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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 2:46pm On May 21, 2021 |
Lol when did washing plates become a big deal in this life biko? How is it degrading? Its just an easy fvcking chore. Mtchew 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by GboyegaD(m): 2:46pm On May 21, 2021 |
Some of the things I read though..... You should have known the husband you married and think ahead of his likely reaction to such request. He went overboard slapping you however, it could be due to his insecurity following his loss of his business. I pray you guys are able to forgive one another and continue as a family. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Stanleyville(m): 2:46pm On May 21, 2021 |
BruncleZuma: .I choose to differ..you haven't heard it all... No be women again...theris more to it. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Lashist(m): 2:47pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy:See your huge mouth...did you know the way the woman must have told the man to wash the plates bcus he is unemployed??. Why didnt she discuss this with him in private before saying it in public...although 2 wrongs dont make a right as we all know but he should be very angry with her...and your mouth must be huge...see as you dey talk..i hope you marry thyself else your husband go beat you 11 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by richnankar1: 2:47pm On May 21, 2021 |
My dear, I don't know the manner or tune you used in telling him, but I see nothing wrong in your husband helping you out even without been told. Marriage is easy when there is understanding between both parties. Even if he has a job, he can still help you with domestic chores. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by chii8(f): 2:48pm On May 21, 2021 |
Your manner of approach, body language and tone of your voice at that time is what matters.... 13 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Tukor1759: 2:48pm On May 21, 2021 |
I'll like to hear your husband side of the story 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by IYANGBALI: 2:48pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hotshisha:mynd44 can do same |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Coldie(m): 2:48pm On May 21, 2021 |
EaglesEyes1:Employ a young boy or girl. U mean child abuse abi? Make she go carry person pikin way supposed dae school to come dae sell food for am in the name of wetin? Which kind local wicked mentality be that? I have seen a situation where an engineer lost his job and his wife has a shop, the shop is all they use to survive the man that's an engineer way don touch better money out of the fact that he knows what the shop brings to the tale he let his pride down sometimes, goes to open the shop for the wife when she goes to the market. Replaces her when she goes home to cook. The fact that the man is there helping her doesn't take anything from him, cause he is smart enuf to know the situation on ground 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by wirinet(m): 2:48pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick: You mean you shouted at your husband to wash plates - IN PUBLIC? You for bring your pants and bra also in public for him to wash. Girl you no try at all. No man, and I mean no man, not even SIMPs would take that. If He was working in an office, would you go to his office and drag him to come and wash plates for you? You have damage the core of his manhood in public for that matter. You better go with elders to seriously beg and apologise for your mistake. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Michelle55: 2:48pm On May 21, 2021 |
It's not the message that warranted the slap, it's the tone that she used to pass the message across. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a man helping his wife do the dishes as long as there's an understanding and respect in between. With please, thank you, you can achieve more than someone who thinks the world revolves around them. The man could have simply walked away and trash it out with her at home thereby earning more respect than before, the woman was totally wrong to have said that in the public as well. She could have gently nudged him to a corner with a sweet smile on her face and say "honey, please help me out with the dishes while I serve the customers or please be a darling and help me out a little, the customers are beginning to stress me out with lots of demands" any caring man would go the extra length to help his woman out seeing the state of things at that moment. I know that some ladies are quite saucy and nasty when they are opportune to be the bread winner of the house for sometime but it doesn't give anyone the right to mistreat the male folks. On the other hand, that slap should have helped reset her brain but e be like say the man no do am well, because she still get liver to table the matter for public forum instead of seeking means to apologize to her for the public disgrace she gave him, she dey find judge and jury wey go take her side Some people just don't learn! 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by habiham: 2:48pm On May 21, 2021 |
I believe if u don't tells him to do so he will definitely do cos he can clearly see you are busy , the manner u confronted him caused this try and beg him and maintain your home back put the devil to shame |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by edepie: 2:49pm On May 21, 2021 |
Godada: YOU'RE JUST THERE |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by imoh81(m): 2:49pm On May 21, 2021 |
We actually do not know what this very man is passing through in his home. Insult because he's jobless. No respect. Denying him sex and intimacy. Lack of communication. Manner of approach. Etc. She doesn't need to tell the husband but the husband would have have unconditionally done that if she is a good woman. Note : most times we are only managing these women for peace to reign. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Stanleyville(m): 2:49pm On May 21, 2021 |
Galaxydon1: That man has endured a lot...she didn't tell us everything.. No be women again. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by benicta(f): 2:49pm On May 21, 2021 |
