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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by crackhaus: 5:42pm On Jun 06, 2021
emmaodet:


The only time most women are hyperactive and know they have right and men don’t have monopoly is when it comes to SEX.
That is when you people will know you can also have side guys, you can also cheat etc but when it comes to buying gifts, putting their man or bf on allowance, buying car for a man, sending man to abroad, enrolling him in school and pay his fee etc women are always blind and mute.
Just call SEX and all of a sudden, they will be active and dragging right.
Mycheeew

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by crackhaus: 5:45pm On Jun 06, 2021
emmaodet:


grin grin

Bro, how far?
Longest time.
I am in your hood and plan going out tomorrow. Can we block?
My chairman, I dey oo.. It's been a while cool

I'm not currently inside the +234 area code.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by Karleb(m): 5:51pm On Jun 06, 2021
emmaodet:


The only time most women are hyperactive and know they have right and men don’t have monopoly is when it comes to SEX.
That is when you people will know you can also have side guys, you can also cheat etc but when it comes to buying gifts, putting their man or bf on allowance, buying car for a man, sending man to abroad, enrolling him in school and pay his fee etc women are always blind and mute.
Just call SEX and all of a sudden, they will be active and dragging right.
Mycheeew
grin grin

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by extol1(m): 6:11pm On Jun 06, 2021
mariahAngel:
Indiscriminate sex and lack of willpower will destroy this generation eventually! And it has already begun.
Accusations and counter accusations, loyalty and faithfulness means nothing anymore.
What a weak generation whose lives revolve around sex!
three gbosa for you
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by baralatie(m): 6:16pm On Jun 06, 2021
zedegit:
Some of my observations on some married women have made me realize that no matter how religious or innocent your wife looks, never ever, I repeat never ever vouch for her faithfulness or loyalty to you.

My cousin's wife is cheating on him. I eavesdropped and somehow managed to get her phone calls to a man and how she was dying like a teenager on heat.
You will be shocked that your accusation that your çousins wife is cheating is as a result of your cousin itself

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by baralatie(m): 6:18pm On Jun 06, 2021
doggedfighter:
Who gave you the job of observing married women?
The thing is that relationship can't stay hidden no matter how hard someone tries to conceal it.
Like my uncle told 2 is a crowd when it comes to relationships and it takes two for trouble to start
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by baralatie(m): 6:21pm On Jun 06, 2021
Bola146:
[ ]Irresponsible and useless married woman does that,[/b] no matter how you are good to them, they will still cheat lipsrsealed na curse or they think it's a pleasure lipsrsealed. For a married woman to cheat, why not leave the Marriage and stop placing curses on your children embarassed
Not the way you are saying it o!
Some women dey see gobe for marriage o
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by doggedfighter(f): 6:21pm On Jun 06, 2021
baralatie:

The thing is that relationship can't stay hidden no matter how hard someone tries to conceal it.
Like my uncle told 2 is a crowd when it comes to relationships and it takes two for trouble to start

He specifically said he's observing them.

Reason I asked.

Now he's observing he has seen so many and recently his uncle's wife. grin
Who knows whom he will see tomorrow?

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by emmaodet: 6:29pm On Jun 06, 2021
crackhaus:

My chairman, I dey oo.. It's been a while cool

I'm not currently inside the +234 area code.

Ok, I understand
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by baralatie(m): 6:30pm On Jun 06, 2021
doggedfighter:


He specifically said he's observing them.

Reason I asked.

Now he's observing he has seen so many and recently his uncle's wife. grin
Who knows whom he will see tomorrow?
Ok !
That means he has an obsessing and compulsive behaviour to see a woman cheat!
That in itself is a problem!
And basically people with such behavior can push couples into a sorts of problems if there observation turns out false

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by doggedfighter(f): 6:50pm On Jun 06, 2021
baralatie:

Ok !
That means he has an obsessing and compulsive behaviour to see a woman cheat!
That in itself is a problem!
And basically people with such behavior can push couples into a sorts of problems if there observation turns out false

Exactly, that's the issue I saw in his write up

And he won't know he has a problem grin

It will even affect his relationship with women too because he will be overly insecure and suspicious of every move.
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by Bola146(f): 8:12pm On Jun 06, 2021
baralatie:

Not the way you are saying it o!
Some women dey see gobe for marriage o

Then let her quit the Marriage, not cheating on her husband. Helpers will surely come to her rescue when people see that she is a single mother
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:11pm On Jun 06, 2021
Women cheat because men cheat,when men stop cheating women will stop cheating.

Men don't fcck themselves.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:15pm On Jun 06, 2021
Mstick:
Yeah the same blah blah blah.

