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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Lovecars501(m): 7:41pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:

Thanks.
You are welcome
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Born2winnx: 7:41pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


Oh pls!!!

I care about him , I do! It’s not all about red pills and shiittt. I really do care, I’ve never manipulated him for anything.
Come on girl don't be a selfish person..give him a taste of that pucsy.

For 6years he has been paying his dues.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 7:41pm On May 11, 2021
Born2winnx:
Better style...nigga finally had the balls to tell you he wants a taste of that cookie...after 6years..

He’s not a cookie type of guy.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by lilvicky68(m): 7:41pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


Na wa o. Friend zone as in how ? He wasn’t about feelings in the first place . He never mentioned it during the early day of our friendship.
Relationship will spoil your friendship..give him space he will come around later on..
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Born2winnx: 7:42pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


He’s not a cookie type of guy.
So is he gay?
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 7:43pm On May 11, 2021
Born2winnx:

So is he gay?

He’s not an irresponsible guy. He has morals .
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Born2winnx: 7:46pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


He’s not an irresponsible guy. He has morals .
Tell you what...he just wants to caressed that curvy àss of yours...he wants to dig your pucsy hole deep...he wanna makes you moan... gets you wet......creamy all over his diçk.....dude been fantasizing about this for 6years.... just didn't have the balls to tell you all this while.



Come on girl...Give him a chance babe.... you might even been surprised you had such mandingo under your arms for so long...u weren't aware.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Kebbiprince: 7:52pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly. sad

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!
Leave him, you can't keep using him

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Kebbiprince: 7:53pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


I can’t .
Leave him

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jack005(m): 7:53pm On May 11, 2021
This guy is a very responsible guy from all what the Op has said.. But I thought we have always been encouraged to date our friends? What else do women want? Nawa

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by paulolee(m): 7:53pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


Na wa o. Friend zone as in how ? He wasn’t about feelings in the first place . He never mentioned it during the early day of our friendship.
he never mentioned it for the past 6yrs?? dt gee na real simp abegi..

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 7:56pm On May 11, 2021
paulolee:

he never mentioned it for the past 6yrs?? dt gee na real simp abegi..

He’s not a simp . He’s a very deep minded guy, not everyone who sees a girl start talking about feelings ok?
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 7:57pm On May 11, 2021
lilvicky68:

Relationship will spoil your friendship..give him space he will come around later on..

Ok. I just feel thing may not be the way it used to between us.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Nobody: 8:02pm On May 11, 2021
This is one of the reason why I don't like having male as bestie because one day him go just shock you dey tell you say him get feelings for you and e go dey very difficult for you to feel the same way for am.
This thing don happen to me and I no want make e happen again because e no dey sweet for body ooo.

Just leave am make him rest.
If him vex finish,na him go call you.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Bigdik70inch2(m): 8:18pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


He’s no longer picking my calls. He’s unreachable. He had a girl but he broke up with her. I don’t know where this whole feelings for me came from. I thought we were cool about our friendship.

The reason why I can’t returned his love is cos I don’t want to break this bond and happiness we have around each other . I have a history of not being responsive to love. It’s very hard for me.

Putting this topic here is out of my frustration. What can I do to make him understand I can’t date him cos I don’t want to hurt him?

U just a selfish wicked bish.........
Leave the guy alone.......
Go make yo bf bestie and let the guy Breet!!

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Casham: 8:19pm On May 11, 2021
Right now, the best thing for the guy to do is to cut himself off from you seeing that he can't get what he really wants from you. The more he sees you, the harder he falls for you. So, really, if you are sure you don't want him as "more than just a friend", I will advice you let him be.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 8:19pm On May 11, 2021
Doja2000:
This is one of the reason why I don't like having male as bestie because one day him go just shock you dey tell you say him get feelings for you and e go dey very difficult for you to feel the same way for am.
This thing don happen to me and I no want make e happen again because e no dey sweet for body ooo.

Just leave am make him rest.
If him vex finish,na him go call you.


