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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 4:59am On May 07, 2021 |
JagabanDesign:Your statement in paragraph, 1. I am not working, and she knows. So, she cannot believe I can pay for the apartment which is quite expensive. She might be right, likely you knew your elder brother's ATM pin, and she has seen one or two alerts. How on earth can a jobless, empty pocketed man like your pay rent, when those who work 9 to 6 owes rent? |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Holaomoakin(m): 5:06am On May 07, 2021 |
Your brother is using her to cover-up not paying rent for you. She loves and trusts her husband biko. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by McEphiks(m): 5:11am On May 07, 2021 |
akanbiaa: You’re not being serious, are you? |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by akajos4real: 5:16am On May 07, 2021 |
Please, leave the POOR woman alone. She has done nothing but your mind playing games on you or you are just guilty of something you are not saying that your brodther is still doing for you. Let the woman be and if you have issues sort it out with your brother. I still wonder why people do not understand that when a man gets married they become one and things have changed. Yet family members keep bothering women in marriage. What most people dont know is that MOST women are those responsible for the men not turning away from their families not saying there are no exceptions but are very very few. My brother leave your brother's wife ALONE Oooooh!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by BigDickhead1: 5:29am On May 07, 2021 |
I hate rubbish....everybody is just forming good here...... That woman deserves nothing but packing her things from that house. ... She dey crase for head 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by coolcare(m): 5:35am On May 07, 2021 |
Ignore her. This is Just two months as time goes by it will be clear to her. However you can just casually tell her because you want to avoid making issue out on f nothing |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by showafrica(m): 5:37am On May 07, 2021 |
OmoOgunOriginal: She expects him to be thrown out let him come and do boy boy for his brother and her and una say the future is waiting self? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by walozanga(m): 6:01am On May 07, 2021 |
spinna: God bless u dear |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by WoundedLamb: 6:03am On May 07, 2021 |
descarado: Yeah, true. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by morule20(m): 6:03am On May 07, 2021 |
That ur brother myst be a dull baby, for her wife to be controlling him like dat, even if ur decided to be paying for d house until u get a job or get on ur fit there is nothing wrong with dat, a real brother that has d money can do dat for his blood.. So ur brother should act like a man and don't allow a woman that doesn't know how he made his money to control him on how to something for his blood. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by naturefellow(m): 6:06am On May 07, 2021 |
spinna:
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Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Hammergirl: 6:06am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles:Please ignore her. Confronting her isn't necessary. You owe her no explanation. Unless she tells you to your face , then you finish her. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by naturefellow(m): 6:07am On May 07, 2021 |
OmoOgunOriginal:or he would be jobless forever? No condition is permanent, even Buhari! |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by oluwaleokey: 6:07am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles: You are the problem here Let me reveal to you why she finds it difficult to believe both you and your brother? You mentioned you are jobless, so how on earth do you raise fund for an expensive apartment without your brothers support? Huh? Infact, me too supports her on this note however a piece of advice Don't ignore her I want to believe you have an Incase you be azaman, call her one on one, make sure you do not talk about the rent issue... just praise her that you have realised that she is good at managing funds...can she give you a professional advise on what to or where to invest so so amount of cash maybe two-three different investments or businesses. At this point, she will be curious to know how come blah blah Use the opportunity to inform her what exactly you do perhaps how you make cash, trust me afterwards she no go get mind dey argue with anybody on who pays your rent... be bold and tell her what u do... either ways, she would definity regard you besides its your life |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Frank83: 6:17am On May 07, 2021 |
Just note that your brother married a knife for himself and your family but to hers, she's a wife to her immediate family. You don't need to confront or make a comment regarding to it passively to her hearing. Go on with your hustle, God by your side, you will come out victoroously. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Mac2016(m): 6:31am On May 07, 2021 |
The type of husband we make these days is so disheartening. So no way to make your wife trust you on a petty issue like this? When it comes to accused infidelity nko? Many marry for wrong reasons. I can't proceed ever with a babe that embraces so much disbelief about me. What's partnership for then?! Unless that husband is of great questionable character. Also doesn't know how to manage situations. He's not ripe for marriage and he has married a wrong woman also. I see disaster loading.... I pray God avert it for them tho. PLEASE TELL HER just for telling sake. She won't believe you tho (babe wey no believe her husband that she shares her body with) but it's solely her right to chose what to believe. She's a very dangerous woman sha. Una go find out later. She's extra possessive and more dangerous than village witches. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Mac2016(m): 6:33am On May 07, 2021 |
Hammergirl:It's the "finish her" for me ![]() |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by patorial(m): 6:37am On May 07, 2021 |
Oizee:I wonder why some people bother themselves over little shits |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by showafrica(m): 6:38am On May 07, 2021 |
Nicklaus619: E be like me and you get the same character. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by ford101: 6:42am On May 07, 2021 |
OmoOgunOriginal:broke after her husband has given him money Abi thats how she will feel or think.he should make her see that he is making his own money.or even park out from that place.such a thing also happend to me.not really in this way.till tomorrow me and my older brother are at war. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by keypha1: 6:43am On May 07, 2021 |
Same way my brother wife asked in our annual December family meeting, if is only her husband will be bringing money for food in exmax, every body was shorck, while we are discussing an important things, even shame Catch her husband. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Franckelv230: 6:48am On May 07, 2021 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: It takes a jobless and no self respect man to exchange banters with any woman, be it married or not. Yeah, thh separated after long, for reasons best known to them. I don't discuss people's marriage. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by ford101: 6:53am On May 07, 2021 |
akajos4real:did you read the write up?the woman is the one checkmating him. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nicklaus619(m): 6:59am On May 07, 2021 |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 7:01am On May 07, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43:Exactly |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 7:03am On May 07, 2021 |
indigene:Exactly people aren't asking the right question. How can a jobless man afford an expensive house? She will soon invite E F.C C to his expensive house ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Steveagro: 7:11am On May 07, 2021 |
This is the kind of behaviour that makes the husband siblings ignore some of their brothers widows but when it happens now they will cook up one pitiful story to make themselves look like they are bn victimized 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by sinola(m): 7:11am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles: Has she ever confronted you on the matter ![]() ![]() ![]() Assume, you don't know what is happening and limit on your over familiarity with their family if any. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Johnsown1(m): 7:12am On May 07, 2021 |
Oga leave the lady. They will never stop complaining even though you show her the receipt, She will still think that is your brother that gave you the money. So let her think her thinking. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by JesusDWay(m): 7:13am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles: She will likely attack you if you do, let the two of them be. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Kingstanding: 7:22am On May 07, 2021 |
CountVersailles:. 95% Nigeria's wonmen are not kind and good to their husband family. What they only good at is for their husband to be caring for their family only. You don't have business with her the best is to report her to your brother and your brother's response will determine your next action. Even if your brother's is paying your house rent that is not a big issue na. Does she thinks that you can't make it more than her husband in life? Honestly love is alien to us in this country. We don't love one another in this country we only love ourself. I wish you best. |
Re: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Nobody: 7:23am On May 07, 2021 |
donbachi: That's why I pray to marry a woman who has her a career; my uncle's wife doesn't interfere with how my uncle spends his money on his family. I don't know if is her upbringing (ajeobor pikin) or because she's doing well for herself already. This attitude comes especially from women who are house wife, they just sit down for house they form financial advisor. 1 Like |
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