There's nothing wrong in asking her husband to help her out as long as she asked politely. It isn't even about who's taking care of the responsibilities at home. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by temiyato(m): 2:50pm On May 21, 2021 |
If she had said it politely , its no big deal... The hushand shud be assisting her in the shop while hunting for jobs since its their only means of livelihood right now. We shud learn to tolerate , love and be patient . She will wash the plate if she had lost her own office job. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Berankis: 2:50pm On May 21, 2021 |
Cooking I know is not easy at all. I understand that you have also been over-working yourself since your husband lost his job and under pressure. You only just needed to ask him to get some girl around to help with the dishes instead of asking him to help you in the public. I also help my wife in public not because I lost my job but because it's our business and our money. You only made a little error, nothing serious. He will be back soon... |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Scap93: 2:51pm On May 21, 2021 |
So na only slap em slap you? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by PussyKing(m): 2:51pm On May 21, 2021 |
Asking him to wash plate is not bad but how did you place your words?? How did you tell him to wash the plate Girls of nowadays don't have sense, there is an attitude you will use in telling a man to wah plate and he will just do it immediately. Were you trying to divide the chores 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Oppavii(m): 2:51pm On May 21, 2021 |
No matter the condition, the man is the head of the family & the woman can be anything from the collar downwards ... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by WHITELIGHTER: 2:51pm On May 21, 2021 |
U told your husband in public to go wash plates because he’s temporarily jobless, you just sold ur husband to the public as u wanted it, and that was why he slapped the rag out of the woman’s head....no matter wat, help to manage a mans ego and pride in public, especially a man that once had it all.... 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Sholaco: 2:52pm On May 21, 2021 |
Madam, it depends on the type of the tone in which you used to communicate with him... |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by pfadom: 2:52pm On May 21, 2021 |
What an insult on an agonising husband whose self-esteem has been eroded by the losses? The woman now adds salts to his injury by subjecting him to public ridicule. It's clear that the man might not have issues with washing dishes at home, but in a restaurant. Very ridiculous!!! |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by dawngal(f): 2:52pm On May 21, 2021 |
Madam, you made a mistake. Men have a lot of ego and pride. What you would have done was to ask if he could help in any way. He could decide to help take orders or even do the dishes himself, but it would have been his decision not you sending him on an errand. I know it was wrong for him to have slapped you,he was probably trying to save face. Go to the friends place and apologize to your husband. 15 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Coldie(m): 2:52pm On May 21, 2021 |
richnankar1:Am telling u, all dz people here saying she's wicked don't know what life is all about. They think customers have time for such hassles, ontop say other places dae they left it to patronize u, u still fit no attend to them cause u waste time in serving, preparing the food, Washing plates only u cause u have no staffs, which is not your fault cause it's only her taking care of the family. Sth that was caused be her husband being scammed and not her. Only one woman goes to market, comes back, prepares food, clean the restaurant, serve customers, still wash plates, you can't even pity her and u are claiming pride. Poor people act very f00lish at times, if only they know that when u are poor nobody rates u, them no go dae send people 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 2:52pm On May 21, 2021 |
Elporo: They weren't sitting at home doing nothing. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Joshuafrank679: 2:52pm On May 21, 2021 |
She messed up pretty bad... Sorry for the slap though.. Just apologizing on behalf of my fellow broke man � |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Emmexguy123: 2:52pm On May 21, 2021 |
The truth is that he was afraid to do that because if you succeed on the first day you told him to wash plate in public,, tomorrow may be worst for him because many insulting women started like that.. So please,, always live within your strength.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by pharmagba: 2:53pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hardgun:....... more so in public |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ojasweb(m): 2:53pm On May 21, 2021 |
I could blame the man for slapping you in public, however, you should also take the blame for directly insulting the man in public. He didn't lost his business that day. If both of you have good communication at home, you could have spoken with him and encourage him to join you in the business so that both of you can move it forward while he use the opportunity to look for a new work to do. No reasonable man will flare at his wife for being considerate and polite. He lost his business, you mentioned it like 2 to 4 times in the post, which probably points to how you have been insulting him at home. Some issues are not settled by third party or prayers. You only need common sense and lower your ego. Do you think your husband would have tell you to wash his car just because he's busy fixing the electronics at home? 15 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by wirinet(m): 2:53pm On May 21, 2021 |
Coldie: To go open shop and sell for wife different from telling your husband to wash plates in public. I have opened a small snack bar for my wife. She dare not tell me to wash plates in public. She sometimes ask me to watch the donuts when frying, if she goes out to supply customers. But asking me to wash plates? - never. 2 Likes |
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