| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by BeautyO(f): 8:23am On Apr 20, 2021 |
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you need western orientation, to help you flush your Enslaved mentality |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by sben2308(m): 8:24am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos
To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .
He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,
He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .
Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,
So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).
Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..
How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.
I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me
Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.
Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes
P.s I need you honest opinion .... Bro u did nothing wrong, just that most here r hypocrite. Ask them if the guy was their blood brother n they know of a lady like that will they allow their brother marry her . Capital No ,fear nothing cuz u just saved a family from bitterness. |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by PoshTraveler: 8:24am On Apr 20, 2021 |
BeautyO:
Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad shut up, u want him to allow a real og marry a used public toilet? thunder fire u there 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by sben2308(m): 8:24am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos
To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .
He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,
He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .
Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,
So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).
Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..
How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.
I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me
Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.
Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes
P.s I need you honest opinion .... |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by SirMichael1: 8:25am On Apr 20, 2021 |
AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.
Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.
Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.
You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?
Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth
Shut your twatt! Karma is just a word used to put people in check, in fear of the future. It's is not real, else, politicians who have made mockery of us will face it (karma). |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by PoshTraveler: 8:26am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos
To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .
He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,
He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .
Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,
So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).
Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..
How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.
I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me
Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.
Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes
P.s I need you honest opinion .... bro do not feel bad, u did the right thing. those type of curses will never work because the forces of nature knows that u savd a real og. no be u send am to be a LovePeddler. a public toilet should not be use by a guy that can go to a clean private toilet. let her go and curse her papa for giving brth to an olosho |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Aidonboselu: 8:27am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Guy...don't be bothered...all those curses would not work at all....you didn't do any wrong or bad. If the guy really loved the girl...trust me...he would have carried on with the marriage....there is nobody that has not had sex before.....or that has not been slept with before.....whether your vacinity or outside your vacinity. I feel the guy must have asked the girl after you told him to tell him about her previous sex life everything to see whether she would say the whole truth....I guess she must have lied about the ones she had slept with in her area. For her to not have mention those ones....it means she not not totally truthful. It is marriage they are going into...not ordinary relationship....so everybody must lay all cards on the table...it is better they both know their secrets now and be able to accommodate it....or separate...than know after marriage and seperate/divorce.....so guy...leave all those so called curses...dem no go anywhere... Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos
To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .
He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,
He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .
Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,
So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).
Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..
How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.
I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me
Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.
Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes
P.s I need you honest opinion .... |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by BeautyO(f): 8:28am On Apr 20, 2021 |
PoshTraveler:
shut up, u want him to allow a real og marry a used public toilet? thunder fire u there Fires you back... you lack proper thine training for using such derogatory words on a woman... Men like you deserved to be dumped |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Hassanmaye(m): 8:32am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Newboss:
You don't have to deceive a girl to fūck her. Girls also love to fūck. Are you sure |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Maobichek: 8:33am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
My life will never be wrecked IJN... yes karma is a bitch and I pray my friend will grow enough balls to tell the same of my wife too .. but I can bet my whole life on it that I will never wife a hoe You are the greatest prophet of your life, not your Pst, Bishop, G O etc . Someone shared a post on my ig and said: if speaking good to a plant would make it grow, how much more speaking good to yourself... if the guy in question is my brother, I will tell him and allow him to make his choice but if he is a friend, the kind of friendship we have will determine whether I will tell him or not. I realized that most ppl are condemning you but we should consider the future when we do some things, she might have repented (?) but in marriage, you must ask questions to avoid what you can't cope with, thank you. |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by ddeola: 8:34am On Apr 20, 2021 |
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| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Damseldammie(f): 8:36am On Apr 20, 2021 |
It serves you well, next time you will be minding your business.....
Mr. Tatafo[color=#770077][/color] |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Hassanmaye(m): 8:37am On Apr 20, 2021 |
simplepee:
See them wanting to have op's head. Omo, if men decide to be asking people who live in their gf's neighbourhood about their gfs, 90 percent will remain single all their lives. Reckless and wayward life doesn't pay, you can't eat your cake and have it. I wouldn't pray my brother marry a community pvssy.