Hmmm ok , thanks sis. Lol



Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 8:22pm On May 11, 2021
Casham:
Right now, the best thing for the guy to do is to cut himself off from you seeing that he can't get what he really wants from you. The more he sees you, the harder he falls for you. So, really, if you are sure you don't want him as "more than just a friend", I will advice you let him be.

He’s one of the most realest person in my life. He’s not replaceable. I will try to let him be. cry
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Born2winnx: 8:23pm On May 11, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:


U just a selfish wicked bish.........
Leave the guy alone.......
Go make to bf yo and let the guy Breet!!

She a selfish bîtch indeed...after draining the guy wallet for good 6years....I pity the simp nigga though..

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Nobody: 8:23pm On May 11, 2021
Give him to me. Jeon see your replacement sad
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 8:34pm On May 11, 2021
Lollittaa:
Give him to me. Jeon see your replacement sad

Hahahaha, I will tell him about you. cheesy
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 8:37pm On May 11, 2021
Born2winnx:


She a selfish bîtch indeed...after draining the guy wallet for good 6years....I pity the simp nigga though..

Drains his wallet ? grin
Lol.

Una sabi make person laugh.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Born2winnx: 8:40pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


Drains his wallet ? grin
Lol.

Una sabi make person laugh.

Give him that toto
And fulfil all righteousness.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:42pm On May 11, 2021
Lollittaa:
Give him to me. Jeon see your replacement sad

Lollittaa my baby don't do this to me.


Think about our fairy-tale love.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Born2winnx: 8:43pm On May 11, 2021
Jeon:


Lollittaa my baby don't do this to me.


Think about our fairy-tale love.

Another simp nigga

Where hu na de root from self.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:43pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


Hahahaha, I will tell him about you. cheesy


Don't take my love away please.

Lollittaa
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:45pm On May 11, 2021
Born2winnx:


Another simp nigga

Where hu na de root from self.

Ur stress.

Please add gay. But because of Lollittaa I'm straight.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by undefeateds: 8:46pm On May 11, 2021
From ur write-up, I can see that the guy is a matured and responsible guy,and I pray u don't make a serious mistake by this unserious line of urs "that u never imagine having anything with him"

Watch him as he slip off ur hand, then watch as u start catching uncontrollable feelings for him, we don't know the value of what we have,until we lose it

And like one guy said over there, he lost it from the start,he should have play a mind game with u, u would have been d one begging him for love

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 8:46pm On May 11, 2021
Born2winnx:


Give him that toto
And fulfil all righteousness.

Your thoughts are irritating. Kindly refrain from polluting the atmosphere with your backward and rotten up trash coming from your damaged brain.

WTF! Dem use sex swear 4 you? Don’t quote me again. Thank God my bestie is the responsible type which drew me to him in the first place . If he had this low class mindset from the start, we won’t have had this great friendship. Fvk off !

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Casham: 8:51pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:


He’s one of the most realest person in my life. He’s not replaceable. I will try to let him be. cry
Permit me to speculate a bit: I think you are also in love with him. I believe you are only scared he may change when "love" gets in the mix. I don't want to be the one to tell you to give him a chance. Just don't let fear stop you from getting a good guy. But if you are really sure you don't want him as a lover, please give him his space. Else you will be torturing the innocent fellow with your friendship, and he can't tell you. It is like been caught between the devil and the deep blue see for him.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Starz825(m): 8:51pm On May 11, 2021
For heaven sake...what else do you want lady?...he knows your strength and weaknesses...
That guy is your man...you never envisioned him to be what??.... that's how you lose a good man...
Now if you come marry one sule guy wey dey beat you like fool...you now run to the other guy for emotional support...
I pity you...you might regret it ....if you don't say yes to him .
I for say make you pray....but then I guess your prayers are already answered since 6 years ago
Anyway try to know his genotype Sha...very essential oo

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:52pm On May 11, 2021
Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly. sad

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!

Give him some time to sort out the problem.
Don't too push urself. And worry not.

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