particular statement; who did the asking? You

If she had refused to tell u, maybe ur complain would b 'she claimed to love me but has refused to open-up or let me in'. Now she has opened up you're complaining.

Just as you've asked so also will others ask same of their partners.

The real question should be, do you have the balls/heart to take on whatever u'll hear?