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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Augla1: 8:30am On May 26, 2021 |
Psoul:You too get sense. Just choose one; Olosho for one night or bottles. You really deserve a gift |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by BnBgrillNG(m): 8:34am On May 26, 2021 |
RightToReject: Ah han!!! What happeeeennnn!!! |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by sogud(m): 8:40am On May 26, 2021 |
Nacoss25: Tel ur wife to choose btw her male bestie or her marriage.... simple question because sum women re too stubborn to listen to der husband, give ur husband wat he want n let d marriage b in peace, except if der is sumtin btw she n dat bestie......der is no oda n better bestie dan ur partner, oda bestie cn go bt ur life time partner is ur better bestie...... caution ur wife n ask her to choose btw d male bestie or u... simple 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Akharmony: 8:40am On May 26, 2021 |
Sundrus:Too much wisdom. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by sonofthunder: 8:42am On May 26, 2021 |
macrodata: You have a point but the mistake has been done. He just has to use wisdom to salvage the situation else at the end of the day, he may suffer more than her. Psychologically and otherwise. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Dulfy(m): 8:42am On May 26, 2021 |
She is just 22 young and naive....just be careful on how you handle the matter |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by anochuko01(m): 8:47am On May 26, 2021 |
neighbourhud:It still doesn't change anything. Who is small is small, no matter what. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Shafiiimran99: 8:47am On May 26, 2021 |
Best comment so far. CheerfulGiver: |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by oyinda1599(f): 8:50am On May 26, 2021 |
Curious345:Be decieving yourself. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Lovelyn451(f): 8:55am On May 26, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:my dear no worry I get their time...allow me to address them 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Psoul(m): 8:58am On May 26, 2021 |
Augla1: Hahahahahaahaha. Unfortunately, I don do Olosho and I no dey take green bottles, If it must be bottles, get me a bottle of Cheval Blanc 1947 or Chateau Lafite 1869. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Vinnie2000(m): 8:58am On May 26, 2021 |
Osesedney: Kudos to you, Sir!! You re a Good fellow!! Dats wat the OP Wife's bestie is trying to do but she's still hooked n hasn't understood yet... The OP needs communication with his wife. N try love her more!!.. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by iKON11(m): 8:58am On May 26, 2021 |
Oga this is something you should have tackled during courtship not now. Some ladies sef, no man is supposed to have her attention more than you |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by eallstar: 8:58am On May 26, 2021 |
zeuss:Bro this is the best advice here don't joke with it. If she refuses to back off from d bestie after telling her u are not comfortable it, then get ur own female bestie talk to her on a long call always in front of Ur wife. U will come back n thank me |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Rossycee(f): 8:58am On May 26, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:@op take this advice.. Nice one 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Augla1: 9:03am On May 26, 2021 |
Psoul:Abeg, musa out security guy get one rusty gun wey him no dey use, him fit borrow for just one day, since na wetin dey hungry you be that |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:06am On May 26, 2021 |
Lovelyn451:If you say so,me don tire for these boys na ignore mode I put those lowlifes ![]() Rossycee: Thank you ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by omotoyossi(m): 9:13am On May 26, 2021 |
You married an immature girl. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ABANGWABOI(m): 9:16am On May 26, 2021 |
blahc007: My Son ?? ![]() ![]() You are really bereft of knowledge or common sense, success or no success in marriage has nothing to do with other life endeavors.. I can go on to list succeeful people in other spheres of life that never succeeded in marriage both male and female.. You said older women are better?? This is definitely the mentality of a sissy, weakling and one without confidence to go for the best but rather choose to settle for less, over used women.. Go and tell Ned Nwoko (Richman) or the average poor Musa from the north that are marrying fresh nubile women and keeping them in check this.. Summary, when you got zero balls, women would look down on you, treat you with scorn and disdain, doesn't matter if she/they are your wive(s).. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Psoul(m): 9:23am On May 26, 2021 |
Augla1: Lol.....I don't need a gun to get those drinks. I can afford it. You can come over if u feel like having a sip |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by GhostWisperer: 9:27am On May 26, 2021 |
Lovelyn451:Amazontopaz alternate, we dey wait for you |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by alizma: 9:29am On May 26, 2021 |
