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Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Cashsteady(m): 1:44pm On May 14, 2021 |
Cant count the number of people who has come to meet me and asked me why would a fine boy like me be so gentle.. I hardly talk to people expect the ones I know and also find it difficult to keep a conversation going especially with a girl not to talk of asking a girl out I see many of guys talking to girls as if it's one easy thing ,and the thing is girls do actually crush on me but because of my gentleness some will lose interest in me.. pls I need you guys advice. |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Bola146(f): 1:47pm On May 14, 2021 |
How old are you?! If you are still a kid, kindly face your studies squarely please! Leave fine boy in one corner 6 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by lilvicky68(m): 1:49pm On May 14, 2021 |
One of my guy bin dey like you.. I bring am up.. now na baba for girls matter.. when talking to girls don't think just flow with her unless she no wan talk you leave her.. there's nothing hard there.. 8 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Cashsteady(m): 1:50pm On May 14, 2021 |
Bola146: 19 hardly a kid. Done with secondary school finished last 2 yrs 6 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by lilvicky68(m): 1:51pm On May 14, 2021 |
Bola146:Kid or no kid.. he needs to talk to girls.. 4 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Cashsteady(m): 1:53pm On May 14, 2021 |
lilvicky68: How exactly do you flow with girls? Cuz this what many people say |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Bola146(f): 1:55pm On May 14, 2021 |
lilvicky68: Talking to girls and your mate are thinking about our their futures will be bright 3 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by lilvicky68(m): 1:55pm On May 14, 2021 |
Cashsteady:Did you attend boys school? 1 Like |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Solsix(m): 1:56pm On May 14, 2021 |
Cashsteady:Oga go and hustle naija is hard 10 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Cashsteady(m): 1:56pm On May 14, 2021 |
lilvicky68: Nah mixed.. I was also gentle in school but the only thing that made people' like me was because I was brilliant and handsome 1 Like |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by lilvicky68(m): 1:57pm On May 14, 2021 |
Bola146:Does talking to girls darken future?? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Bola146(f): 1:58pm On May 14, 2021 |
Cashsteady: Think on how to learn a good handwork or how to go back to school. Leave talking to ladies alone, don't lavish your early precious time. 1 Like |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by lilvicky68(m): 1:58pm On May 14, 2021 |
Cashsteady:What's in a lady that's scaring you? Those sma teenagers self.. |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Cashsteady(m): 2:01pm On May 14, 2021 |
lilvicky68: Not scared of approaching a lady but the thing is what to say to her and to make the convo lively 1 Like |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Debzempire(f): 2:03pm On May 14, 2021 |
Cashsteady: Oga face yhur education....yhu have no business with women 1 Like |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by lilvicky68(m): 2:05pm On May 14, 2021 |
Cashsteady:If she's interested in you.. you won't be the only one talking..you need practical lessons.. |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by familier(m): 2:37pm On May 14, 2021 |
This is just me I'm 20 currently in my 200l Staying alone In a rented apartment, I hardly talk to my male neighbors talk more of initiating a conversation with the female folks...As a course rep and good looking also girls do flock around me trying to have my attention buh I don't fancy it cus I know what they want which I don't have in abundance for now. My advice for you HUSTLE, HUSTLE AND HUSTLE LOOK FOR WHAT'S GOOD FOR YOU BE CAREFUL WITH THE FEMALE GENDER AND MOST ESPECIALLY HUSTLE 4 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by blazepascal(m): 2:39pm On May 14, 2021 |
I was.like u when I was 19 you just have yo man up follow bad guys they will motivate u but don't do bad things |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by LikeAking: 4:00pm On May 14, 2021 |
Stay like that, There already too many useless boys in this country. U get? 2 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by zanshi: 5:14pm On May 14, 2021 |
If only you know the amount of power you have Go and watch Mr robot so it can strengthen and enlighten your mind. 1 Like |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by HONESTFACT101(m): 5:25pm On May 14, 2021 |
Cashsteady: fear fear I know by now you may have seen gals you liked played out the scene in your head and decided not to approach her......signing out |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by butterfly777(m): 6:22pm On May 14, 2021 |
Practice Patience and Progress, that is what you need. But note that gentility is not the issue. Many gentle introverted people relate very well. So, how do you get out of this 'loner' character in you? 1. PRACTICE relating we the people. This starts by being genuinely interested in people, and being willing to relate with them regardless of what anything you may I may not benefitvfrom them. As you adopt this attitude, you gradually start relaying freely as you enjoy the company. Just don't push yourself too hard about it and don't blame yourself too much as you fumble once in a while. 2. PATIENCE Be patient with yourself as you working your character. You won't be the most social person all of a sudden. Give yourself the time and patience to grow into the sociable person you desire. 3. PROGRESS As you do the above, you will gradually improve in the sociability scale. Enjoy the progress and keep improving. But let me emphasize that the first real step is not trying to be more sociable. The first real step is deciding to be like people and be interested in them. If you start by adjusting your mindset in this, other things can easily follow, and you will become more sociable. A trial will convince you. 1 Like |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by viczo(m): 6:44pm On May 14, 2021 |
If only I know how great u are look introvert are d most talented people on Earth,look am a proud introvert and today I thank God for my abilities,bro an introvert brain is always working, thinking and calculating we are smart pple,dat time u are always alone use it to calculate,plan and work towards ur dream,it has help me alot.no time for play bro 3 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Laurene: 6:47pm On May 14, 2021 |
Cashsteady:stop masturbating. That's all I have to say. |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Laurene: 6:49pm On May 14, 2021 |
Bola146:As a girl, I have to say you don't have Sense. EOD!! |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Laurene: 6:51pm On May 14, 2021 |
familier:quit masturbation. |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by eazykiel45: 7:34pm On May 14, 2021 |
Solsix:. na so o my broda, e hard lyk iron. |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Bola146(f): 7:44pm On May 14, 2021 |
Laurene: Exactly how your sisters don't have sense talkless of you goat 2 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Charmingrascal(m): 8:57pm On May 14, 2021 |
Introversion is not a disease. Being introverted does not make you a timid person. You enjoy your space You value serenity You don't talk when it is not necessary Introversion does not mean you should not have ego and charisma. Being a fine dude is an advantage, you talk with your eyes and gestures, that how fine boys introverts do. You don't need to turn to a parrot just because you want to woo a girl. Na! I am an introvert and I have had girlfriends. I f*ck girls too. Work on your ego Introversion is not subordination. 4 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Philipmighty(m): 11:05pm On May 14, 2021 |
Person dey reason on how to make money for this stupid country, you your own problem be say you be introvert nawa oh some people no just get problem 2 Likes |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by sanya4good(m): 11:07pm On May 14, 2021 |
Try and get interested in activities like sports, music, movies etc. Read wide. Go out and mingle with people of like mind. When people are discussing a topic where you are try as much as possible to contribute to the discuss. 1 Like |
Re: Help. I'm An Introvert And It's Killing Me by Harpyeagle(m): 11:59pm On May 14, 2021 |
I present to u the grandLoser in such matters. I'm just like you, most likely much worse since i no get that handsome part.. 24yrs already and still having those problems. Just that now I've already decided to face my studies and i kinda feel better. |
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