| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AliAgbede22(m): 2:29pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Guy if u want to marry, marry but don't have it in mind if she cheats on u ,because if u do u will get hurt. 1 Like 
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| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Lieutgood(m): 2:35pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Bros an olosho can never stop being an olosho..u are lucky u got a coded olosho..she has already given the yahoo boy an advance doggy style..something u can only imagine.
no olosho is worth my peace of mind sha. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by StUriah(m): 2:36pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
BarrSly:
lol I’m not even advising OP to go into any other serious relationship after this one. I used to be a cold nigga no heart no love however I met a girl recently who captured my heart that I was so scared. Guess what bro, I’m breaking up with her by month end and returning back to the cold world. 
Uhm |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Lostchild(m): 2:40pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP
You will make a fatal mistake when if use anger when you are dealing with a woman.
That guy man has been shining her kubi
Warning: Be careful of that babe, she may get pregant and claims you are the owner |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Oturatetuala(m): 2:41pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Eeweeey |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Agugbadin: 2:45pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..
I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .
She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.
I told her to give me small time to save up money .
There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .
I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.
We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .
I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.
I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.
I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .
That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .
She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.
My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .
The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .
Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling
Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo
I need advise from real niggaz Is she an Igbo girl |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 2:52pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
The small thing wey you don do on top her head dey pain you abi, chief count your loss and move on...
Whisper it to your neighbours 'She is for the streets' |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Divoc19(f): 2:53pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Nope. Based on the write-up, she already blocked him on WhatsApp before, that was why she put her phone on flight mode because text or calls can still come in. And remember her boyfriend was not aware by this time. What is important here is that she already regards him(op) as her husband to be. Toasters will always come and get worse after marriage. DMerciful:
She blocked him when she refused to give him her phone cos she knew he'd check....she probably deleted some chats. It's basic and I expect you to know 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by tishbite41(m): 3:03pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Abeg who sabi hack WhatsApp |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by DMerciful(m): 3:07pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Nope....what's important is a partially married woman collecting money from another man and not telling the fiance. Never ignore red flags when you wanna take a life decision.....the stick you see cannot blind you! Why are you defending this act? Something you can comfortably do? Divoc19:
Nope. Based on the write-up, she already blocked him on WhatsApp before, that was why she put her phone on flight mode because text or calls can still come in. And remember her boyfriend was not aware by this time.
What is important here is that she already regards him(op) as her husband to be. Toasters will always come and get worse after marriage.
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| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Lewandoski20(m): 3:08pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:
Are u people even OK? She probably knows d guy will flip hence d secrecy. God answers my prayer and brings a helper my way I shouldn't collect because of one guy struggling to pay 45 percent? Let's b rational Oloshoe mindset |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
See comments  Girls dey suffer for Naija  
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| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Divoc19(f): 3:17pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Am defending her cos nobody is an expert in these things. We don't always have to be self-centered or negative. They are a young couple that need experience to learn and to grow. She and her husband to be are learning how to be transparent...trust me, it's not easy. They'll both learn how to handle situations like this better in future. Mind you, she's not into the Yahoo guy. If she was, she would have walked out on her man and the Yahoo boy can buy her another phone. Shebi he is rich? DMerciful:
Nope....what's important is a partially married woman collecting money from another man and not telling the fiance.
Never ignore red flags when you wanna take a life decision.....the stick you see cannot blind you!
Why are you defending this act? Something you can comfortably do? |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by lexander(m): 3:24pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..
I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .
She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.
I told her to give me small time to save up money .
There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .
I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.
We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .
I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.
I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.
I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .
That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .
She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.
My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .
The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .
Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling
Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo
I need advise from real niggaz I won't say I understand your pain because I obviously haven't been in your situation but that's precisely why I can calmly say impregnating her would be the worst mistake of your life. Its possible she has been sleeping with the guy but it's also possible she hasn't, at the end of the day the final decision lies with you to go ahead with the marriage knowing quite well that you might never be able to trust her again or simply let her go and let the whole thing end on a neutral ground. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by stormborn28(m): 3:29pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
omotoshodontee1:
Take a chillpill bro,she is not ur wife yet.trust me,the guy will pound her if that hasn't happened... If it is meant to be, it will surely be hmmmmmm....pounded yam |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by DMerciful(m): 3:30pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
No sane girl happily walks into a yahoo guy abandoning someone that has done some traditional rights.....you don't expect a yahoo boy to be dating only you how much more marriage. She obviously wanted the money and continue with her fiance but it doesn't walk that way. You and I know she'd sleep with the yahoo guy for money and if she becomes pregnant, dump the child with the fiance. You mentioned they'd learn transparency, you don't learn honesty....it's either you're honest or dishonest. Now that he has seen the handwriting on the wall, it's his choice if he wanna continue but again the stick you see cannot blind you. I also know if the fiance is your brother you wouldn't advice him to ignore this gross misconduct Divoc19:
Am defending her cos nobody is an expert in these things. We don't always have to be self-centered or negative.
They are a young couple that need experience to learn and to grow.
She and her husband to be are learning how to be transparent...trust me, it's not easy.
They'll both learn how to handle situations like this better in future.
Mind you, she's not into the Yahoo guy. If she was, she would have walked out on her man and the Yahoo boy can buy her another phone. Shebi he is rich?
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| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Baruwaaaaa(m): 3:30pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Fear woman |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Issues2(m): 3:34pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..
I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .
She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.
I told her to give me small time to save up money .
There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .
I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.
We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .
I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.
I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.
I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .
That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .
She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.
My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .
The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .
Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling
Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo
I need advise from real niggaz Guy she is not a wife material just enjoy her pussy while d promo last just go look for another decent girl cuz dis one feet yansh man in ur absent |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by stormborn28(m): 3:34pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Divoc19:
Nope. Based on the write-up, she already blocked him on WhatsApp before, that was why she put her phone on flight mode because text or calls can still come in. And remember her boyfriend was not aware by this time.
What is important here is that she already regards him(op) as her husband to be. Toasters will always come and get worse after marriage.
you mumu ooooooo.....the moment she backed OP, that was when she deleted her chat....I don't need a prophet to tell me....all these your nonsense defense of her are rubbish |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Issues2(m): 3:37pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
DMerciful:
No sane girl happily walks into a yahoo guy abandoning someone that has done some traditional rights.....you don't expect a yahoo boy to be dating only you how much more marriage.
She obviously wanted the money and continue with her fiance but it doesn't walk that way. You and I know she'd sleep with the yahoo guy for money and if she becomes pregnant, dump the child with the fiance.
You mentioned they'd learn transparency, you don't learn honesty....it's either you're honest or dishonest. Now that he has seen the handwriting on the wall, it's his choice if he wanna continue but again the stick you see cannot blind you.
I also know if the fiance is your brother you wouldn't advice him to ignore this gross misconduct Girls of dis generation oo mehn is very risky oo na woman oo |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Tonero231: 3:47pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:
Are u people even OK? She probably knows d guy will flip hence d secrecy. God answers my prayer and brings a helper my way I shouldn't collect because of one guy struggling to pay 45 percent? Let's b rational Nne, u should collect the d**ck joor |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Nobody: 3:48pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:
As long as d lady didnt cheat or even think of cheating, I see no issue here. I wish I knew you in person... The actually advice you about a lot of things. This commando perception you have may cost you your life |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Divoc19:
For her to have blocked his line on WhatsApp, it means she is trying to lay him off.
At least she is open to work with you against the maga.
Tell her no more lies.
That girl like you o.
Marry her.
She blocked his line only so messages from him don’t deliver while she’s at OP’s apartment. We know you girls |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 3:58pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
iamadonis2:
I wish I knew you in person...
The actually advice you about a lot of things. This commando perception you have may cost you your life Haba that's a stretch naw. You all are seeing d negative |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Gfskw: 3:59pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Lol |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Naughtysex: 4:00pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..
I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .
She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.
I told her to give me small time to save up money .
There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .
I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.
We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .
I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.
I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.
I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .
That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .
She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.
My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .
The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .
Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling
Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo
I need advise from real niggaz Number 1, the story is not real Number 2, you are stuppeed for unblocking the number she blocked Number 3, for you to start chatting with the guy she blocked means you are not mature for marriage Number 4, I know that both you and the story are fake but i decided to play along should in case it happens in your dream |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 4:01pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Davyyd1993:
Same thing happened to me when I bought IPhone 7 plus for my girlfriend. She went to camp in Imo recently and I sent her a lot of money for relocation. She didn't do the relocation. I gave her 10k weekly for the 3 weeks camp amd 50k for relocation and another 50k for lodging since she didn't do the relocation. My brother this girl left camp in Imo and went to Abuja with my money to a guy's house for another extra 3 weeks after their initial 3 weeks camp. When she came to lagos i knew something was wrong. I stylishly collect her phone then type Sex on her whatsapp guess what I saw. The guy Don drill my so called girlfriend to the extent she had tears in her private part and they were discussing about it that she should not have sex with me her boyfriend so she can heal pending she comes back to Abuja again My brother i confronted her she couldn't say anything. I just hand her the phone chase hee out of my house and blocked her since 3 months ago. Na the last time I heard of her be that. I sold her clothes to Hausas. Her mom called to beg i bullshit her and every member of her family. My guy leave that girl. I swear there are very good girls out there. I'm happily in good and responsible relationship now and even happy sef Your gf is a greedy LovePeddler cos i see no reason to see any man when you in a caring relationship. All d men quoting me are simply being sentimental. I don't condone cheating and will never condone it. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:
Haba that's a stretch naw. You all are seeing d negative There’s no negative. Go through my topics and see that I and OP have been in an almost similar situation. Same signs and actions Money Lies Another man |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 4:02pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
chakaz:
Why are you willing to settle with one guy that is struggling to pay 45% in the first place? What is bad is bad. A cheat remains a cheat irrespective of how you twist the story. If you know the man income is not what you can manage, why entangling with him! Ladies always trying to justify unjustifiable things! Noted |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 4:04pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Kimjongun:
You women will be putting your hands inside fire and be thinking you are being smart. You think it's all people you can play and be calling them helper.
Someone either want to date or fvck you and he is already sending you money while you at the back of your mind believe you are smart and you won't give him any of what he desire from you, you think you will go scott free if he finds out he is being played?
You are hurting a man ego and you think he won't want to treat your Bleep up? Yahoo boy for that matter. Many of you are just madd.
I just hope she doesn't create unnecessary enemy for the innocent guy.
Tomorrow someone will kidnap your child or even rape you and you will be shouting men are evil.
If you can't be loyal to the devil, don't dine with it! OK maybe the op lady case sha. Personally I don't string people along for gains. I have benevolent frds who give when dem get without expecting anything |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 4:05pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Jonathan39:
You speak like a renowned olosho. Helper kor maga ni, Yahoo boys gives money and expect to Bleep in return, stop hiding under the word helper, you are decieving yourself toh I don't know cos I don't keep them as friends |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 4:06pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
iExplore:
You reason like a typical Nigerian girl.
What do u know Men do worse shaaaa, na Una school the girls so deal with it. |
