Sorry for asking this question

Can a Prostitute Become a good wife and Stay Faithful in a relationship?

Yeah, to the husband's neighbours

Prophet Hosea in the Bible married a prostitute. Make of that what you will.

depends on who is marrying her. Only an indecent man shd do that

A decent girl
Could become a prostitute to her neighbors, after marriage

One don dey worry you abi?

DanielAlhassan:
Sorry for asking this question

Can a Prostitute Become a good wife and Stay Faithful in a relationship?

Waste of thread https://www.nairaland.com/4088562/prostitute-good-house-wife#60975259

CheerfulGiver:
Prophet Hosea in the Bible married a prostitute. Make of that what you will.

Prostitutes of those days b like decent girls of these days....

depends... on whether or not she's willing to be a good wife..



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Op, u dey eye olosho, life go tire u.

DanielAlhassan:
Sorry for asking this question

Can a Prostitute Become a good wife and Stay Faithful in a relationship?

yes, most of them go into prostitution out of frustration

Depends on the individual personality traits

Never! The act alone already makes her bad and once a prostitute always a prostitute. That thing never leaves them.

Though if of her own accord she decided to change and live a decent life by some supernatural conviction, then it's possible she can be a good wife.

But

If it's because of relationship or marriage shes dropping that lifestyle, then it won't work because it will be based off the fact that she's seen another means of survival or poverty alleviation ( from the man) but and if her expectations are not met in the long run, she will go back to that life because that's the only way she knows to survive.

Prostutes are naturally non-resillient and impatient people. Reason they can not endure hardship or do a tasking job to keep body and soul. They prefer quick money and such habit hardly dies.

Just don't land yourself in a mess.

phemmyfour:
yes, most of them go into prostitution out of frustration

Is that enough to justify the act? Hm SMH.

Now, apart from those who were forced into prostitution unknowingly in foreign countries by bad guys, no body should use frustration as an excuse to go into prostitution.

Everyone including me has passed through one form of hardship at one time or the other but we didn't resort to prostitution.

Now I'm not talking about situations where a man wants to take advantage of you because of what you're passing through. I'm talking about you deliberately throwing caution into the wind and going full time with your two eyes open into prostitution as a means of lively hood. No now.. how about doing other menia jobs?

Ill tell y'all a little bit about my past.

I've had my fair share of frustration sometime after the global meltdown.
At some point, If I'm going on the road, I won't board a bus just to sight a vacancy anywhere and that was after expending the little money I had, going to the island to submit CVs and not getting any response.
In the process, I saw one at a total filling station with a couple other youths waiting for them to open. So, I joined the queue. This was in 2010.

From nowhere, a woman just came and called me. I followed her to her car and she said she likes me and there's a beauty outfit in ikoyi that needs a cash till manager and she thinks theyll like me too because they want beautiful ladies there. That was how I got a job in a BSS supply store better than the total filling station we were all queuing up for.
That was where I picked up the interest to go into formulation of skincare and commetic products; also did my makeup training.

Another worse scenario was when I earned 230 naira per day. Then I had men telling me, "Chi baby", just be mine and I'll give you heaven and Earth ( these were returnees from yankee) but I refused. I rather settled for that job just to eat. 230 everyday. And I kept praying. From there a friend connected me to one Judge. I would prepare breakfast for him any day he's going to court and he pays me 700. Later he increased it to 1k per day. His family are based abroad.
When the judge started pestering me to marry him, I left the job.
That's how low I've gone just to shun indecent lifesty. And I'm not ashamed to say this anywhere because it's serves as an encouragement to who ever is going through hard times now and is thinking of going the wrong way.
Life is full of ups and downs but God always makes a way.

So what hardship will now make a girl to go into prostitution instead of looking for something decent to do pending when a bigger one comes?

We need to encourage the ones coming after us to be resilient in order to keep a clean record.

Holding steadfast even at the point of breakdown!
God bless you!
I wish a billion number of girls out there could see this right now.
Nothing is to be blamed for, We're accountable for our doing.

CharisEleos:


Is that enough to justify the act? Hm SMH.

Now, apart from those who were forced into prostitution unknowingly in foreign countries by bad guys, no body should use frustration as an excuse to go into prostitution.

Everyone including me has passed through one form of hardship at one time or the other but we didn't resort to prostitution.

Now I'm not talking about situations where a man wants to take advantage of you because of what you're passing through. I'm talking about you deliberately throwing caution into the wind and going full time with your two eyes open into prostitution as a means of lively hood. No now.. how about doing other menia jobs?

Ill tell y'all a little bit about my past.

I've hady fair share of frustration sometime after the global meltdown.
At some point, If I'm going on the road, I won't board a bus just to sight a vacancy and that was after expending the little money I had going to the island to submit CVs and not getting any response.
In the process, I saw one at a total filling station with a couple other youths waiting for them to open. So, I joined the queue. This was in 2010.

From nowhere, a woman just came and called me. I followed her to her car and she said she likes me and there's a beauty outfit in ikoyi that needs a cash till manager and she thinks theyll like me too because they want beautiful ladies there. That was how I got a job in a BSS supply store better than the total filling station we were all queuing up for.
That was where I picked up the interest to go into formulation of skincare and commetic products; also did my makeup training.

