I just left home to live with my boss at work, though I don't know him, he offered me accommodation for me to continue working for him.
Accepted the offer but on a second thought am afraid because his way older than me.

Jeeeeez Mannnnnn!
Naso!

It's not a bad idea depending on who the stranger is, I think this thing depends on who you're going to stay with, Living with a bad person will make you uncomfortable and look as a house help, while living with a good person will make your stay comfortable, I remember when I went to live with a stranger in Abuja, like I haven't seen him in person before, just Facebook stuffs, I traveled to Abuja, Kubwa precisely, the guy was damn good to me, I didn't spend up to 5k from my own money, and I stayed there for 1 month and some days.

Even when I wanted to go back, he was telling if I could still stay for some time, mehnn, me don't like being a burden to people Shaa, I told he shouldn't worry, that I won't stay before I finish his money

There is nothing bad in that. Its save your money for accommodation expenses. Just be a gentle man, don't go beyond your limits.

MitCHELL98:
Jeeeeez Mannnnnn!
Naso!

It's not a bad idea depending on who the stranger is, I think this thing depends on who you're going to stay with, Living with a bad person will make you uncomfortable and look as a house help, while living with a good person will make your stay comfortable, I remember when I went to live with a stranger in Abuja, like I haven't seen him in person before, just Facebook stuffs, I traveled to Abuja, Kubwa precisely, the guy was damn good to me, I didn't spend up to 5k from my own money, and I stayed there for 1 month and some days.

Same thing happened to me when I went to Abuja ,same Kubwa,Byazhin ,his mom made me feel more than comfortable,mama dey always even give us fried chicken or turkey if she notices us awake in the middle of the night ,Abuja sweet ,I could remember going to Soul lounge, Kelly para and Movida ,I don chop barbecue cat fish tire .Will visit again some days ...

Kingpee2:

Same thing happened to me when I went to Abuja ,same Kubwa,Byazhin ,his mom made me feel more than comfortable,mama dey always even give us fried chicken or turkey if she notices us awake in the middle of the night ,Abuja sweet ,I could remember going to Soul lounge, Kelly para and Movida ,I don chop barbecue cat fish tire .Will visit again some days ...

Hahaha, I swear, it feels so good to be welcomed outside your own home, well, this same nigga balled me at that same Kelly para, Evelyn Gargen (This was were my Facebook group hosted our hangout) and ACO hotel in Madalla, LOL, it was awesome mehnnn

MitCHELL98:
Jeeeeez Mannnnnn!
Naso!

It's not a bad idea depending on who the stranger is, I think this thing depends on who you're going to stay with, Living with a bad person will make you uncomfortable and look as a house help, while living with a good person will make your stay comfortable, I remember when I went to live with a stranger in Abuja, like I haven't seen him in person before, just Facebook stuffs, I traveled to Abuja, Kubwa precisely, the guy was damn good to me, I didn't spend up to 5k from my own money, and I stayed there for 1 month and some days.

Even when I wanted to go back, he was telling if I could still stay for some time, mehnn, me don't like being a burden to people Shaa, I told he shouldn't worry, that I won't stay before I finish his money

una dey fvck?

Some people are very friendly, they will make u feel at home while u are with them, while some are so harsh that u will hate the day u met them. But if ur boss is not harsh to u, then thank ur star and respect urself cos if u go beyond ur bandry, he will treat ur 4kup and kick u out

Lilpen3758:
una dey fvck?

Jeeeeez Mannnnnn!


Am a Guy, he's a guy too, I no be GAY abeg

MitCHELL98:


Jeeeeez Mannnnnn!


Am a Guy, he's a guy too, I no be GAY abeg

wait u be guy?? Sorry ooh I think na Michelle I been see

MitCHELL98:
Jeeeeez Mannnnnn!
Naso!

It's not a bad idea depending on who the stranger is, I think this thing depends on who you're going to stay with, Living with a bad person will make you uncomfortable and look as a house help, while living with a good person will make your stay comfortable, I remember when I went to live with a stranger in Abuja, like I haven't seen him in person before, just Facebook stuffs, I traveled to Abuja, Kubwa precisely, the guy was damn good to me, I didn't spend up to 5k from my own money, and I stayed there for 1 month and some days.

