So I will try as much as possible to make this very short. Please just ignore all of my grammatical and spelling errors.

There is this girl I meet last year November when ASUU was on strike. I meet her at a sales company I worked, where they sell phone and it's accessories. Our meeting was just a few days and I had to see her for just 3days. She had to leave for school, she attend school at a polytechnic in another state. I resume to work on the same week she left. But during those few days we were able to familiarize with each other and know much of ourself, I even get to know of her boyfriend then, who is now her ex. She confessed to me then that she's tired of her relationship and want a means to get rid of her boyfriend. I was not even giving much response cuz I was also going to toast her even in that short time that we know each other. All her excuse then was that she is in a relationship with her boyfriend and can't enter another, forgetting she had told me she is tired of that relationship.

Anyways fast forward to April 2021 she agreed to be my girlfriend saying that there's no harm in trying which I ignored. We have been talking since she left to school in another state online and our relationship is also a distance one. She had broken up with her then boyfriend.

To cut all unnecessary story, we have been having a happy relationship online and distance until on her birthday I forget to call her till evening. I have early posted her picture on my WhatsApp and even use her as my dp. I even sent her sms and chatted in the morning until in the evening she kept ignoring my messages and calls. The following day she pick up my call and saying that many of her friends she didn't expect call her to wish her on her birthday and even her ex. I begged her and she do forgive me, but I have been noticing a change in her attitude since then. Recently we have been having some furious moment of chatting and talking which has been hurting me.

Now to the real reason for this write-up, during our conversation recently, she'd made point of some utterances I have been thinking about
1. there's no harm in trying
2. I haven't develop love for you.
3. I don't love you.
4. I still love my ex.

She had been mentioning that if I could be patient with her she might developed a love for me. But I am still worried why she agree to be my girlfriend. All my efforts to seek validation of the prospect of our relationship from her were termed frustration on her. And she had told me yesterday that I should forget about this relationship, I begged her and she said I shouldn't worry.

Please guys I want ur comments on this, should I assume this relationship is over or not? I have called her this morning too and she picked up and we talk too. But she hasn't called back as promised by her this morning.

Kikikikikikikikikikiki... Even a 20 years can't be so ..... like this, I guess you are still 17 or 16 Wait for the elders to talk sense to your kobo brain Pele wa wa alright last last

Damnnn niggarrrr
Pussy asss niggarrrz or rather Simpson every where

Simps full Nigeria aswearugud..! Keep begging her bro, you can also assist her in washing her undies. Jonsing man!

Forget her .
She doesn't like you like you 1 bit ,
When she sees someone she's interested in she wouldn't say all those thing .
Stop pouring water in a basket!

Ify215:
Forget her .
She doesn't like you like you 1 bit ,
When she sees someone she's interested in she wouldn't say all those thing .
Stop pouring water in a basket!

Okay bro

^{She confessed to me then that she's tired of her relationship and want a means to get rid of her boyfriend.}

Today, I agree that the human sense aren't equal. Some are just occupying space.

chatinent:


Today, I agree that the human sense aren't equal. Some are just occupying space.

What did mean?
And how would you advice me ?

Dannyfan:
So I will try as much as possible to make this very short. Please just ignore all of my grammatical and spelling errors.

There is this girl I meet last year November when ASUU was on strike. I meet her at a sales company I worked, where they sell phone and it's accessories. Our meeting was just a few days and I had to see her for just 3days. She had to leave for school, she attend school at a polytechnic in another state. I resume to work on the same week she left. But during those few days we were able to familiarize with each other and know much of ourself, I even get to know of her boyfriend then, who is now her ex. She confessed to me then that she's tired of her relationship and want a means to get rid of her boyfriend. I was not even giving much response cuz I was also going to toast her even in that short time that we know each other. All her excuse then was that she is in a relationship with her boyfriend and can't enter another, forgetting she had told me she is tired of that relationship.

Anyways fast forward to April 2021 she agreed to be my girlfriend saying that there's no harm in trying which I ignored. We have been talking since she left to school in another state online and our relationship is also a distance one. She had broken up with her then boyfriend.

To cut all unnecessary story, we have been having a happy relationship online and distance until on her birthday I forget to call her till evening. I have early posted her picture on my WhatsApp and even use her as my dp. I even sent her sms and chatted in the morning until in the evening she kept ignoring my messages and calls. The following day she pick up my call and saying that many of her friends she didn't expect call her to wish her on her birthday and even her ex. I begged her and she do forgive me, but I have been noticing a change in her attitude since then. Recently we have been having some furious moment of chatting and talking which has been hurting me.

Now to the real reason for this write-up, during our conversation recently, she'd made point of some utterances I have been thinking about
1. there's no harm in trying
2. I haven't develop love for you.
3. I don't love you.
4. I still love my ex.

She had been mentioning that if I could be patient with her she might developed a love for me. But I am still worried why she agree to be my girlfriend. All my efforts to seek validation of the prospect of our relationship from her were termed frustration on her. And she had told me yesterday that I should forget about this relationship, [s]I begged her and she said I shouldn't worry.[/s]

Please guys I want ur comments on this, should I assume this relationship is over or not? I have called her this morning too and she picked up and we talk too. But she hasn't called back as promised by her this morning.

You shit for church.

ceede2:
You shit for church.

I no shit ooo
No vex bro. Wetin I go do?

dont force her

gakec64643:
dont force her

OKAY, but how possible can I force her?

Dannyfan:
I no shit ooo
No vex bro. Wetin I go do?

