just in case you change your mind you can give me her i.g monicker

I go hit your head OP

Op, abeg since her past disgusts you , can you please break up with her and send her ig handle , lemme try my luck, you never can tell I just might like her past...

Stupid He -goat na him u be, you think say na only Nigeria girls dy sleep sleep around ko?
Oyibo girls na them worst pass..
Green card kill you there

..Ok.She belong to the streets. It's not your duty to try and clean her up. Be wise.

A very glaring fake story..

Thank God man is not God people like no go make us wan tell una our secret again anyway get what u can get from her what I mean use her to leave this jagajaga country Run for ur life

EmptyGarden:
Tell her to send you small thing na... Na so yahoo yahoo take start o.

See mindset. Change your thought pattern.

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

u could be the one that will change her,if u will not eat the meat, please don't share it with teeth.

The biggest dummy ever sold to you all is that the libertarian disposition of the oyibo culture confers its women (people) right to promiscuity and that they take to it unrestraint. Now I know why an average Nigerian/Black person always erroneously thinks that he's more morally upright than an oyibo person. Lol.

The truth is that an average oyibo person is more morally upright than an average Black person. They know the difference between liberty and indecorum and that the former doesn't validate the later.

@OP, if your relationship dealbreaker is multiple body counts, then don't enter a relationship with her. She's, however, not a standard of all oyinbo women.

Masturbator2020:

See mindset. Change your thought pattern.

How's your left hand doing?

Which kinda stupid questions do guys ask girls these days.....

Well no UnA sabi

It's Buhari that caused all these

ok

Foodqueen:
Don't mind the girl jare.

She doesn't know you are a Nigerian and Nigerian don't like the truth.

Lol

brainmax2000:
This op you no get sense oyibo body count no matter to them but if dem love you dem go love you die, na why slawomir ppl dey take advantage of them..

I'll rather date and marry a non virgin american woman (white oh) than marry a non virgin Nigerian woman
Nigerian girls no just get anything to offer

Nigeria girl na rubbish

Fake story!

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

Dude, do you want cheese with that WHINE?
Crying because a white girl you met on the Internet have had sex.

Obviously, you are both INCOMPATIBLE, so just move the eff on!
Meanwhile, pele about the failed anticipated papers and eventual passport.
>

Op Lifeisnotfair, you are still young so just go ahead and sow your wild oats and forget any serious commitment with any girl, or else it will end in tears for you. White girls are very liberal sexually, so don't disturb yourself. There's hardly any white girl that age anywhere that hasn't bleeped atleast 10 guys. It is what it is. Our own black/Nigerian girls are also catching up with them this days so relax Ok? Enjoy the ride and make sure you fick her too to add to the body count. You are in your prime so enjoy yourself with enough free pussy.

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

guy if u no want Beg link me abeg or if she get friend

Yahoo boys go fill this thread now, asking for client number. Bros no greee oooo

I thought it's a normal thing to say ' Nigerian girls are useless'. You leave Naija girls go meet oyibo, now you are disgusted.

What about your own body count??the truth is,focus on the present don't always look at the past...would you prefer she lie to you?

7 "Dark Secrets" of Psychology that are controlling you. (And you don't even know it)


1. Social Proof

You follow other people when you're under stress or doubt your choices.

All buy iPhone = iPhone is awesome

Celebrity tweets = High value tweet

Masks = Face with rolling eyes


2. Anchor Effect

Sale Price = $499.99

That price anchors your mind even before even considering the actual value of the product.

High Price = High value

duh!

3. Liking Conditioning

Ads associate products with things that we 'like' and 'Admire'.

Coca-Cola = Happiness/fun
Marlboro = Tough Guy
L'Oréal = Models with Silky Long Hair

Ah common'!

4. Subliminal Conditioning

Showing you images of biological needs like money, sex, and food that directly affect your "Subconscious".

You gotta be kidding me!Down pointing backhand index

5. Classical/Pavlovian Conditioning

Dogs salivate when the bell rings.

This makes you learn habits and routines that are triggered automatically.

Wake up = Toothpaste
Breakfast = Milk/Kellogg's
Party = Budweiser

5. Scarcity

5 left! Sounds familiar?

A rare item often becomes more valuable. It's in your primal nature to fight for limited resources.

I don't care.

6. Authority

We obey titles, big size and pretty faces.

- Colgate: Recommend by 99% dentists
- Work hard: School teachers
- Lift heavy : Big guy at gym

Now how do we question that?

7. Reciprocation

You have a built-in mechanism to return favours. And some of them are ridiculous!

Pain relief = $8000 Hospital bill
Leak in Bathroom = $800 Plumbing bill
"I love you" = Toxic relationship

Actual value <<<

The only way to save yourself is:

Think before you act. Be Rational, not emotional.

Thank you for reading

The book of changes advices we withdraw as soon as our heart begins to doubt. That's would be the way I would go now.

The OP has not even met her yet and he believed her when she said she had dumped her boyfriend for him. I dey laugh o!

hmmm...

Lifeisnotfair:
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.

About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.

We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.

She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.

I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?

Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.

Update:
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.

First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.

I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.

you mean they did thix to her?

Smh... You're in an online, long distant relationship with someone in another country, in another continent, and you're here saying you're disgusted by her past. Someone you haven't met before...
You have not even met each other to know if you're really compatible for each other, and you're already disgusted by her past. Lmao.