crackhaus:

I think what you mean to say, is that there are still good girls who don't go about lodging in hotels with sugar-daddies and yahoo boys.

This doesn't mean that these good girls are still virgins though...

Two different things.

pocohantas:
Thank God I imported husband from Cambodia. You can do same if Naija girls matter done tire you.

SpringofLife:
My experience working in a hotel.

Although I always wanted to write this but I think with the trending story of Chidinma and Super TV boss, it is a good time to do it.

I finished school 3years ago and have been hit by unemployment in the country. Out of no choice, I landed for a hotel work with meagre salary. Well, that story has already been told on another of my thread (check my profile for the thread).

So out of hunger and frustration, I accepted the offer as it was the only available option. About 6 months into the job now, I can say I'm marveled by what I see daily in the place. The level of sexual immoralities in the country is something else.

First, thhe owner of the hotel is a calm gentleman married to a beautiful woman with kids but he still has side chicks. He's someone who travels a lot but he has chicks in all these places. Secondly, the manager is a prolific womanizer. He has this habit of lodging different girls in different rooms and would go round having sex with each and everyone of them. Of course the cost of doing this is no child's play. He probably spends at least 30k or above daily to run these multiple of sex partners. Not castigating the man but the wife is quite industrious trying to pick every penny here and there while the husband is spending big on girls.

Another set of people are yahoo boys. They are the top customers in the place. These guys with their money have been able to bring out the slut in girls. You see them doing all sort of things with our regular Nigerian girls in the street carrying face like they don't know anything whereas they've involved in unexplainable and unimaginable sexual immoralities. Yahoo boys have used them for 3some, 4some and other group/party sex setting. Most times, these boys book a suite to host sex party. it could be 3 boys and 5 girls. I mean even beautiful girls that look calm, homely, innocent and even churchy engage the these act.

And now to the grand patrons, the king of kings and the Lord of lords, the married men. These people take it as a duty to sleep around with young girls. You see them bringing in different girls to the hotel to sleep with them. The case of Chidinma and TV boss was just one out of thousands and millions happening on daily basis. When I look at all these, I weep for us singles guys and the future in general. I may be correct to say there's no decent girl out there again from what I have seen.

Not trying to demonize only married men, married women are not back seat takers at all. They are actively involved in extra marital affairs sleeping with both single guys or other married men.

Finally, I want to dedicate this piece of work to nollywood. Most of the scripts they play are manifesting in our real time encounter.

talk2hb1:
Here is my two coin:
Their is this pretty lady, she is tall, bursty, soft spoken, with ebony beauty skin every guy has been dying for. Luckily for you, she gave you the opportunity to be her man and you swear not to have extra affairs again because she even claimed she is a virgin, after all she is looking innocent you trust her.

You tried to please her as much as possible, did I mentioned the part where she said sex is till on wedding night which you consented to. You paid her expensive bride price through your nose, so on your wedding night (the long awaited night), Miss/Mrs virgin ain't no virgin.

You felt disappointed, you felt cheated, you felt ....... (all those feeling I can't itemized) she begged you all night, she begged you all day. After all she is your wife, you accept her cock and bull story because you loved her, but the mind is still troubled, the mind become more troubled when you meet someone who told you she is a sperm tank while she was in school, She is been a generous caretaker then.

If the husband in this story should unleashes, what do you think he won't do with girls. Both young and old will be lashed, his wive will look useless to him, fight everyday, if one did not kill the other first.
My 2 cent, don't kill yourself in the name of love.

AgentGoat:


Forget it, if you are not involved in any immorality your husband or future husband and children will not be that kind.

ayenale1:
Poster u get paid from immorality therefore you are also part of the scheme nobody holy pass...posting this shit means u re a chronic gossipper, gbeborun, amebo, solomakinde...if u don't want to work in a hotel as a result of what you have seen then resign and look for another job...sharing ur experience is complete nonsense...

doggedfighter:
Seems your major preoccupation and work is monitoring immorality in your work place.

You use the word 'immorality' like Deeper Life members

When you picked a job in a hotel, were you hoping to see praise and worship singers?

Does it mean no other meetings have held in your hotel?

Nigerians are highly sexual, they eat and breathe sex but pretentious because of religion.

Even you the investigative hotel worker taking roll call isn't exempted.

Sex is like a recreational activity and hobby for most Nigerians both young and old.

But our hpocrisy is out of this world !

Dearpart1000:
you will make heaven, I am telling you! This is the reason why some men do and undo just to relieve themselves from their retroactive jealousies. But, we all forget that if everyone pays back in this manner then the trend will never stop, so let’s forgive and forget because even you the man are no saint. Your Ex is also someone else’s wife as well don’t forget.

CHoccolaTE:


What if she is widowed or divorced or never married?
She is in her 50s doesn't mean she is married.

Ishilove:
It seems I have lived a sheltered life because each time I come across stories like this, my mind boggles. The thought that this kind of sexual laxity exists makes my soul quail

Ishilove:
It seems I have lived a sheltered life because each time I come across stories like this, my mind boggles. The thought that this kind of sexual laxity exists makes my soul quail

doggedfighter:
Seems your major preoccupation and work is monitoring immorality in your work place.

You use the word 'immorality' like Deeper Life members

When you picked a job in a hotel, were you hoping to see praise and worship singers?

Does it mean no other meetings have held in your hotel?

Nigerians are highly sexual, they eat and breathe sex but pretentious because of religion.

Even you the investigative hotel worker taking roll call isn't exempted.

Member

Sex is like a recreational activity and hobby for most Nigerians both young and old.

But our hpocrisy is out of this world !

ayenale1:
Poster u get paid from immorality therefore you are also part of the scheme nobody holy pass...posting this shit means u re a chronic gossipper, gbeborun, amebo, solomakinde...if u don't want to work in a hotel as a result of what you have seen then resign and look for another job...sharing ur experience is complete nonsense...

I guess his bullet hit you unexpectedly

AgentGoat:


Forget it, if you are not involved in any immorality your husband or future husband and children will not be that kind.

tartarus:
Nairaland boys will always find a way to shame women! I haven't seen a comment demonizing the men taking part in these "immoralities" it's the women that are the problem. Nonsense

Bankowner:
Never for any reason attribute the titles “King of kings” and “Lord of lords” to a man. They belong to the Supreme God, the Almighty, Omnipotent and Omniscient.

Ishilove:

I am amazed, really. Maybe he works in short time hotels.

OneNigeria1:
am a manager of one small hotel in Abuja here and as am typing this comment now inside this cold weather one married man is knacking one side chick right now in one of my rooms ......some will even call ask for the manger then Conner you one side and ask you get something for me na toto e the find so oo

doggedfighter:
Seems your major preoccupation and work is monitoring immorality in your work place.

You use the word 'immorality' like Deeper Life members

When you picked a job in a hotel, were you hoping to see praise and worship singers?

Does it mean no other meetings have held in your hotel?

Nigerians are highly sexual, they eat and breathe sex but pretentious because of religion.

Even you the investigative hotel worker taking roll call isn't exempted.

Sex is like a recreational activity and hobby for most Nigerians both young and old.

But our hpocrisy is out of this world !

doggedfighter:
Seems your major preoccupation and work is monitoring immorality in your work place.

You use the word 'immorality' like Deeper Life members

When you picked a job in a hotel, were you hoping to see praise and worship singers?

Does it mean no other meetings have held in your hotel?

Nigerians are highly sexual, they eat and breathe sex but pretentious because of religion.

Even you the investigative hotel worker taking roll call isn't exempted.

Sex is like a recreational activity and hobby for most Nigerians both young and old.

But our hpocrisy is out of this world !