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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by IRALIFE(f): 3:30pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hotshisha: I don't understand you o. Since she took over providing for the family, she couldn't pay her staff and they all left. She had to do it all alone. It should be a family business. In fact if he helped, the business will boom more and they will have more finance for the family. She didn't need to ask him sef, he should have just blended in. It's not demeaning. They are a team. I don't know the manner she asked though. Probably she asked rudely. Whatever it was, I think he should have spoken to her about that rather than slap her. Ego doesn't pay bills. You can imagine he ran away now and left the woman to take care of the children. She is also running the shop alone. Who would help to pick the children from school at least? Would she have to close shop to do that thereby loosing some customers and money in the process. When his friend is tired of him, he will come back home and be the man he should be, addressing the main issues. Sincerely, I understand that he's feeling bad that he can no longer take care of his family through his business. However, in times like this, he should encourage himself. Thank God he set up the business before. Invariably, he is the one still providing for the home. He should join hands with her to make the business bloom. If he sees it this way, he will be at peace. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by SmartyPants(m): 3:30pm On May 21, 2021 |
This story is an obvious work of fiction. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Wanny20(m): 3:31pm On May 21, 2021 |
Is possible the tone, manner or expression you should was bad which you might not be putting here for us to read to make sound judgement. I wouldn't do that if I were him, seeing you struggling to get things done as I walked in is enough for me to ask if I can be of help.. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by TheRedpillguy: 3:31pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy:Its better to die a grasshopper than to take orders from a woman 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 3:32pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hotshisha: Mama_put is establishment you are making mouth with? He is a lazy man and too proud. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by adebwalex(m): 3:32pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick: Assuming Is me, I will remove my belt trouser and flog the hell out if you since you want disgrace me in present of your customers. That is the comment that will be coming out of some people mouth. Thou, wife you are wrong dont you have an helper that assist you. Abi na only you dey do the whole work? You better go find your husband and apologize to him for your inappropriate action. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Coldie(m): 3:33pm On May 21, 2021 |
Longman8:They are just talking. I have run a business before a bar to be precise, during peak periods sth as little as u waste time to serve customer can make them leave then imagine where u want to leave all of them to go and start washing plates, when other places are available where they have same food and sales girls washing plates. The man owes her an apology, some women if u leave them, they will close down that business come home stay with u and make it a living hell to the extent that u will be contemplating suicide or to go and steal, yet she still tried her best for the family. You only had one job it's not like u do it all the time it's just for the period, help her wash d plates at the backyard while she cooks, cleans attends to customers etc. You vex. Or is it the woman that scammed him of his money? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 3:33pm On May 21, 2021 |
TheRedpillguy: But you take orders from your mum,madam and landlady..hahahaha 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Ishilove: 3:33pm On May 21, 2021 |
She is not saying the whole truth. Self deception is the worst kind of deception |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by zedegit: 3:34pm On May 21, 2021 |
Jeon: A nairalander will say: "I can't like what I hate." If it were at home, it would have been different but to do it publicly wasn't right. Besides it was a transfer of aggression. Has the wife ever told him that before he lost his job? One thing about women is never start what you can't finish to avoid 'see finish'. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by madridsta007(m): 3:34pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick: Women that suddenly become tyrannts and slavedrivers because their husband, previously working, is financially down due to job issues worry me. Was your "loving" husband a tyrannt when he was working and footing the bill and you were just benefiting? When is the two now, "one"? Why do y'all suddenly turn disrespectful? why? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by elisho: 3:35pm On May 21, 2021 |
I need to bye that man drink he did well |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Adetayo1978(m): 3:35pm On May 21, 2021 |
You deserved it. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by TheRedpillguy: 3:35pm On May 21, 2021 |
Ninisun:Am a landlord stupid. I don't have madam, I run my own company. Rest |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by wirinet(m): 3:35pm On May 21, 2021 |