It's only on the internet that Nigerian men pay bills without assistance from their wives even some absconded from their responsibilities waiting for the day their kids will "look for them". Is it not you men that are looking for what women bring to the table apart from cooking, cleaning and birthing your kids while all you bring to the table is a salary that can barely last a week and an STD riddled díck. What else

Of course society permits you to marry two wives, so marry two wives then? Clowns can barely eat two square meals but talk about two wives. Go and marry your two wives then?! Even the ones with numerous wives are busy sticking their fingers in minors bumbum.

You men go out of your way to hurt and ridicule your wives but you want to be loved and respected, it's only a "lost society" when women do what you do.

Talking about under my roof, your roofs are leaky fix it! TF? Our society is just a reflection of the men we've in our homes. See how poorly we are.

Like I said you paid bride price to the MEN in her family, go and take your faithfulness from them.

Only faithful men deserve a faithful wife. DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT TO BE DONE TO YOU.

Vision101,incase you missed this come back and read it .

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:19pm On Jun 06, 2021
emmaodet:


The only time most women are hyperactive and know they have right and men don’t have monopoly is when it comes to SEX.
That is when you people will know you can also have side guys, you can also cheat etc but when it comes to buying gifts, putting their man or bf on allowance, buying car for a man, sending man to abroad, enrolling him in school and pay his fee etc women are always blind and mute.
Just call SEX and all of a sudden, they will be active and dragging right.
Mycheeew

@bold,who told you women don't do all these things even in Nigeria it happens.If a woman announces it you will be the first to condemn her claiming that she is hurting her husband's ego.

A lot of women in Nigeria are feeding their husbands but are silent because they wanna feed his ego.Even you will condemn such man and claim his wife is the head of the home.

We know una nor be today Nigeria men get useless pride.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:21pm On Jun 06, 2021
Bola146:


Then let her quit the Marriage, not cheating on her husband. Helpers will surely come to her rescue when people see that she is a single mother

You don't mean it shocked shocked

In this Nigeria or another country?

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by Mstick: 10:52pm On Jun 06, 2021
My dear people like that clown and the band of idîots that quoted him I ignore. Is it not this same Nigeria that when a woman does all this she's tagged desperate?

Women are not buying cars for men? If I wasn't living in Nigeria I will believe whatever this boys come online to spew.

Is it not this pick one pick two relationship we've down here? Husband buy mattresses wife buy bed, husband pay school fees wife pay for uniform?

Most of them are surviving from women but women don't talk so they won't be tagged rude or boastful.

AmazonTopaz:


@bold,who told you women don't do all these things even in Nigeria it happens.If a woman announces it you will be the first to condemn her claiming that she is hurting her husband's ego.

A lot of women in Nigeria are feeding their husbands but are silent because they wanna feed his ego.Even you will condemn such man and claim his wife is the head of the home.

We know una nor be today Nigeria men get useless pride.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 11:01pm On Jun 06, 2021
Mstick:
My dear people like that clown and the band of idîots that quoted him I ignore. Is it not this same Nigeria that when a woman does all this she's tagged desperate?

Women are not buying cars for men? If I wasn't living in Nigeria I will believe whatever this boys come online to spew.

Is it not this pick one pick two relationship we've down here? Husband buy mattresses wife buy bed, husband pay school fees wife pay for uniform?

Most of them are surviving from women but women don't talk so they won't be tagged rude or boastful.

I know of two women who put their husbands through a master's degree and paid for it in Nigeria.I know of a man whom his own wife gave him the car she bought,the woman barely uses it but the husband done turn am to him own but will go outside and tell his friends he bought it.

If not for personal relationships with these women I won't even know this,that goes to show you how a lot of women are covering for their husbands so that they will still feel good about themselves and in charge because they were raised to believe that a man's worth is in what he can provide.

These urchins on nairaland's just want to yab women some of them were single handedly trained by their mothers but will come online to spill trash about Nigerian women even young girls are not left out oo they feed their boyfriends too but their boyfriends will come on nairaland to trash women.In universities some babes go use their money buy food items cook give their boyfriends make dem chop but they will not say anything unless tell their closed friends.When women come out to say all these things these urchins will tag her desperate as you claim and will say she isn't wise to respect her husband and she is hurting his ego and authority in the home but it is okay for men to insult and undermine women like they are doing here on a daily basis

A lot of Nigerian couples are interdependent on each other especially with the state of the economy they divide the finances and responsibility it is only on nairaland that women depend on men and men are the sole providers

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by Mstick: 11:17pm On Jun 06, 2021
Thank you!

I know lots and lots of women like this, one's currently building and the husband's the "contractor/civil engineer" I cannot count how many times she has sent money to him even for the cheapest thing sometimes I borrow her but she will always say "my husband's building our house". The crazy thing is, whenever they see their wives making more money than them they either become jealous or totally lazy and unproductive.

