TarOrfeeek:
When dim wits like you wake up and spin what is a natural disaster for both genders into a blame game - my faith in our common humanity is once more strengthened.

The God that created the wise, created people like you too.

Firstly, the socio economic building or construction of a thriving society, why is it men who are to blame that Nigeria failed. A country that was even created by a woman immediately after hot sekz.

Your postulations are wrong. You belittle women by claiming their decisions to trade sexual favors for food comes from a weak mental makeup.

Nigerian women are among the most unfaithful in the world (Durex studies). For a gender that relishes sex, utilising same activity to amass resources will only come naturally. And its not a man's fault.

Foolish women like you are damaged. Mentally you naturally expect men to cater for you, hereby, invalidating your claims of equality.

Orphan, invalid or superhero - Nigerian women can do ALL things except accept responsibility for their own inherent flaws.

Tueh

pansophist:


don't you think you are focusing on the symptoms and not the disease?

If Nigeria was created after hot sex between Lord Luggard and his prostitute wife, then isn't it the duty of the MEN, who have been ruling since independence to correct the historical wrong? You can only blame the women if they make up almost all the political leaders but as far as I can tell, there have never been one female governor, president, VP, and such position in Nigeria history.

Can you also tell me the correlation between unfaithfulness and building a functioning society? bear in mind that New Zealander women are the world's most promiscuous, but it's also a highly developed country.

I would not delve into this malaise as a racial one as I do not know how it is for black women in Kenya, Angola, Brazil or the US but the quality of life women enjoy depend on the level of sophistication their men have built their societies into.

We have many Nigerian women trading their bodies in Italy, the UAE and parts of Europe but we don’t have similar or even half the proportion of European ladies doing same in Nigeria. How many Italian women have you see in Allen Avenue or any red-light district in Nigeria? How many South Korean women have you seen selling their bodies in Nigeria? How many Singaporean ladies have you seen/read travel to Nigeria to “hustle”? I am an ardent reader of Singaporean news and not once have I read that Singaporean ladies sell their bodies to pay school fees, to eat or get a job but these things are rampant in Nigeria because unlike Singapore where the likes of Lee Kuan Yew and Co built a prosperous society for them to thrive, Nigerian men of same generation ruined the country. Worse still, their successors exacerbated these issues through wanton corruption and rife ethnic bigotry compared to Lee’s successors who doubled down on his achievements by diversifying Singapore’s economy thereby generating more jobs for their citizens. Same in Japan where women constitute a larger proportion of luxury goods’ consumers because their men have created a prosperous place for them to be able to afford those products. Women of the world's poverty capital can only dream of being major consumers of luxury goods.

It is one of the reasons I don’t fault modern day Nigerian women who are into modern day feminism. I can understand their frustrations when they see the benefits of being a woman in a prosperous society.

SeaTrade:

If women can't struggle for their own survival,I am on the opinion that they should be used for things less than food and shelter sef,maybe bleeped for firewood.
Rubbish.

WhiteIverson:
In summary what you are saying is men should develop the country so women can get more worth for their hoeing.
The United States is said to be a working country but has the highest number of homeless people in the world.

In nigeria, if a young guy goes into yahoo to make ends meet, people castigate him and call him a criminal.
but if a young girl sells her body to make ends meet, she was desperate and left without choice thereby attracting pity.
Talk about double standards.

Gerrard59:


This is not true either by sheer number (China) or per capita (New Zealand) basis. Nonetheless, there would always be poor people in the society



Yahoo yahoo is a fraudulent act, no ifs or buts. Sleeping around is not a criminal offence.

SeaTrade:
I've always known you were incoherent and very empty from travel threads but never for once did I think you were stupid as well.
So in the US were everything is supposed to be working,aren't there women who sell their bodies as well for food and shelter?
I guess their men failed too right?
He even said it is the job of men to make or build a society for women to thrive in lol.
When people fail in life,they try to drag down everyone around them to the ground and ridicule their efforts.
Nigerian men are doing very well,I mean very well.You are not just able to meet up with the productive ones because they wouldn't roll with a nonentity like you,hence you use your unproductive circle(your likes) to judge Nigerian men.

