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Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Limassol(m): 3:22pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Both are important but the male child is obviously more important, this is undebateble sef. Give me good looking and smart boy over ten girls anyday. Thread was probably created by a disgruntled feminist,smh. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Debra911(f): 3:23pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
MYHUBBY:Awwn that's so thoughtful of you, but no thanks |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by uthlaw: 3:24pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
feldido:oga husstle hard make u no wait 4 pikin b4 u eat....ur daughters will still collect 4rm there husband b4 u eat....male child, anyday anytime! 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by AFONAMARO: 3:27pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
BuyAndSellStuff: Yet, you ain't thinking of seeing your son's sextape with a random girl? Or, are the sins of ladies more dirtier? I hope you know the assumed sextape wouldn't be your imaginary daughter doing herself, but with an ill trained son raised by an assumed failed father, who was/is also a son? I weep for our backward way of thinking. Let me ask you, when a man is dead and gone, how would he know who bears his name or not? I bet the likes of Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, Dora Akunyili, Oby Ezekwesili, Chimamanda Adichie etc, are all men? 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by MYHUBBY: 3:28pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Debra911: no? does it mean you're a wife of somebody yet? |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Lukebryan2sure: 3:32pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Na so papa chikodi do in d bid of looking for a male child gave birth to 7girls Male/ female.. Pikin Na pikin 1 Like |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Sterope(f): 3:33pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
You spend money, time and effort on a child only for her future to be determined by the man she marries. Whether she can pursue a career? When she can go out? When she can visit her parents? Whether she can take care of her parents at their old age? Whether she is going to spend any celebrations with her family again? Whether she can cater for their financially needs? They ultimately have to rely on their daughters husband's to sustain them. A daughter is a loss 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by keentola(m): 3:34pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Chibu5050:WhatsApp number is in bio |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by SIRTee15: 3:34pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
I think the male preference is an African thing or should I say prevalent in conservative society- it's also a very big deal in Islamic community. In western countries, for a black family- it's much easier to train a girlchild than a boy. Black boys are at the lowest rung in the pyramid scale of societal importance. They are also very difficult to train, they won't listen to you, leave home very early, some cut themselves off from the family n change their names. It's a big achievement here to have a very successful family oriented black boy. The issue of keeping family name is quite dicey. But as an immigrant, just know that your grand children n great grandchildren will likely abandon your African sounding name- whether boy or girl. If in doubt, ask Ryan Giggs, Carlton Cole, Ashleigh plumptree n Ross Barkley. |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by uthlaw: 3:36pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
harmony75:so 90% of the female children are running after 3% male children that are doing okay to get married to them.....all the responsible women in Nigeria depends on their husband or family wealth....women do not usually dream to get rich but rather go after rich men! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
adebenson155: Unless you're sure your females would be senseless already,and unless you don't have the brain to nurture them cuz most guy's brain are just perforated already.. Besides,if your wife or to-be wife is senseless, just forget it.. The combination of you guys wouldn't make sense as you guys would just raise females that would end up being useless. Not all females are useless,only the ones you find yourself around are useless I think. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
BuyAndSellStuff: Then it shows you lack what it takes to raise a great female child... just sit down and have a rethink about yourself. Is it every females that are useless?..is it every females that has the sextape being leaked out there?..make use of your brain for once now.. Those decent females you see out there were raised up by parents who has sense.. Why not start searching for such sense than moving around with senseless females who has affected your life with their senselessness? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Maj196(m): 3:45pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
With all these pusssy boys around. Some girls are more useful than boys |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by webizone(m): 3:46pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
WoundedLamb: Not true. Even after strict upbringings, it's still nature. |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Debra911:you fine sha,let me give you that male |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by dominique(f): 3:48pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
