I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

Welcome to reality.

Hold your horses. Your reason for dumping her is cos she goes out with friends a lot or you suspect she’s actually going out with other men?

Congrats

I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

AfroKnight:
Hold your horses. You reason for dumping her is cos she goes out with friends a lot or you suspect she’s actually going out with other men?

like she's changed totally, bro late nights and all n this is something she doesn't do before. And many more the. Other day she was posting how she wants to take molly n all sorts c'mon man I know what I'm saying

NewSoul:
I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

I'm bigger than that n if any girl gets pregnant for me bro I'm ready to take it with both hands cos I can handle the bills

BigDan69:
Congrats

is it a bad thing to love someone? Like wtf

AfroKnight:
Hold your horses. You reason for dumping her is cos she goes out with friends a lot or you suspect she’s actually going out with other men?

I am not dumping her she's not garbage

NewSoul:
I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

Avoid the temptation to live a life that seeks to blindly copy that of another mortal. Be original.

A leopard cannot change its spots.

NewSoul:
I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

You ain't falseprophet1.
So pls stop taking another persons work
Is rude you know

You're in pains.

The Lord is your strength

Pweetiedude:
A leopard cannot change its spots.

word bro

citywal:
I am not dumping her she's not garbage

It’s like you still have a soft spot for her. Cos this game of semantics is needless.

DaddyRochie1642:
You're in pains.

The Lord is your strength

like dis is outrageous for crying out loud

AfroKnight:


It’s like you still have a soft spot for her. Cos this game of semantics is needless.

bro I like respect and I also give respect to be able to receive respect, we not dating don't make her trash man. No soft spot

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

getting your self a baby mama is the worst cos she might deprive you of the kid till certain year

Number1benue:



You ain't falseprophet1.
So pls stop taking another persons work
Is rude you know

I really wonder how some people here think. Tbh

citywal:
like she's changed totally, bro late nights and all n this is something she doesn't do before. And many more the. Other day she was posting how she wants to take molly n all sorts c'mon man I know what I'm saying

If she’s young then it is expected. Cos quite a number of young ladies want to explore the limits of their sanity.

You know what you want and she is not it. I applaud your gumption to dump her. Let her go and enjoy life as she sees fit. Young ladies seldom listen to good advice.

You have saved your future self from dying untimely.

He will be so happy with you rn

Lanretoye:
getting your self a baby mama is the worst cos she might deprive you of the kid till certain year

word bro... But there are girls here in lekki that get married on contract n after the kid they off n we have a court order 600k n we straight

citywal:
bro I like respect and I also give respect to be able to receive respect, we not dating don't make her trash man. No soft spot

Dump is not disrespectful. It’s just the colloquial term for the act of initiating a breakup.

And dump has varied meanings across disciplines.

AfroKnight:


Dump is not disrespectful. It’s just the colloquial term for the act of initiating a breakup.

And dump has varied meanings across disciplines.

ok man no hard feeling thanks for keeping it clear

AfroKnight:


If she’s young then it is expected. Cos quite a number of young ladies want to explore the limits of their sanity.

You know what you want and she is not it. I applaud your gumption to dump her. Let her go and enjoy life as she sees fit. Young ladies seldom listen to good advice.

yes she is young in her early 20s, but bro why are good guys meeting the worst girls that don't know we also bleed n cry n all why?

TarOrfeeek:
You have saved your future self from dying untimely.

He will be so happy with you rn

hmm it really hurt tbh, I'm no simp but I'm pained

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

here is my suggestion:
A) just do your best and dont give a damn whether people know you love them or not....you wanna die from stress related illnesses?!
B) never try to put yourself between a person and their friends. she knew them WAY BEFORE she met you.
C) dont ever try to tell an adult woman what she should do in her life. give her a innocent advice and basta... and if she doesnt want to listen to it, then shut it and let her be herself.
D) why worry and expect an adult woman to change her lifestyle, because of YOUR life fears?
E) a babymama will be just as much of a headache as this above woman, but now the focus will be on your child living with the above woman you fear so much.
Finally) rejoice, you've learned a valuable lesson today: you cant change people AND/OR force them to be how "you" want them to be.

congratulations

MrBrownJay1:


here is my suggestion:
A) just do your best and dont give a damn whether people know you love them or not....you wanna die from stress related illnesses?!
B) never try to put yourself between a person and their friends. she knew them WAY BEFORE she met you.
C) dont ever try to tell an adult woman what she should do in her life. give her a innocent advice and basta... and if she doesnt want to listen to it, then shut it and let her be herself.
D) why worry and expect an adult woman to change her lifestyle, because of YOUR life fears?
E) a babymama will be just as much of a headache as this above woman, but now the focus will be on your child living with the above woman you fear so much.
Finally) rejoice, you've learned a valuable lesson today: you cant change people AND/OR force them to be how "you" want them to be.

thanks so much

NewSoul:
I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

"I see", "These I have seen" has been trademarked by falseprophet lol �

It’s that woman that you love that’s always giving you problem, but the one you don’t give a damn about go Dey smooth, why? This life dey rigged