Some don't even pay fees, they're just sitting and waiting for their kids to grow up and "look for them"

Like I said the Nigerian men are reflection of our government/politicians. Cheats with no honor, fear of law or God. How can they respect the Constitution when they cannot even respect their wives who's supposed to be their own flesh and blood.


AmazonTopaz:

I know of two women who put their husbands through a master's degree and paid for it in Nigeria.I know of a man whom his own wife gave him the car she bought,the woman barely uses it but the husband done turn am to him own but will go outside and tell his friends he bought it.

If not for personal relationships with these women I won't even know this,that goes to show you how a lot of women are covering for their husbands so that they will still feel good about themselves and in charge because they were raised to believe that a man's worth is in what he can provide.

These urchins on nairaland's just want to yab women some of them were single handedly trained by their mothers but will come online to spill trash about Nigerian women even young girls are not left out oo they feed their boyfriends too but their boyfriends will come on nairaland to trash women.In universities some babes go use their money buy food items cook give their boyfriends make dem chop but they will not say anything unless tell their closed friends.When women come out to say all these things these urchins will tag her desperate as you claim and will say she isn't wise to respect her husband and she is hurting his ego ana authority in the home but it is okay for men to insult and undermine women like they are doing here on a daily basis

A lot of Nigerian couples are interdependent on each other especially with the state of the economy they divide the finances and responsibility it is only on nairaland that women depend on men and men are the sole providers

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by efficiencie(m): 12:08am On Jun 07, 2021
zedegit:
Some of my observations on some married women have made me realize that no matter how religious or innocent your wife looks, never ever, I repeat never ever vouch for her faithfulness or loyalty to you.

My cousin's wife is cheating on him. I eavesdropped and somehow managed to get her phone calls to a man and how she was dying like a teenager on heat.

That is what happens when one insists on marrying a sexually experienced hoe instead of a virgin. Marry a virgin and you won't have any of these issues...a virgin is a blank slate. A virgin will easily adapt to the boundaries of pleasure, pain, wealth, lack etc set for her...but a hoe, is a public toilet, that has been with several men before she got married. She has had her boundaries set by multiple men and she may struggle with adapting to the boundaries set by her husband. Imagine a virgin that has not known any man. A 4-inch d**k will drive her nuts easily but an 6-inch husband will struggle to satisfy a hoe that can comfortably masturbate with the base of an empty bottle of Heineken. So if you want to play safe, marry a virgin and groom her to your taste but if you want to be unfortunate in life marry a hoe and you will share her with your classmates, bosses, neighbors, fake pastors, babalawo, alfas and ofcourse your close friends.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by BRATISLAVA: 4:07am On Jun 07, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


@bold,who told you women don't do all these things even in Nigeria it happens.If a woman announces it you will be the first to condemn her claiming that she is hurting her husband's ego.

A lot of women in Nigeria are feeding their husbands but are silent because they wanna feed his ego.Even you will condemn such man and claim his wife is the head of the home.

We know una nor be today Nigeria men get useless pride.

They hate the truth, even those who are still suckling their mother and girlfriends teats.

Afterwards they come online with that energy to beat their sunken chests.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:58am On Jun 07, 2021
Mstick:
Thank you!

I know lots and lots of women like this, one's currently building and the husband's the "contractor/civil engineer" I cannot count how many times she has sent money to him even for the cheapest thing sometimes I borrow her but she will always say "my husband's building our house". The crazy thing is, whenever they see their wives making more money than them they either become jealous or totally lazy and unproductive.

Some don't even pay fees, they're just sitting and waiting for their kids to grow up and "look for them"

Like I said the Nigerian men are reflection of our government/politicians. Cheats with no honor, fear of law or God. How can they respect the Constitution when they cannot even respect their wives who's supposed to be their own flesh and blood.


Nothing but the truth is what you just summarised.

Another thing is that if the husband's are not jealous of their wives success they will use it to their advantage and control all her finances indirectly just as this your friend's husband is the one building their house now.If it was the man doing it the wife won't even be aware or will have less input,many of such men take the driving seats but when it is them providing their wives will still take the back seat and have little interest in things like these.

The ones that don't pay fees are the worse I personally have no problem with a woman taking care of the family if she is capable but I dislike lazy men and women who take advantage of the spouse's goodwill some women are guilty of this too.

The way marriage is today times have changed but Nigerian men are aware of this change and still wanna eat their cake and have it ooo.

Abroad the marriage is a partnership since the woman is also financially okay and responsibilities are shared but a Nigerian man will still wanna control you and your finances and still remain lord and saviour instead of being a partner not all men are like that sha but I will always advice Nigerian women to look before they leap.The most annoying error is when a woman is working and assisting financially and some heartless men will still leave the domestic chores for her to do alone that is wickedness when you see some marriages in this country marriage nor go interest you to enter at all.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 6:58am On Jun 07, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


They hate the truth, even those who are still suckling their mother and girlfriends teats.