TarOrfeeek:
When dim wits like you wake up and spin what is a natural disaster for both genders into a blame game - my faith in our common humanity is once more strengthened.

The God that created the wise, created people like you too.

Firstly, the socio economic building or construction of a thriving society, why is it men who are to blame that Nigeria failed. A country that was even created by a woman immediately after hot sekz.

Your postulations are wrong. You belittle women by claiming their decisions to trade sexual favors for food comes from a weak mental makeup.
Foolish women like you are damaged. Mentally you naturally expect men to cater for you, hereby, invalidating your claims of equality.

Orphan, invalid or superhero - Nigerian women can do ALL things except accept responsibility for their own inherent flaws.

Tueh

Nigerian women are among the most unfaithful in the world (Durex studies). For a gender that relishes sex, utilising same activity to amass resources will only come naturally. And its not a man's fault.

pansophist:
One thing a man needs to know is that he is a regulator of what a woman will be. If her generation lay more emphasis on sex, then that is what exactly majority of the women will have to offer.

I've had the chance to witness the gender dynamism in different cultures from Africa to Europe, to Asia and Middle East and it was clear to me that the women there are a reflection of what the society the men built. For example in Turkey, virginity is prized high in Muslim culture and lots of their women are virgin. In Slovakia, your typical naija insta girl would be looked down upon and classified as defective and in China, its even more stricter.

The point is simple. If Naija men stop the obsessive chase of women's pants, making it clear that being a woman with a coochie is not a password to his commitment, then women will regulate themselves. Men create the society, and women integrate into that society. If she is getting rewarded by being loose and unvirtous, then why be better ? If you'll go the heaven even if you're the demon himself, then why repent?

Gerrard59:

People would resort to the barest minimum to survive and for most women, this involves selling their bodies. Naturally, women are demisexual unlike men who have raging hormones but at the point of survival, women will resort to prostitution just to survive when they aren't built for it. If these women had good jobs and lived a prosperous life, they won't do such or the numbers would not be high. Building a functioning society is on men not women (no functioning society in the world had women at the forefront, none). Failure to do this will result in women taking the last option.

Nigerian men should build a prosperous society for their women, it is that simple. Men not women in the US, Germany, UAE, Malaysia, Australia, South Korea, Canada, UK and everywhere the vast majority of Nigerian men flee to (ask them why they do so and the answer is: to cater for my family/children/future generations - why should it be different in creating a functioning society for the women?) built those societies to their current states.

crackhaus:
I am in complete agreement with the OP and any woman who supports the OP would have as well proved my hypothesis right – that majority of young Nigerian women today can never be anything of worth without the help of a man.

For 9 out of every 10 women who are successful, there's always a man behind the scenes who started them up/bankrolled their little beginnings.
This is simply the summary of what the entire OP is about, so you may direct your hormone-filled rage to him if it upsets you.

The OP in a bid to put all the burden on men, has successfully made Nigerian women look like everything we have ever known and believed to be true from social conditioning – a completely useless gender without the help/support of a man/men.

Kudos Gerrard59.

SonofGod231:

You elaborated more on the topic than the OP himself but you would have done this without so much self absorbtion,hubris and pomposity. Seemly trying to belittle the other sex. This does not surprise me in the least. There is a disturbing undercurrent of misogyny in our society.You only have to read the comments under any Post that mentions Gender on NL to see this.

crackhaus:

What does NOT surprise me in the least is that you will see the misogyny in my post but none of it in the OP, when in fact he and I have said the exact same thing albeit from two different angles.

The OP did all the 'belittling' on his lonesome, I simply made it clearer for people who through no fault of theirs exist on a lower mental frequency, to understand.

You're welcome...

crackhaus:

What does NOT surprise me in the least is that you will see the misogyny in my post but none of it in the OP, when in fact he and I have said the exact same thing albeit from two different angles.

The OP did all the 'belittling' on his lonesome, I simply made it clearer for people who through no fault of theirs exist on a lower mental frequency, to understand.

You're welcome...