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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 8:52pm On May 11, 2021 |
Jack005:It does not always work. If you stay longer before opening up, you will end up losing. The young man needs someone better to be candid. women love mystery... not someone they have "see finish". 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 8:53pm On May 11, 2021 |
Assuming your story is true. Your friend just got wiser, even though it took him 6 years. He obviously wants more. You want to have all those wonderful experiences and cuff him in the friendzone - heartless! The fact you say he's a perfect guy but treat him this way suggests to me that you may be intimate with someone else. Please don't be selfish and be ready to lose him. Ginaz: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:54pm On May 11, 2021 |
Ginaz: And I don't know why I respect and like those who are not the cookies type. But they're rare nowadays. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 8:54pm On May 11, 2021 |
Hashabiah: To be honest , I did and later talked myself out of it . I’ve considered him cos he’s so sweet mannered and crazy same time. He’s like my nigga nigga kinda guy lol. He’s totally different. We have had quarrels but we always got each other . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by bigpicture001: 8:56pm On May 11, 2021 |
Foolish girls everywhere.... U cooked down described a perfect companionship with this great guy, but you don't want.. What you want is a money bag who is opposite and who you wit come here and complain about... Money no go kee girls 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 8:57pm On May 11, 2021 |
I888: Back off and stay off my thread ! Thanks ! *Roll eyes* |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 8:59pm On May 11, 2021 |
Jeon: Ya! He’s rare and cool. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 9:02pm On May 11, 2021 |
bigpicture001: He’s got money , he’s not broke !!! And Money isn’t the foundation of our friendship! 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by bigpicture001: 9:05pm On May 11, 2021 |
Ginaz: The foundation of friendship is for his to suffer emotional torture. And you to jump into the hands of an opposite guy that understands you...? Make u a dry make bad decisions up and down.. No ur head e go latter end.. Our work is is to say sorry 8 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 9:06pm On May 11, 2021 |
Ginaz:U should have just pretended like I never existed na.. BTW, I called u and u didn't answer. no wahala. we dey always fight, I know... Anyway, give the guy a chance. Your cocoant head still dey do this " I don't love easily"? na wa o. That kind man, another woman go just collect am and then guilt will start eating you up... |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by cayorday89(m): 9:10pm On May 11, 2021 |
Ginaz:You are the confused one here, it's advisable you get married to your best friend due to so many positive reasons and you have known him for quite a while.. My question is what are you scared of, what will go wrong if you both consolidate the friendship with dating having marriage in view? The friendship has been flawless as you stated above taking it to the next level will make you guys to be able to communicate and trash things out in a friendly manner as it's expected in case of any flaws which is inevitable in every relationship, either friendly, communal,workplace, religious or dating and other forms of relationship. Give him a chance and it's gonna be the best decision of your life with all the qualities you stated about him. Except probably you are in a relationship with someone else which you already stated is complicated, try disentangle any complications, think through it all and make the decision which is best for you. NOTE: You are already scared of losing him if you agree to date him which is like 20% lose, but the fact is if you refuse to date him, there is high chance of losing him 100%.. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 9:15pm On May 11, 2021 |
cayorday89:lol.. you really think it works that way for most women? She won't listen until another girl that knows his worth snatch him off. Those kind guys wey HARD to find. 4 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 9:27pm On May 11, 2021 |
cayorday89: He asked me what I was afraid of and I couldn’t say anything. Truth is, I’ve been to his family house , just normal visit as you would visit a friend till his bro told me I’m only girl he has brought to the house . We have a connection but how do you love with a heart that is unresponsive? Everything takes me time ! I’m not the “I wanna be in a relationship and fall inlove “ kinda person and he knows it. Not that I don’t care about him, fact is I do. I can like someone today and just get up tomorrow and don’t wanna have anything to do with you. I don’t want to treat him that way. I just feel a lot would change and I would lose this friendship I value so much. Like being free and happy with a human who is deep minded like you. I don’t know how to explain myself again sef , I’m tired! I will let him be, I’d be fine. First time in 6yrs I would text him and he didn’t message me back . I felt it . 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by cayorday89(m): 9:28pm On May 11, 2021 |
I888:And one thing she fails to realize is that, for the guy she is his go to lady, whom he trusts, very free with and someone he can confide in reason why after breaking up with his ex, he must have searched his life and come to the conclusion of dating her rather than looking for what is not lost.. If she had said 3 or 4 negative things about him now, it's a different case but it's all positivity.We could have concluded that he finally wants to reap all that he has sown so far. @Ginaz,if at all you want to give him a chance it's best you ask pertinent question as to his commitments if it's gonna lead to marriage if you are in for that now or in the near future. You know him best than we all do, it's in your court. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Nobody: 9:28pm On May 11, 2021 |
Ginaz:yes do that. Jeon, you can't take him away from me |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Nobody: 9:29pm On May 11, 2021 |
Jeon:straight ko, bending ni |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Nobody: 9:30pm On May 11, 2021 |
Jeon:Get lost |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by cayorday89(m): 9:35pm On May 11, 2021 |
Ginaz:A very dicey situation, my question now is how do you intend solving your like today and not like tomorrow issue when it comes to dating? As dating will one day become inevitable for you unless you have made up your mind not to tow that path. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by lilvicky68(m): 9:36pm On May 11, 2021 |
Lollittaa:Lol.. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 9:37pm On May 11, 2021 |
cayorday89:I get but our worlds are different, I mean men and women. From experience, a girl in a platonic relationship can look so good in your eyes that you would think she would make a good partner, then you push your luck and you will see a stark opposite... The reason is because women are wired different and this one might not be an exception. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 9:39pm On May 11, 2021 |
cayorday89: Don’t even know . God knows best . |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Remijuice: 9:41pm On May 11, 2021 |
Ginaz: I understand you now. Ladies like you are good for friendship. They can have your back any day any time. Spend for you. But the only thing is that no cuchie for you. For relationship with this type of ladies, just let them be. They might value friendship with their bestie more than that relationship. You might even think she is cheating on you. PLEASE guys, always know the type of women that should be left alone. But know when to swing to nackin, before it gets obvious in the bestie of a thing. She said there was a time she had the thought of relationship with him but later talked herself out of it. That was the time nigga suppose to strike. But he did not and lost it all. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Karleb(m): 9:43pm On May 11, 2021 |
A nigga has been friend zoned sotey... |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Remijuice: 9:44pm On May 11, 2021 |
I888: Apart from friendship, women are not good in any other long term togetherness. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by phazotron(m): 9:45pm On May 11, 2021 |
Ginaz: Leave him alone and stop blocking his destiny helper Confusion gender 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by cayorday89(m): 9:46pm On May 11, 2021 |
Ginaz:Yeah but you know better. Pay him a visit if he is not replying you at least to know his state of mind, very necessary.. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 9:47pm On May 11, 2021 |
cayorday89: His bro said he has left town. He won’t talk to me, I’ve been calling for days now . |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by molybdenum0012: 9:49pm On May 11, 2021 |
Remijuice: You got a point. He was supposed to have struck long time ago, but he dull. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 9:50pm On May 11, 2021 |
molybdenum0012: He was in a relationship at that time . 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by cayorday89(m): 9:53pm On May 11, 2021 |
I888:You are right, I was a victim, how she changed after a while I can't explain till today, reason why I asked Ginaz what she was scared of losing, they always feel they will be taking for granted but it's all in their head.. Too much romantic movies I guess despite telling her situations movie actors and actresses are is far from what they portray in movies.. |
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