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Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by Goodnigga: 4:43pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
We have other countries of the world, Tanzania, Ethiopia or even whites. Find someone who is already there to marry. Love to most naija women is opportunistic and manipulative. 5 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by chicogentil(m): 5:20pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Commotfornigeri:Sarcasm |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Reeses:You are pained because my verdict on the matter has solved that huge societal problem permanently & it will liberate a lot of CAGED MEN. You can insult me, I don't care. We are used to your INSULTS. MEN are already working towards that. You Ladies treasure BABYMAMA a lot, and we have openly accepted it wholeheartedly. No GOING BACK. Thank you. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by Depressed101: 7:03pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Pierocash:Trick? 2 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by heniford2: 7:23pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Hmm interesting |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by JFiveX: 7:31pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
nedugroup:Na the same question i want to ask |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by OyinNurse(f): 7:54pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Pierocash: Wow, that's cold. Better to divorce than to end her. |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by OyinNurse(f): 7:57pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: Lol @ reasonable salary. Anyway there are still some of us who married US Citizens and have not gone crazy because of blue passport 2 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
OyinNurse:It's not about the PASSPORT. Does Blue Passport guarantee peace in marriage? It's about giving your HUSBAND peace of mind. It's about respecting him despite residing in d US. A LADY can't be a husband. A MAN can't be a Wife. These are not elective positions. They are Natural Roles which are not debatable. Problem starts when the Lady decides to abrogate the role and lordship of men to herself. The moment a man starts losing his RESPECT, anarchy becomes inevitable. A LADY that isn't ready to listen to a man nor come under a man in tutelage of matrimony shouldn't even get close to Men. No Lady will be penalized for being alone. No one penalises the Reverend Sisters. 29 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by 2rez: 8:34pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: 3 Likes
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Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by OyinNurse(f): 9:03pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: Abeg, don't come for me o....re-read what I wrote before. I repeat, there are still some of us that did NOT go crazy because we landed in a foreign land. I'm peacefully married and so are my friends that immigrated to the US. I see no reason to stress your husband out if he does not disturb your peace of mind. However, if he starts exhibiting dangerous/callous behavior, the woman has the right to act in the best interest of herself and her children, if she has any. 4 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by LadyRosa(f): 9:48pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
nedugroup: Yes, severally. Infact one of my uncle who is known for being lazy almost nearly married one nice USA based lady, but him stupidity couldn't let him hide his nasty character. The lady returned his bride price ASAP and dumped him in naija back to USA. She's lucky. She dodged a future disaster. 6 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Marry better person instead of idumota slay queen una no go hear word 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by starstaz(m): 9:56pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Pierocash:Bad guy. U be Buharistan 2 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by Nobody: 10:07pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
LadyRosa: Nna biko bia ka mu na gi kpa!! |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by aswani(m): 10:26pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
LadyRosa: You should see the way a good chunk of these women treat their "husbands" when they take them abroad. It is no surprise the men start counting the days to when they can flee. And before you mention, I knoe some men that take women abroad try to dominate the women in an unacceptable naner too. The difference is the Naija men run away and leave the women that took them there, but the Naija women play the system and take the man's properties that he had before he met the entitled madam. Good luck to all those that try it ṣá, I am yet to see one that works which doesn't mean there aren't any. 3 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by UwaMmebii(m): 10:40pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Pierocash: She has a green card and will come back to state at her convenient time. The best way is to close her chapter instead of her closing mine. What do I mean? Instead of me commiting suicide for a Leach that doesn't know how I suffered to make that money I rather bring her to naija and let assasin do justice to her, then pretend as if u don't Know what happened, morn her for a month and close her chapter life moves on. 2 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by NotGej: 10:51pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Pierocash: Do not speak out of inexperience. Pray to whatever you believe in to not be faced with such situation. 1 Like |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by rontolo(m): 11:07pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
