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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by PatrickOkunima(m): 4:00am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Lovethaa: You're from a wealthy family and you're desperately looking for a 15K job, while those of us from poor background are rejecting jobs of 70K. Does that make any sense? 9 Likes
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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by iRepNaija1: 5:10am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Lovethaa: First, how can you ask a woman (or man) point-blank to tell you about their past relationships and sex life? You're not even seeing each other yet. What was so pressing that you needed to know right then and there? You shouldn't be offended by the very thing you asked for. Second, she was not introduced to sex. She was molested by her perverted, disgusting neighbor at 8 years old. Say it with me: she was sexually assaulted. Third, she started having sex at 10 because she was sexually assaulted when she was 8. Most sexual abuse victims will act out the abuse they experience with other people. The fact that she was willing to tell you this speaks volumes about her and her honesty. Because most people wouldn't dare say anything because of the shame, the judgment, and the disgust they would have for the victim, all the emotions you're experiencing now. Look at your post, it was all about what her confession made you feel. Not even one-bit empathy for her. You clearly don't care for her. OP, you should feel weak because this girl who opened up to you was raped and sexually assaulted and no one came to her aid. You should feel sad because she couldn't even turn to her own mother for help because her mother would beat her and not the neighbor. You should feel shame that you called her sexual assault her "dirty past." God willing, you withdraw from her, she sees that you're judging her, that you're a trash human being and not worth her time, and she finds someone who will accept and love her for who she is. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Goldbw122(m): 5:29am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Just try to talk to her, this kind of girl will never leave you if you, are honest to get too... Communicate more on the issue and be mature about it.. |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by bigpicture001: 5:38am On Apr 12, 2021 |
What's with guys and two weeks relationship they start shouting "I intend to marry her" MA so choices they easy this days 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kondomatic(m): 6:15am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Kebbiprince:The ladies in their 30s were once in their 20s so WTF are you saying bro? Are you high? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kondomatic(m): 6:17am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Ishilove:He's lying though. 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 6:42am On Apr 12, 2021 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: Lol, that's where you guys get it wrong. He might end up having a lovely family. Take a look at the politicians we swear and insult them everyday my dear they are still enjoying their lives getting older than those who swear. 9 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by rex444(m): 6:49am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Maybe she's actually throwing lines to see how U would handle it.... Mr perfect ,dey dia dey judge better cross wey land for your laps.... Tho your story sounds cooked.. |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by SPOLO(m): 6:53am On Apr 12, 2021 |
That lady needs a pyschologist because the trauma will be there.
She is gonna have a high libido, she is surely a chronic masturbator......
I have met one like that 4 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by seanwilliam(m): 7:00am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Acidosis: This is actually one the most sensible comments under this topic. Imagine some simps okoto mew mew. Arrant nonsense! U don’t expect me to clean up another man’s mess. You already had four abortions at age 24.. this is totally disgusting and I will curse any brother that marries a public toilet like that .. Y’all falling for a woman’s story , nawa o, no wonder most girls claim being raped after u discover they are not virgin , dem go sha get one uncle Wey rape dem when they are young.. Rubbish ! I wonder why men mostly fall for women trick.. see them calling the op a gold digger as if him no come from a wealthy background too ( according to him ).. Imagine a foôl up there comparing a women with countless dickering with a virgin .. na wao .. four abortions? I can’t even believe that . If a naija girl tells u that she has 2 body count , pls. Multiply it by 3 atleast! Radarada And besides don’t even test me with such a disgusting story to see my reaction .. u fit tell your daddy such story as a lady to see his reaction ? Nonsense , make we condemn nonsense attitude , una Dey here Dey form captain save the hoe . A sensible woman should be very careful of her sexual life... @op the lady in question get problem , na tie she one tie u . Japa 30 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by seanwilliam(m): 7:08am On Apr 12, 2021 |
2elliot:and yet people are in support of the girl.. four abortions ? And u expect me to marry u outta pity? As if she go do that if reverse was the case. Why must I pity u cos of your story as woman .. God bless u bro 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by seanwilliam(m): 7:09am On Apr 12, 2021 |
pocohantas:your blog no Dey load . Make I check out to cook something ![]() |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by FairlyUSEDpussy: 7:11am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Lovethaa: Op!!!just know u did nothings wrong if u don't marry her okay ![]() Stop replying those manipulative vagina people up there.........infact u'd be surprised to know they still wouldn't allow there brothers get married to such lady.......... 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kebbiprince: 7:18am On Apr 12, 2021 |
pocohantas:I mean chaste ladies in their 30s 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kebbiprince: 7:18am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic:Chaste ladies in their 30 |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kebbiprince: 7:18am On Apr 12, 2021 |
ikillbrokegirls:Chaste ladies in their 30s 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by 2elliot: 7:28am On Apr 12, 2021 |
hucknall:Why not a pleasant truth? At just 24yrs what is wrong with her truth being about how she has disciplined herself to be celibate and turned down several advances from men? How she picked a hobby in sport, writing or reading, or any productive stuff in order to be focused? 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by bmdmix3: 7:35am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Lovethaa:u ask for a true story now u get it then u run online to expose her past, u think u are mature? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Misterone: 7:39am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Lovethaa:I am your conscience you prick. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Carlmax(m): 7:42am On Apr 12, 2021 |
booscy: He is not saying he is perfect, that's why he is admitting his weaknesses of not being able to handle her past... But honestly some people's past are just too much to handle... Talking about ladies and gentlemen. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Carlmax(m): 7:44am On Apr 12, 2021 |
FairlyUSEDpussy: Thank you jare. |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by angelfallz(m): 7:46am On Apr 12, 2021 |
This does not make any sense. the ladies in their 30s, weren't they in their 20s before? From your comment, ladies in their 20s are very very impure, but when such ladies get to their 30s they become less impure? Kebbiprince: 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by angelfallz(m): 7:48am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Find out as much as you can about the woman you want to settle down with. If you find out something you are not comfortable with, do the needful. 10 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by lereinter(m): 7:55am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Are wealth status dey twinkle you Abi Why won't she tell you, she's confident in her status 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by SweetCunt97(f): 8:02am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Lovethaa:Oya move on naw. You cant handle the truth, simply let her know. 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by FairlyUSEDpussy: 8:12am On Apr 12, 2021 |
ReluctantAdult: Tell me bro...... Biko....... |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kebbiprince: 8:25am On Apr 12, 2021 |
angelfallz:I meant only pure ladies in their 30s 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Ayo2004: 8:41am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Op,don't let all these mumu feminists make u feel bad U better run for your life ![]() 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Opak001(m): 9:03am On Apr 12, 2021 |
if she didn't tell you and you found out yourself,which will you prefer?. we are imperfect,just try to let her understand your interest towards her was just a wind. |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:24am On Apr 12, 2021 |
BiggyB242:Goodluck to him then. But he should not go about asking people about their past if he can't handle the truth. Even those people with ugly pasts end up with better partners than those with beautiful past. He doesn't deserve her in the first place or should I they are not for each other. Everyone deserve better. 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by DaInferno(m): 9:32am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Lovethaa:peeshaun would advice,once u meet a new partner, forget about their pasts and focus on their present. Jesus on the other hand will say he without sin should cast the first stone...if she were from a poor family, the decision wouldn't be so hard for you to make would it? so you see, you ma na gold digger las las ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by hakeemhakeem(m): 9:40am On Apr 12, 2021 |
the ball is in your court but have this in mind your wife to be may be past worse than her.even commit worse things under your nose bro |
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