When the foundation of a marriage is based on deceit.
A Nigerian woman is dumbfounded at what she found out about her husband after their traditional marriage.

In her mind she ordered for a car dealer and got a mechanic after traditional marriage. This matter loud oo!
Cc Mynd44, Lalasticlala and all other super mods, make una do normal for this tori na
Lalasticlala where you dey oooo?? That woman later kill snake inside the husband car. Oya move am to front page boss.

Both are same Jobs abeg

Supercaddy:
Both are same Jobs abeg

Says who?

Oga Righteousness2 wetin u wan tell us about this na?? U just dey view my topic without giving ur input

Return their brideprice.

A marriage built on lies will come crashing down like a pack of cards.

That's how one scammed a woman I know that he's a pastor and a contractor. He proposed to this woman when he found out she was doing well.

Time to plan wedding, Baba said he had not been paid for all his contracts. Aunty used her money to fund wedding.

12 years down the line, oga has refused to do anything and he was never a contractor. Aunty is still feeding him and their two children, she's the one paying fees and all.

She done old pass her age and the man still no gree give her peace.

All you'd need to do is look at her and you'd see years of regrets.

Any relationship or marriage that is built abi founded or has its foundation on lies and deceit doesn't last no matter how hard you try to push it but come to think of it why will you lie to win someone over? Okay now you've lied and he/she fell for it unsuspecting hope you'll keep lying to keep you both going? Some people no just get sense and you that they're lying to should on your own find out if what they're telling you are all you need to know or is there a skeleton in their cupboard. The lady wanted/got what she's looking for,shebi she dey find who get car and counts in millions if not dollars so the guy poised as such for her so why the cry now,let her enjoy her marriage jare.

Car dealer and Car mechanic are not much different

They both deal with cars

Is she loving him for who he is or the title he holds? The lady sounds like a typical "idiot da eye fo lo".

She should do whatever she likes as does be d typical wife wey den wan use dance marry.

While I do not encourage deceits, theirs was just a situation of "canny man die, canny man bury am".

Romanoff:
Return their brideprice.

A marriage built on lies will come crashing down like a pack of cards.

That's how one scammed a woman I know that he's a pastor and a contractor. He proposed to this woman when he found out she was doing well.

Time to plan wedding, Baba said he had not been paid for all his contracts. Aunty used her money to fund wedding.

12 years down the line, oga has refused to do anything and he was never a contractor. Aunty is still feeding him and their two children, she's the one paying fees and all.

She fine old pass her age and the man still no gree give her peace.

All you'd need to do is look at her and you'd see years of regrets.

@bold:

Hmmmmmmmm

And so, no condition is permanent

Some mechanics are richer than car dealers.

But the biggest problem is the deceit, and the man's apparent lack of confidence in his career path.

Romanoff:
Return their brideprice.

A marriage built on lies will come crashing down like a pack of cards.

That's how one scammed a woman I know that he's a pastor and a contractor. He proposed to this woman when he found out she was doing well.

Time to plan wedding, Baba said he had not been paid for all his contracts. Aunty used her money to fund wedding.

12 years down the line, oga has refused to do anything and he was never a contractor. Aunty is still feeding him and their two children, she's the one paying fees and all.

She fine old pass her age and the man still no gree give her peace.

All you'd need to do is look at her and you'd see years of regrets.

But on a serious note, what took the woman good 12years b4 she got to know the Baba na “scammer” ?? Habaa that’s too much, she suppose don dey see some signs even b4 the so called marriage but she refused.
A cousin of mine who was dating a supposed clearing and forwarding merchant got to know after some months the guy is a fraudster, a big one for that matter......All thanks to my dear cousin for being an intelligent and smart lady

dochenaj:
Some mechanics are richer than car dealers.

But the biggest problem is the deceit, and the man's apparent lack of confidence in his career path.

