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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by funky4j: 10:11pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Why do you need to be diplomatic with someone that is stingy.tell him to his face and break up with him.imagine collecting back money for pad.babde if u make the mistake of marrying that kinda person,u r done for. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Insectkiller: 10:29pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Give him sexxxxx always.. Tell him you are mammy-watrrr picking..his priiick won't stand again..he will look for how to run away ![]() ![]() |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Lovelyperson(m): 10:47pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
othermen:Confirm |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Lovelyperson(m): 10:48pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:He should.have calculated the fuel used and collect the money too |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by DrayZee: 11:20pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:This thing you said now, tell your friend to tell the man the exact same thing. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kaymicheal852: 12:46am On Jun 13, 2021 |
Rozcol: If he is not poor ,then probably he is just stringy for a reason,it s not really proper to spend excessively on a woman you have not marry ,he might be shit testing your friend and I hope you don't help her fail , instead she should tell him that she appreciates him but he shouldn't be that stringy,she should say it to his face but not ,in an abusive way ,I'm sure he will change |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nicoddemus(m): 1:19am On Jun 13, 2021 |
Rozcol: Are you still asking us for advice ![]() Come on will you dump that silly man already!!!!! I'm a man o, I've said my own |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by poik(m): 5:58am On Jun 13, 2021 |
Rozcol: What does your friend (or you) do for a living? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 6:45am On Jun 13, 2021 |
tonididdy: You just spoke rare sense. Na so these zombie girls dey pursue husband wey God send their way.... That may be is principle. You don't just splash money on a woman you are not married to. If she decides to leave tomorrow, all the money you invested is for another man's property. Ladies of these days are shallow and superficial because of money. These particular guy they are calling stingy may spoil her silly when he eventually gets married to her. Op that friend of yours is a fool. So it's because of money shes in the relationship in the first place? She can't just love and respect the guy free of charge? I know her type. Let her leave him na, person wey won marry your silly ass off. Let her go on to the next one searching for father Christmas/ prince charming. When they have pass her round like offering basket finish and she don turn 40 single and unmarried. Tell her I have many cats, I would dash her one to keep her company since she felt too fly and rejected her husband.... I just dey laugh |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 7:07am On Jun 13, 2021 |
ThatIgedeBoy:Mr man go sit down. Na so dem dey deceive Una. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by bluefilm: 9:59am On Jun 13, 2021 |
Vulcanheph: Are you a learner? Of course, It's her relationship But... Let's just agree that... She's just asking for a FRIEND, as usual. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Craigbrown4076: 10:19am On Jun 13, 2021 |
Rozcol:Madam say it's your boyfriend, stop the pretense. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Lostchild(m): 10:30am On Jun 13, 2021 |
ibedun: I am weak because I am not a woman beater like you I am weak because I am not a womanizer like you. Guys like you are in their grave. Wise up |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Cutie09(m): 11:33am On Jun 13, 2021 |
Rozcol: If you think you aren't part of his life, why marry the guy then? Abi am missing something ni? Who was buying sanitary pad b4 bros come into picture? Some Nigerians are something else all they want is ready make guy to provide them with everything. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Cutie09(m): 11:34am On Jun 13, 2021 |
bluefilm: Hahaha ![]() |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by otikpoko(m): 1:19pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Rozcol: Why did your friend not pay for both his bananas and also pay for her own? If she do am, she go die? Must it always be the man spending on y'all? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Issues2(m): 3:32pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
othermen:Hahahaha � |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ibedun: 4:53pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Lostchild: You are a very WEAK man! Dying over a piece of ass. Yeye! Go and cross the road again while agonising over a woman who don’t send you. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by litaninja(m): 6:52am On Jun 14, 2021 |
You're the parasite that's seeking handouts here though. Nephilim: |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AlphamaleTech1(m): 5:02pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by BluntCrazeMan: 5:26am On Jun 15, 2021 |
Rozcol:Your friend still wants him. You will be surprised to see your friend accept the proposal |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by BluntCrazeMan: 5:27am On Jun 15, 2021 |
Rozcol:And so? Tell her that she's not serious yet |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ThatIgedeBoy: 8:12am On Jun 15, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:the hardworking independent women are the obes deceiving us. And the lazy leaches begging for airtime, data, pad, transport and food are the bandits I guess.... No go hustle dey find man wer go carry you comot from poverty |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 12:12pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
ThatIgedeBoy:Yes, we will comot from d poverty together. E pain am |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by jaxxy(m): 8:42pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Rozcol: Lol this is kinda weird. Probably he’s not getting his bargain from the relationship so is putting up an I won’t spend attitude. In any case it’s not nice or proper. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 12:47am On Jun 16, 2021 |
Rozcol: Hi I think the problem is not him. Firstly its your friends relationship, she entered it she should decide when she wants to come out , some girls are just too slow for their own good , this is the disadvantage of not knowing yourself or being confident in yourself , from what I read I'm guessing that your friend is some one that just agrees to date anyone who shows up when there's no one there , she will learn eventually , if she doesn't learn now , she would end up in more relationships like this till she decides to learn . Secondly if both you and her are one of those girls who are simply searching or hoping for a stable man to magically fall on your laps when you are not stable yourself then that's a big big problem, its better if you have it and you want someone who has more , than to not have anything to offer at all just texts, calls and sex , i might be wrong but I know I'm at least 50% right , petty things like pad and few stuffs , get them yourself for yourself , spend on yourself ,work hard , make your own , or at least put in the effort , its not like money grows on trees , when you put that much time and effort to your self , you will not have time to think about what a man is doing or what he's not doing, you won't have time for anything like this , if he's someone that really wants your time , he would try to impress you to borrow your attention occasionally , so yeah I think its really all your faults right now ( both you and your friend) Lastly I never interfere in my friends personal relationships , I listen when they have something and I give advice if they permit me , but ehn saying that I'm here or anywhere asking for advice for how someone else would break up , Darling , ur friend is lying to you , you'll just be wasting your time , she's not done with him , I know coz I'm a lady, I've made excuses to stay at a place that I shouldn't have stayed. I've lied to everyone about something they already knew the truth about , we do it all the time , and it is best for us to decide to let go ON AWA OWN if you try to force or pursue someone to do something they're not ready for , you'll just make it worse , its like expecting a alcoholic or drug addict to just give it up overnight , there will be extreme withdrawal symptoms , it applies to everything , so the summary of everything I just said in simple language is " drink water and mind your business , and God will bless you" |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by adanny01(m): 7:01am On Jun 16, 2021 |
Rozcol: Does that mean if he marries her, he will not feed or cloth her? How certain are you that when she becomes the mother of his children, he will be stingy to his wife and children? You are speaking for yourself, if truly its your friend you care about, i suggest you ask her to ask him directly why he doesn't buy her gifts or take her out. He could be innocent you know. Its possible he has seen that she is comfortable on her own and likes her for being independent. But you pushing her to quit is a bad thing. You even said it, he supports his friends. So he is not stingy. You friend didn't ask, you have no right to label him stingy and support a break up based on this. It is even obvious you are the one putting the idea in her head. She is ok with it but you are not. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:04am On Jun 16, 2021 |
adanny01:You will not understand,there are certain things a lady should not ask from you before you do them no matter how comfortable she is,we are talking about CARE here. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by adanny01(m): 2:37pm On Jun 16, 2021 |
Rozcol: Spending money is not care. A guy must not spend money to show that he cares for his girlfriend. The girl is not his responsibility, at least my sisters were taught that by my parents. A boyfriend only buys gifts to show he cares. Any girl who has genuine problems should ask her boyfriend for assistance if she has no parents or guardians to turn to. |
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