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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by WoundedLamb: 12:44am On May 07, 2021 |
OmoOgunOriginal: Really, if OP is not working and his brother is paying a reasonable amount of money just for him to live in a big house he doesn't even need, then I see a reason why a finance caution woman would want an adjustment. This is especially if she pools resources with her husband to run the home. Saving money for their young family is way more important than keeping OP in a big house (as he described it). Many of us want wives that will help us manage our expenses better but we're not happy if our brothers get such. Lol 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by dragunov: 12:48am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles: Bros, just give her your jaw! Act like you're not aware of her tantrums and avoid going to their house to eat. If you must go for anything important make sure you don't eat. She will pretend and ask you. Make sure you declinr politely. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by WoundedLamb: 12:51am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles: She didn't complain to you, so it's not your duty to tell her anything. She complains to her husband, let him manage his wife. Like you said, it's probably your ego driving you. You just want her to know you're the boss of your own... even though you aren't working. I don't even understand that part. Lol. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Ernesthugo(m): 1:19am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles:send the receipt you paid to her in WhatsApp or better still snap the money and send to her |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by generalwo(m): 1:19am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles:...... Bros the energy when you Wan take confront her, channel am into looking for a job.... Na see finish be wetin she dey do so....if you get job she no go dey reason say na your bro dey pay for house wen only you dey stay..... No worry all will be well... One day you go prove to her with your actions say you dey capable of paying your own rent........ Peace! |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by ZooOga: 1:31am On May 07, 2021 |
Op, go find your own wife if ur hustle be so good to pay the rent and receive ur own nagging. marriage sef. kudos to the happily married and non-nagging wives out there in the land. ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by observanc1: 1:56am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles:so, if u are not working, how are u getting money to pay for the apartment? |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by observanc1: 1:57am On May 07, 2021 |
niyiduke01:ask the right question. If he's not working, how does he get money to pay for d apartment? |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by observanc1: 1:58am On May 07, 2021 |
spinna:If he's not working, how does he get money to pay for d apartment? |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by observanc1: 1:59am On May 07, 2021 |
OmoOgunOriginal:how does he get money to pay for d apartment? |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 2:00am On May 07, 2021 |
Franckelv230:what? ![]() ![]() How do you mean by the bolded? we need more clarification |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by chloride6: 2:21am On May 07, 2021 |
Mind your business.. Finish. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by victorazy(m): 2:28am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles: What is wrong if your brother still paying your rent? Are you not her brother too? People dey o! God I thank you for my wife o! Because I can't even stand this. She is a pure witch. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by ddeola: 2:40am On May 07, 2021 |
Leave her alone. God will empower you very soon and she will join to celebrate you. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Paretomaster1(m): 3:28am On May 07, 2021 |
donbachi: I swear, I blame the husband though, and so what if am paying my brothers rent? The kids d warning I will go e her ehn! No woman should ever come between me and my Siblings...my business with them is not her concern.. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by descarado: 3:28am On May 07, 2021 |
If I'm in her shoe, i will be 100% legit worried. Yes, a new family especially wife ought to be worried where their income is disappearing to. That's the right thing to do. You don't work, how then do you pay house rent? And tomorrow if you eventually tell her you are the one paying( cos you will surely do that, forget all the mushy advice you see here about not talking) make sure you include your source of income. You lived with your brother doing nothing. In this present Nigeria? Hmmm. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by descarado: 3:33am On May 07, 2021 |
WoundedLamb: Even if she is not adding yet. Cos majority of our ladies get married as students,in youth service or job hunting. Her state of finance as that time doesn't matter as long as she is not stagnant but she has every right to know where their resources is going to. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by peak115: 3:34am On May 07, 2021 |
akanbiaa: So that what will happen guy? Is he/she giving her bribe. Someone said he/she is not working and you want him/her to be dashing out money. Na wa for youoooo 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by gbagyiza: 3:36am On May 07, 2021 |
OmoOgunOriginal: You see why ladies r scaring men from getting married. If the man paid the house rent with his money n at the same time make his family comfortable, I don't see the reason the woman should disturb herself. I believe if it were the wife's sister the husband is paying rent for, the wife will not complain n moreover, the husband told her he is not the one paying, can't she believe her husband? Most young men see marriage today as a trap due to this kind of occurrence. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Omookunnimi(m): 3:37am On May 07, 2021 |
Women fear them. She may be acting as an Angel everybody before your brother marry her. Now she is showing her true colour. Even if your brother is paying is it bad? May God deliver us from the evil women. Just move on my brother. By the time she actually known that you are the one that has been paying, she will be put to shame 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by descarado: 3:37am On May 07, 2021 |
Kubernetes:Why will she believe her husband when the guy isn't working? |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by descarado: 3:41am On May 07, 2021 |
This place surely will break some homes. It's filled with juves, lots of people from broken homes, mostly emotionally unstable people and teenagers not forgetting scammers. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by FireKing: 3:43am On May 07, 2021 |
Then my advice DON'T DISCUSS THIS WITH HER because she will never believe you. There's no need flogging a dead horse CountVersailles: |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Ingleesh: 3:48am On May 07, 2021 |
OmoOgunOriginal:She expects that he should get a job! |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by fortune1968: 3:48am On May 07, 2021 |
adadike:Not only married women. All of them . They misbehave a lot . Women abuse men too much yet they want special treatment everywhere . If possible they want special seats in the public transport . Yet , they play the victims while maltreating men . 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 4:24am On May 07, 2021 |
Women are generally of low mentality. If it's not a woman dragging her son not to marry, it's a wife dragging her husband not to help his siblings. It's just inside them. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by FirstbornWds: 4:31am On May 07, 2021 |
spinna: You are a wise man. Kudos |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by mozona(m): 4:52am On May 07, 2021 |
ignore her... let your brother handle the matter since he is aware |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by iampeterben(m): 4:55am On May 07, 2021 |
niyiduke01:Well said my mind here. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 4:56am On May 07, 2021 |
Op is not telling the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth 1. He has no job yet is able to pay for an apartment? A big apartment even 2. And he expects his brother's wife not to be suspicious of him? I would be if i was in anyway related to him. Op should tell us his source of income because i find it difficult to beleive he can pay for a flat without a job. Something is smelling here , and it isn't the wife's attitude |
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