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Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Styluss: 9:00am On Jun 15, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:you comment showed that you are not 7 Likes |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:15am On Jun 15, 2021 |
Styluss: Wahala let marriage mean what it means to you and let marriage mean what it means to me. You cannot use your view of marriage to think or believe that every marriage out there is the same or that your experience must be my own or that of other women. What I said is not foreign or out of the ordinary 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Styluss: 10:51am On Jun 15, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:you are right... But I could only deduce one fact.... Which is that you ain't married. 7 Likes |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Cornpop: 12:38pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: You go about Nairaland each and every minute in the day getting into arguments and you have been called olosho by pretty much everyone on Nairaland but ya donkey somehow claimed to be married. Failed feminist ya donkey 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Cornpop: 12:42pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Lizzyangel: She isa stupid feminist donkey with no understand of marriage or union 4 Likes |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by liquidmetall: 10:14pm On Jun 17, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Your own interpretation is false God does not say two things twice he is not a talkative Submit to one another was for the church not marriage From verse 22 king james version do underline it ad now "for marriage" 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:35pm On Jun 17, 2021 |
liquidmetall:Same way Christ said husband's should love their wives and give themselves as Christ did for the church It was in reference to marriage oga.That chapter was specifically for married people. That was Apostles Paul's admonition to the people he was writing his epistles to no need mentioning God there apostle Paul wrote his epistles specifically in light of the time in which it was written I am free to have my own interpretation same way others have various interpretations you don't get to tell me whether or not my interpretation is false the Bible wasn't written in English and there are contradictory verses in it with different human understanding and I apply it in light of the time it was written and not in today's time and age.That is my own choice |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by liquidmetall: 12:48am On Jun 18, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Your interpretation is,false and God can't say submit to one and another then comes to tell women to submit differently again in another verse The truth will set you free from selective anger /bitterness Of course men will love as they were commanded 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by pipnator00(m): 5:38am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Read through your post.. From the much I read, Im gonna ask.. Were you guys forced or even ready for Marriage before actually tying the knot? It's obvious you guys weren't ready and EGO is doing a good job of helping you guy destroy what you guys weren't ready to start. The Earlier you both drop the ego, the better for your marriage. |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:44am On Jun 18, 2021 |
liquidmetall:It was apostle Paul not God. Also I like my false interpretation and it works perfectly for me the time I was a Christian or believer In Nigeria many men don't know how to love their wives,they forget to but are quick to remind their wives to submit them. You can't love without submission same way you can't submit without love I see marriage as a mutual friend thing 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Quirekoon: 11:12am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Mtcheew! Bring real scenarios joooor. |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by djon78(m): 7:13pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
The woman on this story doesn't know how to talk That's the main problem And once a woman doesn't know how to talk It's a matter of time The marriage go get k leg And outrightly break down The husband should not beat her but notice this was the first time he did so in 5 years marriage Meaning the woman pushed him to the Wall And why is the woman now worried her marriage has shattered? Did she behave like one that wants to be married The man was even lenient for over 5 years If na some men that don't tolerate nonsense He for done end the marriage since With this one women full everywhere Looking for man house to enter 2 Likes |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Nobody: 5:14am On Jun 19, 2021 |
Lol.. you'll beat him back to finally finalize the breakup. this really cracked me up. Madam, you're too stubborn and seem to be rubbing shoulders with your husband. I know some men can be very annoying but how about you just letting somethings pass without reacting or trying to prove a point? The last issue was your fault because he has apologized for hitting you the previous day which also covers for seizing the keys too. So when he called, you should have just said a simple " oh dear, I'm sorry. Forgot to drop the keys". You shouldn't have brought back the issue that is passed again. You are the one at fault here. Now after satisfying your conscience you want to apologise. What nonsense. I dislike people who keep repeating a matter thats past. My sister's know me. Once you keep going on about something, I go into silent mode for days and you won't even see my face. Just stop repeating a matter and let bygones be bygones. That is how to make a marriage work. 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by liquidmetall: 8:34pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Apostle Paul is a servant of who ?? And you are telling us bible is wrong Wife submit men love Nothing you can do about it 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by ozonechrome: 4:13am On Jun 20, 2021 |
