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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Asapchris(m): 3:47pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Joining cult will be a very wrong move. Guy believe in yourself and face your fear anytime 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by seyz91(m): 3:47pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
You get am sweetshisha: |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Facts111: 3:48pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
SenatePresdo:I don't understand |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by SenatePresdo(m): 3:49pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Facts111: Which day do you celebrate your birthday, from there I will know. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Facts111: 3:49pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
BeLookingIDIOT:Yeah .. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Elock1: 3:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
choblak:we plenty Sha.. I have only one friend I can call a friend. But I have been improving of late tho... I can now start a convo with anyone I like. Problem is I still can't sustain it.. But when I come around now.. They are like my gee. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by manny4u(m): 3:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Facts111: On the bolded don't ever try joining cultism it would end in premium tears. On being shy, you are not alone i was exactly like you when i was your age, but now i confidently talk to hundreds of people at a time and a relatively good salesman too. The secret is that you should keep developing your mind and move with people that you can learn positive things from, and dump that friend of yours that is encouraging you to be a cultist it would end in premium tears for you and your Mum. Selah!!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Archmage(m): 3:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Nothing is wrong with you. There are many people out there who derive energy from being alone, just like you. Try taking a personality test on www.16personalitites.com. This will give you a better understanding of yourself. As you learn more about your tendencies, you will begin to gain confidence in the fact that you are different and that being different is a good thing. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Charx122: 3:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Facts111: Shyness!! Is normal, just behave no one is there with you .... walk act like you know a lot of things ...Just tell one fine girl you like she looks so pretty and you feel like bleeping...Join cult and you would spend 21 years in prison do the math ...kick start your life do something crazy ...Do you like men or women? Act before it gets too late.. Lol 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by harmless(m): 3:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
This has nothing to do what the young man is saying, watching porn/masturbation can affect both introvert and extrovert ShakurMY: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Facts111: 3:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
SenatePresdo:I don't celebrate birthday... Am from the village 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by elmas(m): 3:51pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Go and work in a market for 6months and come back to tell us something 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by TheWolfen(m): 3:51pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Epic line
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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Authommy: 3:51pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Hey Nig, Go to Gym Dats the only way u build ur spirit 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Ikegod89(m): 3:52pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
You don't have a problem as far as am concerne, what you need to do is this if your parent can sponsor you go and learn a trade and after six months start your own business or go and learn a work you have passion for at least one year make sure you learn it very well before you leave. When you start your own put those creativities in you into it and see the sky being your starting point. Don't join cult, don't start drinking and useless your future. Remember you are different, what works for others may not work for you. Feel free to contact me for counseling 08109528946 WhatsApp only 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by SenatePresdo(m): 3:52pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Facts111: You don't know your birthday. Eg; 5th October? Knowing your zodiac sign would help to some extent. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by SweetDipBenny(m): 3:54pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Do u have moni? |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Triangles1(m): 3:54pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
sweetshisha:Baddest |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by whitecake: 3:54pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
It's a gift, take advantage of it Bring an introvert is a characteristics of being capable of great thoughts Read, learn new things everyday You have a big mental capacity, you don't have to be like the other's There are few of us out there, and we definitely don't fit 'in' . 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by hokafor(m): 3:55pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
sweetshisha:Lol, you self be champion for the game. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Nasir123(m): 3:55pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
sweetshisha: Guy u dey mad o! 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Facts111: 3:56pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
SenatePresdo:10/10/1998 |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by FaskeyG(m): 3:57pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
How can you even be thinking of joining cult wen the one's wey join wan come out ...abi ur brain dey sag 5 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by socialmediaman: 3:57pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
sweetshisha: Your advise is on point, but it's important he knows that being shy and being an introvert are two different things. There are also shy extroverts @Facts111 You need to work on your social skills. Read more books and go out more often, interact with people starting from those you're comfortable with and progress to strangers, improve on manners like appreciation, compliments etc, little by little you get used to building better social skills. Do some research |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by LawFight(m): 3:57pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Facts111: God hasn't given you the spirit of fear ,but of power and a sound Mind. U can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Please join a Bible believing church ,join the work force deliberately involve yourself in the youth activates. Pray ,read your Bible Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Then watch football, argue with sensible guys. Go to newspaper stands discuss politics. Use hear piece then Sing aloud . Greater you bro. The one that leaves in you is greater than the one that leaves in the world . Cheers 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by RiceProducers: 3:57pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Very good that you are shy. Your intelligence is high. You need to judge yourself less and just enjoy people. Yes, people can be enjoyed. Remember, it is really dumb people that are never shy. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by The5DME(m): 3:58pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
I don't know how to advise you. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Lordofalmajiri(f): 3:58pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
choblak:Be yourself, everything will fall In place. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by olurili(m): 3:59pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease:best advice |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by KennethIbe59(m): 3:59pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Same thing with me.. But I discover the problem, Mastubation..... I am 31 by age, I have been mastubating for over 14years and its killing me slowly.. I have tried on different occasions to stop it but all effort prove abortive. Most times I mastubate 2 to 3 a day..... But last week been the 29 of June, I went to church for program and pray that God help me to stop this mastubations.. Believe me it has not be easy but today makes it 8 days I have stay without mastubating..... I pray God help me not to go back to it... I try as much not to watch porn movies because I am addicted to it....... I pray God help you too... So my friend, don't think you have a problem there is nothing wrong with you.. If u can stop mastubating, u will be fine 11 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by adecz: 3:59pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Take Igbo & you'll even toast Tiwa or Beyonce...♥♥♥ 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Olaideolayemi(m): 4:00pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Oh boy..I am confirmed introvert, growing up was full of chanlenges and problems, therefore shyness and low self esteem destroyed my life..I encountered the lowself esteem, especially in school,Many woman and ladies turn me down..And life become tough for me.. Everyday only me..No friends,No relationship.just me..Even till now.. Don't join cultist oo,You will die Young,and if you turn to smoker or drunker..It will make it worst..How do I solve the problems 1.Close to God, whether you're Muslim/Christian.. Always worship God 2.Have a dream..dream is very important.. It equip you for future..3.Read-Try and read many Articles ranging from politic, economy, relationship,current Affairs..It would boost your self esteem.. Confident,pride and boldness will come..Have used this stuff,To gathered social esteem,personal esteem,social class.. Balanced life and inner peace..Just do this and see the magic.. 6 Likes |
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