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Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by bukatyne(f): 12:03am On Aug 09, 2021 |
crackhaus: The bruises are mutually sustained It's different from trying to penetrate a dry woman without lubricants. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by bukatyne(f): 12:07am On Aug 09, 2021 |
NoToPile: The tragic thing is that she can sue him for child support once DNA test fingers him as the father. So a man has no right to impose a woman keeps his baby and must be a 'father' if he is raped. A woman has the right to keep/abort a pregnancy and insist for child support if she had the baby outside the man's will. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Klass99(f): 8:15am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by bukatyne(f): 9:15am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Klass99: Urinating on your spouse We are in the age of 'do whatever makes you happy' I have never been afraid to shake tables I state my opinions freely 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by NoToPile: 9:15am On Aug 09, 2021 |
bukatyne: @ bolded - definitely not in naija |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Nobody: 9:18am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Klass99:Bastard. Perhaps a woman who was raped and got wet on the process wasn't really raped. Why didn't she control her vagina to get wet? Some even squirt in the process.. That's not rape I guess? Fool |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Vision101(m): 9:38am On Aug 09, 2021 |
@Magnoliaa Oh. Wow. Okay, thanks for this explanation, but now I'm just left with more questions! You raised some angles I appreciate. So wait. What is rape according to the law? What's it legal definition? And why is it under criminal law? For a moment here I wished some of our ancestors' laws and customs still hold sway. Back in the days when Sango or Amadioha could strike you down: if you were caught stealing and seen by every eyes and even if you weren't seen, the gods are perfect judges of human intents and all. They don't seem so demonic in this light... @me Rape is when a person intentionally penetrates another's vagina, anus or mouth with a penis without the other person's consent. The key words are: intentionally, penetration, consent, vagina, anus, mouth and penis. If a victim is forcefully penetrated with an object other than penis, this is called assault by penetration. For example if you forcefully without consent use a intimacy gadget on another's vagina, anus or mouth, this is called assault by penetration. Someone pointed out that some analyst are beginning to look at male rape as forced to penetrate. This has not been generally accepted. Why is it a crime? Whatever you commit that brings injury to another or society is a crime. The punishment is imprisonment/and damages. Rape is one of them. In civil cases eg libel, trespass, defamation etc. the victim is awarded damages or compensation. Issue: can a legal husband rape his wife? |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by angelfallz(m): 9:52am On Aug 09, 2021 |
the bolded, it is very possible. For the penis to become erect blood flows to the penis through the expanded arteries in the penis. An erection is induced by stroking or gently pulling the penis, this causes the arteries in the penis to expand and allow for more blood to flow into the penis. A man that is in a coma, can have an induced erection. A man that is unconscious, can have an induced erection. A man that is drunk, can have an induced erection. A man that is asleep, can have an induced erection. Please men reading this, educate yourselves, and stop parroting nonsense that men can't be raped because he should not be able to have an erection if does not want to. Whether a man wants to have sex or not his penis can be induced into erection. Klass99: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by crackhaus: 10:02am On Aug 09, 2021 |
bukatyne:Which one be mutually sustained bruises na? See my point is, bruising is not a good enough criterion for determining if a woman was made to have sex without her consent. Bruising can occur with lovers, married couples, and even first time sexual encounters (consensual). – A woman who meets a man with a larger penis than she was accustomed to, can get bruised (lubrication or no lubrication). – A quickie between partners that didn't provide time for enough lubrication before forced insertion, can cause bruising. – A vagína that looses lubrication on its own because the partner stayed too long without cumming, can be bruised. You even mentioned emotional injury as another criterion for sexual abuse. How do you prove such in court? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by cooooooks(m): 11:35am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Wow. Hope you're consistent across genders with that view. bukatyne: |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by bukatyne(f): 11:39am On Aug 09, 2021 |
cooooooks: I am the queen of 'I don't believe in marital rape.' I opened a thread years back after research using the tenets of Christianity, Islam and Nigerian Civil law which was banned as several peeps tore their underwears and went bonkers on the thread. I should have the writeup somewhere if I check my files. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by bukatyne(f): 11:41am On Aug 09, 2021 |
NoToPile: I actually didn't have Nigeria in mind sha. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by bukatyne(f): 11:48am On Aug 09, 2021 |
crackhaus: In the cases above, both of them would work together to resolve the issue/ they have a mutual understanding. @Emotional injury: those were the examples of humiliating acts I stated; denial of sex, trading sex for favours, I will even add unwillingness of to satisfy your spouse. I was not discussing the context of proving in court (do couples go to court to seek re-dress for such things?); more like defining what is sexual abuse. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Klass99(f): 11:50am On Aug 09, 2021 |
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Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by cooooooks(m): 11:51am On Aug 09, 2021 |
Marital rape is not seen in the Bible, I know that very well. Cc I can't agree to that notion though bukatyne: |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by bukatyne(f): 11:56am On Aug 09, 2021 |
cooooooks: What don't you agree with? |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Klass99(f): 12:12pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
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Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by angelfallz(m): 12:14pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
No amount of discipline or lack of desire, can stop an erection that is induced through stroking and gentle pulling. If a man has underlying health issues which could be physical or psychological or a combination of both, then under such circumstances, yes, stroking or gently pulling the penis may not induce an erection. Klass99: |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Klass99(f): 1:02pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
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Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by angelfallz(m): 2:41pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
The bolded, The funny preacher must have been joking And no, its not a problem. In the scenario the preacher painted, the man is distracted by something that makes him focus his mind somewhere else(watching football or playing FIFA). Look men don't just see beautiful women and have erections. We need to start think sexual thoughts before an erection can happen. So if our minds are somewhere else nothing would happen. Also, men can deliberately try not to think about sexual thoughts to help prevent erection. Not an induced erection oh! The penis has a mind of its own yes, but men still have a measure of control over it. Majority of men have woke up in the middle of the night or in the morning with erection how did that happen? An induced erection would happen whether the man wants it to happen or not. An erection without inducement can happen but men have control over it. For example a man can be kissing a woman and the penis starts becoming erect, he can break off the kissing to help stop the penis from becoming fully erect. Klass99: |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by crackhaus: 3:40pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
bukatyne:Usually, yes... but the man remains at the mercy of the woman. She could just wake up the next morning and get angry at him for not giving her money for the hair she asked for, and then go on to claim she was raped the previous night. Afterall, she has bruises to prove it... |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by kaboninc(m): 5:58pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
crackhaus: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by cooooooks(m): 11:02pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Expresswriter: 8:42pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Divoc19: I cover myself with the blood of Jesus! I have since left my days of having multiple women at my beck and call. Now I avoid women when it comes to sex. I just need a woman with the fear of God. Once I sense she's a player, or a pretender I withdraw. I have lived that type of life before so I'm not ready for it anymore. I have given my life to Christ. And only women who are GENUINELY born again and who have other qualities I want in a woman qualify for me. Of course, I also have to pass her own tests too to qualify so it's not just about me. In all, I am not Perfect. I am human so I have my own imperfections but the Holly Spirit helps me daily. |
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