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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:16am On Apr 20, 2021
Mr Loveatha!! You and ur Eye-catching but contentious Stories!!

Late to your Party but you have not done Anything Wrong!! Those curses are watery n re just Rants of a Pained Girl..

Those criticizing d OP, You guys re wrong n Sentimental!!

is because if d Friend went ahead to marry the Girl who fuccked plenty Guys, n one day in d Marriage, one of the Ex comes to Attack d OP's friend n kills him, Won't d OP regret Eternally dat he never told his friend??

Also, We in dis Nairaland must Learn dat Our actions now have consequences in d Future..

If you re Fvckking diccks/pussies, smoking hemps, Taking drugs, doing Fraud (Yahoo), u must get a repercussion in d Future!!

Talking about Marriage, Even in the Catholic Church, When Barns of marriage is announced, dey would say 'If der is anyone who has a reason y diz two shouldn't be joined in Holy matrimony, dat person should see the Parish Priest!!

If somebody has damaging Evidence on d young couple n goes to see d Rev.Fr, dat marriage is jeopardized and may not see d Light of day!!

Dats y as we feel we re Flexxing as Youth, Enjoying Fine babes/guys, we must know dat der re consequences..

So Mr OP, Dat Girl shouldn't complain!! She is paying for her sin's!!

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Nobody: 10:17am On Apr 20, 2021
AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.

Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.

Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.

You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?

Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth



Karma ko kamoru ni ....let me ask you a question...if u have a close friend and he's about to marry someone like that and u ar so sure that she's wayward,ar u going to advise him to marry her? Though his friend should not have told her where the information came from....and if truely he loved the girl he should have continued with her.....I would be angry if my friend hide such information about fiance.....ladies nid to be careful imagine dating different guys in the same area, she's not wise
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by GUNITGuy: 10:18am On Apr 20, 2021
Don't worry my brother you just saved a Destiny.......
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by od501: 10:23am On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....


Oga panick not, god no be bomboy!! In fact god will punish you if you let that marriage happen. What are friends for? So...you should sit back and watch your friend get married to an Ogbo? A pussy NGO, a public transport, god forbid!!

We don dey tell African women...you can never live the life of a man, forget feminism, that shii doesn't and can never work here.

Be like your mother and stay true to a relationship, but they said no, they want to explore like Indiana Jones, when the implication comes, they find who to place a curse on.

May god punish her for wanting to make someone's son a scavenge; so baba will now carry home a pussy accumulated with different male seamen in the name of a wife? God forbid!

Guy return the curse to her, call her on phone, text her or anything and return the curse. But do this only if you are sure what this other guy said about her is true. If it is, fear not, nothing will ever happen. God is not child. She should learn how to live with the consequences of her decision, bad ones inclusive. So na her she will let her own brother get married to a Kezaya?!

Guy, you will succeed in life, you will have the best peace every man will ever dream of, you will prosper beyond measures, and everything around you will glowing like the leaves of the Savannah. But only if what you just told us here is true. One more thing, whenever someone place such curses on you endeavour to return it asap in their presence!

Nigeria gals will never learn.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by BRATISLAVA: 10:33am On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:
Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad

He creates threads like this every odd day. Reminds me of an old moniker who did this. Maybe now he's being paid to.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by luuvv: 10:45am On Apr 20, 2021
StPete:
Guy you did nothing wrong abeg. In fact, I will be more than happy to meet someone who would help me dodge a bullet. All those frustrated ladies above saying shit to you are just as plain guilty as the said bitch.

And as for curses, they don't fucking work. Anything that works only works because u have believed so. I don't want to give you personal experiences grin

I am very happy for what you did. When the bitch was busy spreading the cookie, she never considered the future danger she was putting herself. Let her cry me a River. She was busy moaning hard under the heavy thrusts of those niggas now she's crying crocodile tears. She can't eat her cake and have it. Good riddance to rubbish
. He is a good guy. I wish to be his friend. Can you see all the ladies saying rubbish here.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by CableWire: 10:50am On Apr 20, 2021
You say
Please, we've grown pass that stage.
It's now in the boys-court.
BeautyO:



As in.. how can a man gossip like a woman .. this is something women should be doing.. he deserves more curses
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by GUNITGuy: 10:55am On Apr 20, 2021
od501:



Oga panick not, god no be bomboy!! In fact god will punish you if you let that marriage happen. What are friends for? So...you should sit back and watch your friend get married to an Ogbo? A pussy NGO, a public transport, god forbid!!

