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DWJOBScom:
That's why if una wan marry , make una check every details , e get why.
Forget big breast and behind
Forget she's from a rich family
Forget tall , handsome , confident , good job etc and just confirm both of you can work together!!!

Ever8090:
Send her away before she sends you to the grave. Your wife is exact the person that lives nextdoor to me, the guy parked her out of his house with her daughter. When she parked in,we got close and she told me all manners of bad things against the guy that made me think the guy was devil himself which I letter discover that they were all lies, whe I got to listen to the guys story, what he went through in her hands, I shed tears.. As time goes on' this angel have quarrel with 9 out of the 9 flats in the compound, 8 co-tenants, his mum who came to visit ran away on a Sunday when she was in the church, the cousin was thrown out in the middle of the night and another of her cousin who came to learn tailoring was also thrown out in the middle of the night.
As we speak, she no longer exchange greetings with no one in the compound and the woman that sells provision on our street is also a victim. She was giving quit notice just after 4months into her annual rent for her shop because of her unending quarrels with everyone around her business premises.

She slept with one of the yahoo boys on our street after that one left, she moved to the senior man that was the owner of the apartment, after about 1 month, there was "gbege" she quickly moved to another yahoo boy directly opposite the gate of this one's.
After 3 weeks, she left and now she is with one fat 3quater nicker wearing commercial driver, but for some few days now I have not been seeing them together again which means the normal had happened again.

Point is, I see" Sonia" in your wife, those kind of women are impossible to live with, don't force yourself you won't be able to correct her..

sisisioge:
Hmmmm....you need to calm down and completely let your sanity and good health be your top priority please. No need to kill yourself over her attitude. Thankfully, you're not around to witness her wahala first hand. In fact,if possible, block allthose reporting her to you. One day, her day of reckoning will catch up with her...until then, stay healthy.

DaddyRochie1642:




My position on this is,

I'm very sure that she was exhibiting these same behaviors that you hate when you guys were dating but you probably thought to yourself that
"If I marry her, she will change", thats where your regrets and Lamentations started, she will only get worse with her behaviors that's why people are always adviced to always be on the lookout for "Red Flags" that you know you will never tolerate during the "dating process"...do not hesitate to walk away from "Red Flag" behaviors you notice in your partner during the "dating process"

If you had walked away when you noticed this her "Red Flag" behaviors when you guys were still dating before marriage, you would have saved yourself from weeping and gnashing your teeth in your marriage.

The Lord is your Strength.

meobizy:
Differences in upbringing have arrived. Both of you have to slug it out to make the marriage work. You are willing to toss her out, forgetting that two parents are needed to raise stable children. At this point, disposing of her will surely affect the children. Your only chance is waiting till they both turn eighteen years of age before calling it quits. The worst part is once you jump out of marriage you’ll jump back in with the nearest female who shows you special attention. From there na more children than expected while facing the same problem you ran from but featuring another person.

adeayo1603:


Infact,their was one time my pastor came to settle some issues btw us,d pastor called me aside and told that from her behavior,what he notice is dat i can't change her that she is like a wood that I want to bend her.That if I want to bend her I will need to break her.its pathetic

adeayo1603:
Good day, my fellow nairalander.Please do excuse any error discover on my typing.Please I need you peoples advice on my marriage.l am in a marriage of 9yrs with 2 kids .l have been having this issues of getting tired of my wife behavior which is running me to depression.
Am the reserve and the quiet type of person but she is the opposite of me, she is the type that nags alot,keeps all manners of frds.Any neighborhood or apartments we move to she associates with people easily and in the course of that she gets into problems with people.This has been going on for several years like that since our marriage and I have talked to her severally on her bad behavior,at times she apologize and atimes she gets into a fight with me.For like 2yrs ago I traveled out of the country after I lost my job and since that time till date I still get complain from people about her from home and I myself is aware of some of her stupid behavior.
Recently,she got involved in a fight with the wife of a neighbor in the new apartment I got for them in which I was told the lady stab her knife on her hand,after making some inquiries from conversation with people.I discovered the lady is fighting her because she suspect and accused my wife and her husband are having an affair.l have confronted my wife on the issue but she denied,I am not bothered about if truly she is having affair with the neighbor because I don't have any evidence.But what bothers me most is this her uncare attitude and bad behavior upto the level of getting in a fight with just anybody.
Please people advice me, how can I send her away of my life without hurting my kids because am already fed up with the marriage long time ago but am just patient because of my kids because any action I take to punish this woman, it will affect my kids.
I am really fed up,I do have heartache everytime because of this her bad behavior.Atimes when I cautioned her on this behavior she gets furious and maybe later apologies,pls am really fed up.
I am just regretting everyday how I got myself into this kind of marriage.

poshestmina:
Your health and kids should be your priorities .