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| Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by definitelyME(m): 7:24am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Hello guys... yesterday was the worst day of my life...a day I don't think my dad would ever forget, even if he forgives me... Let me go straight to the point... My father and I got into a very bitter and frequent misunderstanding yesterday night, it got so bad that after much insults from my dad, I don't know where the devil came from or where the boldness came from, and made me call my dad a BASTARD..I rained abusive words on him that night in front of my younger siblings.. I packed my bags to leave the house to anywhere away from there (to run away) but my mom wouldn't let me go...so I stayed... Watching my mom shed tears, and after much thought, I began to regret my actions... I am currently confused on what to do....I don't know how to approach my dad for forgiveness because he doesn't want to be near me.. Please guys, need advice on what to do...I don't want things to be like this for long... |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by chatinent: 7:28am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Let the heat cool down... Then you talk to him. 3 Likes |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by LordIsaac(m): 7:29am On Jun 14, 2021 |
It was the same thing one of the sons of Noah did in the Bible, and he was cursed. Honor your father and mother THAT THINE DAYS BE LONG ON THE EARTH was the command. God is the creator of everyone and everything, apologize to God first and genuinely repent. Then approach your dad and roll on the floor till he forgives you. Then, you can leave the house... Obviously, you've out stayed your title as a child in that house. Go be a man, and have some value in their eyes... But, be a man in a legit way. 3 Likes |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Promotions: 7:34am On Jun 14, 2021 |
He'll surely forgive you, just try your best to show it in your character that you're a changed person, be diligent in your work..I don't know your age or what you do for a living but good results will always make any parent happy, also your relationship with your Dad will determine the way you should apologize, if your both are that close walk up to him and have a talk, apologize and explain things to him and also keep away from what you did that caused the fight last night.. 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Foodqueen(f): 7:35am On Jun 14, 2021 |
When he is calm, just go postrtate and hold unto his leg, try and show remorse by crying. Most importantly don't forget to tell him to bless you after he has forgiven you. After that tell him of your plans to move out as soon as possible. 8 Likes |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Bigdik70inch2(m): 7:38am On Jun 14, 2021 |
[s] LordIsaac:[/s] Oga judge..........Oya now food done nah.... Ever ready to flip bible upside down......... Well.......i'm not supporting the guy but how sure r u the dad never caused the provocation?? Didnt bible warned bout father getting their child to anger?? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Nobody: 7:38am On Jun 14, 2021 |
definitelyME: You are very stupid. An insolent idiot. You not only insulted your dad in front of your siblings, you went as far as calling him (your own papa) a BASTARD. I swear you are a fool. Wait...did you say you called your dad a bastard? I am beyond shocked. Honestly. 3 Likes |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by LordIsaac(m): 7:39am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Bigdik70inch2:Provoke or not, you don't insult your father. Canceling my words will not change that. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by RoyalBlu(f): 7:44am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Anger is bad o!!!! Knowing when to back down when provoked is key. But then, what's done is done. Making amends is next. Your father is still hurting no doubt. Just give him a little time to cool off. On your part, let your actions henceforth show you're truly remorseful. You can better still get a good man he respects to help you plead with him to forgive you. It'll be fine. |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Duru9(m): 7:45am On Jun 14, 2021 |
OmO me can't advice you You call your papa bastard him no go ever forget am even if he forgive you Most of y'all wey don adopt bastard for mouth any small thing una don shout bastard See am now 9 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Bigdik70inch2(m): 7:46am On Jun 14, 2021 |
LordIsaac: jux If provocation/anger wouldn't have led to disrespectfulness of parent........the Bible wouldn't have warned against it......... So what r u saying?? 3 Likes |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Edibles20: 7:47am On Jun 14, 2021 |
You got angry to the point of calling your father a bastard? Wow. Approach a church elder, or someone who’s opinions he always respect. If na me I go disown you sha |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by definitelyME(m): 7:57am On Jun 14, 2021 |
mikezuruki:yes I am every thing you said...I just feel so disappointed in my self.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:07am On Jun 14, 2021 |
 I am happy to read that your father has other children, you aren't the only child, the man has hope, cuz you are the black sheep. You called your father a bastardd in front of your siblings, setting bad example. Approach him later and appologise to him, but don't be surprised that things will never be the same again between you and him, you caused it.3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by LordIsaac(m): 8:13am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Bigdik70inch2:I am saying, do not insult your father. If the VC insults you I'm sure you will be saying sorry sir to his face... How much more your father? Honor your father! 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Bigdik70inch2(m): 8:20am On Jun 14, 2021 |