Another worse scenario was when I earned 230 naira per day. I had men telling me, "Chi baby", just be mine and I'll give you heaven and Earth ( these were returnees from yankee) but I refused. I rather settle for that job just to eat. 230 everyday. And I kept praying. From there a friend connected me to one Judge. I would prepare breakfast for him any day he's going to court and he pays me 700. Later he increased it to 1k per day. His family are based abroad.
When the judge started pestering me to marry him, I left the job.
That's how low I've gone just to shun indecent lifesty. And I'm not ashamed to say this anywhere because it's serves as an encouragement to who ever is going through hard times now and is thinking of going the wrong way.
Life is full of ups and downs but God always makes a way.

So what hardship will now make a girl to go into prostitution instead of looking for something decent to do pending when a bigger one comes?

We need to encourage the ones coming after us to be resilient to be able to keep a clean record.

Anybody can be anything!

Can a leopard change it's spot

If you don stay for the same house with ashawo before,you go understand say ashawo na one kind of work wey get special package from one particular demon

Op,lai lai..... ashawo go always be an ashawo.. Unless you wanna put it in back of your mind that las las,you go dey render community service to your neighbors through your wife

Automatically,you don become good neighbor

Kingcalls:


Prostitutes of those days b like decent girls of these days....

Shiiii... Dats cold

CharisEleos:


Is that enough to justify the act? Hm SMH.

Now, apart from those who were forced into prostitution unknowingly in foreign countries by bad guys, no body should use frustration as an excuse to go into prostitution.

Everyone including me has passed through one form of hardship at one time or the other but we didn't resort to prostitution.

Now I'm not talking about situations where a man wants to take advantage of you because of what you're passing through. I'm talking about you deliberately throwing caution into the wind and going full time with your two eyes open into prostitution as a means of lively hood. No now.. how about doing other menia jobs?

Ill tell y'all a little bit about my past.

I've hady fair share of frustration sometime after the global meltdown.
At some point, If I'm going on the road, I won't board a bus just to sight a vacancy and that was after expending the little money I had going to the island to submit CVs and not getting any response.
In the process, I saw one at a total filling station with a couple other youths waiting for them to open. So, I joined the queue. This was in 2010.

From nowhere, a woman just came and called me. I followed her to her car and she said she likes me and there's a beauty outfit in ikoyi that needs a cash till manager and she thinks theyll like me too because they want beautiful ladies there. That was how I got a job in a BSS supply store better than the total filling station we were all queuing up for.
That was where I picked up the interest to go into formulation of skincare and commetic products; also did my makeup training.

Another worse scenario was when I earned 230 naira per day. I had men telling me, "Chi baby", just be mine and I'll give you heaven and Earth ( these were returnees from yankee) but I refused. I rather settle for that job just to eat. 230 everyday. And I kept praying. From there a friend connected me to one Judge. I would prepare breakfast for him any day he's going to court and he pays me 700. Later he increased it to 1k per day. His family are based abroad.
When the judge started pestering me to marry him, I left the job.
That's how low I've gone just to shun indecent lifesty. And I'm not ashamed to say this anywhere because it's serves as an encouragement to who ever is going through hard times now and is thinking of going the wrong way.
Life is full of ups and downs but God always makes a way.

So what hardship will now make a girl to go into prostitution instead of looking for something decent to do pending when a bigger one comes?

We need to encourage the ones coming after us to be resilient to be able to keep a clean record.

bla bla bla....Pray that your conviction is not put to test. It is easier to condemn from afar

Lemme wait for the elders

phemmyfour:
bla bla bla....Pray that your conviction is not put to test. It is easier to condemn from afar

Call it anything you want. Mind you, I didn't put this out here for shallow minds like you but to counter the rubbish you're trying to encourage (by justifying prostitution) and for the feeble minds who will come across this post. Neither am I condeming anyone.


Encourage them to be strong. Don't encourage nonsense.

My conviction will never be tried beyond what it has seen in Jesus name.

Good day!

CharisEleos:


Call it anything you want. Mind you, I didn't put this out here for shallow minds like you but to counter the rubbish you're trying to encourage (by justifying prostitution) and for the feeble minds who will come across this post. Neither am I condeming anyone.


Encourage them to be strong. Don't encourage nonsense.

[s]My conviction will never be tried beyond what it has seen in Jesus name[/s].

Good day!

Ignorance at its peak....I can see that you are more righteous than those being tried to that extent

Churchill01:
Holding steadfast even at the point of breakdown!
God bless you!
I wish a billion number of girls out there could see this right now.
Nothing is to be blamed for, We're accountable for our doing.

Amen. God bless you too.

I pray they see it. Seriously that path is not the way to go. It's even better to seek help and anyone God lays it in his or her heart will render it pending when your breakthrough comes.

Ok, if you even look at the life of this prostitutes, what do they achieve with the money? All I see is just makeup, hair and false lashes. Nothing tangible.
So, whats the point if it can't get you a luxury lifestyle. Thats what most of them including the guy misquoting me down there don't reason.

It is well.

If you are a Christian and you believe that repentance make all things new again.

Then a prostitute can change her ways and become the ideal African wife.

Op are you a man of little faith?

They can be a good wife to a tolerant pastor. However most wives in present day Nigeria are retired oloshos that is why Nigeria was once listed among the top 10 most adulterous nations in the world

It is what it is