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| Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by GeneralKoko(m): 12:11pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
I have been a victim of disrespect over the years from mainly my friends. I don't know if it is because I'm too free or too playful but I hardly gain the respect of people. Please I need tips on how to gain the respect and loyalty of my friends. Thanks 20 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Sugardick: 12:12pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Respect yourself, simple 314 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Stupidquestions: 12:12pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
These are tips I apply to myself. 1. Be self reliant.: Never give impression that you can't exist alone or catch fun without your friends, and learn to take care of yourself without depending on people. If u are fond of borrowing..reduce it, and work hard to earn a living. . 2. Work on your interest: Get busy, and work on personal goal towards achievement. When u achieve something unexpected, people respect u. . 3. Talk less of your secret and plans: Don't reveal everything about yourself or what u are working on. See finish dey cause disrespect. And when u tell people abt ur goals, and if u later dint achieve it, people will see u as irresponsible and lazy...people don't respect such people. Keep ur plans to yasef . 4. Don't discuss certain embarrassing moments u had in the past. Some people will judge u by it. . 5. Appear neat all the time, and exude confidence, and also carry yourself with some sense of pride....little pride won't kill you. . 6. Don't always please people. Yes we like to act nice and be on good books of people...but over time people take u for granted. Sometimes don't give people what they ask for. Don't act nice when they are shit... . 7. Don't condone disrespect. Always call out the bullshit of anyone anywhere..don't make it like a joke... treat the Bleep up of people instantly. . 8. Reduce ur frequency of laughter with people. Don't laugh to every joke and with everybody . 9 Reduce your greetings. Yes some people want u to greet them all the time just to feel themselves. Sometimes, learn to bone/ snub people, and face ur front like someone serious without looking sideways. if they greet u fine...and if they don't, it's not all the time u have to greet. . 10. Reduce ur argument and charter when u don't have something reasonable to say especially with people of low mind... . 11...Then get a girlfriend if u don't have. Guys also respect u when ladies come around to fvvck u or come around as ur babe  12. Get a job and your personal apartment if you don't have. It will help to project you as a serious responsible perosn 714 Likes 105 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Kondomatic(m): 12:14pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
GeneralKoko:Being too free and playful dey cause see finish which is the major cause of disrespect. 75 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by ItsGoodToBeGood: 12:19pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
My own problem na "Because I No Get Money" I don't know if you are financially stable cos nowadays Money commands respect. So Nwanne bia ka anyi jee chuba ego. Also note that "oke ochii na ebute oke nkpari" so play and joke less but also be happy though 23 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Educonomist: 12:24pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
By minding ur business!!! 29 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Freelane33(m): 12:30pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
You’ll be fine bro . Just stay true to yourself , my dreams keep me away from most people at times and they all think it’s ego . No it is not , maybe your dream is too fucking low for them to respect you , re-dream your dream and restrategize. The lord is your strength GeneralKoko: 30 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by luvmijeje(f): 12:41pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
In addition to what everyone have said, please learn to respect yourself. If you don't have personal respect for yourself no one will respect you. Personal respect is consciously not doing things that will make others to disrespect you. You can't tell me you don't know why are you are being disrespected. Stop getting on people's nerves. 37 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by GeneralKoko(m): 12:42pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions: I have defaulted in almost all your tweets. I love them . I hope to improve. 88 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by VlamesIffect(f): 12:58pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
If dem no call you...no call them If dey no invite you no go. Respect yourself first. 56 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Kol007(m): 1:01pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
respect is what again.respect urself and people would respect u 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:10pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
GeneralKoko: there is nothing you can do to regain the respect from your friends, after years of disrespect. you might as well get rid of these bastard people you call friends, and find better people in your life. 93 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by dederocs(m): 1:27pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Respect is either earned or enforced. 24 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Stupidquestions: 1:49pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
GeneralKoko:We learn everyday.... And I forgot a point...reduce the way you ask questions...some questions may be troubling or unreasonable..yes, asking too many questions from people might make u seem like u don't know shit....so reduce questions to minimum .. And reduce how u complain to people who don't matter a bit to ur problem 71 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by SILENTandSMART2: 1:58pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Lol if you're short and thin that's automatically natural disrespect .....  so hit the gym and eat up Firstly I am tall and strong so I gain respect from people alot even people older than me cus they always wonder about me, i don't laugh even if you're sayin' something funny ,and i won't talk unless you ask me a question..... That's how it is........61 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by halogate: 1:59pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:  abi oh..That shyt is never hard for me to do.. Once I notice anyone wants to take me for granted..I cut u federal warning and dash u gap shirt.. Ba lokaci!!.. nobody is indepensible 28 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Coronavirus84: 2:17pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Just respect yourself and people will respect you. And don't go to Obi Cubana mother's burial because bouncers there disrespect every uninvited guest. Simple 33 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Catejj: 2:17pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Wow 1 Like |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by dmbb: 2:17pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Respect yourself 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by tillaman(m): 2:17pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
By respecting yourself first because you can’t give what you don’t have 5 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Cheapgadget(m): 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Do give away Now 3 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Righteousness2(m): 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Bow to GOD Obey your Parents in the Lord Respect Yourself. 16 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Tinyemeka(m): 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
GeneralKoko: Respect is earned. Be truly successful in whatever Godly or wholesome endeavour you pursue and you'll be respected. It comes naturally. 11 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by markkuss: 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
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| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Image123(m): 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
GeneralKoko: Respect yourself. See your name sef, general koko. The koko will be given generally na. |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Pfft just be you. Stop doing things just to impress anybody cause we're all humans like you. Focus on God and carry go. 13 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by wallay77(m): 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Maybe u need money 3 Likes |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Thugnificent(m): 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Je choba ego  1 Like |
| Re: Help!!! How Do I Gain Respect From People by Aklee4994(m): 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
By being the real version of yourself 2 Likes 1 Share |
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