Of course there are a lot, but honesty should be paramount in all we are doing. I no fit call myself wetin I no be, patapata make you no wan date me.

Mecka:
And so, no condition is permanent

Na everyone know say no condition dey permeant. But y u go dey lie call yourself wetin you no be.

GboyegaD:
Is she loving him for who he is or the title he holds? The lady sounds like a typical "idiot da eye fo lo".

She should do whatever she likes as does be d typical wife wey den wan use dance marry.

While I do not encourage deceits, theirs was just a situation of "canny man die, canny man bury am".

Baba this one no be canny canny matter abeg. Na that man gangan be the idiot as you typed, you can’t justify a fool for being deceitful bros.

illicit:
Car dealer and Car mechanic are not much different

They both deal with cars

Abi na, even Rewire and Panel beaters na car dealers dem be as they both deal with cars

Misternas89:
When the foundation of a marriage is based on deceit.
A Nigerian woman is dumbfounded at what she found out about her husband after their traditional marriage.

In her mind she ordered for a car dealer and got a mechanic after traditional marriage. This matter loud oo!
Cc Mynd44, Lalasticlala and all other super mods, make una do normal for this tori na

Wahala For Mechanic,
So Being A Mechanic is a shame!

talk2hb1:

Wahala For Mechanic,
So Being A Mechanic is a shame!

And what should be shameful in been a mechanic ?? I’m not one of those who condemns any legit hustleS that puts food on ur table..NAH!!! Even with my MSc I still dey follow my cousin go learn cabinet/wardrobe construction job.B4 I marry sef I no dey lie give ladies, I go tell you straight up say I dey jobless if you wan stay make you stay.

Why is he ashamed of his job?

Misternas89:

And what should be shameful in been a mechanic ?? I’m not one of those who condemns any legit hustleS that puts food on ur table..NAH!!! Even with my MSc I still dey follow my cousin go learn cabinet/wardrobe construction job.B4 I marry sef I no dey lie give ladies, I go tell you straight up say I dey jobless if you wan stay make you stay.

Not You My Brother, just generalizing ni Ó.
Í have a Mechanic Lady Friend, making millions monthly.

Misternas89:

Baba this one no be canny canny matter abeg. Na that man gangan be the idiot as you typed, you can’t justify a fool for being deceitful bros.

But don't you think she was carried away and didn't do her own background check?

talk2hb1:

Not You My Brother, just generalizing ni Ó.
Í have a Mechanic Lady Friend, making millions monthly.

Gotcha bro, no shame in pronouncing that legit hustle that saves one from being a beggar......abeg shey that ur mechanic lady friend never marry ?

What is the difference? As long as he is employed, that is all that matters. Meko money no dey smell now.

GboyegaD:


But don't you think she was carried away and didn't do her own background check?

She was truly carried away and that shows she’s been eager to get married at all cost. Some stupid pressures I guess, maybe peer or whatever

cococandy:
Why is he ashamed of his job?

I wonder too oo.

Misternas89:

She was truly carried away and that shows she’s been eager to get married at all cost. Some stupid pressures I guess, maybe peer or whatever

I feel it is more about the status of the man than the man himself for the lady.

GboyegaD:


I feel it is more about the status of the man than the man himself for the lady.

Now you “gerrit”, more reason u should let her know ur worth, let her know exactly Wetin be ur hustle to avoid see finish later.

Misternas89:

Now you “gerrit”, more reason u should let her know ur worth, let her know exactly Wetin be ur hustle to avoid see finish later.

I still feel both of them were canny otherwise, I can't think of how she never knew he was a mechanic and not a car dealer.

Don't mechanics deal on cars?

Whether you answer keke Napep driver or answer keke Napeb operator, all of us are in the same business sector.

Seen this happen before...

Misternas89:

Gotcha bro, no shame in pronouncing that legit hustle that saves one from being a beggar......abeg shey that ur mechanic lady friend never marry ?

She is single