Live a good life, man or woman. What of if he like the community like that, you people should judging abeg |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Hassanmaye(m): 8:39am On Apr 20, 2021 |
DrFunmisticGlow:
well, you are a male and not a female. A colorful sexual past is just as revolting to us. What do you mean by that |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by akaahs(m): 8:42am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Rhodaogunpeju:
I don't blame you.. later you will complain that your village people are hindering your progress not knowing you caused it yourself Keep running Ur mouth upandawn. Nothing ll happen to that bros, he's truly a brother who knows the bro code very well. If u like don't go and advice Ur fellow sister to respect their bodies and dignity. |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Hassanmaye(m): 8:43am On Apr 20, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:
Women fundamentally are aware of the polygnous nature of men due to men biologically having more testerones than the average woman , the primary sexual drive hormone, there is no excuse for women to be promiscuous, I can only accept very low body counts as I'm pragmatic and not an hypocrite This is wrong man biologically women crave sex more than men |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Olayetan(m): 8:46am On Apr 20, 2021 |
OP
Don't feel any guilty, what you've done for your friend is the best decision, let the said lady go and commit suicide...
When they tell them to think of their future, they will not listen, now, see what her early lifestyle has caused her future, she's now looking for an innocent man to take leftovers coochie to.
May God never give all the promiscuous ladies peace. |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by segun18(m): 8:48am On Apr 20, 2021 |
I am a man and I will tell the Op the plain truth. Go and use anointing oil to wash your head because that curse will follow you. I am a man and I am saying this. You lack wisdom and you are foolish.
Some of us did terrible things while in university in Nigeria , slept with different girls and it is my joy to see many of my ex happily married with kids.So you think you are better than anyone. All you should have told me the your friend was to pray about the relationship.Do you have sisters at all and if you have do you have, do you know how many boys they have dated?
Go and repent and pray that God will have mercy on you.
You are not a Saint yourself.
Go and read the book of proverbs if you want to live long.
Shalom. 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Akinridez: 8:49am On Apr 20, 2021 |
You did well by telling him. So mak hin friend go marry Olosho abi. Awon Marafuckers  |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Psoul(m): 8:52am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos
To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .
He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,
He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .
Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,
So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).
Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..
How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.
I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me
Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.
Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes
P.s I need you honest opinion .... So which Saint of a woman have u brought to the guy to replace your assumed devil of a woman he had wanted to marry? How sure are even to beliv the story that ur friend told you about the girl. Don't you think he was just trying to make that girl look bad cos they broke up. You are not an wise man. You have damaged two different lives. You better go and apologize to that girl else, you spirit will know no peace. In marriage, we don't talk about the life u lived before, we talk of what you are doing now we are married or about to get married. Guy I just dey vex for u. You are not a good man. |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Kingcalls: 9:01am On Apr 20, 2021 |
candygist:
Live your life, but you dey gossip another person life still spoil relationship way nothing concern you. Hypocrite U are the hypocrite... would u allow ur friend marry a guy take fakes that he has money when u personally know he's using his friends house and cats to deceive ur friend.... or wuddnt u tell ur friend to runaway from a guy that u know his past record of using and dumping ladies at will... is it not u women that still tell ur friend to leave the guy and that he's a fvck boy and deceives ladies with marriage just to fvck ... u are the bloody hypo 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by ahnie: 9:06am On Apr 20, 2021 |
some comments Sha. |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by PoshTraveler: 9:08am On Apr 20, 2021 |
BeautyO:
Fires you back... you lack proper thine training for using such derogatory words on a woman... Men like you deserved to be dumped i dont use this type of words on women, i use it on WHORES. A PUBLIC TOILET PUSSSSY IS NOT A WOMAN, SHE IS A WHOR E AND SHE BELONGS TO THE STREET 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by MiracleMe7: 9:14am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Don't be afraid of those curses, it doesn't work. Just hold on to the word of God in Gal: 3:13-14 Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law having become a curse for us.
Gen:12:3 I will bless those that bless you and curse those that curse you.
Hold on with this word tightly, pray with it for 3 days. And move on. Those curses are not for you.