Afterwards they come online with that energy to beat their sunken chests.

grin grin

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:45am On Jun 07, 2021
efficiencie:


That is what happens when one insists on marrying a sexually experienced hoe instead of a virgin. Marry a virgin and you won't have any of these issues...a virgin is a blank slate. A virgin will easily adapt to the boundaries of pleasure, pain, wealth, lack etc set for her...but a hoe, is a public toilet, that has been with several men before she got married. She has had her boundaries set by multiple men and she may struggle with adapting to the boundaries set by her husband. Imagine a virgin that has not known any man. A 4-inch d**k will drive her nuts easily but an 6-inch husband will struggle to satisfy a hoe that can comfortably masturbate with the base of an empty bottle of Heineken. So if you want to play safe, marry a virgin and groom her to your taste but if you want to be unfortunate in life marry a hoe and you will share her with your classmates, bosses, neighbors, fake pastors, babalawo, alfas and ofcourse your close friends.
Are you a vrigin?if you are not keep shut.This advice you are giving is it firsthand experience or beer parlor talk undecided

The way you local boys think you can control women's bodies and sexual needs is annoying.Is it only men that have the right to taste multiple pussies before marriage and still cheat because they will say their wives pussies are slacked but when women give you a taste of your own medicine you will be talking trash that they should marry virgins.You are in for a long thing if you think virgins don't cheat you are obviously a novice feeling funky on nairaland

How do you men expect to marry virgins when you go about sleeping with everything on skirt who wan marry the women wey una dey fcck before marriage?Your kind of person will never date a virgin without fccking her but will come on nairaland to spill trash and give advice you cannot take.Instead of you to urge men to stop cheating because women don't fcck themselves you are here giving stupid rants about virgins who still cheat and get cheated on if they end up marrying dogs in form of men.

You are taking like as if you are a woman with first hand knowledge of how women reason but you are not you are just blabbing rubbish.As a woman I will give you the right information a woman who will cheat virgin or not will cheat it is not by the amount of dicks that will make her cheat but by the environment,personality and who knows the kind of man she marries can play a factor into it too.Stop making silly assumptions the OP's cousin may have even married his wife a virgin so thinking that marrying a virgin who is naive will not cheat only shows how novice you are when it comes to women.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by BRATISLAVA: 9:49am On Jun 07, 2021
AmazonTopaz:

Are you a vrigin?if you are not keep shut.This advice you are giving is it firsthand experience or beer parlor talk undecided

The way you local boys think you can control women's bodies and sexual needs is annoying.Is it only men that have the right to taste multiple pussies before marriage and still cheat because they will say their wives pussies are slacked but when women give you a taste of your own medicine you will be talking trash that they should marry virgins.You are in for a long thing if you think virgins don't cheat you are obviously a novice feeling funky on nairaland

How do you men expect to marry virgins when you go about sleeping with everything on skirt who wan marry the women wey una dey fcck before marriage?Your kind of person will never date a virgin without fccking her but will come on nairaland to spill trash and give advice you cannot take.Instead of you to urge men to stop cheating because women don't fcck themselves you are here giving stupid rants about virgins who still cheat and get cheated on if they end up marrying dogs in form of men.

You are taking like as if you are a woman with first hand knowledge of how women reason but you are not you are just blabbing rubbish.As a woman I will give you the right information a woman who will cheat virgin or not will cheat it is not by the amount of dicks that will make her cheat but by the environment,personality and who knows the kind of man she marries can play a factor into it too.Stop making silly assumptions the OP's cousin may have even married his wife a virgin so thinking that marrying a virgin who is naive will not cheat only shows how novice you are when it comes to women.

K.O.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 11:23am On Jun 07, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


K.O.
What does it mean cheesy

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by BRATISLAVA: 11:40am On Jun 07, 2021
AmazonTopaz:

What does it mean cheesy

Knock out! grin

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by lilvicky68(m): 11:47am On Jun 07, 2021
AmazonTopaz:

What does it mean cheesy
Kevin Owens
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 11:48am On Jun 07, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


Knock out! grin
Okay I have taken note of that grin

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by BRATISLAVA: 11:49am On Jun 07, 2021
AmazonTopaz:

Okay I have taken note of that grin
grin

Go easy on them, plzzzzz.

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by AmazonTopaz(f): 11:50am On Jun 07, 2021
BRATISLAVA:

grin

Go easy on them, plzzzzz.
Lol.I will be active on family and romance section soon they will feel the heat once more cheesy

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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat? by baralatie(m): 11:50am On Jun 07, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


You don't mean it shocked shocked

In this Nigeria or another country?
In Nigeria

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