She don pin you already, your mumu button dey with her
nah only you fit help yourself

Check my rule 6, 7.

ceede2:
She don pin you already, your mumu button dey with her
nah only you fit help yourself

Check my rule 6, 7.

I get, nah to end am ooo. I have been having the feeling she doesn't love me and will follow any love she found along the line. But another part of me is saying otherwise.

If na adult type this thing wen i read em i just sorry for you but if you’re still in your 17,18 i will definitely understand juvenile issues live the babe now abi is love by force? Dont come and cry here later oooh because she has been telling you to calm down.

tunize:
If na adult type this thing wen i read em i just sorry for you but if you’re still in your 17,18 i will definitely understand juvenile issues live the babe now abi is love by force? Dont come and cry here later oooh because she has been telling you to calm down.

Thank you... I am kuku more than 18. In my penultimate year at University.

Dannyfan:
So I will try as much as possible to make this very short. Please just ignore all of my grammatical and spelling errors.

There is this girl I meet last year November when ASUU was on strike. I meet her at a sales company I worked, where they sell phone and it's accessories. Our meeting was just a few days and I had to see her for just 3days. She had to leave for school, she attend school at a polytechnic in another state. I resume to work on the same week she left. But during those few days we were able to familiarize with each other and know much of ourself, I even get to know of her boyfriend then, who is now her ex. She confessed to me then that she's tired of her relationship and want a means to get rid of her boyfriend. I was not even giving much response cuz I was also going to toast her even in that short time that we know each other. All her excuse then was that she is in a relationship with her boyfriend and can't enter another, forgetting she had told me she is tired of that relationship.

Anyways fast forward to April 2021 she agreed to be my girlfriend saying that there's no harm in trying which I ignored. We have been talking since she left to school in another state online and our relationship is also a distance one. She had broken up with her then boyfriend.

To cut all unnecessary story, we have been having a happy relationship online and distance until on her birthday I forget to call her till evening. I have early posted her picture on my WhatsApp and even use her as my dp. I even sent her sms and chatted in the morning until in the evening she kept ignoring my messages and calls. The following day she pick up my call and saying that many of her friends she didn't expect call her to wish her on her birthday and even her ex. I begged her and she do forgive me, but I have been noticing a change in her attitude since then. Recently we have been having some furious moment of chatting and talking which has been hurting me.

Now to the real reason for this write-up, during our conversation recently, she'd made point of some utterances I have been thinking about
1. there's no harm in trying
2. I haven't develop love for you.
3. I don't love you.
4. I still love my ex.

She had been mentioning that if I could be patient with her she might developed a love for me. But I am still worried why she agree to be my girlfriend. All my efforts to seek validation of the prospect of our relationship from her were termed frustration on her. And she had told me yesterday that I should forget about this relationship, I begged her and she said I shouldn't worry.

Please guys I want ur comments on this, should I assume this relationship is over or not? I have called her this morning too and she picked up and we talk too. But she hasn't called back as promised by her this morning.

I think you’re just taking everything too serious.
You really should press the brake a little and move at her speed. You’re way too fast guy

stanliwise:

I think you’re just taking everything too serious.
You really should press the brake a little and move at her speed. You’re way too fast guy

How am I too fast?

Dannyfan:
How am I too fast?

Two of you are nothing but friends, forget the relationship tags she placed.
Stop pushing her to where she don’t wanna be, she is cool being some sort of friend to you probably the kind of one with benefit.
Let her make her choices, stop forcing her decision.

I think from this moment you should learn and mirror her position, relax and be free as she is also. Talk to other ladies if you have to, celebrate her birthday not more than she would for you. Relationship is give and take in a way of combined interest. Don’t give more than one can return and don’t take more than you can give then everyone would be just fine

If she begins to truely love, you wouldn’t have to work for most of the things your killing your self about. Guy be calm

Dannyfan:
Thank you... I am kuku more than 18. In my penultimate year at University.

Then act like someone that is more than a teenager na shuu u nor be guy why u dey “f” up or is this ur first time going into a relationship?

How old are you?.

Don't force love to happen... Don't engage in any immoralities with her...

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Move on please and dont be tired your wife dey front.

Skullano:
How old are you?.

20+

kepstone:
Move on please and dont be tired your wife dey front.

. You don help me see am

tunize:

Then act like someone that is more than a teenager na shuu u nor be guy why u dey “f” up or is this ur first time going into a relationship?

No mind me jare boss, I don move on.

Nah my first ooo

stanliwise:

Two of you are nothing but friends, forget the relationship tags she placed.
Stop pushing her to where she don’t wanna be, she is cool being some sort of friend to you probably the kind of one with benefit.
Let her make her choices, stop forcing her decision.

I think from this moment you should learn and mirror her position, relax and be free as she is also. Talk to other ladies if you have to, celebrate her birthday not more than she would for you. Relationship is give and take in a way of combined interest. Don’t give more than one can return and don’t take more than you can give then everyone would be just fine

If she begins to truely love, you wouldn’t have to work for most of the things your killing your self about. Guy be calm

Okay boss.

Thanks

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

All of them baa.. nah to go find love for abroad

Brunicekid:
Don't force love to happen... Don't engage in any immoralities with her...

Okay boss... But is it possible to be in a relationship without love?

Dannyfan:
No mind me jare boss, I don move on.

Nah my first ooo

No wonder bro but you have to man up nor sell ur right to any woman because of love alright but that wan nor mean sey u nor go love but u gat sharp