TWLifestyle:
thos has to be one of the dumbest comments I have ever read ! So if a woman is raped she should console herself with not being a potential prostitute or whatever else ur trying to convey with this foolish comment .

CharisEleos:


Is that enough to justify the act? Hm SMH.

Now, apart from those who were forced into prostitution unknowingly in foreign countries by bad guys, no body should use frustration as an excuse to go into prostitution.

Everyone including me has passed through one form of hardship at one time or the other but we didn't resort to prostitution.

Now I'm not talking about situations where a man wants to take advantage of you because of what you're passing through. I'm talking about you deliberately throwing caution into the wind and going full time with your two eyes open into prostitution as a means of lively hood. No now.. how about doing other menia jobs?

Ill tell y'all a little bit about my past.

I've had my fair share of frustration sometime after the global meltdown.
At some point, If I'm going on the road, I won't board a bus just to sight a vacancy anywhere and that was after expending the little money I had, going to the island to submit CVs and not getting any response.
In the process, I saw one at a total filling station with a couple other youths waiting for them to open. So, I joined the queue. This was in 2010.

From nowhere, a woman just came and called me. I followed her to her car and she said she likes me and there's a beauty outfit in ikoyi that needs a cash till manager and she thinks theyll like me too because they want beautiful ladies there. That was how I got a job in a BSS supply store better than the total filling station we were all queuing up for.
That was where I picked up the interest to go into formulation of skincare and commetic products; also did my makeup training.

Another worse scenario was when I earned 230 naira per day. Then I had men telling me, "Chi baby", just be mine and I'll give you heaven and Earth ( these were returnees from yankee) but I refused. I rather settled for that job just to eat. 230 everyday. And I kept praying. From there a friend connected me to one Judge. I would prepare breakfast for him any day he's going to court and he pays me 700. Later he increased it to 1k per day. His family are based abroad.
When the judge started pestering me to marry him, I left the job.
That's how low I've gone just to shun indecent lifesty. And I'm not ashamed to say this anywhere because it's serves as an encouragement to who ever is going through hard times now and is thinking of going the wrong way.
Life is full of ups and downs but God always makes a way.

So what hardship will now make a girl to go into prostitution instead of looking for something decent to do pending when a bigger one comes?

We need to encourage the ones coming after us to be resilient to be able to keep a clean record.

silvoclaira:
"when a good girl is gone bad, she's gone forever"

CharisEleos:
Never! The act alone already makes her bad and once a prostitute always a prostitute. That thing never leaves them.

Though if of her own accord she decided to change and live a decent life by some supernatural conviction, then it's possible she can be a good wife.

But

If it's because of relationship or marriage shes dropping that lifestyle, then it won't work because it will be based off the fact that she's seen another means of survival or poverty alleviation ( from the man) but and if her expectations are not met in the long run, she will go back to that life because that's the only way she knows to survive.

Prostutes are naturally non-resillient and impatient people. Reason they can not endure hardship or do a tasking job to keep body and soul. They prefer quick money and such habit hardly dies.

Just don't land yourself in a mess.

Kingcalls:


Prostitutes of those days b like decent girls of these days....

CharisEleos:
Never! The act alone already makes her bad and once a prostitute always a prostitute. That thing never leaves them.

Though if of her own accord she decided to change and live a decent life by some supernatural conviction, then it's possible she can be a good wife.

But

If it's because of relationship or marriage shes dropping that lifestyle, then it won't work because it will be based off the fact that she's seen another means of survival or poverty alleviation ( from the man) but and if her expectations are not met in the long run, she will go back to that life because that's the only way she knows to survive.

Prostutes are naturally non-resillient and impatient people. Reason they can not endure hardship or do a tasking job to keep body and soul. They prefer quick money and such habit hardly dies.

Just don't land yourself in a mess.

DanielAlhassan:
Sorry for asking this question

Can a Prostitute Become a good wife and Stay Faithful in a relationship?

Trogge:
...., Because mr A can run doesn't mean Mr B can? What if the woman didn't call you. ? You are lucky you still have money to board a bus.

ImaIma1:


Does that mean that after she gets married and she faces frustration at any point, she can go back to it?

CharisEleos:


You still don't get it. God proved himself as Ive been praying alongside with a sincere heart seeking a legit hustle.

It is in your quest for a decent hustle God will locate you.
That's a testimony anyone including those girls can have.

Don't they also have bus fare they use to get to their hustling joint?

Spare me that. Abeg.

neyoohhh:


You've kept this thread sane. Crazy you have to be the one correcting grown men.

Are you really female? If so a lil hope restored.

Respect.

CharisEleos:
Never! The act alone already makes her bad and once a prostitute always a prostitute. That thing never leaves them.

Though if of her own accord she decided to change and live a decent life by some supernatural conviction, then it's possible she can be a good wife.

But

If it's because of relationship or marriage shes dropping that lifestyle, then it won't work because it will be based off the fact that she's seen another means of survival or poverty alleviation ( from the man) but and if her expectations are not met in the long run, she will go back to that life because that's the only way she knows to survive.

Prostutes are naturally non-resillient and impatient people. Reason they can not endure hardship or do a tasking job to keep body and soul. They prefer quick money and such habit hardly dies.

Just don't land yourself in a mess.

WUdec:


No offence but any woman that gets paid before or after sex is a prostitute.

And so is any lady that negotiates a fee before she can arrive at your place to deliver sexual services.

The difference between a prostitute and Nigerian lady these days is that one charges in the open and the other charges in secret.

Either way, they both get paid.

97% of Nigerian women have engaged in 'money for sex' or 'money after sex' services

So who are they to judge a lady who chose to retire? For a lot of them still have not retired in their married homes.

And don't take this as a direct diss for I ain't dissing you. This is what's happening in Nigeria today.

Nigerian men have joined the trend by becoming gigolos and sugarboys. Many women have married such, especially in Abuja and Lagos where men no longer look for the qualities of a lady but the physical and financial benefits....before they can get married to one.

NoFucksToGive:


You don talk am finish. Once for the street, always for the street.

Dating a whòre is bad enough cause everyone else is datin her too with you talkless of marrying one. Only a damaged man, a man with severe low self esteem will marry a whõre.

She doesn't belong to you nigga, she belongs to all of us

naheem8307:



Well writting... God bless you abundantly..

Ishilove:

Undiluted wisdom

FryMosquito:
This is a good one full of advice and lessons.. Keep it up and God will continue to guide you.

Xsolutions:
What a great testimony!
God bless you

Akabuking:
I love you. God has alot in store for you.

But on a serious note, why would you

CheerfulGiver:
Prophet Hosea in the Bible married a prostitute. Make of that what you will.

DanielAlhassan:
Sorry for asking this question

Can a Prostitute Become a good wife and Stay Faithful in a relationship?

DanielAlhassan:
Sorry for asking this question

Can a Prostitute Become a good wife and Stay Faithful in a relationship?

Kingcalls:


Prostitutes of those days b like decent girls of these days....