Even when I wanted to go back, he was telling if I could still stay for some time, mehnn, me don't like being a burden to people Shaa, I told he shouldn't worry, that I won't stay before I finish his money

I have worked with him, he's nice but you know when you get close to people, that's when their true colors surface I am optimistic he LL be nice

Emvico34:
Some people are very friendly, they will make u feel at home while u are with them, while some are so harsh that u will hate the day u met them. But if ur boss is not harsh to u, then thank ur star and respect urself cos if u go beyond ur bandry, he will treat ur 4kup and kick u out

Sacked me twice but still took me back apologizing, I dey fear wetin him fit do small shaa

Skyvexkent:


Sacked me twice but still took me back apologizing, I dey fear wetin him fit do small shaa

ur boss is friendly. U will enjoy him in the near future

Lilpen3758:
wait u be guy?? Sorry ooh I think na Michelle I been see

Okay

MitCHELL98:


Okay

where you see better person like that?them no dey again ooh

Skyvexkent:




I have worked with him, he's nice but you know when you get close to people, that's when their true colors surface I am optimistic he LL be nice

Omo just be careful

Set boundaries, Know your limit & never cross it.

MitCHELL98:



Hahaha, I swear, it feels so good to be welcomed outside your own home, well, this same nigga balled me at that same Kelly para, Evelyn Gargen (This was were my Facebook group hosted our hangout) and ACO hotel in Madalla, LOL, it was awesome mehnnn

Are you also familiar with gabi lake mall ? Abuja is sweet when you have a car of your own ,I plan to buy a house there one day sha ....

Skyvexkent:




I have worked with him, he's nice but you know when you get close to people, that's when their true colors surface I am optimistic he LL be nice

Yeah, True, Well, Just see as things goes.

Kingpee2:
Are you also familiar with gabi lake mall ? Abuja is sweet when you have a car of your own ,I plan to buy a house there one day sha ....

Yeah, I am familiar with it, I was pick pocketed in jabi the first the I step my foot in Abuja so I can't forget that area easily

MitCHELL98:



Yeah, True, Well, Just see as things goes.

Thanks
Surely

MitCHELL98:


Yeah, I am familiar with it, I was pick pocketed in jabi the first the I step my foot in Abuja so I can't forget that area easily

you learnt the hard way bro ,how’s life on your end ?

Kingpee2:
Are you also familiar with gabi lake mall ? Abuja is sweet when you have a car of your own ,I plan to buy a house there one day sha ....

May your desires be granted.

BKsoul:
May your desires be granted.

Amen and thanks ..

It is not.

I lived with a total stranger in the first two years of my time in Lagos.

I had arrived Lagos after a very challenging year in Benin.

You've probably seen people, cap in hand, begging for TFare with claims that their contact went incommunicado on their reaching Lagos and wondered if it's just a scope. Well they're probably true. But in my case, I elected not to go back.

It was fresh after the 2015 election.
Fashola just handed Lagos to Ambode.

There was this rumour that Boko Haram has infiltrated Lagos, so there was fear in the air and reinforced security everywhere.

In those days, any illegal waka can land you in Kirikiri.
You could step out to buy noodles and end up in Alagbon close.
Or go out to sip Jedi on Saturday and be standing trial on Monday. E bad like that.
So, I walked on egg-shells while in the streets.

I saw the obscured parts of Lagos. The Lagos you will never get to see if you're not at the mercy of the street- Dark, dank , taupoline and plywood Lagos.

Here substance abuse reigned supreme .
Everybody dey high on rubber solution.
Women dey bazz weed.
Toto na 4-400.
You go fucj mama, fucj Pikin.
Everywhere mad like that.

As I ran out of cash and couldn't risk becoming a resident of Ijora under bridge, I wired my sister who called a friend that called a friend.

In two days , I was off the street.

In a month, I was already employed.

For the years I lived in my new home ,
I never for once felt out of place.

God bless Igbo boys.

Man housed me and four other hustlers he barely knew.

In the morning, one-one we go dissapear into Lagos,

in the night we go gather till midnight dey sip beer and share exploits.

I moved out years ago but still feel at home whenever I visit.
He has proven to be the big brother I never had.

Over the years , we've become family.

Skyvexkent:


Sacked me twice but still took me back apologizing, I dey fear wetin him fit do small shaa

You've got another chance, he is a good man.. Not many people get this so don't blow it.. Listen attentively, be focused, do your job diligently, accord him respect & be polite at all times.. Do not push him to his limit.. All the best!