Coldie: Even thing is about approach. Before my wife got help, whenever she needs my help, she would call (my office is not too far away) and say "babe, I have to go out, please come and help me look thd donuts or the meat pies) or even to attend to customers. I will tell her to give me 5 mins and I would be there. No if the shop is crowded and she screams " come fry the donuts", I will ignore her. If she screams louder, "I am talking to you, come and fry the donuts", all hell would break loose. Washing plates in public is a no no for me. I could do that at home if situation demands, but never in public. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Obagreatdatoye(m): 3:35pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hotshisha:You are very intelligent...kudos |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:36pm On May 21, 2021 |
IRALIFE: You sef reason the way you stated and articulated your point why wasthing the plate is good and in the overall intrest of the family... That's acceptable But me walking into a place I paid my blood and sweat to set up and my wife tells me pointing rudely to the dishes to wash because some juvenile yahoo boys want to eat... Honestly slapping her would be the nicest thing my aunt, mother, sisters would do to her if they see such |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Whatshallido: 3:36pm On May 21, 2021 |
You are wrong by telling your husband to wash plates for you while you serve your customers . If you are in lagos, it is better you quickly reach your husband through his families or friends and apologized to him, tell him to come back home, that you wouldn't do it again, before those Lagos babes snatched him from you oooo. Because those Lagos babes, i mean working class babes don't really care weather your husband is working or not, they will clean him up and offer him a good job. Those girls are really desperate to get a man and marry. And when it happens the man will not even think about you any more. I'm talking from experience. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Qatar2022: 3:36pm On May 21, 2021 |
Franzinni:So you will wash the plate in this manner she say it? |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by walozanga(m): 3:37pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hotshisha: If she get home training , there are a lot of good ways she can even go about him helping her out at the restaurant. U see restaurant, and beer parlor female owners na their lifestyle be this. WHEN THEY GO DEY OVER LAUGH , AND PLAY WITH THEIR CUSTOMERS.. THEM GO FORGET SAY THEM DONE MARRY. IMAGINE WEYTIN SHE OPEN MOUTH TALK FOR PUBLIC. (MADAM PEPPER-SOUP) 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by GorillaApp(m): 3:37pm On May 21, 2021 |
CalmElder:Your last paragraph says it all. Once you go broke, that loving woman becomes a beast. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Qatar2022: 3:37pm On May 21, 2021 |
Jeon:Keep on fooling yourself 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
Ninisun: This is Nigeria, even a mere indomie or Suya stand cost money to setup... If it was cheap let her father set her up and still come to wash plates his brothers can sweep also 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Coldie(m): 3:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
The reason I beleive the woman didn't talk to him rudely and the man just assaulted her out of pride is a woman that's rude that's providing for the house, if u slap her like that she go change am for u 2 seconds, if customers talk anything she will tell them mind ur business 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by nedekid: 3:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
richmond500:In public too |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by erinatso: 3:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
Jeon:bobo talk |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Archtype(m): 3:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
richmond500:And the funniest thing is that she has workers oo |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by getbizy: 3:38pm On May 21, 2021 |
Gbest90: I think say na only me see am |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Frales6(f): 3:39pm On May 21, 2021 |
that's why they said you should marry your friend, not "am I your mate" husband. for me that shouldn't have been an issue assuming they communicate well. weda na those kind of couples wey dey live like roommate, only sex dey bring dem together. if not the man for use his common sense know say the woman need help and the woman for know how to tell the man. but las las the man for no beat her for public like that except say e get another thing wey dey vex am and he come transfer the aggression to the woman. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:39pm On May 21, 2021 |
walozanga: Sad thing the customer fit be one small Yahoo boy and him babe 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by MOVIC6: 3:39pm On May 21, 2021 |
It’s very depressing when a man is passing through life issues like this but no matter how hard life is, he doesn’t have the right to do that nor to do it in public, that’s very uncalled for, yes it looks embarrassing from glory to grass but at this point he should be a helping hand to his wife, infact if he knows how to cook better then let him do the cooking but since he is handicapped at that level, he should do the dishes or do the serving. “A supportive partner is a RAREGEM, not everyone can understand”. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by praiseneo(m): 3:39pm On May 21, 2021 |
Bad wife I reject your kind |
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