nedugroup:Yes. One of my in-laws in the US. She brings the man to the US. She is mean and bossy. Dude was being seriously maltreated to the point of being hospitalised for mental breakdown. In distress, he starts to complain seriously to her family members. She wasn’t going to stand for that. She arranges a vacation to Nigeria with him. He needed to visit his family in the village. They arrange to regroup in Lagos two days before flying back together to the US. Oga returns as planned only to be told wife returned to the US the day before. She dumped him in Nigeria. Took ALL his documents with her. Oga entered a state of shock, sat outside the property for days, distressed. Poor man died two months later, depression and heart break � The concept of bringing a spouse abroad is a definite no no. Never. Women are less likely to be victims , as they get what they want - kids, the house, anything else is extra to them. Men have everything to lose!! 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by LadyRosa(f): 11:14pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
aswani: The law is good that way, although it may seem unfair. If patriarchal advantages are not checked, women and most especially children will suffer great neglect in every aspect of their early lives. A man can wake up and leave but let him forfeit his properties for t h e benefits of his kids, who usually here in Nigeria are the most suffered from broken marriages. So many cases of deadbeat fathers chasing his wives and kids and bringing in another woman to reap where she didn't sow. The reason why Nigeria men over there are kicked out is MAINLY because they refused to accept the fact that the power they have over Nigerian women stops the moment they step out of the country. 2 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by Infa: 4:37am On Jun 16, 2021 |
[quote author=LadyRosa post=102767037] fact |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by JeffreyJunior: 5:44am On Jun 16, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest:If you will be kind enough to share your story a little bit, that will go a long way in driving home your point. I ask this because in some of the cases I've witnessed, both the husbands and the wives had a good share of the blames. However, I will say that in most of them, the wives proved to be the greater evil. Firstly, if you don't know her so well and never dated her while in Nigeria, think it well. Secondly, avoid village girls, they turn out to be worse than city girls when they tear eye. City girls can only be golddiggers but village girls mostly turn out to be worse than that. They want to show we have arrived. Thirdly and most importantly, get yourself a good job or business. Don't turn somebody's daughter to slave and relax to eat as master. Some of our brothers bring village girls, encourage them to be nurses and sit idly to eat their paychecks. One day, slaves will want to revolt naa, it's normal. 4 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by WinterMinter(m): 6:10am On Jun 16, 2021 |
Another modafuka sighted,piss of LadyRosa: |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by DAramis: 6:43am On Jun 16, 2021 |
JeffreyJunior:This is the second time I am seeing this comment. Does this really happen bro? The other person who made similar comment said something about “cooking the woman up” though he didn’t give further information. Lastly, what is your view on married woman working in the region of their residence? Should the husband allow her to keep all her salary while facing the home front by himself?or should he demand certain percentage to be paid into joint custody account monthly?If yes, what percentage is appropriate? 50 or 60 or 70 etc (I am not talking about joint account were the woman donates everything while the husband then spends money for running the house from his salary) I am asking all these questions because I know money happens to be one of the motivating factor that leads to most problems. No wonder some would not allow their wives to work but rather become a full time housewife NB: Experienced and married people should also contribute towards answering my questions above. 1 Like |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by Nobody: 6:55am On Jun 16, 2021 |
JeffreyJunior:I understand your points vividly. Although my CASE is completely different from what you stated above. |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by JeffreyJunior: 7:07am On Jun 16, 2021 |
DAramis:Yea, it happens. Some of our older brothers never bothered to plan for their retirement while they could so they now resort to bringing Nigerian wives to be their retirement package whereby the girls will be working and be paying the bills. Most of them were shipping cars and general goods, had businesses that got closed for one reason or the other, and were into fraudulent activities which have been bursted forcing them to close shop and make them unemployable. So these nurse wives are like their meal ticket. Nevertheless, in most cases, the wives have greater share of the blames because a good number of them have terrible attitude and often take matters to extreme. My brother, I'm not in position to give opinion on how finances should be run in marriages. Sorry I'm not experienced in that yet. 4 Likes |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by LadyRosa(f): 7:18am On Jun 16, 2021 |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by DAramis: 7:18am On Jun 16, 2021 |
JeffreyJunior: Okay, now it is well understood by me why some of them use their nurses wives as retirement packages. As for the finances in marriage, I only asked of your opinion should you be in such situation (I assumed you are married). I didn’t mean your advice or strictly your word on exactly how the finance should be carried out. 1 Like |
Re: See What Men Face With Their Wives In USA When They Have Green Card As Citizen by LadyRosa(f): 7:27am On Jun 16, 2021 |
Sorry to ask, why can't the husband be a nurse? Abi USA dey forbid male nurses? 3 Likes 1 Share |
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