When the likes of George W Bush, Bill cliy, Mark Zuckerberg, Aliko Dangote, Barrack Obama etc are not fretting about sons that will preserve their names. it is you, a nobody with zero impact to humanity that is now shouting your family name must be preserved yen yen yen. So male children are easier to raise Abi? If you're not tired of seeing street urchins, drug addicts, cultists, thugs etc littered almost every corner you turn, me I am tired o. If anything, boys should be more difficult to raise than girls because there are more societal vices (cultism, crime, hard drugs etc) that they can fall into compared to girls (prostitution). But no o, let's leave them alone to do whatever they like. 10 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Valevilla: And what's so special about the useless surname most of you guys have? You just open your mouth waaaaa. Like do you even have any achievement before claiming you want a male child? So,you mean after tarnishing the surnames already,the kids would be so interested in bearing the name? You need to think.. infact some male children change their father's name to something else..when the name is tarnished already.. So if you don't make use of your name well,your male children or whatsoever would never be proud to bear your surname and he would probably change it! Think! 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by adebenson155: 3:49pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Cee0nne: just to pass message you resorted to insulting your father, fore fathers and lineage. It shall never be well with you anu mpama.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by ProphetJeroboam: 3:50pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Call me misogynist or sexist,I don’t care. Female children are hard to raise. Everything about them Dey stress person. Most female children are stubborn and impressionable. Especially when puberty comes and one boy start whispering sweet lies to their ears, at this stage they will disrespect anybody and everybody. They buy the “love lie” so much that everyone else be damned. You’ll rarely see a young boy get a girl pregnant and damn his future on purpose but a girl will entertain the idea of deliberately getting pregnant because in her deluded mind it will bring her closer to her supposed soulmate of a boyfriend without considering her parents and loved ones who she is bringing shame and disgrace on. If I must give birth to girl, I’d prefer she becomes a lesbian unless God has other plans for me. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
adebenson155: Ehyaaa,and I'm not the reason behind your madness oh..you just resolved into displaying your madness on Nairaland again.. It shall never be well with you too in Jesus name! You will never make it in life and even if you've been making it little before,all you have will be destroyed by the warriors of heaven. Those two points I gave you em,later,you would start searching for me.. let's bet. What a pity |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by webizone(m): 3:56pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
dominique: The same world you are living in has evolved in understanding that all the vices you just mentioned has equal number of girls involved whether directly or indirectly. Sorry. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by MightySparrow: 3:56pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Bigredmachine:...daughters are like quivers |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Zane2point4(m): 4:00pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
BuyAndSellStuff:
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Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by promisedeco(m): 4:01pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Aforxzy:You are not completely right. Take for example, a young lad messed up, all the parents would say is "don't you know you're a man". Without actually giving him what he should do instead. But a female child would get seated by her mum to teach her what and what are required from her as a woman. |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
amadaovie: Abi ohh,I wonder.. |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Zane2point4(m): 4:04pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
feldido:You contradited yourself, *husband* is which gender? |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Abagworo(m): 4:05pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
The only reason is the family lineage because our society and most societies patrilineal. That is why in some Igbo communities a man who has only female children will need one to remain unmarried and raise his descendants at home. In some instances she coukd still marry if she gets a male replacement . 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by SweetDipBenny(m): 4:06pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Past, present and future all male |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Cee0nne:. OP asked a question as to why the male gender is held with high regards to the female. I made a suggestion so I don't get why you are quoting me. I never mentioned it anywhere that I prefer male yo female I just suggest why it was so cause gender discrimination is not much now compared to 1900. And talking about achievement I can speak well for that but what about you? You think prostitution Is an achievement? Just get a meaningful life instead. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by winner37(m): 4:10pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
My boss told me someday that he prayed to God he should have only female I asked him why do you pray so but he didn't have me an accurate answer. Me ,I need 2 male and 2 female no cheating .. |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by Debra911(f): 4:21pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
MYHUBBY:No. So I should now travel to lag cos of what |
Re: Why Is There An Obsession With Male Children? by McLizbae: 4:21pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Femi8586: Mumu, so if can get to choose, you will take all the alumajiri boys in the North than one Okojo Iweala. Siiiior! |
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