zeuss:My brother God go bless you. I don't just understand what some other people are saying. If she chooses not to stop, please get a fine girl to call you all the time and if possible, use her pix as dp pix once in Evey month, if she ask tell her the girl like to celebrate her birthday day every month and you can't help but celebrate with her. What nonsense, married woman with male bestie? |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by blahc007: 9:41am On May 26, 2021 |
ABANGWABOI: ![]() All this small small children insulting there elders on a faceless forum... May you not insult your helpers in life IJN... My son...I have dated both young and old... Have you tried dating older ladies or your confidence no reach that level...oya try it and report to Papa...anom here eche gi... Point of correction....I never equated success in Marriage with success in Life endeavours....But you can still have both...100% possible...Na only sense you need to achieve that...and that sense now..u no come get am |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Jeferious: 9:44am On May 26, 2021 |
sogud:If you see as I just dey look you as you dey talk your "choose between husband or bestie" demand. Common husband ![]() ![]() On a serious note, some people don't understand the gravity of their actions till you mirror them, or even get better than them in the act. If I'm in op's shoes, maka Chukwu, I no go complain even one thing. I'll even be acting as if I'm enjoying their conversations. But trust an educated Aba boy. I will definitely have my own bestie, who I will be inviting occasionally to the house. By then I've stop eating the silly girl's food, so that she will not poison me. Sex sessions...until further notice. Even if she initiates, I won't do it still. If she starts her own, no problem. I will go a notch higher. What I shaa know is that my madness must be higher than hers, whatever the case may be. ![]() ![]() The point is this: TERRORISE THE TERRORIST without lifting a finger on her or saying a word. You will see the same "22 year old" girl everyone is regarding here as immature for marriage develop "Aristotelian" wisdom by herself. If person dey craze, I suppose craze pass am. No time for akuko uwa 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by nairamaniac: 9:44am On May 26, 2021 |
Sundrus:na 3some u dey suggest so o |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Godwin25king: 9:52am On May 26, 2021 |
Anything male bestie is a no no for me. Though I don't think there's anything going on between ur wife and her friend... Just take your mind of it.. And if there was really something going on between them you'll find out one day if your smart to handle it.. My ex has this male bestie I disliked with passion, I eventually caught him trying to kiss my girl then, though she was avoiding the kiss he kept on pushing.. When I told her I saw the both of them she said he does that often but she never lets him but I didn't believe shit cos i know one day she go give in.. .Naso the feelings die o.. But I made sure I banged the living day light outta this girl before I called it quit.. Four months ago I heard this same guy was always beating her like a kid since she moved in with him after our breakup.. ![]() |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by MrSly(m): 9:57am On May 26, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Do you think the guy did have enough female friends he left for the sake of his marriage? So the fact the the girl knew the so called evil bestie before the husband met her has given the guy the right to be a trait to the innocent man's marriage? Sometimes I wonder If most of you female folk reason at all. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Friend22(m): 9:59am On May 26, 2021 |
obembet:Married woman? See,stop this feminists approach to issues. It makes no sense. The male is not like the female. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:00am On May 26, 2021 |
MrSly:Did the man in anyway say her bestie is evil?He even said the bestie is trying to distance himself from her so that there would be boundaries.So yes the girl knew the bestie before the OP came into the picture so he should respect their friendship and not try to tell her or force her into doing what she isn't ready to do. What forced him into marrying a 22 year old in the first place? The OP didn't leave any female friends he is just mature to draw boundaries which his wife isn't yet mature to do based on her personality too. And yes I reason perfectly |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ABANGWABOI(m): 10:05am On May 26, 2021 |
blahc007: You are just a sissy boy .. ![]() ![]() ![]() And everyone that has been in this game for decades knows that the younger the better.. Your lack of common Sense is so glaring.. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ABANGWABOI(m): 10:06am On May 26, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: A 22 years old is a full fledge adult.. stop spitting trash.. 2 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:08am On May 26, 2021 |
ABANGWABOI:That is my opinion whether an adult or not a 22 year old has no business getting married. Don't come under my mention to talk trash mind your business and get lost |
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