This curse will only affect you when you put fear into yourself.
But next time if someone is pronouncing negative word to you return it back to him/her double, there is power in spoken word.
But please next time don't involve yourself in what does not concern you.
You are forgiven go and sin no more! 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Dre090: 9:15am On Apr 20, 2021 |
U are very right for letting your friend know the truth u don't even need to block her number cause of her curses, u simply have to rain curses back on her...U are a very good friend, i wouldn't forgive my friend for hiding such thing from me. 1 Like |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by IamAsiri: 9:20am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos
To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .
He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,
He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .
Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,
So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).
Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..
How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.
I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me
Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.
Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes
P.s I need you honest opinion .... Do you also believe that those randy friends of yours too deserve to have decent wives? Or even you, if you are like them? You will get the kind of wife you deserve. |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by IamAsiri: 9:24am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Olayetan:
OP
Don't feel any guilty, what you've done for your friend is the best decision, let the said lady go and commit suicide...
When they tell them to think of their future, they will not listen, now, see what her early lifestyle has caused her future, she's now looking for an innocent man to take leftovers coochie to.
May God never give all the promiscuous ladies peace. Even men who have had premarital sex, i.e promiscuous, will equally know no peace |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by generalwo(m): 9:38am On Apr 20, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:
Ok Sir
I don't believe in karma ...... Oh OK..... Meaning you feel you can do something evil and get away with it? Even the bible says, a man shall reap what he sows..... For the more carnal minded man, it says..... What goes around comes around |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Aidonboselu: 9:43am On Apr 20, 2021 |
There is a part of what you said I don't agree with, before you go into marriage during dating/Courtship, it is right for both parties to ask each other ....we are taking this relationship to the next level...is there anything in your past I need to know which might cause wahala in the future....all cards must be laid down ....nobody be saint....I as a guy I have dated...had sex..had casual sex with crushes and all....and I know she must have done all those also....to me I see nothing there.....we would just talk about it and freestyle, even if she has done abortion before .....I have also done in previous relationships...there is nothing there....cos I will definitely ask all those things.....the only thing I would wanna have issue with which I know I have not done before is PAY FOR SEX.....that is the only thing I can not tolerate...I see no reason why a female with sleep with a guy/man cos of how much.....go through my previous on this thread you will understand better. Psoul:
So which Saint of a woman have u brought to the guy to replace your assumed devil of a woman he had wanted to marry?
How sure are even to beliv the story that ur friend told you about the girl.
Don't you think he was just trying to make that girl look bad cos they broke up.
You are not an wise man.
You have damaged two different lives.
You better go and apologize to that girl else, you spirit will know no peace.
In marriage, we don't talk about the life u lived before, we talk of what you are doing now we are married or about to get married.
Guy I just dey vex for u. You are not a good man. |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by tunjity26: 10:01am On Apr 20, 2021 |
BeautyO:
As in.. how can a man gossip like a woman .. this is something women should be doing.. he deserves more curses just be honest with yourself "if the rich dude is your biological brother will you allow him marry such lady considering the fact you know all her olosho life style in the area" |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by tunjity26: 10:04am On Apr 20, 2021 |
segun18:
I am a man and I will tell the Op the plain truth. Go and use anointing oil to wash your head because that curse will follow you. I am a man and I am saying this. You lack wisdom and you are foolish.
Some of us did terrible things while in university in Nigeria , slept with different girls and it is my joy to see many of my ex happily married with kids.So you think you are better than anyone. All you should have told me the your friend was to pray about the relationship.Do you have sisters at all and if you have do you have, do you know how many boys they have dated?
Go and repent and pray that God will have mercy on you.
You are not a Saint yourself.
Go and read the book of proverbs if you want to live long.
Shalom. guy forget it in university far away from home but she na area olosho and the dude still wan marry her in that area guy have conscience now |
| Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by anoziechi(f): 10:16am On Apr 20, 2021 |
de guy na virgin  that was in the past what if de girl don change guy your mouth go put you for trouble....las las im go still end up with one retired runs babe....this world dey recycle |
