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Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by IdrisE(m): 8:21pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Oh my sister hustle, cause na your hustle go determine your fate���. Leave poor or rich man matter. Your life can't completely be as that of your mom and your mom is not wrong either with her opinion. Just do what you think it's right. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by nini007(m): 8:22pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Amotolongbo: Don't you think she's intellectually lazy to understand her mother's statement. Someone that's not making any money or has contributed anything tangible to a project dares call another man "poor"? It's so sad that people like her think it's just like a snap of a finger to get married to a rich man. I just pity some girls sha, their empty brain won't absorb anything tangible making them useless even in that rich man's house instead of contributing tangibly there. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by BrainSanitizer: 8:22pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100:If you're rich, go for a rich guy. If you're struggling, go for a struggling guy. If you're poor, go for a poor guy. Las Las, e get why. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Asadujames202(m): 8:22pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100: How sweet is your p-hole |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Auxtan(m): 8:23pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Amotolongbo:E shock how the mumu girl just open mouth dey tag average men the mum told her about as poor men. Her mum is making lots of sense but is sad this generation doesn't get what an average man with potential means anymore. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by afroniger: 8:23pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100: Your mother isn't wrong actually. Though I have to also say that it is not bad to marry a 'ready-made' man either, if you can find a good and single one that is willing to settle down with you. The problem with many ready-made men is that they have lots of options (lots of women also want them), and so they think most women that like them are either gold-diggers or after their money. Therefore such men don't usually regard their wives as much as they would if she had met them while they were still struggling. Another thing you need to consider is that a single man can be struggling and yet NOT necessarily 'poor'. A struggling man with prospects and ambition shouldn't be regarded as poor, but rather should be seen as one gradually building a future, 'Rome wasn't built in a day'. I see nothing wrong with settling down with such a man. Better still, instead of waiting for a rich man, start working hard and smart so that you can complement your future husband irrespective of whether he is rich or still hustling, that way you would put less emphasis on how rich or poor he is. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by nini007(m): 8:25pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100: Don't you think she's intellectually lazy to understand her mother's statement. Someone that's not making any money or has contributed anything tangible to a project dares call another man "poor"? It's so sad that people like her think it's just like a snap of a finger to get married to a rich man. I just pity some girls sha, their empty brain won't absorb anything tangible making them useless even in that rich man's house instead of contributing tangibly there. |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Nwaotu10(m): 8:26pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Redpill dudes. This gurl said she doesn't want to stoop so low to marry a struggling guy, but she wants a rich guy to stoop so low to marry her. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Eriolubrainee19: 8:26pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Ole oloju kokoro omo alatenuje 1 Like |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Auxtan(m): 8:26pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Amotolongbo:Between I commend you for being very thoughtful despite being a girl. |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by IYANGBALI: 8:27pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Please listen to your mother o. bola146 married a very reach yahoo boy, but today, she is regretting the decision she tooked that time. So learn from her mistake 1 Like |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Hassanmaye(m): 8:29pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
NeeKlaus:Wow the most intelligent statement I heard today |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by stupidmod3: 8:30pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100:stoop low sorry, ur hand dey pain u shey, u no fit work make ur own money abi. i pray that rich man u marry bleeps ur friends n enemies. rubbish |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Lucas10(m): 8:30pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Na so my sister take troway better person wey go marry her go jam agbako. Pray my sister before anything. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by spiceadole: 8:31pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100: Your mother doesn't want you to stay long in the husband hunting market. Fact is.. most men are poor. Some rich men started poor. Try and be comfortable by yourself. Whatever the man has is extra for you. Don't wait for what a man can give you. Most of them .. na only preek them get 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by EM123: 8:31pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100:this is the best mumu comment i have ever seen , you no won cook but you won eat . "i am not rich but i know i will be great tomorrow". Senior nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by tonieguy(m): 8:32pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