We don dey tell African women...you can never live the life of a man, forget feminism, that shii doesn't and can never work here.

Be like your mother and stay true to a relationship, but they said no, they want to explore like Indiana Jones, when the implication comes, they find who to place a curse on.

May god punish her for wanting to make someone's son a scavenge; so baba will now carry home a pussy accumulated with different male seamen in the name of a wife? God forbid!

Guy return the curse to her, call her on phone, text her or anything and return the curse. But do this only if you are sure what this other guy said about her is true. If it is, fear not, nothing will ever happen. God is not child. She should learn how to live with the consequences of her decision, bad ones inclusive. So na her she will let her own brother get married to a Kezaya?!

Guy, you will succeed in life, you will have the best peace every man will ever dream of, you will prosper beyond measures, and everything around you will glowing like the leaves of the Savannah. But only if what you just told us here is true. One more thing, whenever someone place such curses on you endeavour to return it asap in their presence!

Nigeria gals will never learn.

Don't mind naija gals f**k bad boys when you are young and beautiful seduce and manipulate good men to Marriage when you are old........Oh Jesus help us all
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Oizee(f): 11:01am On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....
in my honest opinion, you have done absolutely nothing wrong....I once told my roommate back in BUK that if I have a reasonable friend or any relation that I'm not even so close to that wants to marry her, I will surely tell the person not to, she laughed and I told her I was serious, she is very beautiful. she's married now and we are still friends, but with what I know then, no way I would recommend her to any of my reasonable friend.

I'm happy for her now cuz she's happily married, it non of my business if the husband is lucky or not cuz who knows what that one might have done in the past.


we are not perfect, and I can't judge anyone based on their past mistakes but, I can't stand public toilet, u can't make prostitution ur hobby and be expecting a king to come for you.

if she was ganged raped by 20 men and u decided to expose her pain and secret to ur friend, I would have followed her to curse u as well....

as for ur friend that couldn't keep his source of information anonymous is a big fool, I can't risk such thing for a friend like that.

let her even go to t-junction in the middle of the night, get naked and swear for u, it will multiply on her head times 10, there's always a repercussions for everything, it's time for her to face it.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by NVSBL: 11:08am On Apr 20, 2021
Trey195:
Another tales by moonlight?
I swear down. This guy too dey post yen yen yen stories.
Mtcheew.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Nobody: 11:12am On Apr 20, 2021
generalwo:
...... Oh OK..... Meaning you feel you can do something evil and get away with it? Even the bible says, a man shall reap what he sows..... For the more carnal minded man, it says..... What goes around comes around



Tell that to the politicians looting Nigeria and their children
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 20, 2021
Hassanmaye:

This is wrong man biologically women crave sex more than men


I have scientific data reference to back my claim it's littered all over the internet, my claim is not disproving that women desire sex, but they lack the hormonal drive like men

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by temi1290: 11:47am On Apr 20, 2021
Reelmii:
see ladies talking as if they love themselves...if the guy had not told his Friend am sure one of the girl's friends out of jealousy would have told him, so why the noise


Nothing but the the pure truth, Gbayiii
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by EndRape2(f): 11:49am On Apr 20, 2021
The curses will follow you, that one is very sure, because you just destroyed sombody happiness, so the curse must work? How are you sure those guys slept with her, maybe your foolish friend lied because they broke up, reason I hate guys so much especially those ones that always sit together in street, they are very useless.


Wide mouth, you don use your hand buy curse and wahala, only you will battle with the curse all your life.



The lady should not be afraid, to move on, let her thank her star that it is still courtship. The guy do not deserve her for judging her with her past .


Assuming they are married that is how he will believe an outsider and kick his wife out.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by EndRape2(f): 12:00pm On Apr 20, 2021
He saved her from marrying an inmature fool, she needs a mature and responsible husband, mumu, what if all the guys saying they slept with her are lying? Do they have proffs, the girl should sue the fool to court for defamation of character .


Foolish guys like you, are found of saying they have slept with a beautiful girl just to proof a point,



Same thing happened to a friend, she moved to an area, always busy going to work and minding her business, that was how one guy on that street lied to other guys ,that he is the one ,banging her, and said all sorts of lies against her,

Anyway as I am talking to you the fools is in prison, for defamation of character, charged with 5million that his generation can not pay.