[s] LordIsaac:[/s] Well.......if u have a child already never u get he or she provoked....... U doing that is you going against God..... 2 Likes |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:32am On Jun 14, 2021 |
A lot of our parents don't listen to their children, that natural superiority wouldn't let them, the thing is most times, parents are guilty of these heated arguments between them and their grown children but since they are the parents, one cannot know more than them, but there's no way you can explain calling your father a bastard in the presence of your siblings, you went too far tbh, let things cool off a bit and then apologize for your words, you are his son, he's going to forgive you 6 Likes |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:43am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Foodqueen:
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| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by LordIsaac(m): 8:46am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Bigdik70inch2:Your own part, I'll reiterate for the last time, never insult your father! 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by mutter(f): 9:05am On Jun 14, 2021 |
As a parent of older children I can tell you that far worse than the injury is when the child does not apologize. Go to your father and apologize. Even if he does not accept immediately... You have started the healing process. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Nyne: 9:31am On Jun 14, 2021 |
It’s spiritual I think. Maybe you aren’t needed on that house anymore or you aren’t happy in that house or you’re supposed to have gone long ago. Make your family happy and leave the house in peace to stay alone. I believe you are an adult already. |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by ibechris(m): 10:03am On Jun 14, 2021 |
The reason why u had the guts was because u have become a baby adult,hence ur reason for challenging ur father. My advice: If u are a man above 23,pls never stay back after graduation or learning of trade of any kind in ur parents abode. U will accidentally grow wings,such that,it will make u disrespect ur parents easily. And finally,it will make u less of a man. Seek for forgiveness as fast as possible. Good luck to u. |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by AishaYesufu: 6:33pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Your father failed his duty as a father. For a father to even exchange abusive words with his son shows that lacks respect for himself! And for a son (you) to exchange abusive words with your father shows that you lack both respect and home training. The Solution is simple, seeks forgiveness with yourself, humble yourself before your father and plead for his mercy. Promise never to disrespect him or any elderly person and live to your promise. MEANWHILE: Have it at the back of your mind that words said can never be unsaid. Your father will never forget your words |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by budaatum: 9:36pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
LordIsaac: Indeed it wouldn't. Ordinary simple lie I lied to my father aged 9 years old. He made me write "Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee", 100 times and I have never ever forgotten to not lie! He was not even a Christian at the time, the cheeky bugger! I so miss him sometimes. 2 Likes |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by LordIsaac(m): 9:59pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
budaatum:Exactly.... This generation wants to keep shifting boundaries till we have no morality left again in society. Personally though, I have made up my mind to always call them out no matter whose ox is gored. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by budaatum: 10:02pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
LordIsaac: The civil way in which you gored their ox is what I admired most. 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Nobody: 10:23pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Go to him, prostrate with your entire body, plead with him for forgiveness, buy him a gift to appease him, then move out asap. 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Rapsino(m): 10:35pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
It's good that u accept ur mistake. The same mouth u use in abusing him use it to ask for forgiveness and bless him. |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by RSVP: 10:46pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
This is going to hurt your father for life as much as you will forever live to regret this your action... You see, there are some lines you dare not cross whenever you having a misunderstanding with your parents. You can act crazy but try not to say shít! He will forgive you as a parent. That one is certain but just make it easy for him by packing out of that house real fast and learn to control your anger bro. |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Shokoloko(f): 10:46pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Yxwqq: Perfectly said 2 Likes |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by RSVP: 10:52pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
LordIsaac: You're very correct. I can only imagine what the next generation will inherit. I mean, it wasn't like dis before for God sake. I can't do half of what all dis youngies are capable of dis days. 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help I Need Advice!!! How Do I Ask My Father For Forgiveness From This by Nozino: 11:31pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
My brother, just kneel down beg popsi. Apologize publicly too. If you have to, please leave the house. But not now, wait for everything to return back to normal. 1 Like |
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