The answer is simple. Look at Michelle Obama, Hillary Clinton, etc. Your mom is a wise woman. A woman that grows with her man6has a say and can never play second fiddle. At a point, the much feared Abacha could only be approached through the wife whom new him and struggled with him when he was a nobody. Imagine marrying a rich already made man. You are entering another kind of prison where your voice will never count. My advice, marry an upcoming man, but hardworking, with dreams and visions 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by UwaMmebii(m): 8:34pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Tony142: I concur with ur aforementioned but how much can a man have to be considered RICH? |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by mayberry1(f): 8:35pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
emmaodet: You came on so hard on my gender... ![]() Mistake most parents make is focusing on the male child to be independent and self reliant while lowering the bar for the female child. I believe as an individual(s/he), your goal should be how to be independent in life. I for one cringe whenever I hear ladies wishing hard to marry a rich man like money is gender based(there's nothing as sweet as working hard for your money). People forget the law of reciprocity when it comes to good deeds, lots of women want to enjoy being showered with gifts and all the good things of life thereby forgetting to reciprocate quarter of what they get, I believe that stems from the environment they were raised, lots of folks are self-centred and only care about themselves. It all boils down to orientation and upbringing . Nobody deserves a tight-fisted, self-centred egocentric partner. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by stupidmod3: 8:36pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100: ohh wow hair n cream. u are complete already |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by RPG2020(m): 8:38pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
erinatso: You insult her you dey talk say if she nor be your senior you for insult her nor be juju be this |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Mypeople2(m): 8:39pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100:Alright Queen Elizabeth. You can go ahead and look for a rich guy who works in an oil and gas company or has his own company .When you find one that will marry you and not let make you a baby mama,let us know so that we can call your mum a bad woman .By the way, make sure he is not sacked or loses his company since the money is your goal 1 Like |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by BRATISLAVA: 8:39pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100: It seems you're new to this misogynist forum. If you wanted real advice, this is the wrong place. It is full of bitter, heartbroken, broke young men who want every woman to struggle with them, yet want women to bring so much to the table for them. Marrying a struggling man will not give you a good marriage, as they would like to make you think. They are just projecting their fantasies and insecurities on this thread. Marry who you want to. The people advising you will marry who they want to. Most are single, and single young men rarely say anything sensible. They only mature after 35 years of age. There are good rich men and there are wicked poor men. Most poor people are innately wicked. They are only humble when they don't have money, especially men. Once you help him make money, he will dump you for his type of woman. Stories of such abound. Most of them castigating you want to marry a rich woman who will carry all their bills. Watch them closely on threads where the woman is rich to know that they are lying to you and venting their misogynist frustrations and double standards here. Hypocrisy in men is not surprising. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by RPG2020(m): 8:40pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Lilpen3758: You never ready because Men dey do ashawo work 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by AljaanIVQ007(m): 8:46pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100: Shut up,what are you after broke madam?...money is unisex so get yours and marry whom you want... |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by princewarri1985: 8:46pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100:You need 2 things right now and not a husband, 1, GO GET A JOB, 2, GO BACK TO KINDARGARTIN CLASS, VERY POOR ENGLISH |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 8:46pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Amotolongbo: Do you why I quote sometimes? It's because I'm a sapiosexual and I find you on a corner line. You state ur views as I seem fit whether it's for a woman or man. Nice one there |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by chatinent: 8:47pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
“Stoop so low.. ” 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by BRATISLAVA: 8:47pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
spiceadole: Lol, this advice! True at bolded. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Trustedpronet: 8:48pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Where are the rich guys in the first place. If you are referring to Yahoo guys as rich then sorry is your name. If you are referring to civil servants as wealthy guys then you are blind. I have seen the mighty fall and I have seen the poorest rise to the moon. Make your own wealth ma, it will be better for you at the long run. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by malvisguy212: 8:49pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
omolola100:may God forgive you for calling your mum a bad woman. do you even know the word "foundation"? I'd advice you to marry a guy who you see a bright future in him. go and apologize to your mum. |
Re: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by Amotolongbo(f): 8:49pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Pharaoh4rin:thanks sir |
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