How I wish this babe can do same for this fool here.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Fantazy(m): 12:24pm On Apr 20, 2021
You didn't do anything wrong, it's your guy that did the wrong thing by by letting her know you are the cause.

anyway, chill, no curse is affecting you. you be real nigga
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by segun18(m): 12:26pm On Apr 20, 2021
tunjity26:


guy forget it in university far away from home but she na area olosho and the dude still wan marry her in that area guy have conscience now



You have nothing to fear if your hands are not clean.My response is to the fellow who thinks he is Mr perfect, Mr Saint. You are not the one under curse. Do you know maybe the lady has repented? I don't have any mouth to condemn anybody because we have all done terrible things in the past and we are all living by God mercy.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Plut01: 12:36pm On Apr 20, 2021
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We need more men like the OP. He is not just a friend, he is also a brother.

With this, he saved the Simpy man from future heartbreak, he saved him from raising another man's kid and indeed he saved him from a Jezebel.


As for that course? You should take it serious when the courses we Nigerian have been laying on NEPA people and politicians start working. Nah rubbish born out of anger and nothing more.


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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Apr 20, 2021
holatin:
I ve one in my street, 6 ex at 19. what about that......the shit I see for this agege scare me more than judgement day

6 ex!,that one nah sex mates,not ex jor...even the one of 3ex,nah fvck mates...
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by BeautyO(f): 12:54pm On Apr 20, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


He creates threads like this every odd day. Reminds me of an old moniker who did this. Maybe now he's being paid to.



Oh
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Anakazo22: 1:17pm On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....
What you did was absolutely wrong and evil, everyone deserves a second chance in life and do you know how many girls that your friend have slept with before now,we should stop condemning people and acting all saint, even Jesus will not act the way you act,am not supporting promiscuous lifestyle but since your friend never complained anything bad about the girl and it wasn't like the girl was cheating presently on the guy so I see no reason bringing up such issues to destroy their relationship,ok now that you have scattered their relationship what have you gain, infact all those her curses will follow you, you are evil,if the girl in question was your sister will you do what you did.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by TOPCRUISE(m): 1:32pm On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:





Check your sister too she might be a dirty bitch
Na so the thing pain you. You talk as if you have been sleeping around like her and wanting to marry a saint
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by DrayZee: 1:50pm On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:



Not defending prostitution..m just dropping my two cents on why I think the Op should have done.. He's wrong for interfering
If your bro was about to marry a well-known hoe, would you interfere or not...especially knowing that he probably wouldn't go on with things if he was aware.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by capnies: 2:03pm On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

what you did was wrong but her curses will not affect you because she's a sinner, only if you have God by your side. if you're conscience is blaming you then go and beg her for forgiveness if she refuses don't border again you have done your bit then ask God for forgiveness and move on
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by AishaYesufu: 2:26pm On Apr 20, 2021
candygist:


Assistant Jesus Christ. Even Jesus in the Bible did not cast that prostitute in the Bible. You carry region for heard but you don't know what the Bible teaches.
Jesus Christ forgave the prostitute yet everyone was still told of her past that she was a prostitute. The Bible didn't delete the part where she was caught doing prostitution

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by AishaYesufu: 2:28pm On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:
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True Love sees no past or flaws.... i

people marry known prostitute nd still live a better Life.,... Donald trump , offset just to mention a few
Anyone that turns eyes on past or flaws is foolish and stupid.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Warlord2014(m): 2:44pm On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:
Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad
shut up
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Warlord2014(m): 2:45pm On Apr 20, 2021
AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.

Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.

Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.

You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?

Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth

shut up...what do u know about karma
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by BeautyO(f): 2:53pm On Apr 20, 2021
Warlord2014:
shut up

Getat
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by BeautyO(f): 2:55pm On Apr 20, 2021
AishaYesufu:
Anyone that turns eyes on past or flaws is foolish and stupid.



You're a muslim. I don't expect you to understand forgiveness
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by AishaYesufu: 3:00pm On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:




You're a muslim. I don't expect you to understand forgiveness
Foolishness and forgiveness are two different things. Only foolish people allow others to blackmail them into accepting them after their secret has been blown open. If she has truly repented she would have told the guy her former lifestyle by herself and allow the guy decide whether or not to proceed, rather than hide it and pretend like all is well.

BTW if your conscience is pricking you, you better be prepared for confession or your sins shall expose you.

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