A lot of men do not understand what it means to be head of a house. They think head is rulership just as Buhari thinks. They do not understand that headship is service. As a husband God has called to you to serve that is why there is so much issues and misunderstanding in marriages. Why keep malice when your wife offends you instead of communicating with her things she says that upsets you and how you'll prefer she communicates her frustrations. Calling people names when upset is absolutely a no no. We need to learn how to communicate effectively and keep our pride at the door when it comes to relationship. All the problems here has do with poor communication and ego on both parts. You both need to seek wisdom on how to solve your problems. This is not worth a divorce as the second partner won't be any better if you both do not fix yourself. It's just like Buhari changing from APC to PDP. Same person. He won't do anything differently. |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Richy4(m): 4:34am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Styluss: You can read between the lines....I like that |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:21am On Jun 20, 2021 |
liquidmetall:Apostle Paul was speaking for himself and it is obvious you don't know the history of the bible. I no longer believe in the bible. I don't care about doing anything about it because it doesn't apply to me and many couples these days don't even bother with that line anymore because marriage is more than that. I believe in mutual submission and love I live in the 21st century and apostle Paul wasn't ssirecting his advice to me but the Ephesians 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:23am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Richy4: She couldn't read between the lines because she has no idea of what she is saying I just chose to ignore styluss because my personal life is not under any scrutiny and I owe her no explanation to my married life 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Cornpop: 10:03am On Jun 20, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Like they said, when ya married you can speak. For the now you can keep ya bad feminist attitude to yaself and follow the unmarried vile pigs like Tasha of that big brother naija thing. Ya got no respect and ya got no man, ya just a failed feminist who spends all her time on Nairaland with ya variety of monikers faking different personality 24/7 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:12am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Cornpop: Stop following me around nairaland get lost 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Cornpop: 10:14am On Jun 20, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: When ya get a suitable life. Old woman like ya should be focused on betterment of ya life instead of trying feminist bs. You failed at that ya know. Do something reasonable 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:15am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Cornpop:LMAO You are talking to yourself not me I am done giving you the attention you crave for. Bye 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by Cornpop: 10:27am On Jun 20, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Monkeys cannot give me attention ya know? Ya a girl, girls like hangout with girls, ya unmarried and ugly. Ya only find attention on Nairaland. Hence, ya dozens of active monikers. Ya a failed feminist and ya prost.... Mom was on work before she conceived ya. 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by efficiencie(m): 11:40am On Jun 20, 2021 |
RealNakupenda: Husband cannot groom his wife, wife is totally unyielding and lacks submission...madam you clearly want to be the husband. You might as well just do reconstructive surgery and identify as a man! As for your man he is struggling with grooming you right and pointing out your wrongs in a more constructive manner...both of you need to go and study what it means to be husband and wife according to the standards of your faith. Doing a wedding does not automatically make you husband and wife, you actually have to understand, appreciate and play the roles required of husbands and wives! 2 Likes |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by bukatyne(f): 11:49am On Jun 20, 2021 |
efficiencie: @bold: Is it okay for a husband to be rude and uncouth to his wife? 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by efficiencie(m): 12:09pm On Jun 20, 2021 |
bukatyne: Rude? Uncouth? She shouldn't have wedded him them...why didnt she do her due diligence to wed a man that can take her BS and be polite still, hunnn!? 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by ogawisdom(m): 1:55pm On Jun 20, 2021 |
If u kw u hate submission why bother about marriage. u can't challenge a man always n expect love no way except he is broke n jobless |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by evil1: 2:15pm On Jun 20, 2021 |
You both have anger issues and ego problems. Communication is the key in marriage, relationship. I learn a lot and wish even though we will have issues, let it not pass midnight. A principle I have tried and is working probably. Doesn't matter who's wrong or right. You both need to talk it out. Even as I plan to tie the knot, I pray not to be with the wrong person but some one who will not take advantage of me, domestic violence or whatever but someone we both share peace of mind together 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by liquidmetall: 10:21am On Jun 28, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: There's difference between sheeps and goats In the body of Christ.. Enjoy |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by kenlolly75: 8:42pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Both of you have a long way to go. But, you in particular, you are too saucy and you nag a lot. You need to work on how you talk to your husband. 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by abidem4real: 9:43pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz:The writer does not require your type. All that she wants is advice and way forward to keep her home because it seems she still loves her husband and hence the need for people to pinpoint on her faults as written by her and to tell her what to do in order to safeguard her home. Your type can never have a peaceful home and therefore, your advice is clearly unwanted because you can't give what you don't have. |
Re: What Should I Do? My Husband Said Our Marriage Is Over-Pls Advise by AmazonTopaz(f): 11:01pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
abidem4real: Shut up 2 Likes |
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