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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Facts111: 6:03pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
1Sharon:Ok |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by UwaMmebii(m): 6:03pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
AbujaAgent: U re 100% correct, I was once like op not till the day I made my first 50m all the shiness vanished. Although my own is not that extreme but I can relate with what u said. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Alexanderobi: 6:04pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Bro just try to be relaxed and don't pressure yourself 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by JennyOfOldstones(f): 6:05pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
drizzle0007: ![]() Facts111 try to go out more. Maybe you can take up early morning jogging, you'll probably meet other joggers and make friends with them and the adrenaline and dopamine rush will help make you more confident enough to strike up a conversation with them. The guy I quoted has a lot of good advice in his post..just ignore the alcohol bit ![]() |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by KENVEE6: 6:06pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Facts111 I'm like that but am getting better, I think you have social anxiety disorder. It is a mental sickness that prevents a person from having any social life (I have it too). If you know any psychiatric hospital in your area or locality, go there, speak to them and speak to a therapist, you be fine, but na your money oo. (Browse more about SAD) |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by ojaysam25(m): 6:07pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
@op those telling you to stop masturbation are on point...it affects ones mental state it can even lead to depreciating memory and uncontrollable fear...that is the root cause of your problem. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Albertone(m): 6:10pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Elock1: I am interested too bruh I love the seas |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by kodded(m): 6:17pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Guyman111: Who cares about what she says ? ![]() She should be privileged that my guy is using her to learn on how to talk to a woman, not all women have that opportunity you know ![]() |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Albertone(m): 6:18pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
MistaBabz: But sexual urge is at it's peak.He doesn't know how to talk to ladies,let alone satisfy his urges with them. How will he satisfy his urges? I love the seas |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Bellgal: 6:18pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Please join any choir group in your church. Stay away from cultism Can i have your number please |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Dazall: 6:21pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Make money and you will see that you are not shy, your brokeness no wan allow you express yourself... talking from experience 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Albertone(m): 6:25pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
ikorodureporta: Wrong! I Know many introvert soldiers.The only thing is,they know how to switch to bully civilians(all the shoutings,beatings, showing no mercy).Laslas, all na acting!They go back to their introvert self when gragra is not required. A naval rating once slapped a bike man in traffic.He felt guilty afterwards that he had to ask God for forgiveness. I love the seas |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Goldbw122(m): 6:28pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Facts111:Don't join cult oo, it will be a really bad decision, just work on your self find a friend that will motivate you to improve your self some one that have your problem at hearth... |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Albertone(m): 6:36pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
waploger: Can you explain the bolded please? I love the seas |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Jetbound: 6:38pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Facts111: I've been there. To some extent I still struggle with it but far from how it was when I was younger. What makes you shy is you thinking about people's opinion on you. If you can get over that you'll be fine. I got more confident from self medicating. Normally in a better country you would've gotten meds for anxiety from your psychologist,but this is Nigeria You'll have to work around it by yourself. I wouldn't recommend weed (p.s It really helped with mine) cos marijuana affects people differently. Try using social media to make more friends with similar interests with you. Always remind yourself you're are just human like the next person and try not to be intimidated by anyone's presence. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by waploger(m): 6:39pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Albertone: an erection. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Elock1: 6:39pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Albertone:Baba no be say I be guru oh... Na just as I take help my own miserable life I just Wan relate to am oh |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by CALCULUS16: 6:40pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Facts111:I was the professor of shyness in the whole world ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by walozanga(m): 6:41pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
U must make sure u are my friend. Make sure u get enough cash. I know how to fix u ![]() |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by jieta: 6:42pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
OnlyDeCapPlease:I just like this your philosophy. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by GodisFirst: 6:46pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Forget about women for now, focus on your future. Try keeping yourself busy with acquiring skills, learning new things that will keep you busy till you are ready for marriage. Have you finished studies? go for further studies. Quit masturbation, with time you will overcome it. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Paularus(m): 6:47pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
It's not a disease, its who you are and you can't fight that, I was once like you, very very shy and do sweat in front of crowd but I'm not like that anymore though I still sweat in some situations but I don't give it a thought anyway, i speak to anyone and everyone now, any girl of any shape, if you need help, msg me, I can walk you through same process that I followed. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Albertone(m): 6:49pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
waploger: Hold a boner: Can he maintain an erection or can he prevent an erection? That is what I meant. I love the seas |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Albertone(m): 6:50pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Elock1: Post am for here make we learn abeg. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Goldbw122(m): 6:51pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
studentofTruth:Wow this is a lot.. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Elock1: 7:02pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Albertone:omo na gradual process oh. I was so bad that I even feel embarrassed to write what i did here.. Lol I'm not a pro but I just feel different people have different approaches, what worked for A might not work for B. But first of all I started with admitting I was a modafakin jerk. Then I started reading all this rubbish online thing way no work oh... It sounds nice but liver dy always cut I just hard to conquer my fear and register in a social group.. A theatrics group. Then it all started by waving at random beautiful girls... From there we dy improve dy go. I think whatsapp go dy better Sha. Facts111 |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
elmas:this is true sha,because i own a shop in the market for like two year,this really boost my confidence in talking to whoever i like, but as for me i choose people i talk to,u can't chose me. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by mydas4ever: 7:18pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
drizzle0007: The best post and advice is this. God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by drizzle0007(m): 7:21pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Moura7: It's one thing that causes severe social isolation. There's hardly an 'extreme' introvert that doesn't. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by drizzle0007(m): 7:24pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
mydas4ever: Amen brother. Thank you. |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by iamtardey: 7:26pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Funny �... And you're telling yourself this big lie... Facts111: |
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by iLegendd(m): 7:27pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
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