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Please I Need Advice. by Clue188: 6:13am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Hhh |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:26am On Jun 14, 2021 |
First of all, report him to his sister. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by delugadou(m): 6:57am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Clue188:It's okay bro. Wait until the guy poisons you, then your spirit will kick him out of the house for you. 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by CrownedPhoenix: 6:59am On Jun 14, 2021 |
You are the problem, not him. He's just behaving according to your type of person. |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by Foodqueen(f): 7:21am On Jun 14, 2021 |
CrownedPhoenix: My thoughts too. Though he is very wrong, but work on yourself too. This your my, my, my......... |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by RoyalBlu(f): 7:30am On Jun 14, 2021 |
CrownedPhoenix: Thank you for telling him the truth. Like how can he say he's in a committed relationship and still bring girls to the house? ..."yesterday a friend visited me ( a girl ) I pleaded with my neighbor to use his side as I was feeling sleepy and the girl too complained that she wants to sleep too. So I pleaded with my neighbor for the first time that I would like to use his sitting room as they were watching ball in my own sitting room not that I can not use my"... Don't want to be judgemental, but OP, you can do better. The girl friend's brother should be made to understand that no one owes him anything. Not like you've married the sister. If you can't cope with his attitude, kindly tell him to leave. It's that simple. |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by baralatie(m): 8:26am On Jun 14, 2021 |
delugadou:Somebody is advising him to report to his sister o! Sister that he is not married to! Omo! The heart attack this guy is gonna get is not here o |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by Ritzybeauty(f): 10:22am On Jun 14, 2021 |
You have to set rules or else you would be taken for granted all the time, your girlfriend warned you because she knows her brother more than you do, if you don't set your boundaries and let him know that he could be sent out anytime, he would do something worse. I just hope you don't regret doing something good for your girlfriend 2 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by Chevrolet076(m): 10:45am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Clue188: You mean your girlfriend's younger bro fu*cked a girl you invited over And also in your own bedroom? And you didn't take offense? Again, the sister already warned you not to accommodate him but you still went ahead. If I'm not mistaken, the difference between you and the boy can't be less than 3 years. So you can't really control him. Just tell him to get the fuc*k out of your house |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by Ishilove: 12:09pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
You're dating a girl, and you invite another girl to your place, and then the brother of your fiancee now goes ahead to nack your guest? What kind of operation are you running in your house sef? All these my cousin, my friend, my uncle, my cousin brother etc is getting me confused 5 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by LadySarah: 7:29pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
I'm waiting to hear that your parents also visited cos that 1 bedroom needs to be fully occupied. |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by Ishilove: 8:38pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
LadySarah:As in ehn. We are waiting for the grandparents as well. See crowd inside the 2 by 4 cubicle 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by ibechris(m): 1:42pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Apart from ur brother whom u praised whole heartedly,I think u should cut down on the number of people visiting u. They are damn too much. 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by brownemmanuel43(m): 3:36pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
I know the type of op, he is a free guy and that's his nature but the idiotic stranger is taken his gentility for granted Another thing, op doesn't HV the ball to confront people that's why that boy is capitalizing on that and op if u can't handle that boy how would u handle a woman or wife when you get married. I'm sorry to sound this way, if u don't change and become tough your future wife will ride on u 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by muystoy(m): 4:06pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Nairaland and all these useless fake stories,c.o.ntinu!shogbo, IDIOTA |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by Clue188: 4:23pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
muystoy: I took the post down because I regretted bringing my issues online. Not everything you brand fake stories. I regretted my action by bringing it here on nairaland. So please if you dont have any reasonable thing to say just shut ur mouth. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by Clue188: 4:30pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43: Not that I dont have the ball to confront him. He's still acting up though but I've given him terms and condition to abide if he wants to stay. Called my girl and reported him to her. Though she felt bad but she and her mum have apologised for his f*ck up. Ive seen some changes in him since yesterday. Thanks for your advice |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by Clue188: 4:46pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
ibechris: I actually dont have much visitors. My house happened to be occupied due to my bro visit. I only have to guys which is my girl brother and one of my friend that came to visit, he plan of leaving the country any moment from now and I dont live with my girl, she has her own apartment. She only visits on weekend. Though I'm planning of living the house for her cos I will be leaving the country next month. The girl that visit was just a friend not that shes a side chick or bestie of a thing. Shes just a friend that I haven't seen for a while. She came by as a surprise not that I was aware shes was coming. D only problem I had with the boy is not realising his mistake by taking the other girl that visited inside my room while my elder bro and his fiancee was around. The girl in particular is someone I dont even see as anything. I have nothing to do with her. Her friend came to see my guy and she followed her friend. The girl in particular is someone that even if she get naked right in front of me I will never be moved. She disgust me and the boy knows too. All these are part of why I was angry with the boy. So for those of you that are seeing it the other way round should stop. I'm not cheating on my girl friend. |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by GboyegaD(m): 4:59pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Unfortunately, you don't seem to understand what the situation is as of yet. |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by ImaIma1(f): 5:21pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Please send him away. Such people are ungrateful and unreasonable. They will never see wrong in what they do or apologize. Send him back to his family and let them help him. I don't know why you are carrying his matter on your head. You have patience sha. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by mariahAngel(f): 5:31pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
ImaIma1: Op doesn't seem like the type that can handle his sh!t. Unfortunately. Imagine reporting him to his sister and his mum and they "apologized for his f*ck up" yen yen yen bullshit! Boy wey him for treat him forkup right then and there! What manner of effrontery! |
Re: Please I Need Advice. by mariahAngel(f): 5:36pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Clue188: No offense but iwo o gban rara! 2 Likes |
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