SonofGod231:
OP Please let's fix the "Headlines" and your English first. Before fixing the main problem here.Its really broken.
Referring to your own mum as mother-in-law.
Makes you sound like an elementary school child.its embarrassing

prealjewel1993:
Good evening everyone
Please is it advisable to stay in the same company with your mother and wife
Here is the situation
I have a house , three flat , my mother stays in one of the flat
Me, i will getting married soon , some of my friends said i should go rent an apartment that i should not stay in the same company with my mother and my wife
Please i need your advice

Rozcol:
Go and rent a place for you and your wife alone before you pave way for seeds of discord between them.I can never agree to live with a mother in-law no matter how good she is,never.

Rubbiish:

U want someone to leave his own house & become a tenant simply because he wants to get married? Can u afford one bag of cement?
Senseless thing!

Rozcol:
Men of immense wisdom understood my statement perfectly well,if your half-life induced brain fails then its no business of mine.Rubbish ow that's even your monika

Rubbiish:

Go build the foundation of a single room, then come back & quote me, only then u can sound sensible! U think building a house is buying makeup kits? That u want a landlord to become a tenant just because he wants to get married? Senseless thing!

Rozcol:
[s]You are a rubbish person as your Monika depicts so run along[/s]

ImaIma1:
Most people usually prefer to rent outside, especially those who want privacy and to be away from their mother's watchful eyes.

A family friend of mine left the building his mum built when he got married. He could easily have a flat to himself there. But he said he couldn't be with his mother all his life. Sometimes, it's not always about the wife.

Rubbiish:

This is different from op case
Op stated he is the owner of the house, it is very different from a house built by his mom or dad.

prealjewel1993:
Good evening everyone
Please is it advisable to stay in the same company with your mother and wife
Here is the situation
I have a house , three flat , my mother stays in one of the flat
Me, i will getting married soon , some of my friends said i should go rent an apartment that i should not stay in the same company with my mother and my wife
Please i need your advice

ImaIma1:


A man can make decisions as long as it is what he feels it's best for the family. Not every guy wants to be married and still be under the same roof with his parents. Abi you want him to tell his mum to leave?

He can rent out his place and decide to rent another place to stay.

frozen70:


If it's your house, you can stay there and rent a mini flat for your mother

If it's a family house, then prepare to get your own apartment

Only God knows why mother inlaws and daughter inlaws don't get along

Rubbiish:

@bold How do u mean only God knows? Something u & i know, u are saying only God knows? It is obviously because of selfishness!

Using u as an example, u are suggesting he rent a mini flat for his mum because that is the same thing u would have told your husband to do! Now if that woman was your mother would u have suggested same? My friend's wife mum has been living with them ever since they got married & everything has been peaceful, but I am very sure if reversed was the case, that marriage won't be the way it is now.

frozen70:


He brought his matter to the forum because he feels there may be issues if they all live together
So if it was an easy do, he wouldn't have brought it here
He still have the right to keep his mum

The final decision remains with him
All you are asked to do is to advise him and not to counter my suggestion

frozen70:


If it's your house, you can stay there and rent a mini flat for your mother

If it's a family house, then prepare to get your own apartment

Only God knows why mother inlaws and daughter inlaws don't get along

Rubbiish:

@ first bold Why would he tell his mum to leave??
Will someone die if his mother live with them?
Are u saying if his mum has no other place to stay & that was the only apartment available, are u saying the mother can't live with them?? The kind of hatred u ladies have for mother in law is something else!

@ second bold Only on the condition that house was built by his parents or siblings & not by him. If a man is moving out of the house he built himself not on the Condition of work due to location, just because he wants to get married, then definitely that marriage is cursed & such a woman advising her husband of such when that money could be channeled into other useful things can never improve the life of that man. The only reason a man should come up with such decision is if the house was built by his parents.

frozen70:


If it's your house, you can stay there and rent a mini flat for your mother

If it's a family house, then prepare to get your own apartment

Only God knows why mother inlaws and daughter inlaws don't get along

frozen70:


If it's your house, you can stay there and rent a mini flat for your mother

If it's a family house, then prepare to get your own apartment

Only God knows why mother inlaws and daughter inlaws don't get along

Fountainofyouth:



Everybody in the face of the earth don't get along with each other, that is the simple fact, siblings fight, friends fight, husband and wife fight, even parents have misunderstanding with their children, even if a person is said to be the best of behavior, there is no how there won't be conflict when staying together for long, daughter and mother in law conflict is no different, so they should stay away from each other to completely avoid misunderstanding cos it is bound to happen.

It is mischief makers that keep making it seem as if mother and daughter in law relationship is a big deal when they are not different from every other human being.

prealjewel1993:
Good evening everyone
Please is it advisable to stay in the same company with your mother and wife
Here is the situation
I have a house , three flat , my mother stays in one of the flat
Me, i will getting married soon , some of my friends said i should go rent an apartment that i should not stay in the same company with my mother and my wife
Please i need your advice